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Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 106 (view)

Is the number of acceptable places to approach women offline shrinking? Posted: 11/22/2009 8:11:23 PM
body language plays a big part in approaching if I see a bad vibe I'm not approaching but if I'm getting good vibes from that person they're smiling, waving or even a wink, I'm going to approach.. Lots of places to meet women. The only place that I can't approach women is at work, strict dating policy up in my head for it.

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 2601 (view)

Internet dating: sucks for guys, good for women. Posted: 11/22/2009 3:52:41 PM
I really hate to say it too, but you best bet is dating people outside POF too many picky ass judgmental people on here. But on the good side of things you will find some coo people on here that are not judgmental . Stay strong and get out there and sell yourself.

blk_archangel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 40 (view)

Playing the Posted: 11/22/2009 8:32:38 AM
the words I love you should not be used casually unless they mean it. Bad bad bad.

blk_archangel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 52 (view)

Breaking a Date...By Text Message Posted: 11/22/2009 8:30:04 AM
that's the worse way to break a date. It's called talking

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 505 (view)

I Don't Need A Man.., I very Independent..etc etc = RED Flags? Posted: 11/20/2009 10:21:03 PM
the " I don't need a man attitude " is going to cause her to be a miserable woman living with 9 cats in a lonely ass house, if she keeps that up. I believe she can change her attitude and is not necessarily a red flag.

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 1217 (view)

are women playing GOD when they become pregnant Posted: 11/20/2009 10:00:42 PM
It's worth the investment to get to know your partner before anything happens or have some fantastic sales skills to convince an emotional, scared woman of your point of view after she becomes pregnant. best advice I read on here

blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 113 (view)

Texting while on a date Posted: 11/16/2009 9:14:59 PM
People just love living off there phones too much. Any date that would text on the phone while we're on a date I'm walking out on her. If you can text in front of me in my face without a care about me, I'll walk out on her completely without a care also. Eye for an Eye

blk_archangel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 33 (view)

being ignored Posted: 11/13/2009 10:28:30 PM
being ignored is not always childish. I'd rather them ignore me than something bad come out there mouth to the point that I'd lash at them back. Some time outs are good and when both of you are calmer go back to it and calmly talk about it.

blk_archangel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 166 (view)

Have relationships made you bitter? Posted: 11/13/2009 9:49:33 PM
V my 2nd relationship was similar to your but not a marriage and I did the exact same thing as you did about taking a year off and more for me to heal and get better for me. Much Respect!

blk_archangel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 30 (view)

Are all expectations relationship killers? Posted: 11/13/2009 9:43:12 PM
unmet expectations = not compatible indeed. I've been there also and it's not going to get any better. Cut off the ties that bond and find someone else.

blk_archangel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 37 (view)

What's the difference between affectionate and clingy? Posted: 11/12/2009 5:57:42 PM
what Landra said Affectionate: Naturally Caring Clingy: always has the need to need you there all the time.

blk_archangel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 280 (view)

Why some men never want marry? Posted: 11/12/2009 5:23:12 PM
To each there own reason some guys will settle down and some will not. But someday I would like to settle down with the RIGHT COMPATIBLE Lady.

blk_archangel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 122 (view)

Must have car and job=gold digger? Posted: 11/12/2009 5:10:26 PM
~the Rock Man~ I agree with you on this big time. It becomes wrong when people start going on a tip about it demanding it when they themselves don't have it. So they want the next person to get it. That's just wrong. On the side. I have both a job and car and I didn't get these things because people require me to have them. I got them because I NEED THEM for me not for anyone else to tell me what to do.

blk_archangel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 163 (view)

Have relationships made you bitter? Posted: 11/12/2009 4:49:08 PM
yeah I'm not going to lie I have been bitter about online dating and my last relationship (way back) also made me bitter as well. But we gotta learn to put our bitterness aside and keep going on going after what we really want or else bitterness is going to run you dry. Don't settle for less and keep fighting.

blk_archangel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 345 (view)

are women playing GOD when they become pregnant Posted: 11/12/2009 4:45:52 PM
God is God of all children remember that. People seem to forget that when they have babies they're not yours, there God's. God can give life or take a life away and people better recognize. If people are going about being cruel like that they should never have kids. It sickens me when people do these kinda things.

blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 122 (view)

COWARD ! - The Ignoring Game Posted: 10/30/2009 10:11:27 PM
remember what you reap is what you sow.

blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 95 (view)

how come women initiate the breakup 80% of the time? Posted: 10/30/2009 2:13:25 PM
Hey ! It was all good , until SOMEBODY Ate that apple ! ... let's not go there, cuz we men also ate the apple that she took a bite out of too. So we're all ****ed by our own disobedience . The End!

blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 101 (view)

COWARD ! - The Ignoring Game Posted: 10/30/2009 1:54:59 PM
don't be too full of yourselves females, you all do it too just like men do.

blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

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I m still confused with my ex's decision Posted: 10/30/2009 1:53:26 PM
with people like that it's never enough to satisfy them. Know your self worth and the get the **** outta the situation with that thinking about why it didn't work out and don't be caught up in him. You will find someone better, I hope you will find someone better that will respect you and appreciate you.

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 94 (view)

Would you date a women bigger and more muscular then you? Posted: 10/21/2009 4:55:27 PM
yes I would date a female bigger and muscular but stronger we'll see about that :-p. But on the real I would like to date a female that is athletic that is on my level cuz we can always challenge each other to be stronger people. The fun would never stop :-)

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 434 (view)

Adults living at home with Mom and Dad Posted: 10/18/2009 6:30:23 PM
joybrown- in a situation like that he robbing his parents and not helping them, I can understand where your coming from. I don't have respect for people like that who do not bring anything to the table to help out there parents, even if you do move out at least give back to the people that raised you. That man's just plain ungrateful .

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 74 (view)

A Twist on EXPECTING Sex by the 3 rd date. Would You Date Her/Him ? Posted: 10/17/2009 4:16:12 PM
expecting sex on the 3rd date. Not happening some people have a lot of self respect than to quickly jump onto sex right away. Patience

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 93 (view)

That's WHY It's Called Sex Appeal Posted: 10/14/2009 7:27:42 PM
pirateheaven nailed it. It's always a choice you chose. Saves a load of time.

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 270 (view)

Is this enough to ditch her? Posted: 10/12/2009 2:12:14 PM
leave the situation if it comes to the point where you lost attraction +plus respect for her. Leave

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 46 (view)

Her busy Schedule Posted: 10/12/2009 4:23:03 AM
I give chances and if it's not working out I the hell outta there

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 38 (view)

NICE does not = WIMP Posted: 10/11/2009 5:43:24 PM
another nice guy vs bad ass thread? here we go

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

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Seriously Why would you give head on a first date then ignore calls the day after. Posted: 10/11/2009 5:16:04 PM
**** her OP and move on to someone better and this time don't give up sex to her so quick let her work for it.

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

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Gving up on this whole idea.. Posted: 10/11/2009 5:01:37 PM
I dated on and off here and ya know what it's almost the same as dating out there in the real world. You'll come across picky people and all sorts. Even if you get weary of dating take some time off from it and focus on you ( in that time is better ) and when your ready to date get back into it.

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 45 (view)

Her busy Schedule Posted: 10/11/2009 4:53:47 PM
you just proved my point. Exactly my point. I know, people have to do upfront work for them to matter it's between the daters. But like I said before if they matter they will make time.

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 23 (view)

Meeting a girl for the first time in real life... Posted: 10/10/2009 7:59:04 PM
I'd let her feel me out first weather she wants to hug or kiss and just go with it.

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 20 (view)

Is it ever okay to resort to violence? Posted: 10/10/2009 7:57:50 PM
it's never okay to resort to violence. I'd expect it in video games but not in the real world.

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 31 (view)

Her busy Schedule Posted: 10/10/2009 7:53:56 PM
if you matter to them they will make time for you.

Driving_Force7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 33 (view)

Is it ok to date the friend of an ex Posted: 9/18/2009 7:19:38 PM
a friend of an ex yes. but date my friend's ex not a chance in hell.

Driving_Force7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 59 (view)

I find this site disheartening.... Posted: 9/17/2009 8:02:23 PM
this is one of the reasons why I temporally stopped online dating cuz I was getting weary of it and just start taking dating offline and in person and putting myself out there. Got 2 offline dates for next week not bad :-)

Driving_Force7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 411 (view)

Guys don't want to be just friends, but girls do, why is that? Posted: 9/17/2009 7:50:44 PM
then you know what guys either make your intentions known and if she's not interested move on to someone that wants what you want and stop wasting time with the females that just want friendship

Driving_Force7

Joined: 12/21/2007

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Women who try to come back after shutting you out Posted: 9/17/2009 7:48:11 PM
any woman that shuts me out does not get a 2nd chance of love with me. She just doesn't know how to act right.

Driving_Force7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 46 (view)

Boyfriend wants a break..Help! Posted: 9/17/2009 7:27:34 PM
get the hell outta there. Any female that mentions that they want a break is done as a well done steak in my books. If they care about you they would have said I need space instead of the word break.

Driving_Force7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 89 (view)

Should I Be Able to Accept My Husband Smoking Pot? Posted: 9/15/2009 5:15:39 PM
stick to your guns op he made his choice and chose pot. Take care of you.

Driving_Force7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 46 (view)

When You Move In With A Debater Posted: 9/15/2009 4:51:01 PM
People like that I would spit in both their eyes just to blind them. I dealt with people like that at work and we do not get along well.

Driving_Force7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 417 (view)

Adults living at home with Mom and Dad Posted: 9/15/2009 4:38:49 PM
Mooching is where I draw the line. No one that lives in there parents house should not be mooching, they're asses need to go get a JOB and be independent. Glad I'm moving out next year!

Driving_Force7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 256 (view)

Is this enough to ditch her? Posted: 9/15/2009 4:32:44 PM
either respect her choice or break up with her and go out with someone else

Driving_Force7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 161 (view)

Do women think about sex as much as men? Posted: 9/15/2009 4:30:12 PM
yes they just pretend to be all angelic about it :-p

Driving_Force7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 102 (view)

So many young divorces Posted: 9/7/2009 8:20:46 PM
why divorces are is hot is cuz the hardness of our hearts and bad judgment.

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 80 (view)

Do Cheaters Regret or Reform Posted: 8/14/2009 10:10:38 PM
I don't believe that cheaters will ever reform once a cheat always a cheat. They will never change. If they're not satisfied they'll do whatever it take for them to feel good for themselves.

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 47 (view)

Just Joking Posted: 8/14/2009 10:04:23 PM
I would let them know that what they did offended me and to stop or the next time I won't be so nice about telling them off.

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 17 (view)

The second date Posted: 8/14/2009 6:59:10 PM
good times op! I'm glad you enjoyed it I hope things get even more better for both of you.

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

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First message good, then no second message?? Posted: 8/14/2009 6:50:01 PM
when they stop talking to you it means move on to the next and stop wasting time with the " has been "and go for the " potential person "

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

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Claim they want a relationship, but are serial daters???? Posted: 8/14/2009 6:01:48 PM
One thing I do know when people are interested is nothing you can say or do is going to keep them away. When they're not interested nothing you can say or do is going to make them stay.

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

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what can i do to become more attractive Posted: 8/14/2009 3:05:29 PM
concentrate on you and do the things you enjoy or you want to accomplish. Don't get your validation from people get it from yourself.

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007

Msg: 125 (view)

havng piercing and dressing like a teenager in your forties, is that ok? Posted: 8/13/2009 5:31:16 PM
different stroke for different folks. To each there own.

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