This sounds like a bunch of feminist bs.
Anyone who thinks it's harder for either of the genders is a little delusional.
I can't believe women are still pulling the whole "he got me pregnant and left me!" bs. I don't know a lot about the birds and the bees, but as far as I know a woman has to open her legs to get pregnant. I doubt she was complaining too much when the act happened. It's not cool to play the victim after.
Maybe women need to get over themselves, and realize that men are not the root of all evil.
My point was hardly feminist bull sh!t. Also, women don't "pull" something like "he got me pregnant and left me". It's many women's REALITY. In actuality, my point was to show the poster I responded to that men do not have the cornerstone on having been hurt or being shy. We all have been hurt.
Personally, I'm merely tired of being the one making the effort to contact men. It would be nice to see men make their interest known in ways other than stalking my profile. That action in itself is not "shy".
And your comments do not come across as grumpy so much as uncompassionate.