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Joined: 12/23/2007

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Anyone else believe experienced women are a bonus? Posted: 12/28/2008 8:12:20 AM
"More experienced means she has been with more people... which isn't a problem to me sexually.. but on the other hand could also mean shes failed in relationships more often and it leaves some women bitter." So VERY wrong on this one, I happened to be with a very openminded man for 6 years that I experience so much with, I am considered a very experienced woman because of everything ive done, I have been with other men since that lucky me have also been open minded, but not that many. So experienced does not always mean many men, experienced means you are open minded have tried many things and know what you like and know how to learn what your partner likes and are not afraid to communicate it and try it with your partner. Please be careful and don't generalize like that.

Joined: 12/23/2007

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Pierced genitalia Posted: 12/15/2008 6:57:05 AM
It's incredible how miss-informed people are on this site. I have been pierced several times, I like all others started with the so called "normal" ones and all I can say is if you can get your belly button, nose, lip or eyebrow done then a tongue or hood piercing will be a breeze for you. Biggest problem people have is they get them selves all freaked out it and convince themselves its going to hurt. The belly button and nose are two of the most painful and infection prone areas to get pierced yet they are two of the most common, the nose is constantly growing so takes a super long time to heal the belly button is the most painful and infection prone because of where it is, something is always rubbing up against it and catching on it so it doesn't get much of a chance to heal. My lip piering was quite painful walked around for 3 weeks feeling like someone punched in the mouth was not a very nice feeling but was very much worth it, my tongue piercing was the easiest of all did not hurt at all, swelled up a little but was back to almost normal within 2 weeks, my hood piercing was easy peasy too, felt a pinch for literally one or two seconds then done, got in my car drove home didn't feel one second of pain healed the fastest of all was back in the sadle within a week and since that area should be kept clean at all times shouldn't be any worry of infection. So from a woman that has had them all if I was given a choice to do it again I would do the tongue and hood before any other piercing anyday!!! Just one other piece of advice anyone considering a piercing, shop around for a good piercer get recomendations, and when you find someone get to know them ask questions and don't get it done if you don't feel comfortable with the person. I am lucky I have a friend that is a piercer he has done all my piercings and I would NEVER go to anyone else to be pierced, I think the fact that I am comfortable with him made my experiences that much more easier, next on the list is Micro Dermal so excited can't wait!!!

Joined: 12/23/2007

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Met a user on here that is HIV+ Posted: 12/2/2008 7:46:08 AM
I don't know what the Law's are in the states, but here in Canada anyone that is HIV + is legally obligated to tell people they are HIV + before any sexual contact is made at all that includes kissing. I had a friend that contracted aids from someone that didn't tell her before they got intimate, she took it to court and won, the person that gave it to her was put in jail and my friend was financially compensated as well, unfortunately she never was able to enjoy it because she passed away soon after. Anyone with the least bit of morals would tell a person if they were infected, it's as simple as asking yourself why would you want to take the chance of ruining someone elses life because of a something someone else did to you, you know how it made you feel why would you want to do the same to someone else? Alot of people on here are arguing that she is young and wants to find love and all that which is great and she has every right to, there are dating sites that are dedicated to people with these kinds of diseases that have lots of people that would be willing to date them dispite the disease if shes getting bad results on this site there is no reason she can't go on those sites and find love with someone that fully understands what she is going through. I guess in short what I am trying to say is there is no excuse ever that gives a person with a disease like this the right to with hold this information from anyone!!! We all have the right to choose if we want to live or die, no one else has the right to make that decision for us.

Joined: 12/23/2007

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Picture Restrictions [CLOSED Thread] Posted: 11/28/2008 7:08:41 AM
I'm sure this has been done to death but I'm posting this anyway! I do completely understand why you would not allow Cartoons, celebrity, Torso and Joke pictures on here because I have read about people posting any pic just to bypass the setting that stops people from sending a message to people that don't want messages from people that don't have a pic (wow that was a mouthfull lol), and I do totally agree with that! BUT I have pictures of myself on my profile, the only other pictures I put on my profile is of my cat's simply because they are a big part of my life they are my pets, and a part of my family therefore I feel that pics of them should be aloud, because there would be no point in a man that is allergic or just doesn't like cats to contact me cause they are not going anywhere for anyone!! If the net was safe enough to put a picture of my daughter up I would do that also but unfortunately it's not safe so I don't. Anyway point being I got a new kitten for my daughter for her birthday, tried to post a pic of it twice now, labeled it as the newest addition to my family and both times it was deleted, now please someone tell me how this on pic of my cat is going to harm anyone? I do have pics of myself on my profile and my main pic is me so please give me a good reason my a picture of my new kitten cannot be posted?

Joined: 12/23/2007

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Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men? Posted: 11/19/2008 6:09:41 AM
wow alot of narrow minded people around here, whats the year again um 2008 life is all about being open minded whether it be sexually or just in general, if it was a woman posting this about a man there would be lotsa high fives and back slapping but because a woman did it all of a sudden that means shes going to do it again and be unfaithful? come on people grow up we are adults not teenages leave judgements and steriotypes at the door just because you wouldnt do something adventurous like that doesnt mean that anyone that does is a bad person. Personally I high five her for being brave enough to try it most women arent, I know ive fantasized about it but never had the guts. But seriously OP she is with you not those other men and she didnt have to tell you about it but she did so shouldnt that mean something at least you knows shes HONEST isnt that what everyone asks for? has she asked you to do the same with her? no so get over it and appreciate the fact that she is open minded but mostly HONEST cause most people arent these days, think back in your past can you HONESTLY say you have never done anything you wished you hadnt?

Joined: 12/23/2007

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Tongue Piercings Posted: 8/19/2008 6:16:45 AM
"tattoos and piercings which make you look like your lacking attention and make you look stupid." I don't post here often but "sul73" just got under my skin. I also was a mother at 19 and have a tattoo and my tongue pierced and plan on getting more of both. I am a single mother, my daughter and I live comfortably, she lacks for nothing and most people don't even know I have either a tat or piercing unless I tell them, so how does that make me look like I'm lacking attention? You also state that you are NORMAL and have a NORMAL life, please explain to me how a married man with kids, with a profile that states you are single on a dating site, looking for a NORMAL woman that has never been divorced or separated because you dont want someone elses baggage is NORMAL????????????????????????????? As for you saying both you and your wife are on here looking for friends, who are you trying to fool, if you were just looking for friends your profile would state you are married you wouldn't feel the need to lie about this, as for your wife she must be a saint to be able to put up with you cause if I was your wife I'd have had a big****tattoo'd on your forehead by now, and hunni I don't blame her for being on here cause if your this narrow minded about tattoo's a piercings I can just imagine what you are like in bed, so ya your wife needs to get some pleasure somewhere!!!

Joined: 12/23/2007

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Tongue Piercings Posted: 8/8/2008 6:30:30 PM
I got my tongue pierce in March and blow jobs were the last thing on my mind when I made the decision to do it. I personally find it incredibly sexy watching a man or a woman with sexy lips talk with a tongue ring, its nice just watching the persons lips but add that little flash of metal to the mix and damn...I would totally recommend it to anyone to get it done it does not hurt at all I was so surprised I was prepared for pain lol and there was none!!!...I only had a lisp for about an hour after I got it done, I went to work the next day and nobody even knew till 2 weeks later when I told my boss when we were having a conversation about tattoo's and piercings, and he was totally surprised to find out I had just gotten it done. I had no problem eating I ate a roast beef dinner the next day yes it took a little longer than usual just because I wasn't used it at first... I also have a tattoo and plan on getting more of both and if someone feels the need to stereotype me because I like to express myself with piercings and tattoo's then that's their loss they could be losing out on a good new friend!!!...as for some people commenting about mutilating your body like that just an FYI you can take it out and it will grow back so before anyone makes flash judgments on people like us they should have their facts straight!!!

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