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lost wee fish

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Summer of Love @ The Bay Horse in Glasgow, Sat 11th July! Posted: 6/19/2009 3:42:24 PM
185 - is this not too many for this location? like to go but mabe a smaller gig - too many for me to notice half the people.

lost wee fish

Joined: 6/5/2005

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girls, please review Posted: 8/26/2008 12:20:29 PM
Hi, its been a while since I updated my profile so I thought I'd get advice from girls who'll read it. Lets face it, its not working as i get limited emails. I'm no stud but when i'm out (real life), I do get hit on but on here it's hopeless. Whatever it is my profile doesn't seem to reflect how others see me. So with that in mind, please offer some advice. thanks in advance

lost wee fish

Joined: 6/5/2005

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NEW VENUE GLASGOW MINI MEET - SCOTIA BARR - 15TH MARCH 2008 - 4.30 p.m. ** Posted: 2/26/2008 10:54:17 AM
checked and free so I'll come! i can even walk home - how great is that

single fish seeks new

Joined: 6/5/2005

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NEW VENUE GLASGOW MINI MEET - SCOTIA BARR - 15TH MARCH 2008 - 4.30 p.m. ** Posted: 2/25/2008 2:08:13 PM
I was trying to be amusing (failed dismally) Dyslexia isn’t anything to be ashamed of but rather proud of. We are who we are and being creative has taught me many interesting things about myself. Wow too deep I need to check my schedule (yes unfortunately I have to have one otherwise I’d forget everything) this isn't a cop out yet.

single fish seeks new

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NEW VENUE GLASGOW MINI MEET - SCOTIA BARR - 15TH MARCH 2008 - 4.30 p.m. ** Posted: 2/25/2008 1:38:23 PM
Dyslexic people rock (isn’t my spell checker great so I can pretend I’m not one) Mini meet – great idea – smaller group – less intimidating – we’ll see

single fish seeks new

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March Madness! 3rd Glasgow meet, Friday, 28th March 2008 Posted: 2/18/2008 11:11:50 AM
might make this one - guess I'll keep watching this forum!

nightowl2005

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Glasgow meeting... Saturday 3 June 2006 Posted: 6/4/2006 10:20:51 AM
I have to put my hands up and say I chickened out - or rather my friends did and I wasn't going on my own. I should point out I wasn't on the list though! for those on the list - what's your excuse? Name and shame them Enryk

nightowl2005

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Glasgow meeting... Saturday 3 June 2006 Posted: 5/13/2006 6:03:07 AM
Tall, http://www.waxyoconnors.co.uk/glasgow/index.asp The link should provide info. Enryk - good show / looks like fun.

nightowl2005

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Glasgow meeting... Saturday 3 June 2006 Posted: 4/27/2006 9:59:57 AM
Savoy is for the old! cube? (get some R'n'B in there) OT: it's within walking distance so I might come -- holiday time though, so I'll watch this space.

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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PoF Scottish Meet Up...the REAL DEAL April 22 (info here) Posted: 4/6/2006 2:57:43 PM
I room full of males? sorry - not my thing! a better balance is needed.

nightowl2005

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Need some guys opinons Posted: 3/5/2006 8:31:10 AM
Great Idea - I so hope this spreads, I'm sick of doing all the chasing!

nightowl2005

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Should I change my age preferences? Posted: 11/1/2005 4:28:28 PM
Go with the flow! Stick with what you want and work from there. Don't try and figure them out, you'll just get lost

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Comparing Men from Canada vs Men Abroad Posted: 10/30/2005 5:10:07 PM
men are men ? See, I don't think this is true - having travelled around a bit I can say women are different per country - it's a cultural thing, they just are so it stands to reason men are too. yes, every one is unique but there are elements the same to women/ men born in the same country/ area.

nightowl2005

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Dating Ideas? Posted: 10/29/2005 6:18:55 PM
it's on my requirements list now!

nightowl2005

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Dating Ideas? Posted: 10/29/2005 6:05:27 PM
where are all the women in Scotland like joy?

nightowl2005

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DATING MEN WHO ARE AT THE SAME Standard and stage in life as you are?????? Posted: 10/29/2005 5:53:57 PM
I know what she means but I'm interested in what she or others feel is the grading of this system i.e. as a professional (Uni/ post grad etc) I don't consider someone who left school at 16 to be any less of a person - certainly not part of a dating requirement. When people use the word "level" in this context, I'm interested in what they consider these to be.

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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DATING MEN WHO ARE AT THE SAME Standard and stage in life as you are?????? Posted: 10/29/2005 5:42:42 PM
i think someone needs to explain this whole level score thing to me!

nightowl2005

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DATING MEN WHO ARE AT THE SAME Standard and stage in life as you are?????? Posted: 10/29/2005 5:35:14 PM
and was totally content and happy doing this...and had no thoughts about really doing anything MORE INTELLEGENT ? if this person is happy why should it matter to you what he does? unless it's really about yourself and how you want others to view your relationship? Life is about being happy and if he's found that then whatever level that's at shouldn't matter. We're not just attracted to people by looks but also by thier state of mind.

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Dating Ideas? Posted: 10/29/2005 5:29:09 PM
Joy - that was hot! why aren't my dates like that? I posted this a few mins ago: Personally I like Modern Art Galleries as they're still considered unusual, quiet and they tell me if she has a GSOH. Someone yesterday told me swimming was a good one - very unusual - physical connection - fun. sounds interesting.

nightowl2005

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What is YOUR first date - coffee, drinks or dinner? Posted: 10/29/2005 4:47:48 PM
I would think that you should know enough about her before the date to know if you'll have a good time. You may not find that connection but the date should be enjoyable still so I'd go with dinner. Personally I like Modern Art Galleries as they're still considered unusual, quiet and they tell me if she has a GSOH. Someone yesterday told me swimming was a good one - very unusual - physical connection - fun. sounds interesting.

nightowl2005

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Dilemma - do you follow your heart? Do you go for security and the same outlook on the future? Posted: 10/29/2005 4:40:17 PM
always be true to yourself and follow your heart otherwise you'll be full of regrets. Strange but I'm giving myself advice here too - not with love but life. Job offers - to go with the money or the passion?Mmmm Question for you: (security guy) if you care for him do you believe he'd be happy with someone who didn't love him back? and could you really hide it from him for the rest of your life together?

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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How do YOU play the game? Posted: 10/29/2005 4:32:42 PM
Thanx for me, it's just that dating is difficult enough without giving it rules and calling it a game.

nightowl2005

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sex in parents bed room alright or nasty Posted: 10/29/2005 4:31:02 PM
it's a matter of respect for your parents and it would seem you have little - that's just wrong

nightowl2005

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How do YOU play the game? Posted: 10/29/2005 4:23:40 PM
See, I don't think it's a game They say that to distance themselves from an emotional connection if things don't work out - like simply hitting the reset button - I'm sorry but however bad your date is you still take something from it - your still effected by it. Sorry I just hate that term It's like it's just a game rather than reality. it's a detachment thing people get to play with without the consequences i.e. no one gets hurt when that's rarely the case. just a thought but perhaps if people didn't refer to it as a game there'd be less players and people complaining about them? God, that sounds bitter .lol I so need a beer!

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Paying for dates Posted: 10/29/2005 4:05:00 PM
It should be simple: you ask you pay she asks she pay's

nightowl2005

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Guys, what gives? Posted: 10/29/2005 4:02:52 PM
Hi Girls, Lets see, girls still want guys to do all the chasing so how long do you think it is or how many emails do you think we send before there's a connection? I can tell you it's not after the first one. Yes we try to be unique but after a time it becomes clear that lots of your emails are "unread deleted" so you figure what's the point. lets be honest, the most attractive "initial" thing about a person is the way they look. Now in real life you get time to extend that first impression but the internet it's quick and that's why we get "unread deleted" This isn't the first thread to talk about emails and yes there also riddled with girls unhappy with short emails but can you blame us? I'll stick my neck out here - Personally I can say I wrote over 50 personalized emails = 40 unread deleted with only two replies. I thought that if at least you write something direct/ long that you'd get a reply even if to say I'm not interested but even a single sentence reply seems to much to ask in return. So perhaps the finger should be pointed at your fellow females out there? In truth there's not much you could put in a single email to cover you or the connection you thought might be there. People who are genuinely interested in someone don't let the length of an email put them off.

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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People who are hush hush about meeting someone Posted: 10/28/2005 1:31:27 PM
It's called a "stop gap" - Sorry but happens to all of us at some point. Perhaps if you've noticed a trend its time to change the settings i.e revaluate your female requirements - not an easy thing to do I know. Cheer up - lots of fish out there, they cant all be the same type!

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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canceled on the first date Posted: 10/28/2005 1:26:44 PM
He could have just got cold feet! Then again I'd say we all make time for those that are important to us i.e if he cancels next time you'll know he's not that interested. Personally If I make a date , work takes second place especially at short notice - We all have lives.

nightowl2005

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People who are hush hush about meeting someone Posted: 10/28/2005 1:20:24 PM
Ham, what they expected was for you to read their minds and realise that it wasn't working. You haven't learned to read the minds of women yet grasshopper?

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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volunteers? Posted: 10/21/2005 5:57:38 PM
yes they do bronze casts from moulds - I suppose it's a step up from a picture but remember it takes time for the mould to dry so you have to sit/ lay there.

nightowl2005

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volunteers? Posted: 10/21/2005 5:33:50 PM
blast, whenever your ready!

nightowl2005

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KILTS...Would you wear one? Date someone who did? Posted: 10/21/2005 5:16:14 PM
it is not!!!!!!! take it all back

nightowl2005

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Am I Being Played? Posted: 10/14/2005 12:50:16 PM
it's just that i've had bad experiences with making the first move!! i actually had a guy tell me that it totally turned him off that i tried to kiss him!! he said it was the mans job and that when a girl does it she's too 'fast'! If he's not into PDA that's fine w/ me. But it's not just that, he barely acknowledges me presence when we're out! He never brings me into the conversation and when I do say something he gives me one word answers. boyzrtoyz/Tkd, just what type of men do you have in America? And are they mad? (joking)

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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No Warning!!! Posted: 10/14/2005 12:26:25 PM
Guys - why is it that when us ladies are giving you head (especially the first time) you never say a word when you are about to cum? is this a trick question? I think it's a little low for him not to say but I'd think he doesn't want you to waste it!

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Stupid things for lust Posted: 10/6/2005 4:40:26 PM
Carly, Nope - too much to loose - I didn't work my as_ off (study) for 8 years to throw it away. it takes alot of gutts and trust so good lucky to you! smiles

nightowl2005

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Do you find that many older men are bossy and rude? Posted: 10/3/2005 4:59:38 PM
Blast, you got it -your starting to see why their still single I'd guess!

nightowl2005

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Anyone else think romance is overrated? Posted: 9/25/2005 6:05:04 PM
Blast, your not a Romantic? (heart crushing in the background) Yes it is an industry like Christmas/ Easter etc BUT all that's unimportant cause when you find someone you truly care about that doesn't matter. It's about showing them you care enough to make the effort and yes sometimes making a fool of yourself. It's also about creating a moment -special to you both - perhaps something to laugh at when your older but a moment non the less. Yes, he can do the shopping/ look after the kids etc but don't you want a little together time? a little passion?

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Whats your internet dating history? Posted: 9/25/2005 5:16:37 PM
have to agree with SK on this - taking time to get to know someone whether here or in real life is important. As for people who lie --- they always get found out sooner or later - both here and in real life. being honest is the only way to go!

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Why do men have affairs? Posted: 9/25/2005 4:54:25 PM
aaawwww Blast - such a cutie! OT: Why do women have affairs? both cause their insecure or cause they dont really care about who their with.

nightowl2005

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Whats your internet dating history? Posted: 9/25/2005 4:46:29 PM
lets see, Mmmm I guess I'm tired of the bar scene etc. you either meet the same people or those only interested in "the moment" The internet enables you to get to know someone more and develop a friendship without falling into the "friend" trap --- At least that was my thoughts going into online. BUT my history thus far isn't impressive! you cant beat real life contact -- but then again I wouldn't have met some of the good friends I have without this. I guess the jury is still out for me.

nightowl2005

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too nice a guy ... Posted: 9/22/2005 4:41:41 PM
Cowboy, I hear you! I tend to get a lot of that also. I think your problem (and I confess mine) is that we wait too long. Girls might agree with me on this or not but I've been told there's a point in any contact where the friendship becomes more important than the risk of the possibility of more. If your like me then you want to show her you can be her best friend as well as her lover etc - you risk less in making your move because she knows you by then BUT it's to late as you've fallen into the "friend" trap and she can never (in my experience anyways) see beyond that.

nightowl2005

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lovely voices Posted: 9/22/2005 4:21:23 PM
Being Scottish I have the accent which seems to be very interesting to girls abroad. Personally I love the Irish accent - a girl with that and I'm lost! I wouldn't say I think about anything perhaps it just puts me off balance.

nightowl2005

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Why Do People Want to Meet at Home? Posted: 9/22/2005 4:16:03 PM
it's a big no no. protect yourself first! The world isn't just full of "nice" people!

nightowl2005

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Is there love after 30 or is it just more complicated? Posted: 9/19/2005 4:41:46 PM
too many differences in lifestyle your stereotyping that people of a certain age are of the same thought/ life style/ maturity. I will grant you that it's unlikely in both options listed but not for all. Yes there is a "built in" reproductive cycle but my point was that making it a requirement rules out "possibilities~" however remote you may think they are.

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Is there love after 30 or is it just more complicated? Posted: 9/19/2005 4:29:13 PM
As someone who has just turned 30 I'm depressed by this thread:-( Personally I feel that age is unimportant to love - I'm not attracted to a girl because she's one age over another - age is just a number to me and not worthy of my thoughts. Society has us looking at age as if it's an illness we caught and that it could be contagious.lol life is complicated enough without us coming up with more dating requirements.

nightowl2005

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Meeting people off of POF..... Posted: 9/19/2005 4:13:18 PM
I'm with OTB on this one: Do guys actually talk about sex on the first meeting with a woman? Is it a U.S. thing? Silly silly "boys" you must have met in the past. Wishing you well:-)

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Are we women whacked?! Posted: 9/19/2005 4:09:22 PM
yes & yes. I have to say i think we all are - female and male. We grow up with images of perfection - who cares that it's all photoshop images - it rubs off and so like most things "we want what most of us cant have" we all have our failings - I guess this is one alot of us share.

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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What are your expectations when dating someone new? Posted: 9/19/2005 4:03:49 PM
I think relax like Bucs says. for me it's all about not having to work at it. Meeting someone new should be exciting/relaxing/fun/friendly etc but not hard work. remove the pressure! Seriously, if nothing comes of it then at least we had an interesting time. If something does then a simple "interest" is all I look for to start with. Something that can be built on. Always Always Always be yourself - If your not then they'll find out sooner or later.

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Leading men on??! Posted: 9/13/2005 5:27:21 PM
play is good to any level so long as BOTH of you are aware of that level otherwise it's "leading him/ her on"

nightowl2005

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Leading men on??! Posted: 9/13/2005 5:16:41 PM
Can't we just indulge in that foreplay...enjoying eachother..than leave with that pent up frustration? Hrm... your obviously not a guy! lol OT: I'd have to say it's a players game and there are a lot of them on this site. I tend to just forget about them and live by my simple rule of treating others as you hope to be treated in return. After all, that's really all you can do - there's no point in going on about others or getting upset about it or second guessing yourself.

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