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mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

Msg: 118 (view)

Would you give up sex for a 50-inch plasma TV? Posted: 4/25/2008 12:25:48 PM
I'm a female and so would. If you put porn on the damn tv....it's like real sex!!! LOL. Sorry had to go there! :)

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Looking for mr or miss right and finding a bunch of mr and miss wrong Posted: 4/24/2008 6:48:33 AM
I've been single for almost 6 months now. Honestly after my last relationship, I see myself being single for another 6 months to another 6 years. My ex really upped the anty for any other man to come in my life. Because he was such a low life, I have higher standards than I usually do and I won't falter until I have most of those needs met. I think that's what a lot of us have and why we are single to be honest. I don't want to be put in the same situation as I have been constantly in every relationship I've ever had, so now I'm very picky and choosy with the men I date, let alone someone I want to get into a relationship with. I'm not picky when it comes to looks, but as far as substance? Yeah, that is where most men fail with me. I know I have a lot to offer substance wise and I want a partner who can compliment that. So yeah I'll be single for a hot while! :)

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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dating and unemployment Posted: 4/17/2008 6:04:27 AM
OP...Employment first, fun later. Find a job so you can pay your bills, then worry about love. Basic survival has to come first! That's my opinion though!

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Do people really spend hundreds on a date? Posted: 4/16/2008 4:06:40 PM
Where can I find me one of these men?! LOL. Teasing. I'm lucky if I can get a date and let alone the offer to pay for my coffee...lol. So I've yet to meet a man like this. I can see this happening yes, but I've never had it happen to me!

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Why do people bash their ex's on dates? Posted: 4/16/2008 5:12:58 AM
Yeah I no longer bring up the ex, that's just something distasteful and well, don't look forward to a second date if you bring them up.... Lesson Learned for me. Keep mouth shut. lol. :) I think it's when we aren't over them, we discuss them while out with others, regardless of if we are on a date or not. Anyone who will listen is good enough. I'm with the OP....keep the ex, an ex and keep your mouth shut!

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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I Still CRY at Night ALONE!! Posted: 4/2/2008 12:12:43 PM
I'm there with you OP. I cry at night every so often because my queensize bed feels so lonely. But I hope that one day it will be filled. Right now I take the tears as a means to let out frustration every so often. Once it becomes a daily thing, something else is up.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

Msg: 125 (view)

What is it with girls in their 20s Posted: 3/27/2008 8:17:31 AM
Okay so science says that women mature before men do... but in experience, I find it quite the opposite... is it just me, or are more guys in their 20s into women who are older... and I know what you are thinking... the SEX factor right? nthn0011, I have no idea where you live but in my state men are going for girls in their late teens. I happen to be a sophisticated 24 year old woman that no one from Jersey wants to date. And honestly, hey, thats fine by me. More time for focusing on grad school and getting my first house. :) There are some very successful, ready to settle down females in your age group...we're just not bombshells. :) I happen to think I look "ok" but whatever! :) Just remember that the tables can always be turned!

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Sexual Desire Lost.. Posted: 3/25/2008 12:40:59 PM
Are you by chance on birth control? If so, what birth control are you on? Depending on the levels of harmones you are putting into your system, your libido can be truely affected. I had the same issue. They don't call it birth control for no reason! LOL. Not only does it block the egg from dropping....it also decreases the sex drive....some of them that is. Other than that, you could have internal conflict you are consciously unaware of and if this is the case, then you need to seek professional help.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Wearing Lingerie for no reason but to feel great for yourself! Posted: 3/25/2008 11:47:46 AM
I'm so wearing another set tonight. Hmmm...red or pink...decisions, decisions.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Mensa? anyone? Posted: 3/25/2008 11:46:10 AM
Mensa...agh. I don't know. My aunt belongs to it...she's smart all right...but the woman lacks common sense. I don't think I could date a man like her. Reading parenting books everytime her kid gets sick? WTF? Yeah common sense says...if your kid is sick...take it to the damn doctor...don't read 300 pages and let the kid sit in pain until you're done reading. OMG. And she thinks she's perfect. NO way could I deal with someone like this.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Short women... Posted: 3/25/2008 7:40:44 AM
I'm 4'8....sucks. I wish I could be 5'0 cause most men I know would rather have a woman that's 5'0 over a shorty any day.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Wearing Lingerie for no reason but to feel great for yourself! Posted: 3/25/2008 6:18:09 AM
LOL. I like your way of thought there... :)

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Wearing Lingerie for no reason but to feel great for yourself! Posted: 3/25/2008 5:43:16 AM
Blimey...know what's even better? When a man comes home with a nice piece of lingerie for his woman...without expecting her to wear it for him. Just as a "hey babe...feel sexy when you want...for yourself...then for me." The next bf I have (mind you that's if I ever have another) will have to buy me lingerie at fredricks hollywood.com....that's my new stipulation...screw flowers...I want one nice piece of lingerie a month! :)

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

Msg: 127 (view)

Hair pulling during doggystyle Posted: 3/24/2008 6:07:26 PM
OMG soo love when a guy does that! Pull my hair...make me feel "submissive and dirty"! :)

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Question regarding Removable Dancing Poles Posted: 3/24/2008 5:51:27 PM
Has anyone here invested in one? I was looking at them online. Just wondering if anyone has invested and if so, is it worth the investment? I'm definitely interested in owning one...but I don't want to put down the money for it, if it's a bad investment! Anyone?

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Wearing Lingerie for no reason but to feel great for yourself! Posted: 3/24/2008 5:38:18 PM
Thank you makenziem! :) Finally someone answered my forum! I'm looking for my open females! :) I happen to love black lace on myself...don't know why...:)

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Wearing Lingerie for no reason but to feel great for yourself! Posted: 3/24/2008 5:14:39 PM
Who else does this? I feel that wearing lingerie for myself is just as important as performing masterbation. Nothing wrong with making yourself feel sexy! Anyone else agree? What are your favorite colors on yourself?

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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does the single life get you down sometimes? Posted: 3/23/2008 4:18:30 PM
Absolutely. There are nights where I find myself crying myself to sleep. I'll watch a romantic comedy and start bawling, while thinking "Yeah...that's never going to be me". But then there are those nights where I'm like "agh thank god I get to go to the gym after work and not have to rush home to cook dinner for him". Or sharing a bathroom, buying food for him and not me, gaining the excess weight because he only eats fattening foods....etc. Oh and fighting over a video game because it is decreasing the amount of "intimacy" we have...yeah I like not having to deal with that. So while the loneliness does get to me, sometimes I like being alone.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Would you still go to nightclubs if you had a boyfriend/girlfriend? Posted: 3/22/2008 6:55:10 PM
OP, I would absolutely go out even while in a relationship! Everyone needs something to do outside of their relationship. It's healthy. Going out with my girls for a club night does not mean I'm going to go cheat while in a relationship. I would demand that my significant other go out with his boys as well. Hell I couldn't care less if my man went to a strip club as long as he didn't touch the strippers...and he came home to ME! He can get all worked up....and take that work up out on me! :) But he has to also know that I then am allowed to see the Chip n Dale's men. Relationships that work, are relationships where both parties have couple time and alone time. And clubbing with your guys or girls...is part of that alone time. It's healthy and natural. That's just my opinion though. P.S.- If you don't feel comfy with your partner going to these clubs...then you have trust issues and therefore shouldn't be in a relationship. Again my opinion.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Is being too indepent and strong a blessing or curse? Posted: 3/22/2008 6:48:12 PM
I've been used due to my "financial" independence so I'm a little more careful when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex in that department. I never really had a good role model of what kind of woman to become, being that my mother is on her fourth marriage? Her kind of love life is what I am trying to steer away from to be honest. That's why I pushed so hard to become the woman I am today. Getting my college degree, having a wonderful career with the government, and living on my own, is something my mother has never done. I find being independent a blessing. All of my girlfriends have NEVER lived on their own. Either they lived at home or with their boyfriends/roommates. I have. My sister has never lived alone (she's currently living with her boyfriend who supports her), same with my mother. Yes it's extremely lonely, but I love being independent. When it comes to men, I'm not looking for someone to be dependent on completely and I hope that if I ever get into another relationship he feels the same way. I'm looking for a 50/50 relationship...give and take. I've never had that my whole entire life. Being independent is a blessing because really, who can you truely depend on in this world? No one but yourself. As far as dealing with the opposite sex, aren't we all looking for the same thing? Someone to compliment us? Not complete us? That's my take on it at least. And now I'm sitting here thinking of that Destiny's Child song...."all my women who independent, throw your hands up at me....all my honeys who makin money...throw your hands up at me!" WOOO! LOL.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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How many bad dates before you give up dating for awhile? Posted: 3/22/2008 12:05:11 PM
How about not getting any dates to make you give up dating? That's the boat I am in. Though I know I have lots to offer a partner, it seems that no one wants to take even a date (chance) on me. So I'm at the point where I'm no longer bothering anymore. So it just doesn't take horrible dates....it also takes...getting no dates at all!

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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What professions are a turn off? Posted: 3/20/2008 8:58:42 PM
OMG you are my new best friend! :) LOL. Kick a$$! :) Hmmm...I could totally do that...there are more men to women in the gov't! LOL.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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What professions are a turn off? Posted: 3/20/2008 8:16:57 PM
Frau... No one wants to date me at this point! LOL. So you're right...who would want to date a government bean counter?! LOL.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Lost weight, starting getting more dates Posted: 3/20/2008 3:50:46 PM
I don't judge men on their weight or looks Dan. I'm a girl that LOVES substance. Give me a personality over a hot bod any day. My mans gotta have brains....not a body. :)

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Men who don't want to stay in touch with their ex girlfriend Posted: 3/20/2008 3:48:07 PM
God knows if my most current ex tried to be friends with me...I'd laugh and spit in his face. If he wants a friendship with me? He can write me a $1500 check. Cause that's what he owes me for being a lowlife user. Can't have a friendship without trust right? And after he used me for my money, how could I trust him?

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Lost weight, starting getting more dates Posted: 3/20/2008 3:34:47 PM
Honey...I'm NEVER going to be a 12. I'd settle for a 14-16. It's not even about the weight loss anymore. Its about my HEALTH. That's the problem with men...they see women as getting fit....as getting skinny. They don't associate the going to the gym or anything of that matter, as perhaps the girl is trying to actually get herself healthier. It's all about weightloss with you people. The 20lbs was more than just weightloss...it was a symbol of my HEART getting healthy. This wasn't about weightloss....this wasn't about getting dates (unlike the OP...who lost the weight for men...imo)....this was about me dealing with the death of my real father who passed away at the age of 60 from a massive heart attack. I've cut down the soft drinks...I drink brita water...I do protien shakes, wheat pasta, I lift weights, do the elipitcal for atleast 45 min each time I'm at the gym. It's about my HEALTH not about weightloss. God get that thru your skull! The 20lbs were great. And I wish more people would notice the weightloss....but my biggest thing? That this was about me focusing on my health. Yes in the state of NJ men like their true Jersey girls....which are gorgeous petite (as in skinny) women. I'm never going to be one. That's fine. Good riddance to dating I say. The one, if there really is "the one"....will love me regardless of my size....why? Because I have a HELL of a lot to offer besides my body. Perhaps thats what men need to realize? That women actually are worth more than just what their goods are? Hmm...ponder that thought... End rant.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Lost weight, starting getting more dates Posted: 3/20/2008 10:31:19 AM
Ave...I HATE FISH! the smell makes me nauseated! :(

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Lost weight, starting getting more dates Posted: 3/20/2008 10:30:47 AM
This is exactly right Miss Eyre. I've lost my 20lbs for myself...for my health. Not for men. My lack of self-esteem is due to constant rejection...not only from men, but my own family and friends. I've been teased since day one of my existance. This is not something that is easy....but with the therapist...things have gotten better. I am looking for a good natured man who knows a good natured woman who isn't privy to a rail thin chick being that I'll NEVER be a size 0. I'm happy with my 20lbs weight loss...I just wish others were too....but its ok. I'm still going for more...I want my heart healthy. :)

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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What professions are a turn off? Posted: 3/20/2008 8:14:50 AM
Agreed sweetk19 I'm an accountant for the DOD-Army. So god knows I don't want to date another accountant. I'm more prone to dating artists, teachers, counselors, musicians (which is an artist)...ooo and Nurses or Doctors...(my mom is a nurse...so I love the fact that there are no dull moments with her work life...!) I need someone on a more "creative" career line.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Lost weight, starting getting more dates Posted: 3/19/2008 8:14:24 PM
Poeticlover...I agree. I've lost 20lbs myself...and still nadda...perhaps its time I move to a diff state.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Lost weight, starting getting more dates Posted: 3/19/2008 6:00:53 PM
Go you. Unfortunately I've lost 20lbs myself and still...NOTHING! Perhaps its because I'm not a size 0? The 20lbs on me doesn't seem much to anyone on here...but it is to me. I've never lost this much weight in my life. I've tried...with no avail. I've done weight watchers, atkins, metabolife, etc. Right now I'm at the gym 4-5 days a week plus taking lepotpril....and i've finally lost the 20lbs. I'm not stopping...however even the 20lbs is not good enough. Ah well...must be a model!

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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outrageous expectations from online daters Posted: 3/19/2008 3:34:19 PM
Exactly cg! I'm 4'8...even PETITES are big length wise for me! But I'm a size 18...so this is possible.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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What is the big deal about meeting people in a bar/pub????? Posted: 3/19/2008 3:32:49 PM
Nordic, I switched my mail options. So mail away if you'd like. The problem with going to bars and having fun is that I'm the only single one in my group of friends. So it's between them choosing their mate or chilling with me for a night of the week (shouldn't be that hard since all of them LIVE with their mates)...however they choose their bfs. I go out 2 times a month. The rest of the time I'm studying for the GMAT, working, or going to the gym. I don't date cause well as you can see, being 4'8 and at a size 18, that kind of limits me in the dating pool. LOL. Ah well.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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outrageous expectations from online daters Posted: 3/19/2008 3:26:12 PM
catchinnj, Yeah I see what you are saying. I just hate it when men automatically assume because I'm big that I'm not active. I'm extremely active. I'm at the gym 4-5 days a week. On the eliptical itself for a good hour! I love hiking, camping, anything that gets me outdoors! :) I was born with bad genetics....I blame my father for that and I never let my mom live down the fact that she had to marry the guy and have kids with him (and yeah he's no longer in our lives they divorced when I was 8 aand he...died of a HEART ATTACK...3 years ago). I'm never going to be rail thin but I'm also never going to sit on my butt and do nothing all day either. I hate these pre-conceived notions that all overweight people are lazy. Some of us have been battling this bulge thing since birth. It's not easy. It's very damaging to one's self esteem and self worth. I've been on diets since 5? No thyroid problems...nothing. Just bad genetics. Some of us are constantly dealing with what we were given...

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

Msg: 36 (view)

Anybody just not interested in dating? Posted: 3/19/2008 10:50:01 AM
I'm interested in dating OP, however men aren't interested in dating me. So I've given up really, due to the lack of fish in my pond. I'm here to complain and moan like everyone else in the forums at this point, until someone actually wants to get to know me.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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What is the big deal about meeting people in a bar/pub????? Posted: 3/19/2008 10:41:39 AM
Nordic, Help me find a good man then...because obviously I have "use me" written all over my forehead.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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What is the big deal about meeting people in a bar/pub????? Posted: 3/19/2008 10:29:22 AM
Sweetie...I don't go to bars looking for men. I go to hang out with my girlfriends. Gossip if you will. And the dating bit? I'm so done with it. If a guy wants to date me, he'll get in touch with me...otherwise...I'm not putting myself out there anymore. The constant rejection I can no longer take.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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What is the big deal about meeting people in a bar/pub????? Posted: 3/19/2008 10:22:03 AM
I got picked up at the bar for the first time ever (and I'm 24) 2 weeks ago. That guy turned out to be a real "winner". Ended up that he just wanted a piece of a**. Kept saying he wanted to take me out on a date...then when I asked him if we were still on...he's no longer interested. Seems a guy needs at least 10 drinks in him to think I'm attractive. I will NEVER ever give my phone number out or flirt with another guy at the bar. Then again I never have the opportunity anyways. I'm the ugly one. LOL. But yeah...bars are not good for getting into serious relationships or dating. One night stands or a FWB is the only thing you'll get out of there!

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

Msg: 124 (view)

outrageous expectations from online daters Posted: 3/19/2008 6:20:16 AM
catchinnj... The funny thing is...I've never been one to be all about looks. I'm more of a personality person. Can you make me laugh? Can we have a conversation about politics without completely hating each other? Can you keep me in an intellectual conversation? Are we sexaully compatable? That's my expectations...which to me, is nothing compared to most people want.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Tired of being turned down Posted: 3/19/2008 5:47:56 AM
Jldude...you're a rarity, but never settle dear. Never settle. Some of us are stuck settling.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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I need help please Posted: 3/19/2008 5:34:58 AM
Just ask her. Plain and simple..."Hi...would you like to maybe go out for a coffee?" You're young... if you are rejected....well, that's life...it's one girl. You'll have plenty more where that came from. You more then likely will get a yes answer...because usually when a girl discusses her ex, its her way of trying to get you to say something to her about yourself...she's letting you know she's available and ready to move on. Though talking about the ex infront of a guy your interested in, is stupid in my opinion, but some girls do this. I'm guilty of it...did it when I was your age. Anyways, try. Ask, you shall receive...right?

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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outrageous expectations from online daters Posted: 3/19/2008 5:13:03 AM
I've quit the dating scene due to these outrageous expectations. I'm done. I'm here to listen and vent in the forums now. Men are too damn fickle nowadays. So not worth it. Tired of crying everynight because just when I think I'm a good catch and might have a date, the guy bounces. Done...totally freakin done. So OP, it seems online dating, meeting men in real life, and just plain putting myself out there, is just not worth it anymore. I'm out.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Tired of being turned down Posted: 3/19/2008 5:06:46 AM
wpg chick 84 My comment was directed to xChezbini, Sorry! But anyways, I've given up on the dating realm. I'm here just for the Forums at this point. Men are too fickle in my neck of the woods. If one actually wants something with me (more than just a FWB) he has to work for it. I'm done putting myself out there.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Alone too long?? Posted: 3/18/2008 7:16:51 PM
I'm officially done with dating Peachy. I've conceeded to the fact that there really is no one out there for me. I'll keep my personal up...but as far as putting myself out there and letting guys know I'm interested? Not happening. I'm done. I've cried myself to sleep too many nights. I can't do this anymore. I've lost 20lbs. Still nothing. I think the last time I had an actual date was December? Yeah I'm over it. I'm getting used to the fact that my life is bound to my career at this point. So don't feel bad...I'm there with you. At this point...if a guy is interested...he'd better show it. I'm done putting myself out there. Done with the constant rejection. I have low self-esteem to begin with and the constant rejection just makes it worse. It's no longer healthy for me. So I'm taking a very very very very very very long break. If somehow, there is a love in my future, I'd be surprised. But goodluck either way...just wanted to let you know...I'm there with you.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

Msg: 157 (view)

Ladies..How do you justify wearing high heels? Posted: 3/18/2008 3:59:04 PM
aitche...I'll totally give my goods to you! LOL. They get in the way....my back kills...and working out is a freakin killer with these things! I swear...boobs were something I wanted yes...but not this big! LOL. I'd take being 5 foot over having 40D's.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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when is a man in love? Posted: 3/18/2008 1:07:47 PM
Purple Tang Right on....god I wish I could have this again. Just not in my life's deck of cards apparently. Ah well.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

Msg: 155 (view)

Ladies..How do you justify wearing high heels? Posted: 3/18/2008 12:13:57 PM
I am 4'8...while on dates...I wear heels so I can manage to look like I'm 5 foot. Otherwise...I'm flat footed so I'd rather be in sneakers all day. However, I'm a professional so either nice flats or heels are what I wear. Get used to the pain after awhile...

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Is it cliche Posted: 3/18/2008 11:55:55 AM
God I'd be happy to just get a damn date! :) LOL....Flowers or the guy paying while we were out would be nice too...especially since I'm the one who always is the romantic and the one with the money. AGH! lol.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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Tired of being turned down Posted: 3/18/2008 11:51:34 AM
Um excuse me? I work out five days a week dear-the woman's gym. However losing weight is for me...not for men. And I'm NEVER EVER EVER going to be a size 0. I have accepted the fact that I'm big boned. That doesn't mean I eat fast food every day. Are you kidding me? I can't even go to Burger King or McDonalds without getting neauseated anymore. I eat the wheat pasta, I drink protein shakes, I take Lipitopril. Just because we are BBW's does NOT mean we are lazy and expect everyone to just accept us. It would be nice if people accepted others for who they really are...but that's not a reality in this superficial world. We were just stating that there is no love for bigger than a size 0-6 women out there ...no need to be nasty.

mushortgurl03

Joined: 12/20/2007

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outrageous expectations from online daters Posted: 3/18/2008 11:11:50 AM
zeppolino...at least you are honest with the fact that you are "spoiled". Not many men will admit to that...so kudos. As far as the updating pix bit. Everytime I'm out (which is every other week)...I usually bring my camera or cell phone with me so I'm always getting pics of me and either my friends or family. And once I'm home...I usually update my POF and other accounts with these new pics. I'm a person who understands that men are "physical" creatures and need to know exactly what you look like. Sux for me that I'm chunky...but hey...I know that I have a lot to offer someone.

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