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dmc951

Joined: 12/19/2007

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When you find out its 3 years of lies how do you leave with dignity Posted: 10/26/2008 3:54:24 AM
You say remove yourself with dignity!!! If I read your post right He was the player....Your dignity will be tested if you from this point behave in an indignit way.

dmc951

Joined: 12/19/2007

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Meeting guys Posted: 10/26/2008 3:45:05 AM
Yep I agree post it on "ask a girl" well for me I have no Idea where you could met a man...

dmc951

Joined: 12/19/2007

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do men REALLY like girls with strong personalities and tomboys? Posted: 5/8/2008 1:15:48 AM
Strong yes...arrogant...No.

dmc951

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YOU come to ME Posted: 5/7/2008 12:52:19 PM
Welcome to the human race!!!! you look old enough to know when you start intereacting with other people no matter at what level you will get all sorts ie Good, Bad....A Con, a manipulator... Some will mean what they say Some will not...and so on!!! So don't sweat it..just put your criteria down and enjoy the ride!!! TIP for 2008 Just keep your wits about you....

dmc951

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Curvy Vs Slim Posted: 5/7/2008 3:07:06 AM
Straykatt....glad you cleared that up for everyone you ****...Cause OP was not asking for opinions??? or maybe OP was...So do what you do bro, but don't try and man up on here!!! and make like your all the biZZ...lol

dmc951

Joined: 12/19/2007

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Curvy Vs Slim Posted: 5/2/2008 9:37:28 PM
I like sporty....skin and bone no...a little curvy yes, but when it gets FAT forget it, phyically repulses me , I hate the self indulging lifestyle it represents as well....

dmc951

Joined: 12/19/2007

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Guys who listen to girly music. Posted: 4/18/2008 10:03:58 PM
So lets take that question for everything anyone listens too, owns, or does.....Some have said If you listen to this or that music your Gay or Weird, So we can say your Gay or weird if you drive a small car?, If you play chess and not football, you go to Fiji for a holiday and not climb Mt Everest? wake up to your stupid selfs!! these things dont define who you are...matter of fact they can be the opposite...for example a recent survey found that Men who eat crocadile or aligator in a resturant are more likely to suffer from a complex of some order....you know big car small****sorta thing and so on..so Im not sure where all this judging came from??? some of the meanest fighters I know, own cats, listen to country, and rock, and are not Gay! so man do what you do...and if someone judges you for it...It usually says more about THEM then you!!

dmc951

Joined: 12/19/2007

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Re inventing the world... Posted: 4/12/2008 1:11:42 AM
I started reading post on this site, mostly "Ask and Lady" And "Ask a Man" Now this post can realy be best understood by more mature readers only be cause you need some history behind you.........Anyway like I said since reading this post I realised that the young are asking the same Q's and having the same senarios that happen to each of us, sure some things change like the way we do things, but the way we treat or mistreat each other I see has not changed its just being experienced for the first time by the young, (I know this is logical) anyway same insucurities and all the rest... Then I started listerning to all things said ie NEWS, POLITICS, ect everything!! and started to realise that as generations go, I see that most of life is just being discovered again by the young, but not really CHANGING in the ways I have mentioned for me anyway it is mostly "Hound Dog Day".....Do an experiment try it most of us over 40yrs have noticed bits and pieces of history repeating its self, and the older the better.... but if you take the time listern to all the words everyone on any form of medium, all the promises the pollsys make ect you will see!!!.....and THIS IS WHY I BELIEVE THE NEXT GENERATIONS ALWAYS REPEAT OUR MISTAKES, because the current generation gets suckered by the same old shit that we fell for......Every generation by the law of nature starts all over again, with out all the knowledge of the elders....Wouldn't any leader be annoyed if all there listerners had 100yrs of life experiences to judge hes statements...

dmc951

Joined: 12/19/2007

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Honestly is this true........... Posted: 3/31/2008 6:21:07 PM
Their are a lot of happy couples that have sex and their relatiionship still grows respectfully, BUT I have to answer your Question with a Question.....Why is it that often a good looking guy picks up most Weekends and has (sex and dramas)......And the other which to my mind would be stable and loyal....Buuuuuut a little less attractive gets NONE most Weekends.......So maybe your getting what so many women search for, but rarely admit too!!!!...because if women pursued what you say you want.....honesty, loyalty, commitment, stablity and all that.....all the NERDS would be married....So go back to your romantic novels and stop whinging about your own choices...........Not that theres anything wrong with the type you choose, it just is your CHOICE!!

dmc951

Joined: 12/19/2007

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SEX!!!!!! Posted: 3/19/2008 4:36:42 PM
Now thats funny!! Ok I get it....It's too complicated a statement...lol ...You guys just don't read. One more time for the Dummies, read the post...and then if you don't get it read my last post!! and after this post if you don't get it...well thats ok, I understand...lol As for leeanne read points 1-3 again.....If someone is agreeing then there's nothing wrong....is there!!! As for the post sex and respect...Well I did not say having sex was disrespecting each other.... Anyway my next topic will be Big Bird, where I should expect a more of a depth of understanding......Just a foot note ABS Stats say 76% of women find sex unforfilling, 63% of women felt obligated to have sex for the first time...But hey what do I know. as much as it will be hard to do I will now give up on this post as it is getting boaring, but thankyou all because I have a better undersatnding of people now...lol!!!

dmc951

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SEX!!!!!! Posted: 3/19/2008 3:07:53 PM
Shit man I did not know how wrong I was in writing this you guys seem to have got it all worked out....lol. Hang on now am I saying sorry because I'm wrong...Or am I saying sorry that I miss judged your ability to understand my Q. as one post put it mmmm whats my Q..lol And as for some of the replies, so much for second guessing potential replies!!!!!!!! read points 1-3 before you reply. The context is not about sex, but how it is used as a barganing tool....And so there is no misunderstanding context does not mean the Title...

dmc951

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SEX!!!!!! Posted: 3/19/2008 4:40:16 AM
There is a joke here in Australia where a man visits a farm, finds the sheep there the most stupid creatures on earth....Go's into town and meets the people there, then has to go back and appoligise to the sheep!!!....Well I'm here to appoligise to the women out there that have felt pressure by men that the next level in a growing relationship is SEX....What a load of shit!! And I have the testostrone levels of 3 mexican bulls!!! and I don't see that as the "next step" what ever happened to emotionaly growing with your potential mate first...I read forums saying sex after 2 or 3 dates, yes generally driven by men how can you even say that in (general terms)....So to all those men "Wake up to your selves" and to the women get smarter...That seems to be the problem most of us treat relationships like a fast food outlet, we want satisfaction now!! And yes Sex is important in a relationship, but so are a 100 more aspects of one. How the hell are we going to teach our children respect when we can't even respect our selves or others And to save time for those forum police , 1) I put this topic in what I thought the best catogory. 2) If people just want sex then this topic does not apply. 3) No I'm not looking to raise my profile (not looking), Just have 3 sisters. 4) You ladies have the power don't fall for that "This is the only way I can express my love shit" !!

dmc951

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only seven? Posted: 3/16/2008 3:43:02 PM
You gotta be board girl!!!!!

dmc951

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my ex left me for my best friend Posted: 3/16/2008 4:31:23 AM
Why ask the Question, you've decided on your answer thats why you "block the sender" Why even ask a guy, you ladies often tell us your smarter..... Well yea!!! your to smart for for me Girl....

dmc951

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Do men Like Smart Women?? Posted: 3/15/2008 10:00:16 PM
OP... That is the inherent problem with sites like this...."Ask a Guy" because we can not ask ...Bill, or Jack or Jim, Dave and so on because each would have a different like for a lady, some may want to control or some may want to be challenged....(as some women want a take charge Man and some don't)... But you started right off by saying......" IT SEEMS TO ME THAT MEN ARE LOOKING FOR WOMEN WHO THEY CAN CONTROL"....well Bill may... but Jack may not and so on.........I Dave find ladies who are weak minded and who lack intelligence boaring......

dmc951

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Why look into a woman's eyes? Posted: 3/13/2008 10:59:48 PM
Man!!!!! only a chick could think that much about what comes reasonably natural to everyone. I look into there eyes everytime I see them in a car.....And most of us can figure out why I do that! lol.

dmc951

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Panties -little shorts, or thongs, visable or not? Posted: 3/11/2008 2:54:07 AM
Now for me to treat your Question with the Honesty it deserves......I really need you to send me a pic of you in both examples, and I will study both these pic's for as long as it take to give you my Honest opinion....lol....Waiting hopefully, Dave...XXXX

dmc951

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Being led on... Posted: 3/11/2008 1:53:19 AM
No one could say they know why he did not contact you and cancel, But I read some of the replies you have, and I agree them in terms of you gave statements that really don't need to be said. Like If he pushed "i'd kick hes ass"....NOW Don't judge a Man by past Men, what the hell is that!!! Most of us would kick ass if someone was pushy or played us....BUT we don't go around saying it, Thats just STUPID and PROVOKING!

dmc951

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Was this rude of me? Posted: 3/9/2008 12:35:02 AM
Nooooooooo!! not at all.

dmc951

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Brightly dyed hair: is it immature? Posted: 3/7/2008 10:47:51 PM
My occupation is a CAREER ADVISER, so I am Quailified to answer this Q....General rule is ber conservative as you enter the world of jobsearch, buuuuut on saying this, it is industry dependent. ie Fashion retail, Hair dressing, Fitness industry may look at your hair as a plus. But I would suggest cut your losses at first, to reduce the chance of employers pre- judging you ..

dmc951

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Explain this... Posted: 3/7/2008 5:10:04 PM
I WOULD BE MORE CONCERNED IF IT WAS HE "OWN CHILD" HE'S PARTNER BROUGHT TO HIM, AND HE DISMISSED IT AND DROOLED OVER A MOTORBIKE OUT SIDE......Women bond this way, and the common bond they have with child birth, men would generaly not have simular feelings if it was not there OWN.

dmc951

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Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 3/7/2008 5:00:07 PM
NOW I HAVE TO SAY THERE ARE DEGREES OF LOOKING......DO WE ALL AGREE? ....... LETS SEE WE DO LOOK AT OVERLY TALL PEOPLE, WOMEN LOOK AT EXTREAMLY ATTRACTIVE MEN, MEN LOOK AT EXTREAMLY ATRACTIVE WOMEN.....WELL YOU GET THE PICTURE!!!!!!!! NOW NONE OF US WERE THERE TO SEE THESE GUYS STARE AT YOU, BUT PEOPLE DO LOOK!!!, GOD HELP US IF THATS A PROBLEM FOR SOME, BUT IF THERE WAS AN................ OVERLY LONG UNCONFORTABLE MENTALY RAPING GAZE.... FAIR ENOUGH IT WAS RUDE.....SHIT I'M STARTING TO SOUND LIKE A CHARACTER ON SIENFELD!!!

dmc951

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When do you ask him to delet his profile? Posted: 3/6/2008 10:11:42 PM
I've always wondered how that works...You met a guy on this site, then ask a what to do question on this site, wow!!! Is it just me????

dmc951

Joined: 12/19/2007

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Do you look at the shoes? Posted: 3/6/2008 2:52:41 AM
Her SHOES!! No, but hey what ever rock his boat, I've also asked my mates here in AUZ at my own personal risk ...Your Question!!! just to do some research for you, and gotta say after asking several guys here we concluded that their would not be to many straight guys( in Auz anyway) that would look at a girls shoes..lol cause theres so much more to look at....So I reakon Gays would be more likely too...

dmc951

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Was this rude of me? Posted: 3/5/2008 12:32:45 AM
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!! you were not rude at all....Matter of fact I think he was rude, to make so many assumptions about your time..Now you have to ask your self am I going to be stupid and be lead around by this guy!!! I say this to both genders START STICKING UP FOR YOURSELVES (if you think someone is playing you then your proberly right)!!!!

dmc951

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No Drivers License and trying to meet a girl Posted: 3/3/2008 2:06:14 AM
Ontario.... What post are you on?????? OP did not ask for the new traffic laws, nor your opinion on them, maybe start another post for that one!!....So if you want another crack at the Question it was "No D/L and trying to meet a girl" try and answer that!!! and put away your traffic control hand book....

dmc951

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Sex alternatives.... Posted: 3/1/2008 12:35:33 AM
Now yes this seems and is a bit shallow but I use $$$$ to make those dry spells seem less fustrating!!! example Nov last year my ex was finally out and since then I've bought 2 motorbikes a convertable and large screen T/V, now I'm starting a new relationship and now too busy spending on her....lol But now I get in on!! If or when this ends will have to go and BUY more stuff...lol Hope this answers your Q on how some of us move through these times...

dmc951

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get jealous?? Posted: 2/29/2008 8:53:32 PM
Is he GAY?...cause if he is, he could be looking at you as another chick!!!lol and chicks can get jealous of other chicks....Other than that he's into you more than he is saying!

dmc951

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1st Date Expecting Dutch without discussing beforehand Posted: 2/24/2008 2:25:23 AM
Yea I agree, who ever asks has to pay! It's the same as if I offered someone a lift to work...then asked for half the fuel money when I got there!!! The thing I would say is that when you have a relationship going then consider spitting the bill ....

dmc951

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Jeans and a T-Shirt...: Cliche of Death! Posted: 2/23/2008 3:01:41 PM
It says that some people really look to deeply into everything!! No one is a expert on writing....I'm a practical guy so I would never come off sounding great cause i'm like a fish out of water when it comes to writing..Not like some of the english dictionary champions i've seen on this site, they could beat me up with a couple of words, so just keep this in mind, we are not all writing experts.

dmc951

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Dogs in the bed Posted: 2/23/2008 2:47:45 PM
I would not feel Intimidated at all...I just would not be in bed with her! (guess room) for me...I like the smell of clean sheets, and I am a ANIMAL LOVER!!!! but not in the bedroom.

dmc951

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Are too many favorites a turn off? Posted: 2/23/2008 2:44:09 PM
GOD I hope it's a turnoff.. lol Becuse if 67 on your favorites is a turnoff, then having Zero on mine must be a turn on?? lol,lol.

dmc951

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flaunting assetts. Posted: 2/23/2008 2:40:34 PM
I feel embarrassed for those guys...I can say this..... Anyone that promotes themselves with material worth is one example of "low selfesteem"! better you stay away and let mummy and daddy fix there esteem up or you will be trying all your life to fix it! and it will tire you out girl!!!

dmc951

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Compatibility vs Instant Chemistry? Posted: 2/23/2008 2:28:14 PM
I have not tested this, but I wonder if you asked men that are in different stages of there relationship ie 1 yr....5yrs....10yrs..25yrs..50+ and men that have separated this Question. I wonder how many different answers you would get??? Makes me wonder if any of us know for sure. Maybe at the end of our lives and we reflex on our success or lack off that we then may have the answer! and then you will only the answer that works for you!!!

dmc951

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Apologising to Aboriginal Australians Posted: 2/23/2008 2:15:45 PM
Yes I AGREE we should say sorry.... I don't believe that we are apologising for our mistakes, just like a president of a football club is not apologising for his, but a players misconduct. And we are not suppose to understand the importance of this word SORRY, it's not ment for US, so when i hear someone say I can't see how that will help! well thats why! Your not ment to understand. If saying sorry is recieved the way we hope then it's a small gift isn't it, and lets not forget how many wars and deaths have happened in the past because of our arrogantce.

dmc951

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Julia Gillard 2nd Sexiest Woman in Australia ? Posted: 2/23/2008 2:01:43 PM
Make no mistake, there are still men like me, that find Intelligence, SEXY!!! Also helps that shes Labor! lol.

dmc951

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simple question - do you believe in a god? Posted: 2/21/2008 10:51:58 AM
^^^^ libra star I have to say that I don't agree with everything you've said on your posts on this topic, but I truly believe it would be a better world if people thought with the depth and insite on issues as you obviously do! nice posts and a good read for me a day is never wasted if I increase my understanding. Just thought I would let you know.

dmc951

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simple question - do you believe in a god? Posted: 2/20/2008 10:26:51 PM
whitegold765.... Bla Bla Bla but the post was do you belive in GOD..lol start another post for that **** on buddhism.

dmc951

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simple question - do you believe in a god? Posted: 2/19/2008 11:39:20 AM
I don't believe in GOD, and if you think about it there areseveral major religons in the world, Christianity ... belief in Jesus Old and New Testaments (which different scripts) and I could go into the differences but for those who don't already know it has many, no matter what Christians say! Buddhism .... A shool of philosophy the East hasknown for centuries -- the teachings of Buddhism, Buddhist concepts such as zen,feng shui and yin-yang as well as meditation. Hinduism ... God is everything and everything is God. Apart from this single statement Hinduism is a remarkably diverse belief system. There's no single founder, and no central religous organization. Islam ... Islam or "submission to Allaha's will" founded in AD 622 by Muhammad who claimed to have received revelations from Allah and compiled them into the Quran.( Muslims are commandard to spend their lives in jihad (struggle). THEN there is Jehovah's ......Judaism ....Mormonism .....Scientology and a lage numer of smaller religous belief's..... Now not all these groups are right!!! many have to be wrong! Science has suggested that as Humans evloved our brains we needed to immagine and create answers for things and events we did not understand at the time...( We created God, God did not create us).

dmc951

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The Bucking of Heads Posted: 2/15/2008 6:12:58 AM
Here we go again....do you really think this insecure jealous behavour is just restricted to men!!!!

dmc951

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Signs a guy likes you Posted: 2/15/2008 6:09:17 AM
All you have to realise is most guys in the first instance think with there****, unfortunately it's hard to pick in the short term....for a lady your best to take your time with a man, because like I say to my sisters if he is bulshitting then he want be able to hide that for too long!!! and I don't mean hold off for a few weeks guys can bulshit for months so they can get layed! Now thats the most honest answers you will get...whether you like it or not!

dmc951

Joined: 12/19/2007

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We have never so much as kissed and its driving me crazy!!! Posted: 2/13/2008 12:45:59 AM
Isn't it funny. I was reading a post on a dating site last year and it was about a lady complaining, saying why can't men just be friends!!!!!! In other words this lady was complaining that because her friend a (guy) took a chance and did what is sometimes appropriate when two people get along, and that is to see if it can go to the next level....shes see this as a betrail on the friendship......HE MAY HAVE READ THIS POST!!! lol So why don't you take the chance.....and make the first move . But a tip for 2008, read all posts on the forums in the next couple of days! just in case!!! lol.

dmc951

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How do you feel about your own birthday? Posted: 2/11/2008 10:51:24 PM
You really need to visit a cancer ward!!! there are plenty people there that will trade you, get some prospective.

dmc951

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Valentine's Present Posted: 2/11/2008 10:47:34 PM
I would rather a new hand drill...But thats just me!

dmc951

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The Truth About Guys & Dogs Posted: 2/11/2008 1:38:00 AM
Get a parrot!! They live longer!~

dmc951

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How do you feel when you orgasm and he doesn't? Posted: 2/11/2008 1:35:20 AM
That's a good one bro!!! Who are you kidding...Her Before Him yea right!!! lol....Thats why there are toy's!!

dmc951

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What happened? Posted: 2/10/2008 2:59:59 AM
I don't know what conversations took place for you to believe there was more to this then just emails, and I Have also an served overseas as a soldier, and I can tell you and the other posts... that just because your a serving soldier does not mean your always doing the right thing when it comes to chicks. Now if you believe he lead you on then I can say there would be no reason to ask why because he could invent an answer!! And If you reflex and realise that you have over reacted, then don't contact him again. So in both cases my advise is Don't conact him!!!

dmc951

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still contacting his ex girlfriends? Posted: 2/9/2008 1:57:11 AM
If there are no Children involved with the ex....then there is no need to remain in contact!! But the real issue is not that there is contact with the ex or ex's because in some cases it's not a problem for the other partner... The real issue is he does not respect your feelings!!!! So lets look at what you have .....A relationship, wheres theres no respect! for you and he lies! to you, so I hope you've thought about why you still with him. Because to much importance is put on the phsyical looks and love and I could bet thats the reason most people put up with that!

dmc951

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That aweful time of the month :/ Posted: 2/8/2008 12:14:08 AM
OP, I nearly fell off my computer chair!!! when I read your post....A female actually considering the idea that "that time off the month" may affect us fellows in someway, Well a big THANKYOU to that one!!....And on saying this I will now Quit while I'm ahead!! Turn off my computer, lay down, Go to sleep, and wakeup hoping i did not dream that some where in this world a lady did ever contemplate the idea that PMS may impact on there mate.

dmc951

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How to let a guy know I am interested? Posted: 2/7/2008 12:34:17 AM
This was the same circumstance as myself it's almost scary!! so I can answer this one!! I was flirting with a girl at work that I liked ...And started flirting with other girls so not to make it to obvious to others, given it was a work environment. Anyway this does not have a pretty ending, but it does have a point..... long story short I asked her out for a coffie in a near by town her exact words were " I will pass on that, as my ex boyfriend lives there" now being a reasonable intelligent guy, I take that as a No! but my point is I would rather know, then die wondering! and I feel better because i'm not thinking anymore about is there or isn't there something. As for a easier way of asking well..... I just said to myself, asking the opposite sex out is normally healthy behavour.

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