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Joined: 6/4/2005

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First Meeting Coffee or?????? Posted: 4/27/2008 1:49:46 PM
wouldn't it be great if the sight had a way of letting others know about people we have had misfortunes with...LOL like a rating system...teasing. but it would put a stop to the BS.

Joined: 6/4/2005

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Should we stay on POF after finding somebody? Posted: 4/19/2008 8:14:54 AM
Doesn't it all come down to trust? In todays electronic age e-mail,text etc. Its difficult enough to figure out the female mind. Personally i think it starts with being friends..Just my thoughts Ken

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Has being online toughened you up emotionally or made you more sensitive? Posted: 1/17/2008 12:32:27 AM
its like i indicated in a post lower. The escort market is very popular here in south florida...LOL I am proud to havw read your post and completely agree with it. Most woman i have come into contact with on this sight make up excuses why they can't have the loving man in there life they so look for....I have to laugh. And i'f i get derailed to the ignore list its no worse off....LOL. But if anyone cares to give me a chance i think they'll meet one of the nice guys !

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Has being online toughened you up emotionally or made you more sensitive? Posted: 1/17/2008 12:24:47 AM
JJ I agree with you. Many woman have told me i seem very serious or even negative in my typing style. IF you knew me you would know i'm as cheery as they come. Woman play different games than men. But games still. Wouldn't it just be nice to STOP the games and be honest. If i write someone and they respond no thank you i feel its better to say no thank you than just nothing. I can see why the escort market is so popular here in south Florida...I'm one of the nice guys who can't seem to bust through the mess! I have become very hardened ! But still hopeful!

Joined: 6/4/2005

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Ultimate Starbucks Date - 1/22/08 - Pompano Beach Posted: 1/13/2008 10:21:40 AM
I completely agree ! Its a shame that we can't just coincide. I'll take your point and skip this one to avoid the confrontation..LOL .. But i really do think its agreat idea! Or maybe wear my flack jackett..

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Ultimate Starbucks Date - 1/22/08 - Pompano Beach Posted: 1/13/2008 12:39:59 AM
Think these are a great oppertunity to meet people however I do think there going to be very awkward when someone you may have not had the best experienece with previously attends...LOL .We all have had our horror stories . May need to hire security...LOL

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What do high number in favorite lists indicate if anything? Posted: 1/1/2008 8:35:01 AM
There was nothing positive or negative meant by this thread. When i see numbers in the 300's i just have to wonder.. Just interested in the thoughts. I'm a true Scorpio and i tend to think and analyze~ When isee numbers in the 300's its definetly a huge RED flagg

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Phone calls?????? Posted: 1/1/2008 7:32:22 AM
For me dating has come to a new level! No expectations or limitations. Live in the present and be accepting. We all have GOD's gift of intelligence. Use it and be sincere~ Is that so hard?

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Pictures. Posted: 1/1/2008 7:09:45 AM
My first question would be How long have you been single? And secondly do you have any common sense? Dating is a process espically online dating. Be choosey and be safe. 2 rules i have learned to obey ! I have been stood up lied to and played with over time. BUT its all good becasue the end will justify the means. Were all just doing the best we know how to.

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What do high number in favorite lists indicate if anything? Posted: 1/1/2008 7:01:30 AM
Just something i have been thinking about! Its very important to me to make good dating decisions. When i look at a females favorites list number and see its very large I just have to think twice. Either there not managing there lists well or really don't have a clue! I'm sure i'm going to get the riot act read but the return thoughts will be interesting...LOL

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Hateful Emails from Rejects Posted: 1/1/2008 6:54:06 AM
I personally feel that any time anyone writes me with a genuine thought i make the time to respond in kindness. Like the old saying goes "never burn a bridge". What i'm wondering about recently is the High numbers on favorite lists. Have to just think any person with a number in the 300's is a red flag to me..

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Party in Broward County :yay: Friday June 8th Posted: 5/22/2007 11:41:37 AM
where is porter house and if you want to make an appointment i;ll be there!

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Attraction in your 50's Posted: 5/9/2007 4:54:13 PM
The part that gets me about wrong age stats online is that if you met the same person in life you would not know there age anyway. Online dating had its advantages but is also loaded with disadvantages. WE use these stats as spec sheets as if ordering anew car. What if you were meant to be with last years model? I think being open to whats out there is key. If your attracted to the person. Meet them keep your eyes open and brain working. Does age really matter? To me its all about sincerity. Nothing matters untill the eyes meet. Go from there. Just my 2 cents

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Why does every guy over 50 act like Stanley Roper? Posted: 5/9/2007 4:41:57 PM
I'm 55 and no where close to Stanley Roper. I would think you need to make better dating choices.. God gave you a brain to use . Its up to us to make good choices Just my 2 cents..

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Do u think there is more than one perfect person(Soul mate) for you? Posted: 5/9/2007 4:38:02 PM
I really do have to agree with your thought process with a few minor differences. Some reincarnation theories say we go back to molecule stage for 100 years between lifes. I have has some amazing experiences regarding people i knew in past lives. I believe chemistry is nothing more than meeting people we have traveled in past lives with. They say we do travel in soul groups. anyone who thinks there is one soul mate is just not at an enlightened level .But thats OK .I am very metaphysical and know only an enlightened woman can really fulfill me. Just my 2 cents :)

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