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prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

Msg: 48 (view)

My Friend Is Cheating On Her Husband Posted: 6/20/2009 8:51:21 PM
Oceansideview; See that's the thing. I have morals. I would never cheat on my husband. Ever. If she has needs not being met or other issues that she thinks cheating can solve, she should leave the marriage. Cheating is not acceptable. In any circumstance. Don't tell me that I shouldn't have any less respect for her when she is doing something that is totally wrong.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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My Friend Is Cheating On Her Husband Posted: 5/5/2009 11:01:58 PM
thereplacement99; i'm so sorry to hear about your wife's affair. i feel for your pain. thanks for your reply! take care.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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My Friend Is Cheating On Her Husband Posted: 5/5/2009 10:58:55 PM
Thank you Wayne!! I will have a look at the website.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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My Friend Is Cheating On Her Husband Posted: 5/5/2009 10:57:50 PM
mthomjmark; the husband does know about the affair and wants to stay with her. He has told me several times himself. And also she isn't sleeping with this man, she has told me, it's an emotional affair only. Which in my opinion does not make it ok. I am very close to her and I know she is not a sleazy person. She's just going through an emotional crisis right now. Again, I'm not condoning her behavior, just trying to make sense of things.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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Do women actually exist that date men with kids?? Posted: 5/4/2009 12:43:52 PM
Yes they do. I like to date single dads. They're more trustworthy I find. And definitely more mature than men who don't have kids. The only problem I have is with single dads who don't want to date women who have kids. What's up with that? That really puzzles me.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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My Friend Is Cheating On Her Husband Posted: 4/29/2009 10:16:00 PM
Update; My girlfriend has told me of the affair she had been having on her husband. She said it ended a long time ago. So now it is confirmed. I told her that it was so wrong to cheat on your spouse for any reason. She seemed to agree with me. Her husband keeps telling me that he thinks she is still seeing the other man. He says her stories don't add up and that she keeps lying. Things seem to be getting worse with them. I went over to their house the other day while they were having a fight. I told them they need some time apart to think about things. They are both so stubborn. Neither one wants to leave. But things at home for them is in turmoil. This isn't healthy for either of them to constantly fight about the affair. He badgers her daily for the truth. She says she's telling him the truth. I want to stay out of it and basically have. They come to me and tell me things and all I can say is they need a separation for now.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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My Friend Is Cheating On Her Husband Posted: 1/18/2009 11:55:27 PM
Thanks to everyone who has responded to my post! A lot of what you are saying is helpful and I actually feel better now that I let my feelings out. As difficult as it will be, I will stay out of it and not confront them. But if asked I will give my honest opinion to them and will be there for my male married friend if he wants me to be. As for my female married friend, I have lost respect for her.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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My Friend Is Cheating On Her Husband Posted: 1/18/2009 11:42:41 PM
Thanks for the kind words Not 4 You!! I think part of my problem is that I am too sensitive. I really believe that marriage is sacred. And cheating is just not an option. I was married for almost 10 years and found out he had cheated on me during part of our marriage. This killed me inside. I never suspected it, even though others had. I had total confidence in our love for each other. So I guess I can relate to how my male friend is feeling right now. But I hope you're right when you say that the perfect man for me will come along one of these days. Thanks again!

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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My Friend Is Cheating On Her Husband Posted: 1/18/2009 12:17:47 AM
I feel so hurt and frustrated. A close friend of mine is cheating on her husband and I am so overcome with so many emotions. I feel like I was the one who was betrayed. They've been married for a long time and I never doubted their love and loyalty for each other. And then I find out that she's been having an affair. I want to confront her and say what the heck are you thinking. I want to comfort her husband because he is a good man. But the problem is I'm not supposed to know about it. I heard about it from another good friend of mine. They've been my friends for so many years. Do I have the right to get involved? Should I try to talk to either of them about it? I'm also hurt that neither one of them felt like they could come to me and confide in me. Apparently her husband knows of the affair, as she has already told him. But I know how much it's tearing him apart. I want to do something. But if I do I am betraying my other friends trust in my keeping it secret. Ugh I am so torn. Any advice would be helpful.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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Women and Physical Contact Posted: 12/23/2008 11:51:27 PM
Maybe that is your problem!!

prairiechick2

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Interested to Hear Thoughts on My Profile Posted: 12/11/2008 10:23:35 PM
Hey Jonathan. You are asking people what they think of your profile. You shouldn't get upset with them when they give an opinion you don't like. It's great that you want to put yourself out there for all the women who are worth it to read. But I agree with the others, it is just too long hun. You need something to talk about to these women. If you've already told them everything about yourself, there's nothing to talk about. Mine is short. Quite short. I guess I'm the type of person that doesn't like to toot their own horn and talk about themselves endlessly. I'm not high maintenance. I'm a sweet, simple down to earth girl. The type of girl you can be proud to take home to mom.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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If you could teach the opposite sex Posted: 10/16/2008 8:41:14 PM
Sleepsafe, I really like what you said in Msg. 31. I wish some men treated women the same after they had sex as they did before they had sex. But that doesn't always happen. It would be great if date number 50 was as special as date number 1. But that doesn't always happen. In an ideal world we would all have what we wanted to make us completely happy. Some of us are fortunate enough to have achieved that goal for ourselves. And some of us may never achieve it.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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If you could teach the opposite sex Posted: 10/16/2008 8:26:18 PM
I hear what you're saying Dempcey. But you can't change someone that doesn't want to change already. I hear a lot of men and a lot of women say "if I just knew what he/she really wants." It would be ideal if people could communicate well with one another. But that doesn't always happen. If we had a basic outline of how the opposite sex thinks, we would be able to relate better to one another. Then we could respectfully adjust (not change) our way of thinking to better understand theirs. I still think a class would be a good idea. Maybe I'll start one up.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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If you could teach the opposite sex Posted: 10/15/2008 11:50:14 PM
I must say I am pleasantly surprised by all the intelligent and compassionate responses. I was worried I'd get a lot of negative responses, putting down the opposite sex. Thank you all for your honesty and wisdom!

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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If you could teach the opposite sex Posted: 10/15/2008 8:29:58 PM
I realize that all men and all women are not the same. But if we all had a basic idea of how the other one thinks and feels about things, we'd all get along better. For example, most men don't like to express their emotions as much as most women. And most women don't like to watch sports on t.v like most men do. Etc etc.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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If you could teach the opposite sex Posted: 10/15/2008 8:15:57 PM
I agree with you. Honesty and good communication is key. But some people don't communicate very well with the opposite sex. I think learning about the opposite sex first would help people to communicate better with one another. They would feel more comfortable to open up if they knew the right approach to take.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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If you could teach the opposite sex Posted: 10/15/2008 7:59:28 PM
If you could teach men how to treat women and women how to treat men, what would you teach them about the opposite sex? We seriously should have classes for men and for women on how to have a healthy relationship. There are too many good people that are single and it's a shame. Some people choose to be single and are happy. But there are others that aren't happy and in my opinion, just don't get the opposite sex. If men knew what women actually wanted from a relationship, and if women actually knew what men wanted from a relationship, there would be less lonely single people in the world. That's just my thoughts on the subject. I'd like to know what other people think about it.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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How u see Virginity on Man ??? Posted: 10/15/2008 7:40:38 PM
I had no clue there was so many male virgins out there! It's mind blowing. Not to mention, very honorable. I think it's great!! You're right, vonsiefert. Waiting for the right woman is a good thing. She'll appreciate that you waited for her.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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is there faithful or decent men out there Posted: 10/7/2008 10:21:41 PM
Lmao. You are so hilarious! Trying so hard to make me out to be a villain. Nope, not all men are cheaters. I've said it before. But you refuse to see anything except for what you want to see. And I never said that women don't cheat. No way! I've heard from some men that they were cheated on and I think it's a shame. So psycho, quit putting words in my mouth. A blond bimbo? Hmm. What's the definition of a bimbo? A woman who is a stupid slut, I think. Lol. Not me. I don't sleep around and I have my own business. Plus I'm a devoted mom of 4. No time for games. Nice try. You are just showing your stupidity to all the women on POF. I can tell your angry by the way you write your posts and all the nasty things you say about me. It doesn't take a genius to see it. You'd make a scarey bf. Never knowing what might set you off next. The only people I disagree with are idiots like you. I'm actually the opposite, I'm too agreeable. State records? Ok. Check all you like. I've never had any problems with the law. Not even a parking ticket. I've never charged anyone with anything. So again, you're making stuff up to make yourself look better. But instead digging a deeper hole. You should look up the definition of bipolar, btw. It would describe you. Not me.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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is there faithful or decent men out there Posted: 10/7/2008 7:30:41 PM
I really seemed to hit a sore spot with you, trrypier. Now calm down before you hurt yourself. Just because I don't agree with you doesn't give you the right to call me names. Bipolar, prairiedog, small mind. That's pretty juvenile. I'd expect such comments from a 12 year old. It's prairiechick, not prairiedog. Lol. So funny. Take a look in the mirror at yourself before referring to someone else as a dog. I'm secure enough to know that you're just angry with me for having an opinion different than your own. You'll like this part. I actually agree with you when you stated the man who let's go of a good woman is cussing himself for doing so. My ex husband cusses himself all the time for letting me go. He tried for many years to hold on to me. And says all the time how he was such a fool for hurting such a devoted wife and mother. I've never been called a difficult woman by any man who knows me. Quite the opposite. Men ask me out almost daily and I am on 61 members favorites list. Hardly disliked. I know it makes you feel better to put me down. It doesn't bother me in the least because I know who don't know a thing about me. You're the only one who needs therapy. Psycho.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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is there faithful or decent men out there Posted: 10/6/2008 10:28:54 PM
Quoted by trrypier, " i have met some very good prospects on here,intelligent,witty,outgoing.they are hard to catch,but if we get lucky,i predict many years of happiness.and to think,some jerk would let one like that go,bet he is cussing himself right now!!!" I'm sure these intelligent,witty women will let you catch them. Lol. Not a chance. No intelligent woman would give a man who talks so lowly about women, like you just did, a chance in hell for a relationship. Real smooth cowboy.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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is there faithful or decent men out there Posted: 10/6/2008 10:13:38 PM
Actually Cool, the stats are 1 out of 3 men cheat on their spouses or girlfriends. So finding one that doesn't is pretty slim. Oh don't get me wrong, there are men who don't. But they are hard to find. I can tell you one thing, my boys will learn to value women and relationships. They wont fall under that 1 in 3 men who cheat catagory.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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is there faithful or decent men out there Posted: 10/4/2008 11:44:52 PM
No, no there is NO decent men out there any more. My god, just when you think you may have found one, he too turns out to be a player.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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Will you be my girlfriend? Posted: 10/1/2008 12:29:51 PM
I think it's adorable!!

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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I Didnt get to say goodbye to my DADDY Posted: 9/7/2008 7:39:00 PM
It doesn't matter how old you are when you're dad dies. My dad died of cancer 10 years ago. We found out he had cancer 3 months before he died. It was too late to do anything. I dreamt of him every night for the first two months after he died. I was a daddy's girl and to this day I can't believe he's gone. I miss him everyday. I know how unbareable the pain is when you lose your dad. I'm sorry that you didn't get to say goodbye to him. That would be so hard. When my dad died, my brother, who isn't very good at expressing his feelings, wrote dad a note and put it in dad's suit jacket pocket and it was buried with him. This helped my brother to say goodbye and thank dad for all he did for him. We all deal with grief in different ways. You have to find your own healthy way to say goodbye.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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Why All The Questions About Possessions? Posted: 8/29/2008 11:59:14 PM
It's because if you're not financially stable, some of these men wont date you. They think you will take them for all they have.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/29/2008 11:16:49 AM
Think about what you just said WSYT. Equality. If a man and a woman are doing the same type of work in the workplace, they both should get the same pay. If a man and a woman are walking down the street alone at night, both deserve to be safe. Physically a man can defend himself better. This is why women get hurt more frequently. Equality in the home? Equality at the bank, shopping, going for coffee??? Say what? That's where you lost me. The reason why men don't have an equal say in if a woman wants to keep the baby or have an abortion is because she has that baby inside her body. He doesn't. This is not the fault of the woman. It's just the way God made it. Guys you need to stop crying about things you can't change. Put yourself in the shoes of the woman. If the baby was inside you, would you honestly let her have the say in keeping the baby or not? I doubt it. If a woman wanted to have a doctor perform a vasectomy on you without your permission, how would you feel about that? It's your body right? No one has the right to do something to someone else's body that they don't want to happen to it.

prairiechick2

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Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/29/2008 10:27:16 AM
Ok TMTWIA, say the pregancy was a total accident. Neither party was planning to have a baby, but the woman opted to keep it. The man didn't want to. He just dropped out of their lives. She didn't sue for child support. Then a year or two later, after thinking it over, decides he wants to see the child. Should he now have to pay child support?

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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another one bites the dust....... Posted: 8/28/2008 11:45:31 PM
Just because she doesn't want a long term relationship with you, doesn't mean she's a slut. It doesn't mean she's just out to get laid. HELLO!! There's other kinds of relationships. Friendships, just being friends. Casual dating, having a monogomous relationship with someone who you wont ever be living with or married to. Or 'seeing' people, seeing multiple people, but not necessarily having sex with them. It may not be what you want or are looking for, but not every person is looking for the same things. Get over yourself.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/28/2008 11:35:29 PM
Quoted by Ameerra; "on the question of "equal say" I'm going to repeat myself: He's not the one that's going to be propped up on the table with his legs wide open either pushing out the baby or getting the fetus scraped out. It is already unequal, once the egg get's fertilized in the woman's body. " Thank you Ameerra!! This is what i've been wanting to say. God didn't make us equal. Deal with it fella's. And as for Cleansed, what the hell? Why are you getting so personal about Grapevine's life? You have no right to say such cruel things about her past with her dad. In case you didn't know, it's against forum rules to throw personal attacks of this nature at other posters. Her past and present personal life has nothing to do with this thread. Getting off topic is another rule breaker.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

Msg: 369 (view)

Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/28/2008 3:55:13 PM
I think MyBlueShadow hit the nail on the head. Some men just can't stand it when they lose their control. They can't wrap their heads around the fact that this isn't just about them and what they want. It's about two other human lives as well. If we don't agree, we are childish. Lol. I don't think it's us who are the childish ones.

prairiechick2

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Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/28/2008 11:42:08 AM
Quoted by WSYT; "As for Prairiechick... this debate isn't about what you think a real man is...it's about human rights as they pertain to forced parenting. Frankly you come off childish the way you swoon for the one guy who says EXACTLY what you want to hear." Human rights for whom? the poor defenseless man who had a gun to his head by a woman "saying gimme your sperm". She didn't force him to f*ck her. She didn't force him into not protecting himself. It's you who has the childish thoughts. I'm not swooning over anyone. I just happen to appreciate decent men who respect women. It's hard to come by these days. You only say that because I disgree with your insane views. Or maybe you're jealous and want some attention. A man can't be forced into parenthood. Making child support payments doesn't make any man decent father. I have a lot of friends who would agree with that from their experiences. But another question I have, is why wouldn't a man want to try to be a good dad to his kid. It's his kid. He/she is part of him. He/she may even look like him. I just think that's heartless. And to argue that money is more important then taking care of some of the needs of your child, is selfish. Money is a material thing. A child is a human being. How would you feel if your dad despised you for being born because he now has to provide child support? My ex gives me half of the child support he is supposed to be giving me by law. Have I tried to get more? No. Why? Because our kids don't need to see or hear us argue over petty things like money.

prairiechick2

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Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/28/2008 11:15:48 AM
Quoted by TMTWIA; "Fishing" is right. :: points at the site name :: I feel sorry for the poor **stard who ends up with your hook in his mouth." Those are some harsh words. Especially when you know nothing about me. Only what you think you know. Tell me why you'd feel sorry for someone ending up with me? Because I don't agree with your absurd view of how men are the victims. Come on. That's pathetic. I don't have or want any control over any man ever. No one should ever be controlled. If a man is taking care of his responsibilities that doesn't mean he's being controlled. Having sex is a risk. Either from std's or pregnancies. If you're not protecting yourself, it's you who is to blame. Like I've been told by many men on POF, if you get played or cheated on then it's your fault because you picked the guy. So shouldn't that theory apply here as well. The OP's guy friend picked this girl to have sex with. If she couldn't be trusted, it's his fault for choosing her. Also, I want to make something clear, I am not trying to trap a man into getting me pregnant or trying to get a dad for my kids. They have a dad who loves them very much. And I took care of my responsibilities as a woman, I got my tunes tied after my last child. So I'm not trying to rope a man into getting me pregnant. I'm done. Nice try though.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/28/2008 10:49:08 AM
Quoted by Johnie; "Exactly...the old me pretend to support you in order to get in your pants routine...haven't seen that one in a long time and it's funny who is falling for it or using it to her advantage..." Lol. Too funny!! Just because Trubblemakr is showing responsibility and maturity, some of you men are mocking him. He's making you guys look like total idiots. Most women reading this will look at your statements and think " wow, I wouldn't want to risk getting into a relationship with this insensitive jerk" and then read trubblemakrs statement and think "this guy is relationship material and wont turn on me when times get tough, a keeper." I highly doubt that Trubblemakr is making his statements on here to get into the women's pants like someone on here said earlier. Lol. Jealous much?? And even if he was, he would be getting more sex with decent women then these insensitive men will be. Decent women like men who treat other women with respect. Food for thought.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/28/2008 10:13:07 AM
Quoted by TakeMeTheWayIAm; "The mature option for the woman would be to take the morning after pill, continue to date, find the right guy and settle down to have a family. Any other option is immature on her part" Oh really, so it's mature to have an abortion. The morning after pill is an abortion, by the way. If there's a fetus, there's a life. No matter how small. Another thing, I am not saying the decision to keep a baby or not to keep it is only up to the woman. No way! It should be a decision they make together. But because it is the woman's body and she is the one who carries the baby, gives birth to it and most of the time takes the most care of it, financially and physically and emotionally, she should be entitled to the final decision. When men can carry a baby for 9 months and give birth, they can make the final decision.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

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Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/28/2008 12:03:08 AM
You're post is a little hard to read, mellow mel. How am I very misguided if I think it's the responsibility of both the mom and dad to take care of their child? I'm not blaming men for everything. Only for not taking responsibility for their own actions. If you don't want to get a woman pregnant, protect yourself. Being tricked into getting a woman pregnant is a man's excuse for him to run away from his mistakes. And I laugh when you state that the many women you talk to that so called tricked their men into getting pregnant, say the babies daddy will take care of them for the next 18 years. Hardly lady!! The babies daddy is taking care of HIS kid. Not the mama. Unless the guy is paying thousands of dollars every month, that statement is bs. Some mom's see no child support at all. And most mom's see very little. Be realistic!

prairiechick2

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Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/27/2008 11:15:31 PM
Quoted by Trubblemakr; " i wish him and his gf the best as well as their incoming surprise package to you tho........ grow up and get over yourself, noone is trying to trap you or any other man, if you dont want a baby, get castrated or abstain, its pretty simple " FINALLY!! An intelligent man is speaking on this thread.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

Msg: 272 (view)

Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/27/2008 11:10:19 PM
Quoted by Johnie; ".and all the women do is simply lay there with their legs spread wide open waiting/whining all night with no help because they don't have the potential to remember taking one simple little pill.They can remember the funny faces you made at their mother and the fact that you didn't bring out the garbage...still they can't remember to take one simple little pill...how typical...no wonder the can't drive..." Wow, this statement shows your true colors about how you feel about women. I would be truly shocked if any woman after reading these posts from you will want to even speak to you, let alone date you. This statement about how women just lie there spreading their legs wide open, is demeaning to women and absolutely disgusting. And if women didn't put out for you, you'd be pissed about that. I don't think you'll have to worry about that any more anyway.

prairiechick2

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Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/27/2008 10:40:37 PM
Quoted by Capitano; "Boy, I can't wait for the day when women have to start paying alimony and child support as often as men do these days. I'm rootin' for my sons. I hope they get to take advantage of the pay inequities as women are these days. Yay for progress!" Lol. The child support I sometimes receive from my kids' dad is a small portion of what I pay to raise them. You have son's? Yikes! Based on how you talk so poorly about women there will be two more bitter men coming into this world.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

Msg: 260 (view)

Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/27/2008 9:10:09 PM
Beelieve, you talk about morals. Yet you state that if a woman forgets to take the pill(and it happens,not on purpose jerk) she should get an abortion because a baby is such an inconvenience for the guy that got her pregnant to help take care of the baby he helped to create. OMG that's absurd!! That's a human life. Baby's should be valued. Not thrown away like garbage. You talk about punishing a woman for forgetting to take her bc pill. Have you ever forgotten anything important? Grow up!!

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

Msg: 170 (view)

Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/26/2008 11:55:00 PM
Quoted by Sara; " it takes two to tango, when you have sex with somone, whether they are on birth control or not, prepare for the worst, sex does lead to pregnancy, thats the whole reason sex was created" There's worse things in this world then being pregnant. Bad choice of words.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

Msg: 168 (view)

Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/26/2008 11:46:54 PM
Quoted by Johnie; "The sister/family most likely advised the GF to secretly get pregnant by not taking her BC pills without telling the BF to make him a man and you want these people to guide him... OP is probably the better choice to listen to in this case whether this is true or not and maybe the only one who offered true friendship...the only thing the BF will learn from all this is to listen to sound advice from good friends next time since it did come from someone more experienced and if he would have listened he wouldn't have gotten himself into any trouble.Regardless of his age obviously by not listening he needs more help and he ain't gonna get it from a family that is determined to turn him into a baby factory without his knowledge." This is such a silly comment. It's funny how some men think it's totally up to the woman to prevent pregnancy. Guys, guess what, it's NOT. If you think that way, you are sadly mistaken. If you're going to sex, protect yourself. Nobody can turn any grown adult into a 'baby factory'. Another thing, his family has his best interest at heart. Not his jealous friend. His sister isn't trying to sabatoge him into becoming a family man, if he doesn't want to be. Again this guy is 26. He should know better. If he doesn't want to get anyone pregnant, then he should be fixed. Simple as that.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

Msg: 65 (view)

Why Can't Men Be Friends First?? Posted: 8/26/2008 8:25:23 PM
I know what you mean. Most of them either want just sex or a serious commitment. There doesn't really seem to be a happy medium.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

Msg: 154 (view)

Sorry Hun, I'm Pregnant... Posted: 8/26/2008 8:19:01 PM
How is this any of your business? If even his family is saying you're a bad influence on him, then you likely are. Just stay out of it. He'll learn from his mistakes. He doesn't need you to daddy him. He's 26 for goodness sake. Not 16.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

Msg: 156 (view)

Did I overreact? Posted: 8/26/2008 7:09:39 PM
That is hilarious!! If she truly cared about getting her precious stuff back, she would have asked for it back a long time ago. If one of my ex boyfriends had my personal belongings, I'd make sure to be really nice to them. At least until I got my stuff back.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

Msg: 89 (view)

People who post pictures of them in their bed.. Posted: 8/24/2008 9:42:43 PM
somebody sounds jealous!!

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

Msg: 261 (view)

Why would anyone want to date you? Posted: 8/23/2008 12:37:08 AM
Quoted by flakk; "would you really want a guy that takes care of his own business and is open and honest with you? even now knowing what that implies? More that likely the answer is no. hence why i'm still single. An honest and independant man is not a desierable thing" Actually an honest and independent man is definitely desirable. An arrogant man isn't desirable, which may be the reason why you are still single.

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

Msg: 92 (view)

How did your first time meeting up w/ someone from POF go? Posted: 8/23/2008 12:25:50 AM
So far I've met two guys from POF and both dates didn't go as well as I wanted it to go. Is it so hard to talk with someone after the date? Not interested? Then be classy enough to let that person know. Don't just drop off the face of the earth, without a word. That's what cowards do. Should I be reluctant to date another guy from POF?

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

Msg: 198 (view)

single men in their 30s living alone with a dog Posted: 8/23/2008 12:13:30 AM
" When I was living alone in NYC, I did my own cooking, cleaning, dishes, paid the bills, paid my mortgage, laundry, shopping, and played all my favorite video games. The women in my life were upset because they knew I didn't need them. They wanted some guy up under them that they have to take care of in order to feel needed but they are quick to cheat on that guy, leave him, or get prego with someone else if they find a better deal. If they can't find some man to support them, they want to support some man-child until they find one. Lame indeed......" LOL!! Where do people come up with these things?

prairiechick2

Joined: 12/12/2007

Msg: 55 (view)

What type of friendship is appropriate for a married person to have with the opposite sex? Posted: 8/21/2008 7:51:40 PM
I think if you want to 'hang out' with someone female/male who isn't your spouse, you should include your spouse too. If he/she doesn't want to go too and is ok with you hanging out with your friend then go for it.

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