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stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

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I think it is rude to. Posted: 5/7/2009 2:43:08 PM
I think most honest people have had situations like this before. In my lingo, I call it the WHA HAPPEN?!?!?! situation. I was in what I thought was turning out to be a really good relationship a couple of years ago, it wasn't perfect but it was becoming something good, and next thing you know she just up and left, no phone calls, no e-mails, no thank-yous for all the dinners, nothing. She just finished her year in University and just flew back to the States. I know the obvious answer is to stop dwelling on the past, and what was meant to be was meant to be, but it is tough when someone just leaves you hanging without an explanation leaving you clueless, especially when you feel like your a good person and haven't done anything wrong for it to just stop. Whether it's a book I read, a movie I watched, or even a relationship, I'm not a fan of cliff-hangers, so I agree with what your point is about. I like knowing the reasons and learning from them rather than letting it slide, but you know what if that's how it is, so be it. Most women out there aren't like that, so we pay attention to seek them out in the future.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

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Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters! Posted: 5/7/2009 9:47:26 AM
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I'm going to sue you! Why?? FOR TRICKING ME INTO HAVING SEX WITH YOU!! This thread just made my day

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

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Men who refuse to date women thier own age an older.why? Posted: 5/7/2009 9:34:13 AM
Me personally I don't care about age, but lately the ones who have been drawn to me have been younger. I'm 32 and my recent relationships have been with 21-23. And sure it's great to know that girls of younger age are still attracted to me, but reasons for hitting it off had nothing to do with age. The one who was 21 could have been 40 and I would still look at her the same way. IMO I think when you reach 20, you are physically and mentally ready to make your own decisions on your preferences and who you prefer to be with. One thing I can't stand hearing is this whole experience thing like I prefer someone my age because we get along more intelectually cut the crap people. I do not judge a person's knowledge based on their age, that's rediculous. I work at an environment with many guys and girls of a younger age, and half the time i'm picking up by their knowledge and intelligence more than I'm teaching them my own. Plus I feel like I get along with girls of a younger age these days than I have with crowd I grew up with years ago, whether it be personality, taste and style.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

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Why do players do what they do? Posted: 3/12/2009 11:34:58 PM
I've been called a player before, and it annoys the hell out of me. Maybe I wasn't interested in them emotionally, they weren't my type to communicate with daily, but I'm sorry if they still had a great body a cute face, and offered or decided to have a night with me, why on earth would I say "No"??? That is wrong. I will never back down on an opportunity. How about this, instead of women feeling angry and insulting on an actual player, maybe you shouldn't offer us the opportunities to indulge, or maybe you should just say no when offered. Don't blame certain guys for leaving after the sex, we're just real guys. Mind you my goal is to find the one that is all I need and care for as a friend and a partner, but you can't blame me "playing". Especially when the opportunities look too damn good to resist. And as for sleeping around, the only types of people I dissagree with, and I find apaulling, or those who will sleep with anything that has a pulse and two legs. Now that is wrong.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 136 (view)

What's one thing you loved/love/miss about your ex? Posted: 1/29/2009 3:58:27 PM
The little sounds she would make just by hugging and making out with her, were absolutely adorable.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 98 (view)

Who lies better--men or women? Posted: 8/1/2008 11:34:05 PM
Us guys are much better liars, but women are much better at keeping secrets

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 178 (view)

Is This Considered Cheating ??? Posted: 7/28/2008 2:44:32 PM
This reminds me of a line Adam Sandler gave in one of his songs a long time ago quoting..... Pretend I'm the Pizza Boy, and WATCH ME WACK OFF!!!! good times. But seriously, though I don't consider this to be cheating, these two still sound like a couple of sad individuals.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 153 (view)

Is This Considered Cheating ??? Posted: 7/28/2008 1:00:25 AM
I don't consider this situation as cheating, but I do believe that both losers should get a life.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 37 (view)

how do you become okay with not being number 1 Posted: 7/11/2008 10:54:43 PM
There are relationships, careers, and many being a parent. Sure all need there time, but neither three are comparable to eachother. An average person wants to succeed in their career, wants a great relationship, and maybe down the line wants to have children, or currently have children and want to be solid parent. In a way you can't put one over the other, because we all want to succeed in having all three in the end.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

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Open relationships all around? Posted: 7/11/2008 10:48:35 PM
Hells NO, to each there own, but I will not share and accept my girls with anyone, I want to appreciate the one I care about like a true couple, and I'd be a poor creepy perv if I was all for it. Plus I think very highly of myself to share the goods with others.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 283 (view)

The instant chemistry demand Posted: 7/6/2008 10:54:06 PM
Instant chemistry is way too hard to explain but really does happen. I was at a Crystal Castles concert 2 nights ago, and me and a girl near me just stared at eachother by accident, I thought she looked adorable and we just smiled at the same time. Maybe we liked eachother's style, maybe we liked the show, who knows but it was there and we just started talking, and I felt like even if I was sounding like a goof, I could say anything to her and feel comfortable. Now I will admit she was physically my type, but that's my type, not every other guys type, and I'm sure she felt the same way about me, but still chemistry is chemistry. Maybe it's going to continue for a long long time, maybe not, but we're going out tomorrow night and like instant chemistry, it always happens when you least expect it, and it's the coolest thing ever. I personally enjoy instant chemistry it's un-explainable but in my situations I've always followed my instincts and had some great turn-outs because of it. As for online, I don't believe in online chemistry one bit, yes you might get to know someone, but real attraction can only be made by physically being there with them.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

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My fiancee is in contact with ex lovers as friends... Posted: 7/5/2008 11:22:56 AM
Tell her to start hanging out with some girls, even if it's with her mother.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 382 (view)

18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man? Posted: 7/4/2008 8:21:11 PM
Oh ya forget about looking at others age differences, just have fun.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 381 (view)

18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man? Posted: 7/4/2008 8:20:28 PM
When I am 40 one day I want to marry a pretty little young thing , unbittered, unworn , still with hope , smiles at everything and loves to party , by that time I am sure I will still love to party . People who marry young divorce jus tlike the older ones , what is the difference arses and biatches come in all ages FINALLY someone on these forums has something right AND cool to say. I'm telling you these boards are full of wannabe love-shrinks it's mad annoying. As for the age thing, I don't know them and I couldn't care less, so good luck to them. I too have nothing wrong with and am flattered to know that girls as young as 19 find me attractive, same goes to girls much older than me. Girls my age on the other hand have issues. That and girls my age tend to want to dumb me down so no young ones can check me out. neeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeext

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

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May I ask what happened? Posted: 7/3/2008 4:43:17 PM
Well not everyone is nosey, even most you might barely know, and most of the time it's very obvious as to who to respond to and who not to. There are people who do ask what happened just out of curiosity because they just want to get to know you, and others even mere collegues actually care. When someone mentions to me that they had a break up and such, first I say usually "Sorry to hear that", and depending on how much I know them or sense that they are from good people, I will ask what happened incase they feel like chatting about it. Sure tons of people like good gossip, but I have no problem talking to certain friends, aquantances, even people I just met that day, whether I have the time or just want ramble about it.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 107 (view)

getting over number or type of ex partners Posted: 7/3/2008 12:25:25 AM
Though my views aren't conservative, and I don't prefer a conservative lifestyle I do see where you're coming from when it comes to finding out about a girl's resume and how many pages it might be with many of them. I'm not a saint when it comes to my list, I have had atleast two slip-ups that have benefited them, but when it comes to my relationships and even past one night stands, I do like to know that the girl is selective herself and doesn't sleep with anything that walks. Even if I found out that they've slept freely with friends of theirs that are just friends of theirs. I'm sure most guys with a head on their shoulders have been turned off seriously after finding out certain grimy guys that the girl they're interested have freely opened up to, I know I have, which led me to close my zipper for future possibilities with those girls. But to the thread starter, I do see your point, but don't look at your views as being conservative on this issue. For me I just don't want to hook up with someone who is just plain easy or was in the past. Even for ONS's I want there to be a challenge, and I want her to have standards that I need to pass in order to enter her secret garden. And one more thing, it's not about how many guys the girl slept with (unless there's enough for half a phone-book), it's the type of guys she slept with. Look for a girl who is selective in her mates, and appreciates getting you, the same way you appreciate getting her

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

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Lost My self worth...need assistance Posted: 6/30/2008 1:44:35 AM
You, your family, and your dogs are all better off without her.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 92 (view)

Time to come clean: What keeps you from meeting someone? Posted: 6/29/2008 3:12:50 PM
For me it's having to be at my best behaviour in a way when it comes to meeting girls socially whether it be in clubs and bars. Don't get me wrong, I am the one always approaching, or being the one who's inviting girls I haven't met to approach me, but it's just that I like having a good time, that I don't feel like toning down and getting to know someone, it feels like too much work rather than having a good spark happening and just letting loose. In a way it's like Baseball, my favorite plays are first base, and The Home-run. Everything in between takes too much time for me lol. Sorry if that comes across as rude, but that how I look at it when it comes to meeting people.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

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Is this cheating? Posted: 6/27/2008 7:18:12 PM
In my point of you it's neither cheating or living out a fantasy, it's just being utterly stupid. It's like your with someone, you aren't fooling around in front of them, but your blatantly winking at others or grabbing their booty right in front of your partner. Know what I'm saying?

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 274 (view)

Guys don't want to be just friends, but girls do, why is that? Posted: 6/24/2008 9:43:09 PM
Like I said before, if I'm seeing a girl, and one of her close friends is a man, I honestly hope the dude is gay lol. Seriously it's better the guy is technically one of the girls, because if he's straight he always ends up getting feelings for the girl and turns drama queen on her ass, while I'm on the verge of tapping it. Sorry didn't mean to go off there, but seriously a couple of girls I've been with had male friends that would end up spoiling my fun of being with someone I liked, and it would get messy Dawson Creek style.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

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Too shy to dance Posted: 6/23/2008 9:56:25 PM
LOL Dancing is suppose to be fun no matter what style or profession it is. Just be yourself even if you feel like your rythem is off. And unless you are thinking of taking lessons and stuff, just improvise and immitate on the floor the way you visualise it to look like. You talk to any DJ and I'll guarantee he'll say that he'd rather have a dance floor full of people dancing even if they might feel they aren't good at it, rather than a dance floor full of people standing around just wanting to look cool.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

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Why do so many people seem to hate cops? Posted: 6/23/2008 9:42:22 PM
Real cops who go after real criminals, and bust the real crime scenes don't wear blue uniforms, and walk around with pistols, little black sticks and mase. And real cops don't wear their badges proudly on their chests, they keep it in their wallets.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 239 (view)

Guys don't want to be just friends, but girls do, why is that? Posted: 6/23/2008 4:34:07 PM
I always tell girls who just want to be friends, that I have more than enough friends and not enough room. Meaning I can't be friends with girls I am seriously attracted to. And I've seen guys who do follow the friend thing, and they look like losers. Honestly, when I'm with someone fine, and one of her close friends happens to be a dude, I'm so hoping he's gay lol. Seriously I'd rather him be one of the girls. When a guy is a good friend he always ends up spoiling the party for the guy who gets her the right way with attraction coming first. Guys who are good friends with girls you are dating are the biggest buzzkillers at the end, especially when they break down and confess their true feelings to the girl. Total losers Me personally I have some great female friends, but if I were attracted to them, I end up keeping them as aquantances, especially if they are with a guy who is a total champ and gets my respect.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 526 (view)

Are people these days 'too picky'... Posted: 6/22/2008 12:13:08 AM
I've become pretty picky myself over the years as well, physically and mentally. I know it's not a good thing, but I refuse to find a normal girl and have a normal relationship. That and normal couples are boring, and invite me to the dullest parties. I think we should all be picky, and choose to seek for our preferences only, whatever they might be.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 57 (view)

Boyfriend or Not? Posted: 6/9/2008 8:52:08 PM
As for the "friends with benefits" thing, I'm too stubborn to be into that. It's too nice, and makes the girl look too easy. Finding out my girl has been in that situation and being all for it is dump material for me. That and I've never offered the fwb myself it would make me feel cheap and useless, just like the girl involved. So honey enjoy them as flings, and move on to find someone who is attracted to you vice-versa, and sexy will be back ten-fold, harder and better

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 243 (view)

Why do some women stay in abusive relationships? Posted: 5/25/2008 10:38:48 PM
When it comes to discussing guys being abusive to their girls, it amazes me how these guys get categorized as tough guys, or bad boys. Let me just say this as a fact, almost all guys who abuse women are the weakest men on the planet, aka real life pussies, losers. Whatever their issues or low self-esteem, bla bla bla, my daddy beat me whatever, it's all irelevant. Men who beat women are physically and mentally weaker than boys. You will never see a wife-beater compete in martial arts, or win a bar-fight. Someone here mentioned them as the Bad Boy? True Bad Boys start alot of shit in the real world but they never lay a finger on their women, you have to give them that.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

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Can you remain friends after being intimate? Posted: 5/25/2008 12:59:14 AM
You and this ben guy sound like turds and I kind of feel sorry for the guy your moving in with. Honestly I've never remained friends with girls I've slept with if the relationship never worked, it's way too wussiesh if you ask me. That and I never had to be "friends" with them either to get into their pants.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 391 (view)

I'm not attracted to women my age. Posted: 5/24/2008 2:22:25 PM
No offense but I can't stand people who plan marriage and family like it's a career, but just let it happen when it happens. People who have love planned all out don't excite me at all. Those who have had kids too early, to those who end up marrying and having kids at an older age, ironically tend to be far cooler, and their kids tend to gravitate off them more. I might end up marrying in a couple of years, or maybe later, but I'd love to be the 65 year old dude with a 20 year old son/daughter. Instead of being a middle aged guy who really hasn't lived life to the fullest, I'll be the wiser older dude who's been there done that and pass it on to the younger bucks. My uncle is in his late 50's with two young kids, and they worship him. Basically my point is age doesn't matter one bit especially when it comes to starting families, but those who planned it don't seem to be as fun in general. That's just my opinion.

stan powder

Joined: 12/22/2007

Msg: 387 (view)

I'm not attracted to women my age. Posted: 5/24/2008 9:39:11 AM
I'm not attracted to women over 30 because they stop trying, and lower their expectations in fear of others looking at their guy. Plus much younger girls still aproach me and prefer quality over quantity, so i'll just stick to that.

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