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 Author Thread: Dad or Jail?
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Dad or Jail?
Posted: 11/20/2009 1:09:02 PM
Go to the link and read the comments on the bottom by the child's aunt. According to her, the statements by the boys mother caused the judge to believe that the child was 'out of control'. A few nights in 'juvie' to 'scare a kid straight' is common practice when dealing with an unruly teenager.

"Because mom did not take responsibility, the judge could only go on what mom was saying - which was basically "I can't control him, he doesn't listen to me." From that, the judge concluded the child needed to be "scared straight." All because mom wouldn't take responsibility for not fostering the relationship and encouraging visitation. Had she taken responsibility and said the truth, SHE would have been the one with contempt charges against her. Instead, her own words told the judge he needed to be in the youth home because she couldn't make him listen. She laid all the blame on the child." - The child's aunt

A very interesting situation, but without access to the testimony (which we aren't going to get), I can't see how we can blame the judge for making what is apparently a very routine decision.
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 347 (view)
 
Are vegans and PETA more moral and ethical than society?
Posted: 11/15/2009 4:40:29 PM

Unless you’re a Hindu, Buddhist, or Jain, most of us accept that plants do not experience “pain.” I'm not sure where you got some of the comments you attributed to me either, because I never made any statements about "plant chemical signals that indicate damage are 'different'."


I'm sorry if that's how my statements came across. I was not intending to imply that YOU made any statements which you have not already made. I was presenting it as one explanation that I have seen used before, and questioning its validity. Although, considering that you feel that it is ok to eat / kill plants......I don't see how you can disagree with the idea that the responses to damage by plants are 'different' than the responses by animals.

Why do most of us accept that plants do not feel pain? Why do we call the chemical/electrochemical responses by animals 'pain' (many of which, are not very similar to our own response), but not apply the same label to the chemical responses by plants?


Furthermore, they are also very clearly conscious, by any definition

There are many definitions of consciousness, many of which are not applicable to numerous animals. There are some who believe (not that I am one of them) that only primates can be considered truly conscious because other animals do not have a sense of self.


For a vegetarian the question doesn’t apply. There is a greater moral imperative for a meat-eater to avoid eating a primate than a lobster.

I thought there wasn't a scale? Why would there necessarily be a greater moral imperative for a meat-eater to avoid one animal over another? If you "don't distinguish between the consciousness or 'virtue'", on what grounds do you rank a primate differently than a lobster?


Mimicry, folding leaves, mechanical resistance, emitting various alkaloids or steroids and other such plant mechanisms all occur without the presence of consciousness or the presence of a cortex/central nervous system.


So, you are saying that attempting to not be eaten or damaged is one criteria, but only in conjunction with the possesion of a cortex / central nervous system? If methods of deterence by animals without a cortex / central nervous system are indications that they can feel pain, why are methods of deterence in plants not indicative of the same?


If you feel it is morally wrong to inflict pain, however caused, then the answer is clear. If you have no such qualms, then you can feel free to eat practically anything. You might even feel free to DO anything also, if you don’t have an internal compass that suggests that inflicting pain is perhaps something you ought not to do.


Does this only apply to inflicting pain purposefully? Knowingly? Recklessly? Negligently? Is the 'immorality' additive? Is it by number of organisms that are affected? Does the pain of some organisms have more value than that of other organisms?

If inflicting pain is something that we simply 'should not do', how much effort are we required to put forth to guarantee that we are not causing pain unintentionally? If unintentional pain is ok, why?


What gives you the right to inflict pain

Is it a right? Does it need to be?


If anything, the converse should be true – how do you personally justify eating anything?

My survival, and often just my comfort, is more important to me than the lives of the organisms that I damage or destroy. Do you (or anyone) justify your killing differently?


And these would be……….? Blue-green algae? comatose animals? Road kill?

For arguments sake, Sponges. (Or consult the thousands of definitions that include varying portions of the animal kingdom)
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 343 (view)
 
Are vegans and PETA more moral and ethical than society?
Posted: 11/14/2009 12:26:34 PM

We share about 50-70% the same DNA with pumpkins and cabbages so obviously I'm not basing my statement purely on a percentage basis.


So it's a combination of factors, one of which is DNA similarity.....but it's not that important?


Clearly, any vegetarian or vegan would argue that it's appropriate to eat pumpkins and cabbages, rather than sea urchins, if presented with that choice, even though we bear less in common with sea urchins genetically. Along a similar vein, pumpkins and cabbages don't possess central nervous systems, and therefore don't experience pain. [/qu0te]

The same could be said about many members of the animal kingdom, but whether they experience 'pain' is debatable. What makes these animals 'better' than plants?



There is no "line" drawn anywhere.


If there is no line, how can those who eat tunicates be considered more moral than those who eat lobster? Or those who plants than those who eat animals? Based on your prior comments, I'm going to assume that you actually mean that there is no line OTHER than the one dividing animals from plants. But why put the line there? Are plants better than the animals that have a similar level of consciousness? What level, type, or speed of response to outside stimuli (what level of consciousness) is required for something to be protected from being eaten?



On a moral level, those of us confined to or choosing to eat a diet of tunicate might be more moral than those eating lobsters, even though I'm not sure who would eat tunicates anyway. Those who eat lobster might have a moral advantage over those who eat primates. But since the only people eating primates are usually indigenous people capturing them as bushmeat, how practical is your question really?


Our lineage has more recently diverged from tunicates than it has from lobsters, why are lobsters 'better'? I'm trying to understand the criteria that you (or anyone) use to rank organisms. Maybe because lobsters can walk?

What gives me the drive to survive also drives animals as well, so we are also united in that conscious will to avoid becoming dinner for something else.


You stated that it is less moral to eat a primate than it is a lobster. If we are united by our conscious will to avoid being eaten, on what basis do you determine that one variety or level of consciousness is better than another?
And what of animals that are not conscious? I don't know what your standard of consciousness is, but if you assume that all plants lack this trait.....then certainly you can agree that there are members of the animal kingdom that are comparable to plants in their ability to respond to outside stimuli or any other proposed definition. And if so, then your dividing line of 'Animals: No / Plants: Yes' is too simplistic. So....what are your REAL criteria?

If there is going to be some type of division of what is moral to eat and what is not, I would expect a less generalized justification than arbitrary (and often incorrect) 'similarity'.

If we are drawing the line at consciousness, why? If we are drawing the line at ability to feel pain, why? Both of these criteria are not quite as black and white as it appears that many people believe.
Pain is a signal from our body to another part of our body, to alert it of damage or potential damage (please let me know if you dispute this definition). By this definition, plants also feel pain. "But wait" you say "plant chemical signals that indicate damage are 'different'. We can't call that pain as well." Why? Is it because they are slower? Use different chemicals? Respond to the signal in different ways? All the same could be said about animals as well. All animals 'pain' responses are not exactly the same as ours, and many animals that people would consider 'conscious' have responses that are not much different (in terms of speed or functionality) to that of many plants.

Also, while not 'conscious' by the classical definition, plants have an innate interest in survival. Many take steps, both active and passive, to avoid being predated or to stop predation once started. Does the fact that animals use different methods to avoid predation automatically make their interest in survival superior to that of plants? In other words, does a rabbit's ability to run from a fox make it superior to the plant that secrets poison to stop from being eaten by the rabbit? If so, why not say that certain animals are superior to other animals? Some animals use methods to avoid predation that are more similar to our own, are they better than the ones that don't? If we can't determine that some animals are superior to other animals, why can we determine that all animals are superior to all plants?

I guess that I just fail to see how moral divisions, other than 'human vs non-human', are justified.
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 341 (view)
 
Are vegans and PETA more moral and ethical than society?
Posted: 11/14/2009 9:22:35 AM
Cheshire post #337:

or consume animals that bear a genetic similarity to myself


Where and how do you draw the line that dictates what organisms (or even just animals) are similar 'enough'? If someone draws their personal line at 99.9% similarity, does that make them less moral than someone who draws the line at 50%? 85% vs 50%?

Is it less moral to eat a tunicate than it is to eat a lobster?

Maybe it isn't a clear cut 'line'. Is it based on a points system? Is the lower you go on the % similarity equal to how moral your consumption habits are?

Then the most important follow up question to any of the above.......Why?
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Could the Large Hadron Collider be held back by its own future?
Posted: 11/6/2009 12:31:39 PM
It will make a good movie though.
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
How much weight should polls be given?
Posted: 11/6/2009 12:28:47 PM
^ A book that you may find interesting is 'Outliers' by Malcolm Gladwell. It gives a number of other examples (and some explanation as to why) that are similar to your japanese gardener story.
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 287 (view)
 
for the gun control people
Posted: 10/31/2009 12:49:31 PM
^^ Did you notice how I listed 'RUN' as the first option in my ways of avoiding being wounded/killed when confronted by someone with a knife, bat, or other non-gun weapon? Unless the person had a weapon that could hit me at distance, my first response would be to get away from the person so that they could not reach me with it. This could not be done if the assailant has a gun. Thanks for assuming that I am overly brave/stupid, but disarming would be my last choice, regardless of the type of weapon.

As for the knife-fighting exercise, they showed you how difficult it is to avoid injury so that you would NOT get into a knife fight in the first place. Even if you 'win', then you are still almost certainly going to be seriously injured. I am well aware of this, and have no intention of attempting to disarm someone with a knife. However, assuming that I was aware that someone with a knife was intending me harm, then running may be effective. If they had a gun, running would not.

Let's say that you absolutely had no choice but to disarm the assailant. Which would you rather they have: A gun that they can shoot you with before you can even get to them and that will most likely cause serious or incapacitating bodily harm the very first use? Or a knife or a bat that they must get within a few feet to use AND causes less damage?


If someone has a gun pointed at you, the object isn't trying to draw and shoot them before they can shoot you. The best thing to do is to try and disarm them. It can be done, but it takes training


My example of the 'showdown' was also mainly in contradiction to the assertion that guns are justified because those without physical prowess can use them to protect themselves. While this is true, it works both ways. Someone who would be physically incapable of defending themselves against a stronger/faster aggressor COULD use a gun to defend themselves, but they COULD also use that same gun to victimize a stronger/faster person.

In addition, I was pointing out that having a gun would not aide you should you find yourself already faced with a drawn gun. I do not, and did not, believe that you should 'shoot them before they shoot you'. I was, in fact, ridiculing that mentality by pointing out that life is not a movie. If the assailant is dumb enough to stand next to you, and you are trained to disarm them.....then having a gun yourself would have no effect on your chances of success. If the assailant is not standing within arms reach, then you really don't have much of a chance. If you know of some secret way to disarm a gun-wielding attacker from distance (that is not from a movie), feel free to share.
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 284 (view)
 
for the gun control people
Posted: 10/31/2009 8:51:51 AM
I don't really have a strong opposition or support for gun ownership. However, the whole "Guns don't kill people" mantra is nonsense. Yes, someone intent on killing another can probably find another way. However, guns allow an EASIER way to kill others. Relatively passive means (such as poisoning etc) aside, this ease means that instead of having to be physically capable of killing someone with a bludgeoning / piercing / cutting instrument, you can just stand back and pull a trigger. With a gun, you don't have to be strong enough or fast enough to physically damage the other person, which makes ANYONE capable of killing another.

If a 5 foot tall, 110 pound person is intent on doing me harm, I would MUCH rather they have a bat, or a knife, or basically any type of weapon that is not a gun. Without a gun, I may have a decent chance at either out running or disarming the assailant. With a gun, I would just be dead. Even with an evenly matched opponent, my odds of survival would be much greater if they do not have a gun.

And for those of you who think that owning or carrying a gun yourself will help......I'm sorry to break it to you, but you are not Wyatt Earp, this is not the wild west, and you are not going to outdraw someone who has a gun pointed at you.
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Students Rights.... advice or opinions needed
Posted: 10/24/2009 10:14:47 AM
/agree with both post 2 and 3

Well, you have already spoken with the administration about the perceived injustice. Assuming that the story, as you have conveyed it, is true, then it would probably be a good idea to continue to make your case to the administration. However, keep in mind that your son did fail to meet the requirements of the class on more than one occasion (be realistic in your approach, and acknowledge where he has not met the standard). In a large school district, such as your sons, I would assume that even gym classes have implemented some quantifiable standard of what constitutes passing (running so many laps in 15 minutes, participating in all the activities, graded paper tests on rules of certain sports etc.). If you can show that he has proficiency in the standardized areas, it could go a long way to showing that his teacher is being overly subjective in his grading.

If the teacher has made comments that show personal bias based on your sons looks, then finding other students in the class that can serve as witnesses might help your case. As an aside, it might be a good time to have a conversation with your son about the way that much of society treats people with tattoos/facial piercings/other modifications that are not 'normal'. The lesson that he can learn from this situation, is one that he should expect to be repeated many times in his future.......Often he will be unaware that it has happened, or have no recourse even when he is.

PS: ^ I don't mean that he shouldn't follow his dream to get tons of tattoos or become a tattoo artist. He should just be aware of some of the probable consequences for such decisions.
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
one month to live
Posted: 10/24/2009 9:38:20 AM
I would try to set the world record for weight gained in one month. MmmmmmcDonald's breakfast sandwiches ftw.
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 166 (view)
 
New Swine Flu vaccine is dangerous business
Posted: 10/17/2009 12:31:06 PM

That's when they inject intravenously hydrogen peroxide into the blood and it cleanses it. Please reply if you know if this works.


It works about as well as Dihydrogen Monoxide.
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 190 (view)
 
Kirk Cameron compares Charles Darwin to Hitler!
Posted: 10/16/2009 12:42:52 PM
Scorpionmover

We can list lots of people who made just as large significant contributions to science as Darwin's, and many who made an even greater impact. Yet, these people hardly get a mention, and yet Darwin's name, and his discoveries, are mentioned and praised millions of times every day. One only has to look at these forums to see just how highly Darwin's theory is considered. If anything, I'm seriously understating the level of devotion and admiration of Darwin's theories.


That others have not received as much recognition as Darwin, does not mean that Darwin is being deified. You presented us with a definition of deification, and you have yet to show that Darwin has met even YOUR standard. Also, whether he deserves the level of praise that he receives is not conclusive. He, and many others, may receive praise that they do not deserve, but that does not mean that they are all being deified.

Again, I must repeat the request of others......WHO is deifying Darwin? Any specific individuals here on the forums even?


So yes, I would agree that most people who believe in a religion don't really have committed worship. As a result, they would agree with you that Darwin and evolution are not deified, because they don't know what it is.


Apparently my point missed you. I was saying that because you live or have daily interaction with a society that is characterized by it's relative lack of committed worship, that you may have a skewed (in the opposite direction of those you described in your post about the influence of secular society) sense of what deification actually is. You are attempting to fit the definition of deification or 'treating like a god', with the way that numerous people today actually treat god. Which is not the same as what the word is meant to imply. The word deification is intended to describe something that is ACTUALLY 'treated like a god'. Not the god of the the "Yeah sure....I guess I believe in god" person, but the god of the people who actually believe in and worship god.

The once a year churchgoers (And don't give me some BS about how you don't have to go to church, this is just an example of a type of person who doesn't actually treat god like a god. And you know who I'm talking about.) do not deify their god. Their level of 'worship' is most similar to the level of 'worship' (your word) that I have ever seen even the most 'devout' give to Darwin.

That we can point out the way that god is treated by some individuals and accurately say 'This person treats god, the way that this other person treats Darwin', is not proof that Darwin is being deified. Out of context, we could compare the two individuals and their relative treatments of god and Darwin. This would lead us to conclude that Darwin is 'treated like a god'. However, the word deification implies a certain level of respect, worship, and awe that is simply not present in either individual. Therefore, while on the surface the use of the word deification may appear to be appropriate, the context of it's meaning proves otherwise.

I do not know of anyone that truly 'worships' Darwin. I understand that you believe that you do, but apparently......

You're stating this as a fact. But so far, I really have no proof, other than your personal assertion, that you are right, and anyone who disagrees with you is wrong, and that's not really that reliable, is it?


Hmmm, that would apply to a lot of what you write........Why did you feel the need to point this out about my post, while at the same time making similar assertions yourself?
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 187 (view)
 
Kirk Cameron compares Charles Darwin to Hitler!
Posted: 10/16/2009 9:16:20 AM
Scorpionmover

Deification is an expression, which means to make something into a god, or so important in your life, that it is as important to you, as G-d is to religious people.



I can understand how one might get a bit confused with this idea of deification, though. From a secular viewpoint, there is no mention of G-d, and no concept of anything that might have some connection with religion. As we live in a secular society, it's not something mentioned anymore, not for decades. So very few people even imagine the concept, in any real way, other than if someone tells them that someone believes in a god, which is theism, not deification. Deification is when you treat something or someone as if it was a god, or ascribed to have god-like attributes, even without ever saying you consider the person or thing as a god. It requires great effort to imagine a concept that you've been taught to ignore for decades of your life. However, once you make the effort, you can see that the word could apply to many avenues of life.


If deification happens in the case of Darwin, it does so very rarely. I believe that it is YOU who are lacking perspective in this case. You are identifying deification, where none is present. You are greatly overstating the general level of devotion, admiration, or worship of Darwin.

Since we are doing a little armchair psychology.......I can understand how one might get a bit confused with this idea of deification. In today's society, the majority of those who believe in god, don't truly deify their god. Their belief is often denoted by lip service, and not true worship. Meaning, they don't treat their god like a god.

I agree that it may be accurate to compare the level of 'worship' displayed by many of today's theists with many of the people who 'worship' (your words) Darwin. However, this is not because Darwin had been deified, but because god has been devalued. While Darwin may be 'treated like a god', it is only because god is generally treated so poorly. However, you cannot honestly compare those with even the highest level of respect for Darwin with those who hold even a moderate level of respect for god, and say that they are 'deifying' in both cases.

I, and others, have not been taught to ignore the concept of deification. It is YOU who have been taught to expand the meaning of the word to cover areas that it was never intended to.
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
The Angel of Death...
Posted: 10/3/2009 6:34:14 PM
It certainly looks odd, but I have seen better 'dives' in the barclay's premier league.

But seriously......he didn't die.....so it would actually be the 'Angel of really disturbing looking seizures'.
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 145 (view)
 
New Swine Flu vaccine is dangerous business
Posted: 10/3/2009 12:23:02 PM
^ Posterchild against the shot? If the flu shot had caused his flu, then the symptoms would not have taken 17 days to show up.......

Incubation times are 1-3 days and symptoms persist for 2-4.........not 17.
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 23 (view)
 
Overdraft fees
Posted: 9/27/2009 6:27:52 AM

So you are basically saying that you are randomly going around and using your debit card without knowing how much is in your account?


No, I am not 'basically saying' anything of the sort. In addition, this discussion is not about me, and what 'I' personally do is irrelevant.

You said that there was no difference, so I explained one difference.


Well, then more people should shop around and find the institute that fits their options.


I already said that many banks and bank options are NOT AVAILABLE to certain people, and usually these certain people are the poor. The reasons that people cannot shop around are many, but here are a few:
1) Location. From personal experience, I had to find a new bank when I went away for college because the one that I had used since I was 5 did not have a branch within 40 miles. This is, again, especially true of the poor because they are less mobile (cost of driving and/or lacking personal transportation altogether).
2) Institutional restrictions. Many banks require that you have a certain amount of money in your account, thereby making these types of accounts unavailable to those that are living paycheck to paycheck. Also, many credit unions (although most are becoming more 'open') have restrictions on who can become a member based on employment or other affiliation.
3) Lack of education. Not just in terms of finance, but simply in terms of being able to read or understand the contract.

If we, as a people, have decided that using electronic payment methods is beneficial to our economic system (which we have), and we have many policies to encourage this practice (which we do), and we want the poor to take part in this system (which we do).....then we need to attempt to lessen the effect of these types of barriers. Also, of course it is their responsibility to keep track of what is in their account (I have only stated this three times now), but along with being poor often comes being uneducated. That we have started to include personal finance classes in our public education system is a start, but we need to make reasonable accommodation for those who have not had access to them.

PS: I guess we can debate the economic advantages of using electronic payment methods, or of helping the poor spend their money on food/shelter/other necessities, instead of fees..........but those topics should probably have their own thread.
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Overdraft fees
Posted: 9/26/2009 11:22:35 AM
There is at least one major difference between debit cards and checks. Debit cards deduct the amount immediately, checks do not post until AT LEAST the next day and often more than one day later. This means that with debit cards, you have no opportunity to recognize that you made a mistake. With a check, should you find that you do not have enough money in your account, you can go to your bank and deposit money to cover the amount of the check BEFORE you are charged a fee. With debit cards, the usurious fee is applied automatically. (whether people deliberately write bad checks is not the issue)

Also, there is something to be said for competition. Banks do offer different services. However, many banks are not available to those with low-income, and therefore the availability of services is often limited. To mandate that all banks at least allow the option to turn off overdrafts (not the fees, but the actual ability to overdraft your account), is not an unreasonable request in my opinion. Until 10 years ago, the transaction was simply denied.......now many banks don't even offer the that as a choice.

PS: LOL at the 'Troll post - pity'........I have never had an overdraft, so how can I be looking for pity .
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Overdraft fees
Posted: 9/26/2009 8:56:44 AM
In the wake of the credit card reform that was passed over the summer, there is a considerable push to also reform debit cards. This would primarily come in the form of banning overdraft fees. What I'm wondering is.......will there be any real opposition? If so, what can be argued in favor of overdraft fees?

For the record, I almost fully support banning overdraft fees. The one exception would be if banks want to offer the service of a 'voluntary' overdraft. Where, instead of just being denied the transaction (as it was until 10 years ago when overdraft fees were implemented), you are notified that you have insufficient funds and then given a choice of whether to complete the transaction and accept the associated fees. In essence, you would have the choice to borrow money from your bank for a fee, instead of being lent the money automatically (which is what an overdraft truly is) and being charged the fee with or without your knowledge. This would allow for 'emergency' use of a limited amount of additional funds, which the bank could choose to deny in the future anyway (for any customer that they don't feel should have access to small loans on demand).

Additionally, I'd like to preempt any 'personal responsibility' rants by saying that: YES, people should keep track of the amount of money in their account, and be aware of all scheduled deductions. However, today's overdraft fees are usurious ($40 for a $1 overdraft). They almost exclusively affect those that can least afford them (the poor). Directly deposited payments from employers etc. can be 'late', through no fault of the receiver. I see no compelling reason to charge overdraft fees without notification and subsequent authorization by the customer (aside from bilking them).

So, is there any justification for keeping the current system?
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 26 (view)
 
The reason that partisanship sucks.
Posted: 9/25/2009 12:58:06 PM
^ Case in point.
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Opponent of Gov't. Health Care Receives It Himself
Posted: 9/25/2009 10:00:27 AM
If you have a problem with the way that their benefits are set up, then try to find a way to change them (For the record: I am in favor of this). Their benefits ARE absurd, but they are still entitled to them at the moment. I feel that their benefits should be changed, but I am not going to fault them for taking advantage of the benefits while they have them.

What makes congress so special is that the people electing them aren't holding them accountable when they decide to give themselves absurd compensation. Whether that compensation be monetary, health care, air travel, free cars, free room / board, free free free.....
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Opponent of Gov't. Health Care Receives It Himself
Posted: 9/25/2009 8:36:06 AM
I agree with Lint Spotter. There is no difference other than the scale or quality of the insurance. Having health insurance or other benefits is just a part of the payment that they receive for the job that they do. When looking at how much many of our officials are 'paid', most people only look at the dollar amount. If you add in total value of other forms of compensation (such as health care plans that cost 100k a year), most are actually making at least twice the amount of their listed salary.
If you have a problem with the health care that they receive, then you are (or should be) actually taking issue with the total compensation for their job. Unfortunately, congress sets the salary and benefits package for itself and many other federal employees, and they have incentive to make their total compensation less transparent (by making much of their 'payment' non-monetary).

There is nothing hypocritical about being against government run healthcare for all, while at the same time receiving health care as part of the benefits of your employment. Reports such as these are just an attempt to shame rich people for being rich or to enlist the poor into class warfare (an approach that has worked in the past).
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 37 (view)
 
New Swine Flu vaccine is dangerous business
Posted: 9/24/2009 5:34:50 PM

You also have hydrochloric acid


Well aware. However, it is sequestered. Squalene is found in the blood stream, skin cells, liver, etc etc etc..... Every tissue that injected squalene would come in contact with.

The anti-body prevalence is concerning, but I guess we will find out whether squalene actually causes GWS soon enough. Millions will voluntarily inject themselves with the H1n1 vaccine containing 'high' amounts of squalene, and within a year we will have our results. If you don't want to be one of the guinea pigs, don't. I'm just saying that it's inaccurate to say that there is a confirmed causal link between squalene and GWS (obviously I don't completely agree with R. F. Garry's conclusion).
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
A math question: Is there any way to increase your odds when buying lottery tickets?
Posted: 9/24/2009 1:05:44 PM

Not in a statistically significant way (probability wise) that would negate the risk of "diminished returns".

What do you mean by this? I've only taken one stats class, and can't claim to remember all of it......
 settleforthis
Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
A math question: Is there any way to increase your odds when buying lottery tickets?
Posted: 9/24/2009 12:20:59 PM
Buying more tickets would increase your odds......that's about it.
 settleforthis
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Msg: 18 (view)
 
Best tv shows always cancelled
Posted: 9/24/2009 11:31:00 AM
As for good sci-fi.......Firefly. Best one-season show ever imo.
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Msg: 34 (view)
 
New Swine Flu vaccine is dangerous business
Posted: 9/24/2009 11:06:18 AM

The vaccine contains squalene, which was determined to be the cause of the 'gulf war syndrome' as it is a neurotoxin


This was already covered in the 'other' thread about swine flu vaccine. Squalene is not a neurotoxin (you are probably getting your conspiracy theories mixed up, as OTHER additives have been claimed to be neurotoxins). There have been no studies that confirm squalene causes any disease. Squalene is naturally produced by your own body, and is not sequestered in any specific area (although it is more highly concentrated in some tissues).

Let me repeat. You have squalene......in your body.....right now.

There is no difference between the squalene in the vaccine and the squalene that is produced naturally inside your own body. It is of course possible that adding significant amounts of squalene to your system could cause some type of problem, just as adding unnatural amounts of anything to your body can cause probablems. I say that its 'possible', because the anthrax vaccines that you are talking about only contained squalene in trace amounts, and would not constitute a test of adding a significant amount. The amount in the anthrax doses, was no more 'additional' squalene than would enter your bloodstream through a small cut that allowed some of your own skin secretions to leak into your bloodstream.
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Msg: 296 (view)
 
Debunking creationist myths
Posted: 9/23/2009 6:27:27 PM

mutations are rare, all seem to be bad


This mis-understanding is not unusual or unexpected. It is true that it is currently believed that MOST mutations are harmful (actually, most are neutral, but the general population isn't going to even recognize them as being 'mutations'). There are, however, many mutations that are beneficial.

The idea that all mutations are bad, is conditioned. News reports and other distributors of health information focus almost exclusively about the harmful ones. Unless you are involved, educated, or interested in the field of genetics, your only exposure to the subject of 'mutations' is almost always going to consist of 'things that you heard' from either a doctor or on the news (usually statements by a doctor or health organization). Both doctors and news programs have a compelling interest to inform the public about the 'bad' mutations, and very little incentive to inform the public about 'good' mutations (even less if the mutation is extremely rare or has marginal effect).

For news programs, it's because most people aren't going to care if 5% of the population is found to have a mutated gene that causes them to be immune from some life-threatening disease. The life threatening disease is 'news'. That an extremely small portion of the population is immune, is not. So, naturally, 99/100 news reports on the subject of mutation, or even just 'something you heard' are going to involve the negative aspects, and potential causes (presumably so that you can avoid them).

If you are still wondering why you haven't heard of beneficial mutations before, it's because stories of "Mutation causes minute improvement in the vision of 1% of the population" are about as interesting to the public as "Local boy teaches dog to 'sit'". In addition, there is so much variation (mutations), most of which have negligible effects, that they just aren't worth talking about unless there is a compelling health concern.

As for doctors and other health care professionals, they have both limited time and limited exposure to you as a patient. In the scarce time that they spend informing you about your health.....what do you think they are going to tell you about? Exactly. They are going to tell you only about things that you are most at risk for.
Assuming that a health care provider or doctor had your demographic information, they are going to spend time telling you about your risk for high blood pressure and heart disease. They aren't going to 'waste' time explaining that because of your background and genetic heritage, you have a lowered risk of diabetes.

EDIT: I almost forgot the largest distributor of health information, pharmaceutical companies. Same as above, they spend all their time on the negative aspects. They bombard us with ads and NONE of them are about 'You could possibly not need our drug because you have a natural immunity to ____ disease'.
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Msg: 292 (view)
 
Debunking creationist myths
Posted: 9/23/2009 5:15:42 PM
RE msg 302:
Assuming that there is a causative link between CCR5 delta 32 and primary sclerosing cholangitis (I don't know why you think that there is).........the parallel that you are drawing is in reverse. Primary sclerosing cholangitis mostly occurs between age 30-60. That would be AFTER the sufferers reached, and have often passed completely through, their reproductive years. Such a mutation would, in the presence of black plague, give the carriers a selective advantage as it would not negatively effect them until late in life, and would help them survive through the years that count (in an evolutionary sense).

Your second line should read "People who have an increased risk of Alzeimers in old age are lucky because the "beneficial" mutation that gave them Alzeimers, saved them from cancer when they were younger."
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Msg: 9 (view)
 
Health and the profit motive
Posted: 9/22/2009 4:43:31 PM
For-profit companies aren't the only option. There are numerous non-profit organizations that could also pick this up. If it doesn't have enough profit potential, there is nothing stopping a non-profit from giving it a go.
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Msg: 15 (view)
 
Religious discrimination
Posted: 9/22/2009 12:26:31 PM
There are multiple issues. The two main ones being whether the management has the 'right' to refuse service, and whether that discrimination (if it's lawful) is justified.
Businesses have the right to refuse service (at least in the U.S.) for many reasons, and don't have the right to refuse service for very few reasons. If a business thinks that there are liability issues with customers not wearing shoes, then they have every right to discriminate against potential customers that are not wearing them. The owners have the right (and valid justification) to discriminate if they feel that what someone is doing is unsafe towards themselves or others.
There is also a safety / security issue, for other customers and employees, with wearing a facial covering. A hood that covers the majority of the face would make it harder to identify someone who has shoplifted or committed robbery. I would feel unsafe if I was an employee, and someone(s) walked into my work while intentionally concealing their identity, regardless of the reason. The face is the most readily available and, for the most part, unique feature that someone can use to identify another person. Concealing hair is one thing (baseball cap, Yarmulke, turban, sombrero, hood), but concealing the face is another.

If the store is banning hoods for reasons other than a valid concern for safety (such as it covering the persons face), then they may not be justified in their discrimination. The management still has the right (if not the justification) to refuse service based on many criteria, including clothing , but the Jedi have the right to boycott or encourage others not to shop there. I have a feeling that few (if any) people will support the Jedi's by not shopping there, but stranger things have happened.
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Msg: 39 (view)
 
Am I over reacting
Posted: 9/21/2009 3:56:02 PM
I would never even think to walk someone to their car at a mall......ever. Well, maybe if they were physically incapable of walking on their own.
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Msg: 223 (view)
 
Debunking creationist myths
Posted: 9/19/2009 11:11:23 AM

IT HAS PLAYED NO SIGNIFICANT PART IN THE EVOLUTION OF THE ANIMAL KINGDOM.

"Science VS Evolution" was written in 1991......when uncategorized organisms were still just assumed to be diploid. However, after we actually started testing organisms on a larger scale, it was found that polyploidy is vastly more widespread than was previously thought.

"Not only is there good reason, then, to suppose hybridization is widespread among plants, but there is also strong evidence the typical vertebrate is derived anciently and/or recently from hybridization. This conclusion seems inevitable given facts already mentioned: (1) polyploidy is usually triggered by hybridization; (2) vertebrates in general are now thought to be ancient polyploids; (3) many extant vertebrate taxa are known to have had their origins recently as polyploids (produced by hybridization); and (4) even many non-polyploid vertebrates treated as species are known to have had a hybrid origin. This conclusion is in direct opposition to the traditional view that the great majority of vertebrates are diploid and rarely of hybrid origin."
http://www.macroevolution.net/prevalence-of-polyploidy.html

There are literally thousands of more recent publications that dispute the conclusion that polyploidy has not played a significant part in the evolution of the animal kingdom.

Also, Frogo has already explained that duplication does not necessarily create 'new' information (well, by your definition of 'new'). However, it does increase the total amount of DNA on which other types of mutation can act. While not creating 'new' information, possessing multiple copies of a gene can* aid in the creation of 'new' information by allowing greater room for error when other mutations are introduced. Such as, if the haploid cells from a particular organism possess duplicate copies of a particular gene, there is always the chance that one of the copies will have a mutation. As long as the gene possessing the mutation is not harmful enough to prevent the organism's potential offspring from reproducing (or possibly even beneficial), then it has the potential to have the 'new' information passed along to the next generation while it's unmutated 'twin' gene is still able to fulfill the function required of it.

*This is not to say that it always does, but only that we have evidence that it has on occasion. Obviously some duplications are detrimental in and of themselves.
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Msg: 94 (view)
 
Do Animals Have Rights?
Posted: 9/19/2009 8:59:15 AM

People don't think in words either; it would be much too inefficient and our thoughts would be too ambiguous if we did.


Interestingly enough.....many experts believe that we do sometimes think in words. One example of this, with real world consequences, is that of math (the example that I'm about to give is from a book that I read, whose name escapes me). There actually is some truth to the stereotype that 'Asians are good at math'. One reason, is that the words for numbers in many Asian languages are shorter than those in western languages. The consequences of this difference are that 1) it takes less time for them to think the numbers, and 2) humans are only able to recall a series of numbers that can be thought/said in about 7 seconds (this is from memory so I may be off on the number of seconds), and because our numbers take longer to think......westerners are not able to recall as many numbers from a series.

PS: This obviously doesn't apply to english-speaking asians, only to the culture / language aspect.....not anything having to do with genetics.
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Msg: 35 (view)
 
So Jehovah's Witnesses showed up at my door...
Posted: 9/19/2009 8:28:45 AM
As little as I care for the visits to my house by the young men in cheap suits, I have had some good conversations with JW's that were not trying to convert me (at least not overtly). The ones that I knew in college didn't seem to feel compelled to relentlessly seek out converts. Aside from not voting/taking part in self-governance, not celebrating birthdays (etc.) , and that the girls weren't instantly wow'd by my advances .....they were fairly 'normal'.

Even the ones that show up at my house have not been pushy. My experience with them appears to be similar to that of enigmaparadox. Usually I just tell them 'no thank you', and they move along to the next house. On the few occasions that I have actually thought to question them, they usually just look sort of confused and.....move along to the next house. Meh, maybe I'm just getting the 'second string' doorknockers?
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Msg: 20 (view)
 
Evolution and the butterfly.
Posted: 9/19/2009 7:55:29 AM

If this polploidy were natural and just a fluke that we humans exploited, it would have to be a pretty "easy" thing to happen. How easy is polyploidy, really?


The more this area is researched, the more evidence we find of polyploidy. For decades, the assumption, for any organism of unknown status, was that it was diploid. However, based on the research of the past 15-20 years, the estimates of polyploidy prevalence in cultivated plants have increased from 30% to around 75%. Making it more the rule than the exception.
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Msg: 81 (view)
 
Kanye West; He's a Jackass
Posted: 9/18/2009 11:15:05 AM
I forgot to add that I can appreciate that people expect our President to display a high standard of conduct. I agree, and I don't think 'other presidents have done worse' is a valid excuse for truly unacceptable behavior ('truly' being the key word in that sentence). My comments in that regard were meant to give some perspective on the conduct of past presidents so that we don't attempt to hold Obama to a fallaciously high standard. We cannot reasonably compare Obama (or any other president) to an idealized and totally untrue view of past presidents. Many of our founding fathers have attained demigod-like status, and we must try to remember that even they were 'real' people with real emotions, thoughts, actions, and even frailties.
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Msg: 77 (view)
 
Kanye West; He's a Jackass
Posted: 9/18/2009 10:37:29 AM
I understand why people are getting upset about off the record comments from Obama......because they are lacking a historical perspective. EVERY president talks in a 'loose' manner when not in the public eye. The only difference now, is that what can be captured by the public eye is growing to an extent nearing omniscience. 20 years ago, this type of thing would never have even been heard about by the public. The extent and content of which Nixon spoke (he was quite prolific, and his language was much more colorful) off the record was not revealed to the public until long after the actual event. Whereas as one 'slip' by Obama is broadcast in mere moments. With the prevalence of electronic devices today, I am shocked not by the 'slip', but that there haven't been hundreds more.
As for the actual content: Obama is a human being. In an informal setting, he was giving his actual opinion. One that is shared by probably 99.9% of the population. He was not using abusive or offensive language (if you think that the word JA is offensive, then your rear needs a stickectomy). He was not talking about illegal or immoral dealings, or bad mouthing his political opponents. He was calling a spade a spade......get over it.

EDIT: I used Nixon as an example because of how well known his 'off the record' comments are. Obviously not all presidents were so cavalier in their language or subject matter as Nixon, but if you are going to get upset with Obama over one comment that is at most 'mildly' offensive......then you should probably start hating every president that we have ever had, since they ALL made similar (if not worse) comments in their day.
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Msg: 4 (view)
 
Question For a Chemist(or anyone who knows about Acetone)
Posted: 9/16/2009 6:22:25 AM
I can't remember the name of it, but there is a book produced to explain the dangers of any chemical used in the workplace. Your employer is required by law to give you access to it when you are hired, and to inform you of any hazardous chemicals that you may encounter during your duties. So, I would ask your boss where it is.

I'm not an expert in hazardous chemicals and have no direct experience with the long term effects of acetone exposure, but considering that nail polish remover is basically all acetone (and many women are exposed to that through their lungs and skin on a regular basis)......it's probably not all that dangerous in small doses. How often does this happen? If they give you protective equipment, I agree with Lint that you should check to see that it is working correctly.
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Msg: 253 (view)
 
Are vegans and PETA more moral and ethical than society?
Posted: 9/12/2009 8:12:20 AM
Post 249 by Cheshire

Not absurd at all. Clearly there is a difference between the inanimate objects you've mentioned here and animals which have central nervous systems, feel pain and fear, and suffer confinement in many cases.


I was not comparing inanimate objects to animals. I was disputing the assumption that artificial or unnatural equals bad, and that things that exists for convenience are somehow less legitimate than those that exist for 'necessity'. Factory farms were being condemned because they were unnatural and because they exist for convenience. While there are many valid criticisms of factory farms, these two particular criticisms are absurd when viewed in terms of how our species functions, or in relation to other systems or inventions that can also be similarly categorized as being unnatural or only exist for convenience.

If you want to discuss how factory farms treat animals, whether factory farmed animals are more or less healthy to consume, or whether factory farms are damaging the environment.....feel free. However, dismissing them as amoral or bad because they are 'unnatural' or 'only exist for convenience' is hypocritical. I don't think that Wayward actually believes that unnatural = necessarily bad, but oftentimes people (including myself) make statements that have certain implications that we don't fully intend. I simply don't feel that it is helpful to bring up the 'naturalness' of how we produce our food, since it doesn't seem to matter anywhere else.

RE: Post 247 by Wayward Willow

Sorry Susan, but humans are far more adapted to a vegetarian diet.

I wholeheartedly agree. However the information that you posted is far too simplistic and doesn't recognize that there is a spectrum of eating behaviors. Not only that, but even in terms of the 'big three' categories of carnivore, herbivore, and omnivore....it completely ignored the third.
Also, not only is there a range of eating behaviors, but there are also ranges for many of the comparisons that you listed. There are also MANY exceptions to your rules in not only omnivores, but for animals that are 'herbivores' or 'carnivores'. None of your points are as cut and dry as they are presented to be. Herbivorous birds have talons (claws). NO birds have sweat glands, and herbivorous ones 'perspire' through their air sacs just like their carnivorous cousins.
Then there is the nonsense about saliva. Of course we are going to have well developed salivary glands and ptylin AND anything else that would be required or helpful in digesting grains. Carnivores don't eat grains, we eat grains. That we have apparatus or adaptations for eating grains, nuts, fruits, etc has no bearing on whether we eat meat as well.
And of course, everyone's favorite....dentition. The 'rules' of herbivores have grinding teeth and carnivores have piercing or cutting teeth are meant as a general guide. The words that everyone always seems to ignore when talking about herbivore vs carnivore, are 'usually' and 'mostly'. 'Usually' carnivores have 'mostly' piercing and cutting teeth. 'Usually' herbivores have 'mostly' grinding teeth. If we are basing our categorization on simplistic examples of dentition: Most herbivores have hypsodont teeth. Humans don't have hypsidont teeth. Carnivores don't have hypsodont teeth. We must be carnivores.

So, you may be asking why I said that I agree. I agree because we are, in fact, 'more' adapted to a vegetarian diet. However, we are still somewhat suited to eating meat. Which, as already pointed out by Frogo (among many others), makes us and organisms similar to us 'omnivores'.
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Msg: 244 (view)
 
Are vegans and PETA more moral and ethical than society?
Posted: 9/11/2009 7:40:06 AM
I guess that would depend on your definition of 'natural'. I would put eating meat in the 'natural' category because we were doing it long before we used technological advances, that were unavailable to other species, to procure the meat. That we NOW use unnatural methods of collection or production, does not make the act of humans eating meat 'unnatural'.

IMO, whether something is 'moral' is independent of whether it is 'natural'. If that was your point, then I agree. Although by your conclusion that vegans are more ethical.....I didn't feel that was all your implying by your comments about factory farms.

I would also argue that the distinction between unnatural and natural is arbitrary at best, but that's a discussion for another thread.
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Msg: 242 (view)
 
Are vegans and PETA more moral and ethical than society?
Posted: 9/11/2009 7:12:22 AM

And certainly factory farms are not within the natural order of things. They are an aberration and exist merely for convenience, and lifestyle choice of the people that support them.


These arguments are absurd. EVERYTHING that we do and every process or invention that we have created is 'not within the natural order of things'. Assembly lines, washing machines, atm's, the wheel, and even cultivating plants are all unnatural and 'exist merely for convenience'. I can't help but notice that these two particular arguments don't seem to dissuade you from using your computer or the internet.....
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Msg: 57 (view)
 
Why do women ask if they have to pay for the date?
Posted: 9/11/2009 5:52:18 AM
If my date offers, I always respond with something along the lines of 'You can get it next time'. This approach also gives some indication as to whether they are genuinely interested in you, since going out with you again would probably mean having to pay for the outing. I don't actually usually care if she ends up paying the next time, but it places the ball in their court and gives me information on how they approach dating. If they actually remember next time, or better yet, ask me out and do the 'I asked, I'll pay'......I am much more likely to continue dating them because it's indicative of the type of woman that I'm attracted to.
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Msg: 7 (view)
 
How can you tell if your best friend is interested in you, and not just sex?
Posted: 9/10/2009 12:55:23 PM
I'll tell you what you shouldn't do.......Listen to the first two responders ^

I'm not against stopping having sex with him, but doing so because you think it will reveal his true feelings is manipulative AND ineffective. The only thing it will prove is that he should move on because you are not mature enough to have an adult relationship (namely unable to communicate with your potential partner). I would suggest that you actually discuss your feelings with him, and then determine a course of action......NOT put him on some sort of trial period after it's already 'too late'.

PS: Dating or sleeping with your ex's best friend is 'frowned' upon where I live. And Landra's advice is valuable whether it is your best friend or not.
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Msg: 129 (view)
 
Swine flu the biggest threat EVER
Posted: 9/6/2009 8:05:06 AM

Squalene was in the anthrax vaccinations


True, although I said that it wasn't the adjunct, not that it wasn't present in trace amounts.
"We don't know whether those lots were administered to the troops," Bacon continued, "but the important thing is that it was not added. If it's in there, it's in there as a naturally occurring substance ... but it's not something that's been added to the vaccine that we give our troops." (from your link)

The amount of squalene discovered, was about the amount that would enter your blood stream if you got a small cut and a little of your own skin oil leaked into your body. While i'm not disputing that there is a small possibility that squalene could be the culprit, were that the case, this particular auto-immune disease would be much more common in the general population. Basically, if something in the vaccines is causing the disease......it's probably not the squalene.

If you feel that you shouldn't take the vaccine, i'm not trying to convince you that you should. I'm just trying to help you, and others, demonstrate the same skepticism of 'Pamela' ,and other hucksters of alternative medicine, that you are showing towards the vaccine.
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Msg: 123 (view)
 
Swine flu the biggest threat EVER
Posted: 9/5/2009 8:54:07 AM

Squalene is a naturally occurring oil, found in the human brain, joints, and other places, but is never found in the blood stream.


Squalene is produced in the liver and is distributed through the bloodstream, and is used by our bodies in the creation of cholesterol, steroids, and vitamin D. That the author of this letter is unaware of this basic fact (I learned this in my first physiology course), sort of sheds doubt on the credibility of their medical advice.

Also, the adjunct in the Anthrax vaccine was aluminum hydroxide.....not squalene.
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Msg: 117 (view)
 
Swine flu the biggest threat EVER
Posted: 9/4/2009 11:22:35 AM
^ Washing your hands regularly and covering YOUR face would probably be a better idea. Go pick up some masks if you are that worried.
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Msg: 175 (view)
 
Pseudoscience - knowledge which masquerades as science
Posted: 8/28/2009 1:14:20 PM
Is the DNA different? Yes, although the same can be said of individuals within the same species. Is it more complex? That depends on the specific instance AND your opinion of what constitutes complexity, but the short answer would be 'not necessarily'.

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/12776578datingPostpage46.aspx

Frogo just made a post in that thread #1133, that might be helpful in understanding what a 'species' actually is.
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Msg: 27 (view)
 
The next science/technology revolution?
Posted: 8/28/2009 9:04:43 AM
I'm going with the energy sector. Improved green/renewable energy, immense increases in energy efficiency, and possibly new forms of energy creation. Regardless of whether climate change is caused by man's production of CO2, we are still running short on energy with no foreseeable decrease in energy consumption. If necessity is truly the mother of invention, she's well into her third trimester.
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Msg: 226 (view)
 
taking God out of School/Government..good/bad?
Posted: 8/27/2009 8:56:56 AM
^^ Wmboy, I'm going to have to give you an 8. You completely left out any reference to Hitler.
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Msg: 19 (view)
 
The Mars Hoax
Posted: 8/27/2009 8:51:05 AM
^ Just to spite you, I'm going to send my moon-sized mars replica into the night sky! It's getting a little weathered now, so unfortunately the red paint has mostly worn off.
 
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