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nawwww.. this isn't working for me Posted: 8/2/2007 5:41:59 PM
Sooooo true!!! I found myself in sort of a negative cycle for a while and believe me, nothing good happened. I never have thought I was really great looking, but I began to wonder if I was capable of scaring small children! Finally, I got out of my funk, adopted a kinder and gentler attitude toward myself and lo and behold guys actually seem to be interested in me! How cool! Nothing changed, other than my attitude! Makes a huge difference! I may never find "Mr Right" but I have found happiness with myself!

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nawwww.. this isn't working for me Posted: 8/2/2007 5:37:29 PM
Awwww...give it a chance. Just don't take things so seriously. Most of the folks I have meet here are pretty nice. I don't think I am desperate either, but it is really a convenient way to at least start to get to know someone. Sometimes it takes a LOT of looking to find the right person....on or off the internet!! Just relax and be open minded. Have fun fishing!

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why do alot of the guys at this site have a problem with dogs? Posted: 8/2/2007 5:29:49 PM
My dog is kind of like a good guy detector for me! If the dog doesn't like ya, then neither do I. Course I don't bring him on dates either!!

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Would you date someone who is mentally ill?????? Posted: 8/2/2007 5:27:43 PM
Maybe when I was younger, but not now. At 50 I have seen pretty much all the drama I can handle! Lol!! At this point in my life I am looking for someone who is physically, mentally, and emotionally healthy!

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How to choose between 2 men with a ray of certianty that your making the right choice? Posted: 7/19/2007 2:21:57 PM
Yikes!! Sounds to me like you aren't really sure about either one. Maybe you should just chill and take it day by day instead of having to deal with an either or choice! When your emotions are up in the air like this it is best to just stay still....think....take really good care of yourself and not make any major decisions!

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testimonials Posted: 2/12/2007 4:13:06 PM
I cannot seem to get to the testimonials that have been written about me. I went to the bottom of view profile and there is no icon to click on???? Would really like to see what they said about me.

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in love with someone i cant have Posted: 1/22/2007 4:57:37 PM
I am soooo sorry! In my experience being able to do the friend thing with someone you are really in love with just does not work! I tried it for 4 years and it caused me way too much pain. Now I just take each day one at a time and have promised myself to not see him anymore. It is extremely difficult, but being in love with someone who is unavailable is much worse.

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 11/27/2006 5:23:09 PM
Here is a little different story on the same subject. I chatted with a guy on line for maybe 2 or 3 weeks, then we talked on the phone for another week or so. We had a common interest in cycling and he seemed pretty knowledgable about different tours etc...I ask for a pic early on and when he didn't respond I didn't even think anything about it. So, we agreed to meet at the local mall for dinner. I arrived at the appointed time and waited and waited. After a half hour it suddenly dawned on me that it was possible that he could be anywhere watching me...he had seen my pic and I hadn't seen his. So long story short I got a little nervous and found a cop to walk me to my car. Well, when I got home there was a message from this person saying how sorry he was he wouldn't be able to make our date the following night. Just to be sure I hadn't made a mistake I looked thru our emails and sure enough I did have the right day and time. I emailed him of my suspicions...never heard from him again. What do you think??? Should I turn him in??? Maybe it was just an innocent mistake. He is still on site, checking his mail frequently. Anyway, my new rule is NEVER consider meeting someone without seeing a pic first. It may seem shallow, but better safe than sorry.

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