I sometimes get the impression that if given the choice of one out of ten men, most women would get more pleasure out of telling nine men why they wern't good enough for her, then being with the one who was choosen....

On the subject of Mr Average vs Mr Millionair well maybe Ms average should tell us all why she thinks she's so much better then Mr Average....

Without wishing to be unfriendly or insulting, I have viewed enough profiles to come to the conclusion they are not exactly trying (and therefor don't know)...Or is it they are so conceited they think they don't need to? Personaly I think it's the former not the latter.

I can just pluck up the courage and send a message to the object of my desires...

I'm sick of getting mail from the ugliest old cows on earth

Over weight
Drunk
Ugly
And most of all desperate...
No blondes though even I have standards....

I see lots of references from men expressing concern about baldness, in their profiles and in their posts. I rarely notice any comments from women.

Personally it doesn't matter a damn to me if a guy is bald. In fact some guys look very sexy bald.

Is it just me?

Ladies does it bother you?

Guys, come on tell us, is it a real issue for you, do you think we care?

I see various comments from shallow, ugly people who seem to think that baldness is something to be mocked. Well, most people have no control over their hair loss, in the same way that the mockers have no control over their looks. They do, however, have control over their personality, yet they choose to remain ugly inside.

so there is no need for any sarcasm.

i think that for many people their lack of dates comes down to a mixture of things, the main one being unrealistic expectations and the other, dare i say it, being linked to an inability to control one's own weight

why is it that all the folks that want to parade round naked have the most horrible bodies ?!

can you ladies blame me, and guys like me, for not always wanting to jump into relationships like the ones i have stereotyped here?

I was young when I started my long term relationship, so I didn’t do a lot of things in my 20s that would be considered the norm.

Provide the comment where I claimed that it isn't, and we'll discuss...

I will never say "it is not music" simply because I do not personally enjoy it.

God, I do! Yes, a track might technically be 'music', but that's like claiming a pile of bricks to be 'art'. Some people even consider 'silence' to be 'music'..

but that's like claiming a pile of bricks to be 'art'

i certainly aint desperate to have a woman in my life, i dont need sex at all.

i used to miss the hugs and the cuddles and the holding hands but i certainly dont miss the tantrums, the arguments and all the heartache that comes with a relationship.

A firm hand with a rowdy girl does her a lot of good.

Are you sure that they are thinking what you are thinking? The case may be that they aren't thinking about you, but thinking about another person whilst they let you think that they are thinking about what you think they are thinking about...

Or that its just a simple con...a game that ladies play to ensure that they have someone to turn to if things don't work out.

im always checking out the younger, better looking, slimer, cuter, sexier shop assistant.

At the end of the day it is down to your lifestyle and your skin treatment regime that dictates how you age.

that 'cuts both ways'.

Sleeping with someone else only makes them 2 minutes late?

I have a feeling almost all the women on here will say they have slim thighs

I listed aardvark polishing as an interest on another site. Strangely, nobody even mentioned it.