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Big Labia Lips On Women Posted: 11/3/2009 9:38:38 PM
While I didn't read all 5 pages I find it hard to believe no one mentioned that when women get turned on they also get engourged with blood in their genitals which causes the labia to swell.

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Advice please, profile review Posted: 11/2/2009 10:40:10 PM
This is not the place!

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Over the line? Was there a line? Posted: 10/7/2009 10:06:21 PM
How would you have felt if he asked you if you had ever been raped or had an abortion? If this is how you get to know someone I would suggest you throw your phone in the lake and learn to communicate like a human. Guess this is why I talk on my phone and have conversations that are important in person. Geez.....

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Child support... Posted: 9/7/2009 11:57:35 PM
If we are really talking about what is best for the child.... After reading this thread it is my concern that you are not mentally and physically capabile of raising a child and should give the child up to either the father or adoption. You need to do what is RIGHT for the CHILD.

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Men and their pictures!!!!!! Posted: 7/18/2009 9:06:26 PM
Because they are thinking with their southern head and their hormones are higher than their IQ. Immature for sure but at least they are advertising the fact so you know who to avoid!

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What makes you feel good on a first date? Posted: 7/8/2009 10:38:36 PM
I would say to be honest and try and be yourself but I know this is sometimes hard. I have also learned that you should go with your gut feelings, if something strikes you as strange you may being feed a line a bullshtt!

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Was i just passing the time???? Posted: 7/6/2009 6:21:19 PM
I just wonder how your going to get to know him better in the movies? Maybe he was out of town for the holiday weekend and wasn't interested in computer time while with family and/or friends.

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clueless Posted: 7/6/2009 5:48:19 PM
If you took the time to compose a decent readable statement then I would give you my input but I'm not going to even try to figure out want you question is. This isn't texting and your not looking to intelligent!

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ok guys i need your help!! Posted: 6/19/2009 2:55:36 PM
Please edit your post and add some punction, spelling corrections, etc. I can't figure out what you mean. You didn't put in a single period! If you want our feedback we need to know what your saying and not get a headache figuring it out!

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My fiance leaves my High and dry. Posted: 6/16/2009 10:21:35 AM
I think its a great thing your not married yet and I suggest you don't until your sexually compatible. Been there, done that, and it was not pretty. From reading your post it is painfully clear that he is dominate in the relationship and your well being is of little concern to him. Since your blue in the face from talking to him that just confirms he doesn't care what you need or want. It is only going to get worse and soon what the dog wants will be more important than you. If you don't like your feelings now just wait its going to get much much worse. Your allowing him to treat you as second class so get the hell out now and get your self respect back. If he were a suitable companion he would put your well being before his just like you are doing now. GET OUT, GET OUT, GET OUT. Your man is a selfish, inconsiderate boy.

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Nipple Size - What do guys prefer? Posted: 6/15/2009 3:35:45 PM
I prefer thin women, smaller breast, and yes smaller arealoa's too. This ranks just above shoe size in the priority list so while I have a preference its a moot point in the reality of my SO. Quit worrying about the small stuff!

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A Huge Informational Bombshell Posted: 6/15/2009 9:57:33 AM
He may just have been opening up to you about his past and not interested in anything else. You don't do anything other than talk to him because it is his issue and not yours. My guess is that nothing is broken and nothing needs to be fixed.

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My fiance leaves my High and dry. Posted: 6/15/2009 7:47:41 AM
This sounds like 'guy' hints that he is very unhappy and wishes you would leave. Since he doesn't want to communicate verbally I suggest you stop seeing him asap and not go back for any reason. This guys commication skills are primitive and its illegal to whack you in the head with a club so he is just going to treat you like crap until you leave.

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Why do guys hit? Posted: 6/4/2009 9:15:36 PM
Ever notice the common denominator is you? Why do you allow yourself to be the victim? Grow some self respect and raise your standards for guys you date . You are treated the way you allow people to treat you. Quit making the same mistakes over and over again. What a pity post. Where is that delete button?

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How do you take rejection? Posted: 6/3/2009 10:26:50 PM
I have enough self respect to not let other peoples actions hurt me. I control my emotions and understand the difference between really liking someone and being in love. Until I love someone they don't have the ability to hurt me so I just move on and consider it their loss.

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I need a man's opinion Posted: 6/3/2009 10:17:53 PM
He is married or already has a SO.

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Why do guys tell you one thing but lie about it Posted: 6/3/2009 10:11:03 PM
Maybe you should be talking about how your going to raise a child, pay the bills, etc. Do you or he have any idea what it takes to raise a well adjusted self supporting child? And by the way most smart people have a fomal committed relationship and think about these kind of things for a few years and don't just wake up one morning and decide to commit the next 18-25 years toward raising a child. Can he spell child support or 18 years? Your both being very immature and selfish and have not considered what kind of life your child will have.

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Looks Posted: 6/3/2009 9:04:54 PM
How many ways are you going to ask this question? This is your 3rd thread so I think your trolling.

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Am I a SHADY friend (I'm the other woman?)? Posted: 5/22/2009 7:50:22 PM
I think you need spelling and grammar lessions. I am not going to reply because if you were serious you would have written something we could read.

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Bravery... Posted: 5/20/2009 10:04:42 AM
His hormone level is higher than his IQ. If he had been serious about you he would have respect you. Most women would have just closed the IM and blocked him.

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Why?!?! Posted: 5/20/2009 9:20:42 AM
I wrote a nice reply but have now reviewed your profile and am deleting my thoughts. You are one piece of work!

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Will this guy ever get in contact with me? Posted: 5/15/2009 5:06:23 PM
Don't be so desperate. This guy is your pen pal. Long distance relationships are stupid, desperate, stupid, and desperate. Did I mention how dumb this whole thing is? I learned this before being 20 so start acting your age. MOVE ON with someone in your area!

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Yahoo or MSN??? Posted: 4/28/2009 9:28:10 PM
I have heard that a lot of guys just shoot over an unwanted pic of their lower brain on the IM of Yahoo or MSN so I would strongly suggest you keep your personal information to yourself until you know the guys well. This includes your phone number. You can block users here or even delete and recreate your profile a lot easier than you can recreate a new personal email. Better safe than sorry.

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What is she thinking? Posted: 4/27/2009 2:07:46 PM
If you want to have a relationship with this woman you need to make yourself unavailable and let her girlfriends pick up the pieces. Once she is over this guy ask her out as a date and don't fall back into the friend zone. Don't be cuddling, holding hands, or anything else with her because she is only concerned with her needs and not what is good for you. You may, in the long run, lose her but then she isn't in the role in your life that you want her to be now so nothing lost. Grow a pair and do the right thing now, you may be rewarded handsomely in the future.

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Topless photos!? Posted: 4/27/2009 8:57:40 AM
These are called torso pictures and the owner of this site has clearly stated that they are not allowed to the folks who approve new pictures. You can also report the image if you run into them. Just scroll to the bottom of the profile and click the Report xxxx button. Just select improper image option and state torso pic in the comments box. I wholly agree with the owner as he does not want trashy pictures.

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She took him to a funeral without my permission Posted: 4/26/2009 2:51:27 PM
I am 50 years old and have raised 3 kids and can tell you that having a 3 year old attending a funeral is not in the childs best interest. The child is not emotionally capable of understanding what is going on and your ex needs to understand that she needs to live by the court order. I say get an attorney and take her to court and get full custody. Maybe paying her attorney fees will help her understand that she is not Hitler and her decisions have to be paid for one way or the other. She does not appear to be making rational decisions and doesn't care what the court says. Start by documenting everything she does so that you will have it when you need it.

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Good Places to eat, and good places to take a date Posted: 4/26/2009 2:22:14 PM
I would suggest PRIMA140 just North of Oakview mall. It's just East of the Old Chicago at 144th & Center. Smaller and upscale with a real chief. Fine food, first class service, and very reasonable prices. Nice selection of beer and wines. Ranked one of the top 10 Omaha resturants by the Omaha World Herald.

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Making Me Your Favorite Posted: 4/24/2009 9:14:20 AM
You have a great picture and they probably just want to save it. If they are local and your interested I would send them an email. Guys get lots of no reply/rejects so your probablity of a favorable responce is much higher.

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how to prevent getting hard in bed with a woman? Posted: 4/20/2009 5:26:49 PM
Your 25, with a masters degree, and your asking something this crazy. Dude, roll over on top of her and drill her clit with your hard on. If she doesn't like that run like hell and don't get in bed with her again. This chick wants her cake and eat it too and the hell with you! Don't put yourself in these predicament and you won't have this problem.

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DSL still crawls like a worm Posted: 4/10/2009 1:30:19 PM
When I purchase anything I expect the person doing to work to be trained, competent, and able to provide the product or service that I purchased. I expect the meal I buy at a resturant to be cooked, the food I buy at the store to be safe, and the guy who changes my oil to put the filter and plug back. If the customer accepts incompetent service or products and doesn't do anything about it then its shame on him. When I don't feel I got what I pay for I don't cuss people out, I voice my concerns to people who can do something about it. Thats where this topic started. The issue was resolved yesterday and I have to eat crow here because I made a mistake and plugged the phone cable into the modems Phone jack instead of the Line jack. The phone support people asked me lots of questions about filters, whether I used the supplied phone line, patch cable, modem lights, etc but never which jack was the modens end of the phone line plugged into. Goofy thing, me being human..... Both the technician and I don't understand how I could have gotten any internet connection much less 3 meg download speed. Any of you DSL posters know how that happened? Thanks for everyones help.

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DSL still crawls like a worm Posted: 4/9/2009 1:32:03 PM
I haven't flipped out but I do plan to write the CTO of Qwest and ask him why I had to waste my time and why the first tech, that connected my service at my house, did not resolve the issue on the first visit and before it impacted the customer. In my line of work its called a root cause analysis and its a part of a continus process improvment life cycle. All software needs patches but if you look at why, you will find an issue with the design, development, or testing processes that need to be updated so you don't repeat the error. The payroll clerk glitched his entry into the payroll system. If he had paid attention to the fact that his tax deductions were way to low he could have had the issue resolved. Humans still make mistakes. In your reality please explain to me why the job was not done right the first time.

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DSL still crawls like a worm Posted: 4/9/2009 7:41:34 AM
tenaciousj...I am expect quality, maybe this is why I only buy Honda's and work in a profession that does allow low quality products or service. How would you like it if the payroll system your company uses didn't calculate your pay or taxes correctly? My bar is set a lot higher than yours and I am sure the exec's at Qwest have those same expectations.

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DSL still crawls like a worm Posted: 4/9/2009 7:35:36 AM
JimmyJoeJimBob sent me an email with some excellent ideas. Once I started talking with onshore help the communication issues were gone and a tech will be coming out this afternoon. Due to line issues the speed was being automatically slowed down so that less packet errors happen. More tomorrow.....

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DSL still crawls like a worm Posted: 4/7/2009 3:56:07 PM
I tested on XP via 100mbit NIC and XP via wireless.

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DSL still crawls like a worm Posted: 4/7/2009 3:53:49 PM
I did read the legal documents because I have never heard of anyone who got better speed out of DSL than cable but that is what they advertise. Your right, speeds are listed as "up to". I have 30 days from the date I ordered service to return everything and get my money back. I don't want to go back to COX unless that is the only way I can get close to 1 meg upload.

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DSL still crawls like a worm Posted: 4/6/2009 6:54:57 PM
I recently did a 6 month consulting gig out of state so I canceled all my Cox services since I was only coming home every couple of weeks for the weekend. Upon my return I saw an ad for Fiber Optic DSL. In reading the small print I saw that it was only fiber to the neighborhood but I decided to give it a try. Bad decision! Don't ever believe them. I purchased 7 meg download and 896k upload speed since I VPN to work and us Magicjack for all the long distance I do. Just finished installing it and completed 3 tests on speedtest.net. I am currently getting 2-3 meg download and barely over 100k upload. Qwest tech support, believe it or not, actually asked me if I had any background noise on the line! I was talking on a cell phone and just told her I didn't have home phone service, just DSL. End result was some BS about how some of the circuits may not be recongizing my level of service and to give it 24 hrs! Should I file a compliant with the State Attorney, FCC, or Better Business?

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Do nerves make the BS flow? Posted: 2/26/2009 12:49:23 PM
Games, games, games! Why is it the guys responsibility to carry the conversation?

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Did Obama do the walk Posted: 1/31/2009 7:09:10 PM
All Obama did is the tallk. Told everyone what they wanted to hear to get the vote but where is his record? The man didn't have the backbone to vote while he was a jr senator and all hes every done is talk about was change, change, change. Changing things is easy, fixing them is a completely different subject and all we know is the cool- aide he sold while he was a canadate. I have no expectations and for all the fools who voted for him I think they are going to be completely beside themselves very shortly. Why didn't he stop the auto and bank bails outs for his first change? If the airlines can go bankrupt then why can't the banks and car companys?

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Any advise on my little sexuality based issue? Posted: 1/27/2009 5:59:22 PM
I think you need to be slapped silly a few times because you can control yourself but it appears you were not raised to respect yourself or women. Total bullshit!

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did i misread? Posted: 1/26/2009 6:23:36 PM
Maybe he has a job to do and other responsibilities. Relax or you will drive him away. Not to many guys like a pushy, naggy woman. Your thinking WAY to much just go with the flow!

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Do you guys think this is fair? Posted: 1/23/2009 1:38:32 PM
First off your man is a selfish BOY and has many lessions in life yet to learn. I suggest you tell him that he must satisfy you BEFORE he can even take off his pants. This is not up for negatation or even discussion. If your going without, he needs to go without too. Your being taken advantage of and the way he treats you should never be stood for so grow a backbone and stand up for yourself. Your other option is to dump his sorry @ss and then find his replacement.

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One night stand...any chance he'll call? Posted: 1/22/2009 1:16:09 PM
You made it through law school so I think you can handle making a call. Where is it written the man makes the call? If you really like the guy and think he may be worth the long distance relationship you need to have an adult conversation now about how you want to proceed. Why leave the door open to having doubts later?

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flirty touching? Posted: 12/30/2008 10:42:49 AM
^^^^^^ Clueless!

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Hurting over the love of my best friend Posted: 12/30/2008 10:33:18 AM
Time to face the fact that you can't be friends with her and move on. Your just setting yourself up for heartache. Sometimes its tough to face the fact that it's a one sided relationship and you deserve better. Tell her your not capable of being only her friend and then step out of the picture. Let her figure out her feelings and if she decides she wants more than friendship she will let you know. Sometimes your too attracted to be just friends, doesn't make you any less of a man, just human. Been there, done that!

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You should not drink and text!! Guys perspective... Posted: 12/30/2008 9:08:29 AM
I have an idea! Why don't you use that phone and call him. It appears that you are not getting to see and talk to him as much as you would like and you need to find out if the two of you are on the same page. This game playing is for high school kids but your an adult and need to start acting and communicating like one. Be direct so he doesn't have to guess what you really mean.

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i like a guy and i think he likes me but its so hard to tell Posted: 12/19/2008 7:18:25 PM
Be safe and don't give the guy your address or let him pick you up. Meet somewhere were a number of people are. Just be careful and think about what your doing. If you have any doubts then don't do it. Lots of players tell you exactly what you want to hear so be careful.

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guys who have gfs but claim single Posted: 12/19/2008 7:12:42 PM
Since your 21 I'll take the 'ex' statement to mean ex-BF, not ex-spouse. Unless you had talked about only dating each other then you made some assumptions that were not true. I have known a number of people (male and female) that see more than one person at a time. For your own health, both mental and physical, you should discuss this and not make any assumptions again.

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Sex = Overrated Posted: 12/19/2008 4:46:57 PM
If you find the woman attractive and have an emotional connection with her then I say you need to go talk to the doctor. If your not on any medications then its not the frequency but the lack of desire that makes me think somethings wrong and it could effect a lot more than your sex drive and relationships. I am a life long runner and unless 6 miles is way way past your regular running distance it should not have any effect on your sex drive. I've run long (26.2 miles), hard (all under 7 minute pace) and often (70 miles a week) and it has never had any negative effect on my sex drive. I'm ready to go as fast as I can get a shower or if she wants to join me in the shower. And to top it off I am, as I have been told, older than dirt (50).

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Would You Step to the Plate if the Baby Wasn't Yours????? Posted: 12/16/2008 9:43:39 PM
I agree with pair o docs 100%. Your trying to make the ex the bad guy when your GF is the one who is responsible for this whole bad situation. I suggest you advise you GF to think of what is best for the child and put the baby up for adoption where it will have a better life with 2 parents who can afford both the time and money it takes to raise a child into a responsible adult.