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ElayneTrakand

Joined: 6/6/2005

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I have a question for the ladies??? Posted: 9/29/2006 12:06:44 PM
I agree. I admit, I would be quite upset at first if I saw that as well, or at least I would be questioning things a lot. but if he's a good guy, he likes you, and he's with YOU now, and not them (remember...she's an ex for a reason ), and as long as he doesn't begin to compare you to her, then you should trust him to remember the reasons for why that particular ex IS an ex.

ElayneTrakand

Joined: 6/6/2005

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Which is Better, Short or Long (LOL) Posted: 9/29/2006 11:40:47 AM
I agree with most people on here. (I realize this topic hasn't been active in a while...but I admit, the subject title caught my eye ) Anyway, I think that most women would prefer to hear in the message that you have actually read their profile--therefore a comment or two about something in her profile might be a good way to start--afterall something other than her picture has to speak to you, or else it just wouldn't be beneficial to talk to her at all... After that, maybe a comment/small paragraph or so about yourself, to peak her interest in you... After all, a girl will probably check your profile out anyway, but she would probably much rather comment on what you've said to her personally in a message, instead of what you've written for everyone to see in your profile... So, whatever you tell about yourself should maybe be a little unique or something. Then you can probably ask her questions... humour is always good, and I agree, it will make you very memorable! ....By the way, I agree, I like Ketchup better

ElayneTrakand

Joined: 6/6/2005

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Is it wrong for a Lady to be offended when called WOMAN? Posted: 4/8/2006 10:42:55 PM
I agree that it depends on the tone that is used. Sometimes, it can be used in the sense that you feel it is...I admit that I also feel that way sometimes, and will smack anyone that uses that tone with me. However, I have needlessly been called worse in my first relationship... for instance, "b!tch", "slu t", "wh ore", etc... all almost on a daily basis. Now THAT is what I call derogatory!

ElayneTrakand

Joined: 6/6/2005

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how to differenciate between love and infatuation? Posted: 10/1/2005 2:40:15 PM
Well, I agree that if you have to ask, then it's infatuation. But as to the difference? I feel that infatuation is basically wanting someone for a very personal, or more selfish reason. Love is wanting someone and not knowing why... and not caring. Also, it is wanting someone for a not so selfish reason, and you put more emphasis on that person whom you are in love with, than if you were just infatuated.

ElayneTrakand

Joined: 6/6/2005

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Should I Just Let It Go? Posted: 10/1/2005 2:03:00 PM
Well... I was in a similar type of situation about a year ago. I had just gotten out of a relationship (with tonnes of not very good experiences)... my self-confidence had crashed, and my outlook on males was not a positive one. My current boyfriend (who was at that time just a friend, of course) started to show he was interested in me just a few days after I was out of my previous relationship. I definitely wasn't ready at that point. He let me know that he was there for me, and that I only had to decide when I was ready. And then he stepped back and let me determine how our relationship stood. It took me what seemed like forever, but eventually he made me see that not all guys would treat me like my ex did, and that he actually cared... and thats when we started our relationship. It was still rocky at first, with my emotions and self-esteem, but we got through it together. All I can really suggest is that if he really is important to you, just be there for him...keep letting him know that you care... it's possible that it may take a while, but he could come around to you.

ElayneTrakand

Joined: 6/6/2005

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So I hadn't seen the guy I am dating for a couple of weeks AND.... Posted: 7/28/2005 11:32:26 AM
Who knows..it could quite possibly mean that he missed you and was making up for lost time. For instance, I saw my boyfriend for the first time in a month and a half this past weekend (Long distance relationships suck ) and when I did see him this weekend, it was amazing...more so than usual, really. So that could possibly be it with you, too.

ElayneTrakand

Joined: 6/6/2005

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Ladies, have you ever cum to the point of passing out? Posted: 7/28/2005 11:15:36 AM
What you do is bring the guy/girl close to orgasm, and then slow it down. Build it back up again, then just before the orgasm - stop and slow it down. Repeat a few times (between 5-8 times) and voila, you're lover will pass out...... Well that explains it...lol I've never passed out. But with my ex, he never could ACTUALLY get me to the point of orgasm, but he had come close at times and I've definitely felt the dizziness coming on before, with him.

ElayneTrakand

Joined: 6/6/2005

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Why do some women back away from fingers? Posted: 7/27/2005 6:39:13 AM
Well every woman is different... Some may feel self conscious of a man actually feeling down there with his hand... However, it really doesn't make sense to me, personally, if she would rather have sex right away instead of a little finger foreplay... That is odd... but as I said before, every woman is different and not always into the same things, sexually...

ElayneTrakand

Joined: 6/6/2005

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What sexual skills does a woman need to become a permanent keeper of her men? Posted: 7/27/2005 6:26:29 AM
It isn't really hard to find someone sexually compatible with u, it is hard to find someone who is compatible with u in all the other ways that makes sex even better. Friendship, humour, active outside the bedroom, and all the other things that make 2 people compatible. I completely agree.... I am only 20, and have only had 2 sexual partners... and one of them my ex just did not feel at all sexually compatible with me...nor was it very good with friendship, support, and so on...those are what makes everything so great in a relationship. My current boyfriend is sexually compatible, and showed me that sex can actually be fun....he also showed me that not all guys are complete ***holes, and he provided the friendship, support, and so on that I needed... (but hey, I'm a hopeless romantic sometimes lol)

ElayneTrakand

Joined: 6/6/2005

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Unwanted Attention Posted: 7/26/2005 10:32:10 PM
If I dress up for whatever reason, it's usually for myself, to make me feel good about my appearance. I don't usually ever dress up for anyone but myself... I admit, there are times when I want people to notice me, but only people that are already special to me, like friends or my boyfriend or something.

ElayneTrakand

Joined: 6/6/2005

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~ NAME YOUR FANTASY~ Posted: 7/26/2005 1:33:56 PM
I have a twin sister..

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