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Joined: 12/10/2007

Msg: 81 (view)

How do YOU stop loving someone Posted: 11/24/2009 8:30:07 AM
OP, I agree with you that the love for the person does not have to go away. It's not archaic or old fashioned to feel what you feel. I'm alot like you, the love for my ex has not gone away, but it changed once I went through all the grieving stages. My ex and I are on civil terms. The best part of our relationship is we had two beautiful daughters together. I would not call her a friend, but I would do anything within reason to help her out. Changing the way I felt about my ex allowed me to move on and find love again. Everyone is different and relationships run their course. All have ups and downs. Some people can actually turn off their feelings and say a relationship has ended. But I believe it just changes and continues--sometimes as just as a memory, but the realtionship is still there. Just remember, take the advice what works for you and keep on healing.

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Blowjob buddy Posted: 11/20/2009 8:26:00 AM
I noticed the OP nevered answered notjesus' question under msg: 6: "Are you sure "she" doesn't have a penis?" How do we know "she" is not a "he." Did I miss something, eh? I have never met a women as he has described. I'm not saying they aren't out there, but this thread makes me suspicious that "she" is a "he."

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Her Orgasm Posted: 11/20/2009 8:01:09 AM
OP: I agree with ForRumOnly. Additionally, the brain controls orgasms in both men and women. Her responses to her (direction, touch, love sounds, words, etc.) make it happen. If the woman is in the right state of mind (physically & emotionally), she will relax herself to have them. She also has to tell her lover by whatever means to stimulate her until she cums.

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whats the most orgasms you've had in one day? Posted: 11/19/2009 8:54:56 AM
MSG 53: Margo Way too funny!

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Sensitive nipples Posted: 11/19/2009 8:24:22 AM
My problem is that I'm ticklish and if a woman plays with them, I burst out laughing. Sometimes it kills the mood.

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rape/molestation victims and dating..... Posted: 11/19/2009 8:20:04 AM
My ex was a rape victim before I knew her. Her rape was by an aquaintence she was dating. While we dated, it was not an issue. However, because she never sought counseling it permeated into our married life. I don't know if she has overcome it or not now, but while we were married she would not explore anything in bed. Even though our sex life was so-so, we had 2 beautiful children together. Her intimacy issues eventually contributed to our break up. After the divorce, she did not want to have any more children with her second husband. This was a good thing since now they are divorced.

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Do you prefer to be on top or bottom Posted: 11/6/2009 1:04:25 PM
^^^^^^^ anunu!

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Our 15 year long relationship ends and he meets someone on here and starts a family in 9 MONTHS! Posted: 11/5/2009 7:32:57 AM
You know what "they" say about a woman scorned.... Pity Thread Alert! Pity Thread Alert! Pity Thread Alert! OP: Let go of this. Your ex's relationship is now NUNYA!

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Mature Adults in their Sexual Prime ??!!! Posted: 11/2/2009 11:41:17 AM
deerdog1 MSG 11: so true!

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how come women initiate the breakup 80% of the time? Posted: 10/30/2009 1:24:58 PM
HAHAHAHAHA! What a bunch of B.S. this thread has become. All the so called"stats." Talk about initiating a battle between the sexes. Defenders to your corners! Give me a friggin break! This thread should have been nixed a long time ago HAHAHAHAHA!

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What is sexy about FAT??? Posted: 10/30/2009 8:23:49 AM
OP, I don't know if I ever heard (as CaRo31 said) of men having a thing for humping between the creases, but I tend to like larger women versus thinner ones--especially larger and taller than me. It's a turn on. Just my preference, I guess. However, I always focus on personality after the initial look. I can't be with a drama queen or a high maintenance woman. I have found BBWs & SSBBWs are just as nice, sweet and desirable as women with a few extra pounds or what is considered "average."

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Mouth Shut or Tattle? Posted: 10/21/2009 6:00:36 AM
^^^^^ The bartender probably does not know about April. OP: Mouth shut & MYOB.

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woman i met here hasn't O'ed in 1.5 yrs. Posted: 10/14/2009 1:47:26 PM
OP: When I was younger, I was with a few women just like her. Their libido may be lower what some people consider average. Or, their culture...or, especially if they are out of a long and/or intense relationship, they were more interested in cuddling and just feeling wanted when they made love than they were going after the big O. I think she was being honest with you and that's a good thing. Good Luck with her!

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do men like getting more then giving Posted: 10/14/2009 1:36:36 PM
I'm all for giving oral to a lady if she is into it. I don't care if she gives me a bj or not. I not big into receiving oral, but I love giving it--just my preference. I've been with some women who love it and some who have pulled my head up North when I was heading South. I agree with 85032luck: It depends on the person.

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Why Do Some Seem So Wild When Single Then They Don't Want Sex When Married... Posted: 10/13/2009 9:08:59 AM
When I met my wife 17 years ago, we were like bunnies. But, work, time, health issues and age took their toll on sexual desire. We adjust our sexual drives and its frequency as we go on with our lives, but that doesn't mean we fall out of love. You might be able to define love--I can't fully, but I do know: normally, sexual drive diminishes as we age--sometimes more in some people--sometimes less. It depends on the person and the situation.

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I was eaten out for the first time!!! Posted: 10/9/2009 1:34:46 PM
By far this IS the funniest thread in POF...Kudos!!!!

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The evil web we weave... Posted: 10/1/2009 10:58:42 AM
ms princess 09...You put the post here. You're in a public forum asking for advice and opinions (points of view)...Posters being rude?...Suck it up, girl...the guy is old enough to be your Dad...we may not know you, but what you have (or not) told us gives us the impression you are, young , niave and a gold digger.

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Marriage vs. Living together Posted: 9/30/2009 10:22:17 AM
OP: To me, except for the legal stuff, marraige and living long term together is the same emotional thing--commitment to each other. Just as splitting up and dividing things up after the split is the same as divorce--again except for the legal-beagle issues our governments put on us and how society views on what marriage is.

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She is barely legal, He is 48 Posted: 9/30/2009 6:04:11 AM
Another beer for Msg 41:

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She is barely legal, He is 48 Posted: 9/30/2009 5:57:05 AM
To Capitano Blaugh fot MSG 23: Here, Here!

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reasonable or not Posted: 9/25/2009 1:21:41 PM
I totally agree with you browneyesboo. If I had waited for 6 months or more just to date, I would not never have gotten married. Life is too short to put a timetable on finding a relationship. Life is wayyyyyyyy tooo short!

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Have you ever risked it when the pic just didn't do it for you? Posted: 9/24/2009 1:39:24 PM
taal, are you kidding? I agree with Walygatr....Ah, but you are young!!!

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How much money does a man need to make to keep you interested in him? Posted: 9/24/2009 11:42:19 AM
So true; so true bushcutter For most ladies you gotta be at least 3 inches taller than them so they can put on their heels

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Dating is all about income Posted: 9/24/2009 10:13:27 AM
Here, here, 13karat...well said!

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Let me give you the tour... Posted: 9/24/2009 9:47:57 AM
Sounds like you have a fun place, bernie!

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CONSTANT CONTRADICTION Posted: 9/24/2009 9:30:29 AM
Given the discussion, it's kind of ironic that the name you've taken for yourself is "Charity"... pearlj did you mean the girl is giving a guy, "Charity" after the woman said, "You ugly, we, be be friends?"

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Where is everyone from? Posted: 9/17/2009 11:36:07 AM
I'm in Odenton off of Rt 175.

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Karaoke? Posted: 9/17/2009 11:33:44 AM
There are 2 places that have Karaoke in and near Odenton, but you or your friend might consider them "dives." One is Jim's Hideaway in Odenton (Fri & Sat nights) behind the fire house and Remingtons of Laurel (Wed thru Fri--sometimes Sat & open mike night on Sunday) on Rt 198 outside of Maryland City heading towards Ft. Meade.

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