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Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Do women want to have kids after 33-35ish? Posted: 9/16/2009 6:01:02 PM
Children...well I am 41. I had my first child at 30 and miscarried just prior to calling my marriage quits. My divorce took a number of years to process and I feel robbed of the fun we could have had as a family if only his abuse of alcohol could have been delt with more effectively. Our daughter is now 11 and I am still hopeful to meet a man who I can have another child with. I love children, always have. I looked after plenty of children when I was 11-16 before getting more formal employment as a waitress. As individuals we never know what challenges life will throw our way. It is a personal choice for each woman to have children, how many to have, with whom and when. So keep on dating bluemoonman - I am sure the right girl is out there looking for you too!

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Note to single parents.... Posted: 8/14/2009 2:23:04 PM
Always take some time for yourself. Never feel guilty for something everyone requires. Being a single parent comes with lots of challenges but even your child needs a little space from their parent. That way...everyone wins.

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Cambridge / Guelph / KW - Meet and Greet - Friday, Aug 14th - HORSE RACES - MOHAWK Posted: 8/14/2009 2:15:23 PM
It has been an insane week...going to have to do this another time. Have a great time though! I hope the horses come through for you! M.

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Cambridge / Guelph / KW - Meet and Greet - Friday, Aug 14th - HORSE RACES - MOHAWK Posted: 8/11/2009 11:36:42 AM
It has been a while since I have been to the races - but it is always fun. I am without a vehicle these days though...would someone be heading there from the Ottawa/River area in Kitchener?

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Robbed by Another Fish from this Pond! Posted: 7/11/2009 6:58:33 PM
lol...about your psychotherapy, that might be best enjoyed by you! My child is not small and helpless EITHER. Life is a journey with many learning experiences, the guy who robbed me will get his dues. AGAIN my daughter was not present!

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Robbed by Another Fish from this Pond! Posted: 6/28/2009 4:37:29 PM
Oh the lessons we live in life, each one leaves us wiser. Thanks to those of you who understood this post and for your positive advice and kind words. For those who felt good ripping a further strip of me - lol - hope you feel good about who you are and whatyou stand for. We all are humans, prone to errors. And - yip I made MISTAKES that I cannot erase. But, my life goes on and I WILL be sure to next time and avoid further negative situations and male indivduals who appear to lack the right morals reguardless of where I meet them.

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Robbed by Another Fish from this Pond! Posted: 6/28/2009 4:34:28 PM
Oh the lessons we live in life, each one leaves us wiser. Thnks to those of you who understood this post and fo your positive advice and kind words. For those who felt good ripping a further strip of me - lol - hope you feel good about who you are and whatyou stand for. We all are humans, prone to errors. And - yip I made MISTAKES that I cannot erase. But, my life goes on and I WILL be sure to next time and avoid further negative situations and male indivuals who appear to lack the right morals reguardless of where I meet them.

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Robbed by Another Fish from this Pond! Posted: 6/15/2009 12:27:15 PM
Oh my...AGAIN...my child was not here when this occurred....nor were we present the last time. Somewhere the point of this post was lost - so lets just call it a day. the end.

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Robbed by Another Fish from this Pond! Posted: 6/15/2009 11:44:27 AM
Sorry you got the impression I was blaming pof? Not really sure where you got that impression. I merely posted this to exemplify the experience I had. It is dam shame to see people on this site so negative and self-righteous. I am a teacher, certified in Primary/Junior education. At no point did I claim to know it ALL as a teacher. And as far as my daughter goes - excuse me for being a human being and mother who would like to enjoy life beyond a crappy marriage. Good luck in going forward...since apparently backward seems to be a favored position for so many fish in this pond!

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Robbed by Another Fish from this Pond! Posted: 6/14/2009 4:28:08 PM
In 2003 I started dating an old boyfriend who I knew. Or thought I knew. After seeing each other for some time he cleaned out my apartment one night while my daughter and I were at a movie. She was 5. He stole all of our cds and dvds, as it turned out he had fallen back into an old drug habit. But it is a time that neither of us will forget. After that I did pay attention to who I dated and their behaviour. However... I knew him. At least, I thought I did. Do I need to nail and bolt everthing I own to the floor and go around in this city wondering who wants to rip the gold cain off my neck for a few bucks? The purse and laundry money were in separate locations and taken at different times on the same date. Now...what do you suggest...

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Robbed by Another Fish from this Pond! Posted: 6/14/2009 3:59:57 PM
Ok - ladies and gentlemen - this is a first thread post for me, and oh how I wish it was for something positive. Unfortunately, it is not. I met up with an individual from this site who felt quite comfortable stealing every bit of cash I had in my purse. Furthermore, he then depleated my laundry funds of multiple quarters and loonies to zero before leaving my home. Do I need to run the plates of every man I meet from here on in to see if his word is worth anything? Or is the quality and moral values on this site going downhill so fast I should leave while I still have my bankcard in my possession? Is this happening to other women out there? Hello?

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Please review my profile Posted: 6/11/2009 10:03:16 AM
Just my opinion...and you did ask for an opinion: Your profile seems a lttle scattered. You need to write with conviction, sounds a little wishy washy if you know what I mean. Say it and mean it or do not put it down at all.... Oh...and the interest category...TOO MUCH....leave something to the time when someone actually messages you. And never be afraid to read other profiles to some ideas or to make some kind of connection to another fish in the pond yourself. IF YOU KEEP STANDING ON THE DOCK looking at the other fish YOU WILL NEVER CATCH A THING. GOOD LUCK...hope it helps...

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Dilemma skirted around? Posted: 6/3/2009 2:11:44 PM
Holly CRAP! Not sure us Canadians would make such a lot of fuss over such a post....cut to the chase and be up front with people! Communication, simple as it tends to be - is a factor so often overlooked. Do not assume either, since that can only lead to other problems! People are people.....human beings....we live...we learn....and we go on. it is a cold world where there is no love take a chance... you may be glad you did...

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Would you date a person with DISABLED CHILDREN? Posted: 5/21/2009 7:55:34 PM
We all have a purpose in life. I just wish, pray and hope that those who missed out on learning how to love and to be compassionate are soon immersed in it. Face it - we all need LOVE!! Everyone needs to be loved, and to love without limits is the greatest gift parents can give their children. It is a gift that will grow for many years to come.

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Would you date a person with DISABLED CHILDREN? Posted: 5/15/2009 5:10:28 PM
UNFORTUNATELY - Not even God can help selfish people.

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Would you date a person with DISABLED CHILDREN? Posted: 5/15/2009 10:51:02 AM
DID YOU EVER STOP TO THINK THAT IN MANY WAYS SHAPES AND FORMS WE ALL SUFFER FROM DISABILITIES. Too bad it takes a visable minority to point that out for you.... I broke my neck in 1986...life has not been easy - but hell ... nobody said it was gonna be either! Have A Good Life Eh!!

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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rude emails that spoil your POF experience Posted: 1/17/2009 6:08:02 AM
i feel the pig metre is an excellent idea...the only thing that is quite important before jumpingto conclusions on here are: 1. WHAT KINDA DAY IS IT....we all have good days...bad days and the kind....well I call them...me days. A me-day is a screw off day... i just need 2 do what I want, when I want, how I want......without some jackass stepping in and touching my shit. (no offense dad...u know i love u) 2. HAVE U DRIVEN A CHAIR LATELY....day - whoa....this is the kinda day u do notwanna talk 2me....that is....unless u love scarkissem ...that is sarcasim in my lingo and banter metre someties known as the wooden spoon lol of your own....right mom...and yes i respect and love you dearly for all you have taught me over the years. And ...yes the hard and fast rule does work best but have u ever considered patience 4more than 13 minutes...lol oops more info than i thought..... whenI write....I write from my heart....but i often wear a mask to hide my saddest moments. I will admit that i have been many ppl over the years....but for **** sakes....i am 40. do i know it all....well...maybe...some days at a given point...but i honestly believe we are all given what it is we can handle at the time it steps in front of you.... so if u cannot take what you see....SHUT YOUR DANGNAMIT EYE BALLS IF YOU DONOT LIKE WHAT U HEAR .....walk...roll...stroll...or just get another air space...oh offering each other the sign never hurts either. oit out works forthose who are not so coldandprickley basically....what i am saying here is.....please...can we just see the human element in each of us and realize that instead of acting like an....u know....what i mean....use this forum 2 get off yourchest what pisses u off unless u know the dude at the other end is notreallyrude.... just spouting off a little because they had a bad,sad,frustrated or yip maybe a day of mad-ness a.k.a. an angry day. We all express emotions...it is these that make us human...it is who we are....at least that is what we have been called4years. 2myfamily....that is allauout there each other 4cover spice up your lifewith someone or something u never did b4 never serves a purpose....in fact....it causes more dam age than u dummies know... so... yor ass off.... this has been written by me 4all2c...it is written in a variety of interesting mediumsand could probably stand as its own thread....but THATS NOT MY JOB - IALMAON PEOPLE...... comes in many forms....and the attends all the forums...so s rule and willalways be my guide sleep soundly....g2g....my dad just arrived and seriously i might loose all this if i donot hurry

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Has money, but you wouldn't know it. Posted: 1/15/2009 11:03:57 PM
Money can buy you more alone time in a grave than love ever can.... enjoy life....stressing over dust will kill u... always talkitout neverhurts2much is da best...most inexpensive drugz in global existantz :modhammer: wheneva possible work awe4some :angels: 2

Rare68modeL

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Top 10 reasons for using the F word... Posted: 12/30/2008 11:21:46 PM
#11- Does not take a f__-ing rocket scientist to figure that one out.

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Need a ride/accomodations Brampton Party Aug 12/06 Posted: 8/10/2006 12:37:59 PM
what time does the shuttle leave....lol

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Is it madness to attempt it? Posted: 8/10/2006 12:13:19 PM
Just do it....nothing ventured....nothing gained.....but be sure to grill that fish good b4 u leave every fish you know in your own pond. STARTING FRESH AIN'T 4 EVERYONE!

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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So confused, and need some help!!! Posted: 8/8/2006 10:20:11 AM
SELFISH, CONTROL FREAK....Married one once....still trying to rid myself of him. My error....a child with the freak! Best 200 lb i eva lost! LOL

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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So confused, and need some help!!! Posted: 8/8/2006 10:16:01 AM
MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!! What is with all the stupid questions!

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Figuring Out Men!!!..Help Please... Posted: 8/8/2006 10:13:17 AM
If he des not give you 100% from the get go....dump him and smile...believe me...he just ain't worth it! And....just for the record women pull the same crap...lol

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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No Strings Attached Sex... Why Is It So Popular? Posted: 8/3/2006 8:49:30 PM
SEX=GREAT STRESS RELIEF LOL ENJOYITBUTBESMARTABOUTIT FOREVERYOUNG!

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Hamilton Harbour Cruise-Friday August 18, 2006 Posted: 8/3/2006 6:49:34 PM
I go to court in the am this day...and will definately be in celebration mode! Would this cruise be wheelchair accessible?

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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I am dating a man who has a girlfriend HELP!!! Posted: 7/30/2006 5:43:51 PM
DITCH HIM NOW IF YOU HAVE RESPECT FOR YOURSELF. Otherwise...stop with the stupid questions eh....lol

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Whats your take on read deleted messages? Posted: 7/26/2006 2:44:40 PM
Personally....I do my best to give a respose to all. However, since I posted a pic my mailbox is soooooooo full I now know why I never posted a pic 2 begin with. I only have 24 hrs in a day....LOL

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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good bye Posted: 7/21/2006 12:36:35 AM
Sorry bout your luck....but nobody ever said finding someone worth your time was going 2b easy to locate...

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Much Older People Seeking Younger People. Posted: 7/13/2006 11:52:50 AM
To each their own. If you are happy...and having fun...who cares what anybody thinks. Make yourself happy first.

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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convincing someone to get much needed professional help Posted: 7/6/2006 8:35:28 AM
Look after YOU.....UNFORTUNATELY....some people require running into the same wall numerous times b4 they finally learn!

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Physically Deformed? Buy a nice car... Posted: 7/6/2006 8:29:33 AM
A B S O L U T E L Y . . . When you are hung up on what you don't have....you forget what you DO have!

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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What is Most Important in Life??? Posted: 7/6/2006 8:25:24 AM
B A L A N C E . . . Without it....we are all done.

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Do you believe that what goes around comes around? Posted: 7/6/2006 7:55:00 AM
T O T A L L Y ! ! ! jUST NOT FAST ENOUGH SOMETIMES...lol

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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dont know wha to do Posted: 7/5/2006 7:42:18 PM
LOSE HIM! He reminds my of the song lyrics....don't know what you've got till it's gone...snooze ya lose buddy. You deserve better. Never SETTLE FOR SLOPPY SECONDS. Enjoy life!

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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If the U.S. sucks, where should one move? Posted: 7/5/2006 1:07:44 AM
C A N A D A EH! Without a doubt! Amazing people...food, land and variety. we have lots to offer. The States pale next to Canada. Why do you think they got their greedy paws on Alaska when they had the chance? To be closer to us! Bush is just a puppet...lol. Or perhaps a lawn ornament....lol. Cannot/does not even write his own speeches. And they call him a president. Our government is pretty pathetic too. But I am still a proud Canadian. Changes are coming....but sometimes it'd be nice to hit the fast forward.

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Why do goodhearted people get rejected so much??? Posted: 7/5/2006 12:48:37 AM
Rejection is one way to see it. But....why punish yourself, you are making poor choices over and over again. Please learn from your past errors, Change your ways and spot the red flags as they go up. The rear view mirror is always clearer than that windshield in front of your face. Make no mistake here...I am warm, loving, giving and having a BLAST! I pray your choices become easier for you to make as well as see.

Intimissy

Joined: 6/5/2005

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Erotic story with a mytical twist Posted: 5/16/2006 8:58:36 PM
well written... I am no expert...but the seventh paragraph from the end needs a little touch up... Minor error....you will find it. keep those stories coming...ok!

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