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ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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Married. So Why Is My Home Not His Home? Posted: 9/13/2009 12:43:09 PM
I didn't read all the responses so if this has benn sed already, too bad.... Sell the house and move into an apartment. That will make the house issue go away.

ruckus123

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white collar woman, blue collar man. Posted: 9/13/2009 8:27:36 AM
Why worry about what other people think? If it works for the two of you then it shouldn't matter what side of the tracks you both come from. I don't see anything wrong with it.

ruckus123

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Long periods between contacts Posted: 9/13/2009 8:25:33 AM
If by "good relationship" you mean a f**k bud, then yes you should go with it or else you should stop. The way your "relationship" has been going is not good.

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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Is technology contributing to the rise of singles? Posted: 8/10/2009 11:16:39 AM
Too easy to find dates now so hardley anyone wants to put in much effort into making a relationship last. First problem and they run because they have a few other places they can run too. Before technology, you were basically stuck in a small are so you made due with what you had. Now you can meet people across the country or from other countries if you want.

ruckus123

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Is he cheating or not. Posted: 6/13/2009 10:38:00 AM
Sounds fishy to me.

ruckus123

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Ode To Billy Joe????? Posted: 5/24/2009 6:45:26 AM
Billy Joe had sex with a guy and that's why he jumped off the bridge. And he trew a stuffed animal or a doll off the bridge first.

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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Inappropriate ad on POF Posted: 5/16/2009 5:47:12 AM
Why blame a website because your S/O cheated on you? People cheated before there was the interent. Yes, it does make it a little easier but if someone is going to cheat, they would find a way. I don't think it's a web sites fault.

ruckus123

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what to make of this situation? Posted: 5/10/2009 7:34:48 PM
I think gonesailing' brain has gone sailing. You want OP to be a puppy dog?

ruckus123

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what to make of this situation? Posted: 5/10/2009 7:31:42 PM
let's see...first he didn't spend alot of time with you because he wasn't working and he was ashamed. Now he can't spend alot of time because he's working... Okay, so bottom line, he doesn;t want to spend a lot of time with you. Just when it's convient for him.

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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Friend in trouble Posted: 5/9/2009 6:23:10 AM
Duct tape can fix anything. Other than that, i would tell your mate to stay away from her unless he wants to constantly prove to her that he isn't cheating or talking to other women and yada yada yada. You can't fix her. she needs to fix herself.

ruckus123

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REALLY worried Posted: 4/18/2009 10:36:13 AM
my relative also pointed out that we share 50% of the same DNA with a chimpanzee...however there are some major differences...think Tell your relative that humans and chimps share around 95% of the same DNA.

ruckus123

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After the first date. Posted: 4/13/2009 6:43:14 PM
Do the popcorn trick while at the movies. If she doesn't run out screaming i think it would be safe to kiss her...

ruckus123

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Looks type Posted: 4/13/2009 6:38:47 PM
Is it true you can't post in Ask a Guy? You can't start a thread there if you are a guy but you can reply on it. Same thing for females on ask a girl.

ruckus123

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Looks type Posted: 4/13/2009 6:37:31 PM
We all have certain looks/types that we are attracted too.

ruckus123

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Omens, Spirituality, Law of Attraction? Posted: 4/13/2009 6:18:00 AM
Things just happen because they do but people have to put a reason as to why. It's like when you are thinking of a friend and the fone rings and it's the friend you were thinking of. You say WOW, that was weird and that sticks out in your mind. BUT, How many other times have you thought about that same friend and the phone didn't ring? Those times don't stand out because nothing happened.

ruckus123

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Did I ask too much? Posted: 4/13/2009 6:06:13 AM
You did the right thing. the marriage would have never worked.

ruckus123

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Do guys find short haired women less attractive? Posted: 4/12/2009 4:48:29 PM
Some look good with short hair, some look good with long hair and some look good bald. Wear your hair how you feel it looks best on you.

ruckus123

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Anklets Posted: 2/25/2009 9:43:52 AM
Id wear one. what's the big deal?

ruckus123

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Moving -- Keep what and get rid of what??? Posted: 2/22/2009 8:50:20 PM
Can a friend of your store the stuff in his/her basemnet till you decide what to do with it?

ruckus123

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Teledildonics/Cyberdildonics Posted: 2/22/2009 8:39:15 PM
I've herad of those a few years ago. I wouldn't use them. I guess we are getting closer and closer to the day when people don't even actually have to meet each other ever in person...

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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How Long To Get Over Your Breakup Posted: 2/20/2009 10:31:51 AM
It's always different. You can't put a lenght of time on it.

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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Major Development (I think) Posted: 2/20/2009 10:29:46 AM
Yes , that's his way of saying he LOVES you...

ruckus123

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Major emergency Posted: 2/20/2009 7:18:10 AM
Admit that everything was your fault and you will change and be her puppy dog. Then give her a leash and collar that she can put around your neck.

ruckus123

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go or no go Posted: 2/18/2009 7:27:39 AM
I don't think it's necessary to tell her why you backed off way back then. Whatever the reason of why she thinks you left doesn't matter to her because she's contacted you. she's over it. Me sez to GO for it.

ruckus123

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Men sending Men Valentine's cards? Posted: 2/15/2009 10:27:13 AM
He's Gay and you should stop reading his e-mails. I really don't think that you are getting his e-mails accidently.... It's not nice to spy....

ruckus123

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What Would You Do? Posted: 2/14/2009 12:19:18 PM
Trow the kid out.

ruckus123

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My very first bad experience on POF Posted: 2/5/2009 11:43:59 AM
Sorry got kicked off line before I could complete the post.......I was wondering if others had an experience similar to this and did you respond which may just be feeding into somone's ego or did you just let it go? If you got kicked off line before completeing your post, it wouldn't have posted at all... Wanna try a different excuse?

ruckus123

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I was recently addressed as Women! he did not seem to think it rude Posted: 2/2/2009 1:13:20 PM
Woman!!!... Get a sence of humor...

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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help Posted: 1/18/2009 2:18:59 PM
You don't "meet as friends" and have kissing involved. Hopefully her husband beats you to a bloody pulp. What good would that do? It takes two.Why blame the guy? And maybe the hubby should also be looking at himself and why his wife doesn't luv him anymore and is looking elsewhere.

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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OK HELP.......what do i do? Posted: 1/18/2009 10:58:59 AM
You are thinking way too much about her and what you should do. You have put her on such a high pedistal without knowing anything about her. You assume that she must be succeseful and that a "woman like her" is never single for too long. How do you know all that? And wtf is wrong with being a plumber? Go to the reunion and see how it goes when you talk to her and then decide if you should ask her out or not. You'll know if she is interested.

ruckus123

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This show called The Bachelor Posted: 1/18/2009 10:50:22 AM
I only watched the bachelor show when he was in Rome. I was in LUV with that one Italian girl that he didn't pick. Once she was off the show i stopped watching it because it basically is a dumb show. I can't remeber the Italian girls name. I think it started with an A.... does anyone remember? i Luvs her...

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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Asking a guy if he finds you attractive Posted: 1/18/2009 10:47:16 AM
He probably dumped you because he was tired of you being so negative about yourself. If he told you that you are beautiful then he thinks you are beautiful. Would he date someone he thought was ugly?

ruckus123

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What does it mean? Posted: 1/8/2009 5:52:26 PM
He might just be watching you to make sure that you aren't walking towards him. Seems to me he's not interested if he never gives you more than the friendly hello and hug.

ruckus123

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What does full-figured really mean? Posted: 1/6/2009 8:49:16 PM
Full Figured is the nice way of saying FAT because it makes FAT women feel like they aren't fat even though they are.

ruckus123

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Giving digits Posted: 12/14/2008 7:03:27 PM
When you question them like that, it shows that you have no confidence in yourself and that turns them off. I wouldn't question them and just give them the number.

ruckus123

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AM I IN OVER MY HEAD Posted: 12/14/2008 6:57:26 PM
i have no idea how she feels. we agreed to be friends and not cross the line of dating, her friendship means way to much. but i am afraid my feelings may be heading somewere they shouldnt be. You have no idea how she feels about you? Your quote should tell you how she feels. You agreed to be just friends and not date. She only sees you as a friend. Sounds like she is just using you for her emotionaly cuddling and back and feet massages. If she wanted more form you, she would have let you know. As soon as she meets someone she wants to date, she will be gone. Me thinks your feelings are going to get hurt.

ruckus123

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i hurt a friend Posted: 12/10/2008 6:40:15 PM
Never ever get inbetween a Friend and thier boyfriend. They will always believe him and your friendship will be doomed.

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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Dog Risks Life To save Fello Dog!! Posted: 12/4/2008 8:02:45 PM
What's the link to the Video? I wanna see it.

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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My brothers girlfriend Posted: 12/1/2008 5:18:36 PM
Just because someone cheats doesn't mean that they are a bad person. And besides, having an affair with her ex hubby isn't really cheating.

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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Did he fake sincerity? Posted: 11/30/2008 12:12:48 PM
Like i've always have said, If a person is going to dump you after they sleep with you, it doesn't matter how long you wait to sleep with him. That's why it's a good idea to sleep with him/her right away and if you get dumped, at least you haven't invested weeks or months of emotions....and if you don't get dumped, then you can at least have some comfort in thinking that this relationship might be going somewhere.

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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How should I approach him....? Posted: 11/29/2008 7:34:55 PM
Just because a person works in a certain profession does not make him/her a player....

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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How to say No to Sex but letting them know you are still interested but want to take your time Posted: 11/29/2008 7:32:31 PM
Tell them it's that time of the month...

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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JFK: Did Oswald do all the shooting? I say yes. How bout you? Posted: 11/26/2008 3:58:47 PM
He was shot from the front. That's why his head went backwards and his brains flew out the BACK of his head.

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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That's a big Rod! Posted: 11/26/2008 3:57:23 PM
I think it would implode on itself and blast your fingers off.

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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WHat should I do??? Posted: 11/24/2008 8:43:07 AM
Let him go... The poor guy already has one psycho woman in his life (his sons's mother), He doesn't need another one (you)....

ruckus123

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What I learned today Eeek! Posted: 11/13/2008 7:50:34 PM
Aids has been cured : http://news.aol.com/health/article/marrow-transplant-may-have-cured-aids/246178?icid=200100397x1213335673x1200787698

ruckus123

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Why do girls want to hug guys when greeting them? Posted: 11/10/2008 7:49:18 AM
women hug thier friends because it makes thier nipples feel good.

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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when is it too soon to menion.... Posted: 11/5/2008 5:14:15 PM
Buy tickets for the concert and give them to her. Maybe she'll ask you to go with her.

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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Your boyfriend LIKED your sister before you got together... Posted: 11/5/2008 5:12:41 PM
Make sure your sister is always drunk when she is around him. Problem solved.

ruckus123

Joined: 6/7/2005

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Identity theft. Posted: 11/3/2008 5:40:20 PM
Why were you checking his accounts after he was an EX Boyfriend? You should be prosecuted to the full extend of the law.

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