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 Author Thread: What Made You Happy Or Smile Today..?
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 451 (view)
 
What Made You Happy Or Smile Today..?
Posted: 11/13/2009 4:19:03 PM
that's it! this is the last weekend i'm spending with the grinch. it's bad enough i have a cold hearted snowman watching me sleep every nite, for the past few days i had a mean ol' grinch staring at me too!

okay, did i get your attention? there's no one watching me sleep, there's no man in my life.... the cold hearted man is my "frosty the snowman" that's on a 2'x4'x1/2" sheet of plywood that i painted, the grinch is on the same size that i also hand drawn and painting in now as we speak. gawd i really need to get a life, first it was 2 of each on smaller wood now the bigger ones.....i need an even bigger piece of wood to draw santa and rudolph on and paint them... maybe another year!
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 449 (view)
 
What Made You Happy Or Smile Today..?
Posted: 11/6/2009 10:07:06 PM
that's cool krazy, i hope you had a good time.

what made me happy today was starting to paint the 2 that i drew freehand on wood. i'm finished painting my 2 frosty the . my younger son didn't believe that i drew them freehand until he seen the 2 pics that i've also drawn freehand and seen they were bigger than what i copied from. tomorrow: finish painting the then draw the on an even bigger piece of plywood....he's gonna be about 4' tall and 2' wide (chimney). gawd i really need to get a life!
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 384 (view)
 
Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 11/6/2009 10:00:15 PM
whytwater, did you understand the comment you quoted? My impression is that there are quite a few people angry or still hurt from past relationships and aren't in any position to date, but they are trying to do so, regardless." it's not that the person is "unfit" to date and there's no need to report them as unfit, they're just trying to fill a void. when a person is not fit to date that means otherwise such as stalking, harassing, or what ever. everyone needs to love and be loved wouldn't you think so? there are a lot of people that some may say are "in no position to date" but keep in mind that everyone is their own person and knows when they're ready to date and so forth.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 381 (view)
 
Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 10/30/2009 9:57:53 PM
doesn't matter where you're at.....a lot of couples in here tend to meet at the events. i know a few couples that are now married that live in canada and attended meet and greets (events), started dating then married. i also know of a few people here stateside that met at events and have been dating since then. now, i'm not saying to change your preferences all together, just re arrange them slightly, don't be so picky.....keep in mind that all good things come to those who wait.......just don't stop and wait, attend events.

photog, you and i talked a few times before, you may have noticed that i changed what i'm looking for....that's by choice of my own.

happy fishing and happy halloween!
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 379 (view)
 
Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 10/3/2009 2:00:45 PM
okay, again with the games. more and more it seems as if when you talk to someone and they tell you that they want to meet then when the time comes they're not there. no phone call, no email, no nothing. as of the 12th of this month i'm only going to be talking to people in here as friends. i'm not going to be looking but if a date should appear then that would be fine but i highly doubt it. i've made quite a few friends in here and they know who they are, co hosted a few pig roasts and met some great people in person....including the other 2 hosts. does this seem more of a "friend site then a dating site?" sure does and don't think anything's going to change!
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 144 (view)
 
why can't people just be who they are
Posted: 9/30/2009 7:36:52 PM
@newtomichiana....i loved the read between the lines post, that was just too funny!

on topic....a lot of people can't be just who they say they are because of a few things and one of them is because they don't know who they are? some people might be living their own lives but in reality they're living a dream, a life that either belonged to someone else or their own past.

i know who i am, do you?
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
ok whats life lke at 45
Posted: 9/30/2009 7:25:46 PM
okay, so i had my 45 th birthday last summer (aug, '09).

life at 45 is the same as 44...
i'm still older then i was yesterday, but i'm younger than i'll be next week. who really cares about what it's like at a certain age....everyone's different with how we are with activities and stuff. just try not to let those bones start to creek.

now, can someone please hand me my cane?
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Which date left you laughing
Posted: 9/30/2009 7:18:27 PM
wow, all of those stories were funny....makes me kinda jealous since i haven't had any dates that left me laughing let alone any dates in a while.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 55 (view)
 
She asks: What do you hope to find?
Posted: 9/30/2009 7:10:01 PM
i would like to hope that the answer i'd have would be close if not the same as what the guy would say..... someone that's not abusive, clean, has some things in common. if all else fails then hopefully i'd like to find my run down old shack to move into, watch the sunsets alone and hope that everyone else finds what they want.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 447 (view)
 
What Made You Happy Or Smile Today..?
Posted: 9/30/2009 5:54:10 PM
ummm, i made up my mind regarding a few things in here....here's a little hint: if you haven't talked to me then start talking to me now, if we haven't met in person by now then it's gonna be a while before we do, if you don't have me on your favorite's list then do so now or you're going to end up losing me. by the way, i'm still single (separated but not dating anyone).
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Advice on marital status?
Posted: 9/25/2009 8:26:02 PM
ummm, mq, how many times have i actually said that i'm single? i tell everyone that i'm separated, they say that i'm single or might as well think of myself as being single since it's been so long.....i just go with the flow. the only thing i have to worry about anymore is if and when that love of my life comes along, if there's wedding bells in the future, make sure the divorce is filed and final before trying to tie the knot. i'm here in the usa and not in other countries where multiple spouses are permitted....oh, and it's the guy with multiple wives not the other way around.

anyone up for a snowball fight soon? it's freezing here right now at 44 degrees...where's my snow?
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 445 (view)
 
What Made You Happy Or Smile Today..?
Posted: 9/25/2009 8:17:12 PM
omg rax, thank you very much for sharing that with me and the rest of everyone else rax....i smiled because it was a beautiful tribute to the men and women fighting but was saddened because of some of the pics plus not just hearing but listening and feeling the lyrics. i'm going to send the link to my aunt so she can send it to my 2nd cousin (she's on maternity leave while her husband is still on the front).
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 443 (view)
 
What Made You Happy Or Smile Today..?
Posted: 9/23/2009 5:32:27 PM
@kit...wow, congrats are in order for being a proud grandma. i bet your grandson was thrilled to get his 1st stripe on his black belt. for kit's grandson....way to go!!!

now, for me, what made me happy today was getting the stitches out of my knee, now i can start the therapy on it and taking my walks again as well. when i was at the ortho i stepped on the scale....woohoo, lost 3 pounds now i'm at 167 the only thing i wish with that is that it stops bouncing from 165 - 170 and starts dropping back down to 130...then i'd be in my glory ...but with my jeans falling off my butt again. what made me smile today was hearing someone special's voice on the phone...he's going to be calling me back around 9 since he doesn't wanna run up my minutes and i don't want him running up his as well.

anything else??? oh, was listening to a rock band video on youtube last nite and posted the link in my face book. they're a canadian band called "floyd factor" that plays pink floyd music. how i came across them is the one guitar player contact me in year book. wow, here i thought rush was the only good group that i know of that came out of canada...i hope these guys make it! now, i might be a country girl and listen to country music but started listening to rock a long time ago...longer than i've been listening to country music.

if you want the link please let me know....they're great!!!
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Whats a good birthday date in Philadelphia? Also gift ideas needed
Posted: 9/22/2009 11:52:16 PM
suggestion would be to leave it completely up to her. let her know that you've been trying to plan something special for her birthday but came to a road block. personally, you can take her to a nice romantic dinner if you like then give her roses or her favorite flowers, include a card with a gift certificate for a day spa to let her be pampered....no kids (if she has any), no one but her and the massuses. (sp). only take her to a sporting event if she likes sports. if you want to have fun with her then take her to lunch then head to the bloomsburg fair this weekend. it runs 9/26 - 10/2. it would be the 2 of you alone, a nice ride along the country roads to see as the seasons change....the fall foliage is something that can also be romantic. something else, you mentioned horse back riding, check into the pocono manor riding stables....take a horseback ride to the falls, you can also enjoy the fall foliage there as well as seeing deer. i'd wait until at least 6 months before buying jewelry.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 441 (view)
 
What Made You Happy Or Smile Today..?
Posted: 9/20/2009 8:05:43 PM
ummm, it was more of a chuckle then a smile with an email that i read....hey guys, is it true that you all only have a 3 second attention span? i'm asking because someone told me about changing my profile around when i didn't ask and said that guys only have a 3 second attention span when it comes to reading the profiles i'm taking it?

a few things made me smile over the weekend....saturday i was doing home therapy with my knee and have it at 45 degrees for the range of motion. just hope that it's not too soon and i'm not pushing it. still have the stitches in it and they'll be coming out in a few days.

something that made me smile today (sunday) was talking to someone on the phone...he and i are going to be talking outside of here to see where things go. we talked before but lost contact. who knows, right?

@rax...gonna have to check out that link for youtube. ummm what song is it?
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 30 (view)
 
if you can turn back time....
Posted: 9/20/2009 7:52:08 PM
ummm, i guess some people don't read the opening post or what have you...it clearly states...

<div class="quote">okay people, this is to get to know more about each other that we don't often talk about. it's not a pity thread or anything like that. i'm sure we have some deep dark secrets that we'd like to turn back time so we can change it.

edit: never had any problems with this thread...please don't start anything in here...there's no bitterness, it's not airing out dirty laundry as you say....some people can also use past experiences as a learning tool.

ok...i'm out! have a nice nite and try not to cut me apart.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Advice on marital status?
Posted: 9/20/2009 7:49:20 PM
ummm, ok ceej then family lawyers don' t know what they're talking about? i talked to a few lawyers that practiced family law just to confirm what the 1st one had said.....since it's well over 3 yrs, haven't resided together let alone sleep together, haven't shared meals in the family home....they all said i'm divorced but with a technicality....the technicality is i don't have the divorce papers. that's the same thing with that guy.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 378 (view)
 
Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 9/15/2009 9:18:10 PM
@eanie....i hope you're having better luck now. sorry to hear about being stood up but it does happen to the best of us. i know it bites having to drive a distance only for a now show, i hope you're not holding that against a lot of guys that aren't that close to you in vicinity.

ok, seems like i might be going into early retirement with the dating scene. been here since 6/06 then on a mini vacation for a few months in '08 and back in again and still here....been talking to "friends" in here but nothing else. oh well...if anyone's interested in talking to me you know where to find me....it's that blue hyper link that's below my pic marked "view profile", read it, scroll to the bottom then click to send a message....don't worry if you don't get a reply right away....i'm in and out of here, fb, and myb. if you can't break my settings then see if one of my friends can contact me for you but make sure i can break your settings.

cheers!
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 439 (view)
 
What Made You Happy Or Smile Today..?
Posted: 9/15/2009 9:02:37 PM
@dave....sorry for the late post, haven't been in here a lot.....but thank you very much, at least one of my "good" friends in here remembered.

now, what made me happy or smile today? hmm, let's see....i have a really bad sinus migraine so that's not making me smile. my shoulder has been acting up (gonna rain again) so that's not making me smile. hey, i know......2 wks ago thursday i had a nerve block done in my neck where they fried the nerves (nerve damage from the accident) and i haven't had that pain (the nerves were severed when fried), i was able to wash my hair today after getting a perm last friday, oh and i'm now getting 5 hours a nite sleep instead of 2 because of either sleeping on the floor or the recliner....i have a new day bed to sleep on.

now if i can only get my stereo to work again (been left out in the damp weather since my brother didn't want it in his room), my speaker stop going on standby (listening to my christmas music ...lol.), and straighten out the picture thing with my comp then i'll be happy. oh, i'll be happy to be able to start walking again....having my knee scoped on thursday for a torn meniscus and ligament tear.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Why is it?
Posted: 9/15/2009 8:51:44 PM
@chiv....i met a guy in here and talked online and on the phone. he and i get along great on the phone. he told me that he may not be the guy that i'm looking for.....he's a wiccan. i told him just because he and i don't have the same religious beliefs that doesn't make either him or i a bad person, just different. i wouldn't completely deny one's religious beliefs just as long as they don't deny mine as well. like i said...there's only 1 god, he takes the shape and color of many and goes by many names. as for my friend vinny, he's a great guy and honor his friendship and don't let that stand in the way of a friendship let alone any friendship.

@kel...awww, poor chippy at least i didn't shoot that one...lol. ummm, i hope he wasn't a she and decided to nest or chew at your wires?

why is it.....so boring up here in the poconos? i wish i was back over at the cow farms....i really miss my kids and hearing them say... good moo-(n)ing to me every day.

oh and draken....give it a shot, it doesn't hurt. let me know what happens. a few men and women did that after i told them and it worked, they started talking to the person that blew them off.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 27 (view)
 
if you can turn back time....
Posted: 9/15/2009 8:35:22 PM
hey kev, guys don't normally get dumped for being too shy or patient, they get jumped because the woman might be too outgoing or impatient...just not a match.

some of us women don't even get a chance because we tell the guys right up front that they're not going to give it up right away.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Advice on marital status?
Posted: 9/15/2009 7:48:11 PM
ummm, where did you read that he's not able to fully support his family? he said that he stayed together as a family unit (but separated) until his youngest was off and in college....to me that's also providing support for his children. he said that had he divorced then the family property (marital assets) would then have to be split or sold (pretty much in my words). he pretty much said he didn't want to have the children leave the only home they've known since birth.

i'm still legally married but also divorced with a technicality. i want nothing more but to be divorced from my stb ex but right now the finances aren't on my side and my stb ex thinks he's going to be able to take what ever i might finally walk away with from a lawsuit. he's not getting that and once i get money he's once again going to be out of my life for good, am tired of seeing his face in family court.

i don't tell anyone i'm divorced since technically i'm not...not with the divorce decree that is. i'm separated and i can tell everyone until i'm blue in the face....there's no chance of reconciliation.....can't say not a snowballs chance in hell since it snows up here in the poconos.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
problems uploading pictures
Posted: 9/14/2009 1:58:18 PM
hmmm, i dont' know what the problem is...guess i'm not supposed to have an updated pic in here or in another site since the uploader isn't working...neither one for either site. can someone please help me out here before i go nuts? oh, the lady above me needs help as well................can someone help us?

cheers!
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
POF Meet At Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire - Lebanon - Saturday 17th October - 10.15 a.m.
Posted: 9/10/2009 1:15:10 PM
sounds like it's gonna be a fun day, never been to one before but unfortunately i'm not able to make this one either. one day i'll be able to go to a renn. fair. now, rax, why don't you get the information and post it as an event....have it as you're coordinating it but not the host since there's a lot of ground to cover and people to wonder off.....just a suggestion...xx
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Definition of Normal, Please
Posted: 9/6/2009 8:10:03 PM
hey tammie.....it's also your favorite shampoo that's not for dry, oily, or color (chemically) treated hair too! it's just that "happy medium" so to say....i guess that works with people too, ya know, someone that's not a constant downer but yet someone that's not too chipper.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 38 (view)
 
anyone in the pa,md, dele. area interested in a campout at the beach?
Posted: 8/28/2009 6:40:28 PM
hey rax, did you ever get this thing off the ground or what? let me know what you're doing with it and i'll give you a hand with setting up the thread if you like. not able to attend since my legs aren't that good looking for hiking up my pant leg and it's a wee bit too far of a walk for me coming from the poconos.

cheers!
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
PICS! Motorcycle Ride to Foxburg~Aug 23, 2009
Posted: 8/28/2009 6:34:48 PM
~where to next???

hey guys....have you been up to the poconos lately? why not check it out before the cold really comes crashing in on us up here. i'm not able to ride (no bike and no one would take me with my shoulder) but sure would be nice to meet some of y'all from this murky fish pond. it's a wee bit boring up here.

oh and btw...the pics look great! looks like everyone had one helluva ride and good time.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
love WITHOUT sex
Posted: 8/24/2009 5:55:52 PM
no, it's not an absurdity....you can love and be in love with a companion without stirring things up and bringing sex into the picture. why do you think that some of the older married couples tend to sleep in separate beds? their sex life faded but they're still in love with each other (what i would imagine so).
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Sex drive after hysterectomy or menopause
Posted: 8/24/2009 5:38:40 PM
i had a complete (total) hysterectomy back in '04. what started out to be endometriosis (again for the 3rd time) and a cyst on my ovaries (both for the 3rd time) the ob/gyn decided that he was going to remove my ovaries only. i told him that he's not only taking out the ovaries since there's something else going on in there......i was right and he did the total hysterectomy. i had stage 1 endometrial cancer and with the cysts growing back for the 3rd time he felt it best to remove the ovaries as well (they biopsied them, didn't know the result).

now, my sex drive after having the complete hysterectomy was fine. sure, it had it's bad points at times (dried to fast) but baby oil came in use as well. the only thing effecting my sex drive as of this very minute is with everything going on in and with my life (stress) it's really causing my sex drive to come to a halt! let someone come into my life that accepts me as i am, is able to accept the bad with the good (not the good with the bad) then things would eventually change.

oh, some women also feel as if they're no longer a woman after having a hysterectomy but that's not true.....just because you no longer have the play ground equipment doesn't mean that you still can't play. women that are going through menopause it's a different story....their hormones are racing up and down just as their moods change....if a guy is able to cope with that then that's cool............don't give up guys, remember you go through mental pause.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 5 (view)
 
love WITHOUT sex
Posted: 8/24/2009 5:18:37 PM

BECAUSE I'm getting older, lust is losing its importance. I'm becoming deeper and more focused on the heart rather than the flesh.

umm, did you ever think that lust may be losing its importance only because love and true love means more to you (or anyone else) than lust does? what i mean is that we're getting older, growing tired of chasing after men and women and feel as if "lust" is growing old becoming a child's game. i know, some people wouldn't feel the relationship being complete without lust in the picture...me, i'd much rather someone love me and be in love with me as compared to lust. correct me if i'm wrong but when 2 people are "in love" doesn't that mean that lust is also there just not mentioned? i mean when 2 people are "in love" they can't wait to be in each others arms, the look in their eyes, and always on each others minds...the list can go on and on. just because a person is in their 40's and up doesn't mean that they're losing lust. i'd also rather be focused on the heart and not flesh. the flesh can come later....the heart is what's really important in any relationship.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 75 (view)
 
STRESS. Got some?
Posted: 8/24/2009 4:49:26 PM

If you had an awful lot on your plate, would you want to or could you date anyone? Or have you?

omg, when i read the opening post i could have sworn that the op was talking about me but as i read on....actually i haven't dated anyone (other than 1st meetings) for 3 years now. ummm, yeah, i'm being honest....i've been under a lot of stress (and depression) and being single sometimes helps but there's times when i need that hug for comfort. some people in here know me in person, some posted with me, and others are still learning more about me. well, each and every one of us has (had) been with stress for one thing or the other, some are able to cope better than others. i found it to be calm and stress relief reading and posting in here.

now, would i date someone even if they have a full plate, sure will. i feel as if we'd be able to help each other out psychologically as well as emotionally. there must also be that certain attraction and not to be taken as pity.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 135 (view)
 
Teeth/Kissing as we age
Posted: 8/24/2009 4:39:05 PM
retrogirl brought up a good point with regards to cancer patients. there are a lot of men and women out there that are taken or have taken medications that have taken a toll on their teeth. i know my teeth are far from being perfect and need dental work done asap but have to wait for my appointment (in october, earliest appointment). once i have the work done i'm one of those people that are going to be needing a plate and that's being done a month after the work is done. i should be having a nice smile or near nice smile just in time for christmas. now, the reason my teeth are being attacked are a few reasons...1 is i'm hypoglycemic, 2 is all of the ice i chomp(ed) on tears apart the enamel, and 3 is from those dreaded pain relievers from a car accident i was hurt in. oh, not to mention receding gum lines. now, if someone can accept me for my honesty than i'm most grateful but if they can't accept me for the bad with the good then shame on them since they may be passing up who could be the best person in their life.

would i deny someone? hmmm, as long as they're wearing their dentures or plates even when not out in the public, not soaking them in the open when not wearing them, and continue to take care of them just as they would with their own teeth.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 517 (view)
 
calling all fish...
Posted: 8/20/2009 7:08:05 PM
calling all fish, calling all fish....be on the look out. there are a lot of men and women in here that are honestly beautiful (not just by looks, mostly in their hearts) and i've talked to quite a few of the older members (over 1 yr in here). they're out to steal your heart away in exchange for you to take their heart as well. there's a lot of fish here in these murky waters of pennsylvania and if you don't start casting out a little bit further you're going to end up losing the man or woman that's most compatible with you. if you don't start casting out you're gonna lose your bait to the sharks or the paranna (sp)
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
What is wrong with me?
Posted: 8/20/2009 6:47:22 PM
no, it's not that i would find someone, it's more like eventually someone would find me. anymore i'm not really looking, just pick and choose to reply to some of the guys that check out my profile and contact them if they don't contact me. seems that no one that's in my age preference contacts me other than a few from out of the country (canada & australia) that i've been talking to pretty much since i joined the site.

i'm sure that your certain someone would find you as well.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
What is wrong with me?
Posted: 8/19/2009 5:45:12 PM
@chandlerswish...sorry hun, i don't think he's coming back in the site, he's been gone quite some time now and no longer on my favs. i had him there since he and i were talking briefly about his post.

hey taz, i've been here since 6/06 with a 3 month vacation in between then and the date joined in this pro. there have people in here longer than me as well. i'm not actually looking anymore unless someone checks out my profile....just not many people interested in me. oh well, one day, some day!
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
Definition of Normal, Please
Posted: 8/19/2009 5:36:36 PM
hmm, what's a normal person? me of course...and you, and the next person as well. we're all normal to the extent that each of our lives are full of ups and downs, some good and some bad. each person is normal to the fact that we're all dealing with the same things but in a different sort of way that makes each of us unique.....but normal.

ummm, now am i insane or does that sound insane to you?
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 42 (view)
 
Would you show skin or pose rauchy for pics to get a mate ?
Posted: 8/19/2009 12:57:47 PM
wornsole6ya...if you read my posts i'm not just talking about looking at a man or woman's pic and thinking that you know someone just by that. what i'm talking about is how men and women do things like pose nude on the net for pics or even sexual activities online, on the cam. to me, it's degrading them self of who they are and what they actually have to offer not so say at the least is there are some real strange people out there that would save the nude pics to either sell or masturbate with them. regardless of if a man or woman wants to see the physical attributes there's a time and a place for that and it certainly isn't the web.

hmmm, there's this guy, he's a friend of mine that i met here in the development. actually he and i are like companions but i'm not looking for sex and he knows it. anyway, he keeps trying to look down my top, grab my boobs and even tries to grab my butt. i've asked him numerous times to please stop but he still insists on trying his luck. he asked me why, don't i like having my body touch? i told him that outside of the home it's degrading to the person since others might get the wrong impression. i also told him that he and i are only friends, not lovers (not sexual) and my body is off limits to him unless a friendly hug...without the passion.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 437 (view)
 
What Made You Happy Or Smile Today..?
Posted: 8/6/2009 11:10:50 PM
hmmm, this is for a few days.....even though i have my ups and downs just as everyone else does i'll let you decide on why i'm smiling still.....

wednesday was my birthday, a big 45...a big whoop-de-do! for the past 3 years i've been baking my own birthday cakes from scratch and giving just about the entire cake to my neighbors at the trailer park........i wasn't able to bake my cake since all of my stuff is packed away. my mom wished me happy birthday then pop did (he seen me 3 hours before mom woke up and didn't say anything). my older son called and wished me happy birthday on my cell phone. i had a dr's appointment on the same day and he's finally going to have my bum knee checked out....i don't need to get hurt, especially if i'm out on a date. thursday i took not 1 walk to the mt. pocono plaze i took 2 walks (limped) to the stores (4 miles each round trip)

it's not 2:11am, i'm finally starting to get tired..............niters y'all!.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Why is it?
Posted: 8/2/2009 4:10:42 PM
i personally don't see religion being too much of an issue, just don't know too much about budhism (sp). all i do know and others will agree with me.....even though different religions worship a different god he's a god of many races, many religions, a god of many faces. i know the athiests don't believe in god but that's cool too since there's no law saying that you have to believe in him.

op, if a woman doesn't reply to you right away, give it time...let the email linger in her inbox. once you see that it was deleted you can do 1 of 2 things....ignore the situation or send her another email telling her "hello". i have a habit at times to tell some guys..."wow, and you call us ignorant...that's what you call the pot calling the kettle black. thank you anyway and sorry for bothering you." it's funny because 9 out of 10 times i do that...i get a response.

don't take things to heart in here.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Any free things to do in the Philadelphia Area?
Posted: 8/1/2009 1:13:59 PM
i'm not sure of what things you would like to see but i do know that a walk to the water front at penn's landing is a nice day out. if you know where pennypack park is, try going there as well. if you have a rack for on the back of your car, take your bike since the trails in there gives you a chance to roam more freely. there's the falls in pennypack park as well. i don't remember exactly what street i went in at...maybe woodland ave, walked down to the bike path, made a right then over to the falls just as you go under roosevelt blvd.

where at in philly are you from?

edit: congrats on your new job....wolf baby sitter. best of luck to you and your new found love.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 510 (view)
 
Hi! I'm Patti!
Posted: 8/1/2009 1:09:07 PM
hi patti, welcome to the merky waters of pa. there's a lot of fun people in here but you do have to watch out for some of those snakes. if there's any events in your area...sign up and go to them, it gives you the chance to make your intro in person as well as in here. have fun in the forums and a great weekend!

cheers!

hmmm, i'm so bored...do i have any nominations with being the welcoming committee? don't all jump at once now.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 33 (view)
 
where does everyone live?
Posted: 7/30/2009 5:38:13 PM
hey mark, how are things in delano? i know what you mean by peace and quiet there....i thought delano was bigger than pop. 250?

i'm up here in pocono summit and boy is it boring as all hell! there's not too many people up here to talk to other than my family and 1 friend that i made.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
What is wrong with me?
Posted: 7/30/2009 5:34:17 PM
hmmm, chandler's wish, i guess he's hiding to make changes or something....you did offer good advice even though i didn't see his profile.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 508 (view)
 
Introduce Yourself Here.
Posted: 7/30/2009 5:31:25 PM
hell, seems like i'm catching more fish in yoville in a shorter amount of time yeah, i'm still here...just jumping in and out of the site anymore these days checking up on emails that i don't get other than my good friend from down under and a few others that drop by. if you check out my profile and don't contact me then don't be surprised if i contact you just to say "hello".

okay, time to go check on my farm in farm town...have fun y'all!
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 29 (view)
 
Zodiac signs... whats yours and does it fit you?
Posted: 7/30/2009 5:24:30 PM
lol, don't believe her....she's not a crab.

happy belated b-day jeana.


ooops, and i'm a leo. i think my sign fits me but also depends on which one you're talking about.....

northwestern (i think it is).... leo.........august 5th

chinese.................................dragon

earth.....................................fire

okay, a lion and a dragon are 2 dominant creatures, the dragon is a "real" spitfire and so am i at times, fire is what the dragon spits out.................so, don't give me no chit or i'm gonna burn your arse...lol just kidding.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Do you consider looks when you're looking for friends?
Posted: 7/27/2009 4:56:50 PM
i wouldn't consider looking for good looks if i'm only looking for friends but what i would look at is to make sure he's clean, clean cut, and has a good personality and outlook on life.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Is ther life out there?
Posted: 7/27/2009 4:40:36 PM
is there life out there? yes there is mike, just give it time and things would start to change for you. after all, we're not all from another planet are we? (men are from mars, women are from venus)


At moment I’m not after a relationship but just friendship / hang out so not even out to put any pressure on! Blah, blah blah de blah.


i think that you are looking for a relationship....just looking to take it one day at a time to grow with the woman you're with and not miss a single moment such as a twinkle in her eye or a funny laugh or even a crooked smile.
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
50+ Ski crazed people where are you???
Posted: 7/26/2009 1:41:02 PM
you're very welcome love2ski....i hope you're able to find people around you that are interested in skiing and traveling as well....

now, c'mon skiers.....if you like to ski and like to travel then why not get in touch with love2ski4fun? she seems like a really nice lady....drop her a line, go skiing, i'd like to read another success story about "love on the slopes"
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 10 (view)
 
best western - lansdale exit of turn pike
Posted: 7/26/2009 1:34:58 PM
hmmm, impala, you didn't see this thread until recently? it's been hidden behind the curtains for 2 years. we'd all like to meet their special someone and get out of the dating sites....maybe you should expand your horizons a tad bit?

ummm, if anyone's interested in hosting an event up here in the poconos i'd be more than happy to try to help set things up?
 country.girl
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 142 (view)
 
Is smoking a deal breaker?
Posted: 7/26/2009 1:17:13 PM
thank you drake...

umm, i also drink hot tea or home brewed sweet tea instead of getting drunk...i'm not saying that i am a drunk, just prefer not to drink on a daily basis...only on occasions.

we can't call non-smokers addicts because they like to breath air....we all like to breath it's just that some would rather complain more about the air quality that includes nicotine instead of complaining about the air quality caused by the pollutants from the car/bus/truck exhaust, or maybe the chemicals being released into the air from some of the chemical refineries?

i don't cut out anyone's chances of meeting but they sure do cut me out. i'm not a bad person because i smoke and neither are a hell of a lot of other people bad.
 
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