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Joined: 12/8/2007

Msg: 39 (view)

What are some good dating sites? Posted: 6/6/2009 8:34:04 AM
yeah it worked really well.... you have a profile on here looking for women! this is what gives ALL dating sites a bad name! What are some good dating sites? replying to the dude who said this: Posted: 6/3/2009 227 PM I would agree with what others said about Match. When I was there I could align at least 3 dates a week. Now that sounds good for a guy not a woman, but I know of at least three couples who met in match. And me and my gf met there. She did the free one month thing, talked to a total of three men, went out with one (me), and been together for 2 years. So it worked for both of us.

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What are some good dating sites? Posted: 6/6/2009 8:32:08 AM
yeah it worked really well.... you have a profile on here looking for women! this is what gives ALL dating sites a bad name!

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Hotness does not overcome dull, boring or shallowness Posted: 5/25/2009 8:09:54 AM
I would think men would love it! I am not sure why anyone would talk about cognitive psychiatry unless you are in therapy as it is simply a method of dealing with present issues as opposed to traditional psycho analysis based on the theory that all issues that affect us now originate during our childhood. Most of the men who email me claim they have a lot in common with me and all they are interested in is football and TV. Try finding someone who has read Nietzsche, is interested in evolutionary psychology, Rumi's poetry or Von Tiers' films, Yoga,and understands women can be independent, affluent and don't need a man to pay for dinner.

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Should either gender be emotionally unavailable would you.... Posted: 10/27/2008 7:46:43 PM
Maybe a thesaurus would help... Don't launch personal attacks on people, it is rude You don't know me, so do not judge If I were mean I could say a lot of things about you, but since it is inaccurate and unfair to determine the content of the character of a human being by looking at a two dimensional image, I refrain from it. Get over it and learn a lesson. I based my comments on experiences, self and from women I know, if fact I did research for an article about internet dating. If you are trying to establish that you are different, since I don't know I would have no idea but I would not without any proof debate the fact or count you in as one of the emotionally damaged. The only thing I can say with all certainty is that your comments were a personal attack and mine were general observations by no means targeted at you since I don't know you from Adam.

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How long did it take for you to meet a person from POF? Posted: 10/26/2008 8:38:16 PM
I have never met anyone from this site and gave up match.com a long time ago. Men don't read my profile, they only look at the pictures. I get dumb emails from men who have absolutely nothing in common with me. It's a good thing that it is free and the forums are entertaining, other than that... It serves no other purpose I am sorry to say

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Should either gender be emotionally unavailable would you.... Posted: 10/25/2008 6:43:03 PM
Any guy with any self respect would be making a mistake by wanting to deal with a women like you. And twisted little minds. That must be another condescending remark to equalize men who have some sense of respect with someone such as yourself. I think you should get a life. Your not even that cute to top it off. In the words on existential philosopher Sartre "words are inert.. the are dead, it is not until read of spoken that they resonate and make an emotional connection" let's say you read the word "love" this resonates through your memory and your brain's limbic system, it will connect it with your own memories or love or lack of love.... thus when you read my post your reaction was one of defensiveness, you were driven to launch a personal attack. If you want to bring this to the superficial level of aesthetics... well we are from different worlds and in mine as far as I am concerned you would be transparent. I would have absolutely no interest in you on a physical or intellectual level. I am a successful confident woman, self sufficient and smarter than most, which is threatening to lot of men . True I have not been called cute perhaps since the age of 4??? but many more appropriate adjectives are used to describe me, the fact that you don't think I am cute, is so insignificant and transparent to me, that it actually brings me joy! One less person I will have to DELETE if you ever contact me. Validation sought by emotionally damaged individuals with low self esteem, this medium provides a band-aid approach to those , it is unfortunate that you count yourself among them, what else would justify your defensiveness??

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Should either gender be emotionally unavailable would you.... Posted: 10/25/2008 2:44:32 PM
Well most don't have any self respect and I would have zero interest in you as well so we are even. talk about cute??? I don't find you attractive either. But like 90 people have NOT added you to their favorites, right? so maybe YOU are NOT that cute and that is the proof. I have a life that is why I don't bother with the people online but I enjoy following their little games. I think my remarks hit too close to home, if you are an exception do not take offense.

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More or less intelligent? Posted: 10/25/2008 11:59:52 AM
I have yet to find any sign of intelligent life on this or any online site... I will make a big announcement when I do!

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Is it just me, or are testimonials a turn off ? Posted: 10/25/2008 11:56:33 AM
I stay away from those, if the person is so great... like stay with the person who wrote the testimonial and don't bother me. I also despise pictures with other women... immediate DELETE

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Should either gender be emotionally unavailable would you.... Posted: 10/25/2008 11:43:42 AM
The reason men are "players" disappear and such is because they are emotionally and or have no $ this medium allows them the illusion of having a LIFE by pretending to date many, the truth is they have issues which keep them from having healthy relationships. Sure they can afford to dupe maybe 5 women a week by buying a cup of coffee at starbucks and feeding you BS. But they have nothing else to offer, the objective is validation, if they can get a woman into bed... maybe they are not such failures or so their twisted little minds would have them believe.

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It's been one week of seeying each other and now the first sleepover.... Posted: 10/19/2008 6:28:06 AM
The "sleep over" no sex is also on the "player's book of tricks" they know they did their work by "wooing" the girl and the physical attraction will lead to sex, if it doesn't quickly. They also move on. Like I said I hope this guy is different and it is true love and the sleep over is all innocent.

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It's been one week of seeying each other and now the first sleepover.... Posted: 10/18/2008 9:23:12 PM
I wish you all the luck in the world, unfortunately that is how the games plays out: The fall madly in love with you quickly; rush to get you into bed... then well since you really don't know much about each other and that is the GOAL of the game..... they pull the disappearing act. I really hope it is different for you, make sure to let us know. no offense but this trick is in the "player's book. Just be careful.

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Y dont guy's post there pic in profile?? Posted: 8/6/2008 5:46:20 PM
what I find absurd is no picture and an email saying... call me here is my number... yeah right

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Long hair on older women Posted: 5/9/2008 1:17:08 PM
It depends, I chopped all my long hair and became a blond everyone think I look much better. If you have a cool hair cut short hair can be chic

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New Years Eve date from hell! Posted: 1/4/2008 7:51:23 PM
Never meet someone new on a holiday or make big plans, just do coffee on a regular Tuesday and spend important holidays or Saturday nights with people you know. Just advice to avoid horror stories.

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Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters! Posted: 1/4/2008 7:43:55 PM
Men play games online all the time, I do understand she saying she was "tricked" into having sex because they may make you believe they are serious about a relationship, in my experience these are men who don't have their act together either financially or emotionally and all they can do is try to score and then vanish, in truth you are better off, they really have nothing else to offer and are only looking for validation. As far as a law... just don't trust anyone who professes their undying love in a couple of dates. Try reading the horror stories on Ivillage.com about online dating... it's all a game that is why I don't take anything seriously that goes on here.. and I apologize to those who are sincere, it is not my intention to offend anyone, I just haven't met anyone like that online. Real life is different very different.

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How do you know when a POF member posts a fake pic? Posted: 1/2/2008 4:19:20 PM
If they only have one picture I am always suspicious

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Are women marketable after age 30? Posted: 12/28/2007 6:57:16 PM
I am 43 what do you think?

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