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sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 35 (view)

She used to do escort. How can I get past this tough time and move past her history? Posted: 11/6/2008 7:09:19 PM
wow that is a chunk to swallow. There are only two questions to ask yourself. Is she still doing it? DO I love her? If that is a no & a yes, then what's the problem? If she has anything, by now you have it too. I'm sorry but it's a question of love now. Best wishes.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 31 (view)

Why are you so good to me? Posted: 11/6/2008 7:06:18 PM
He likes you and really isn't use to being treated well by others. I'd call it a bit of bad ex's and a little lack in self esteem. But not bad enough to worry about. Just enjoy the fact that he is not the opposite.

Sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 62 (view)

What is on your mind when meeting a woman for the first time? Posted: 6/14/2008 1:45:05 AM
"Like a long tailed cat in a room full of rocking chairs".

Sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 242 (view)

men and oral sex... Posted: 6/14/2008 1:30:32 AM
guys don't think that... they hope for it. we also return the favor and if he won't, get rid of him. Here is one for you.. an ex (thank goodness) .... was all about it... at the beginning. I kept track and made sure either we were even or I was a head in score to avoid that whole, "it's always me" junk. Anyway, by the time she almost got a rock... she quit. As far as I am concerned she was using false advertisement to get me to marry her. How sucky is that? So like they say, the one food that will kill a woman's sex drive faster than none other is wedding cake. Also, when that doesn't happen, we are not living up to our full potential. That is un American! So enjoy life to it's fullest and just wash your food before you eat it.

Sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 80 (view)

Guys - tell me what this behavior means Posted: 6/14/2008 1:18:45 AM
trust you again??? humm send him packing. Trust you again is something bad. Do both of you a favor and cut it off.

Sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 46 (view)

heres a tricky one Posted: 6/14/2008 1:14:10 AM
If they were an item at one time but no longer, No. I don't care. If I am going to marry her then I love her and I get the goods forever more and she is loves me (i hope) and she gets the goods forever more. If it was a fling or cheating, she ain't getting married to me at all.

Sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 79 (view)

Can a guy and girl be just friends Posted: 6/14/2008 1:09:26 AM
It works both ways. I've had friends who I thought were just that. I became single and got attacked. In M-F friendships, most of the time, one of them wants a relationship but it's not always the men.

Sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 466 (view)

How would you feel about a WOMAN with a GUN? Posted: 6/14/2008 12:15:11 AM
She does not have to anything. Who cares? If she can carry the weight and do the work, let her. A gun is no different than a sword or other deadly item that is used for protection and in this country we are all allowed to bare arms. With the exception that he can't be around guns or any kids that would require special handling of guns for safety... you don't have to tell him. A Man would not care if you had one or not if he trusted you and your training.

Sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Is owning a motorbike a turn off for men Posted: 6/14/2008 12:10:26 AM
Some men are intimidated by what they have, hence all the spam for enlargement and viagra. So yes, some men won't know what to think. But.. A Man won't care if he gets the chance to talk with you and know that your not weird. It may even be a + for you.

Sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 41 (view)

Getting Beaten Up in Bars Posted: 6/13/2008 11:48:55 PM
most city clubs have a max number of people allowed inside due to fire code and because of that, the doorman has to juggle who gets in and who does not. There are also rules about the % of people based on race, sex, orientation and lots of crazy things that come from the owners and other board members. Doorman can be a hard job. On that note, doormen and bouncers are not suppose to beat people up period. They can fight in self defense or to subdue someone who needs to leave and that is it. They do not have special powers or any kind of badge. However, every single time that I know about, if the cops are called, the bouncers etc are always in the right even when they are not. That is an unspoken rule with the police here and it is the same with security guards and the police. 99% of the time, it is assumed that it was the guy's fault, even when the bouncer hit the guy first. In the past, there was 2 clubs that were known for hiring little thugs as bouncers and paying them under the table. These two places and the bouncers were also known for kicking the crap out of the guy after they got him outside. Literally, they would attack the guy once he was outside and out of sight of the other customers. 5 -8 bouncers on 1 guy... I've seen it. All because the guy dropped a drink and bumped into a bouncer, while going through a crowd. 1 of these clubs had bouncers that weren't careful and the local media got a hold of them and later got them shut down for a few months over beating guys up. That club kept hiring their thugs and they were shut down every six months or so. It took some guy being killed for the city to shut the club down forever. Several other clubs have been closed for drugs and shootings. They like to say that the shootings were between 2 customers and I'm sure most were;however, when the club gets shot up and not just someone... it's the club that the shooter had the problem with. Bouncers are also known for letting in under aged girls that show it off. There are also clubs that a guy can only get in if he is brought by a girl. No girl = no getting in. It is simple... guys have a hard time at clubs because of the bouncers and not to mention just the other customers there. Imagine this, you are a guy in a club and some girl talks to you at the bar & you talk back. Soon her man takes a swing at you for talking to the girl. Long story short, you end up getting the crap kicked out of you by 6 bouncers because one of them is a friend of her man. Yes, this happened and I have the buddy to tell you the story. In short, clubs are bad places for men/guys/males.

Sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Help me understand Posted: 6/13/2008 10:59:35 PM
Good question. Easy answer too. He trusts you.... so who cares if you have a key. Being distant.. men have mental issues too and no we don't admit it much less talk about it. There is a good chance that is his case and something that he will deal with on his own and should deal with on his own. For him wanting you to find someone. This is not about guilt. He loves you and wants the best for you so yes, meet someone and fall head over heels for them = happy and that = him being happy for you. Just wanting to be alone is very possible. It may have nothing to do with anyone really. It is what it is. Ain't no changing that. You have been off/on for 10 years? Yeah, he loves you. Trust me on that one. Oh, and for Miss other poster lady... I'm going to add something to this. Here is something to chew on: I was off and on with a girl for 8 years. We both dumped each other many times. Why did I not marry her? No trust. She had a habit of cheating, lying and that sort of thing. She didn't have any real ambitions either. As a matter of fact 1 time I had been working at a car dealership, changing oil and sweeping floors to make ends meat. (we were young then) They made a big deal about going to schools and becoming a mechanic. I was game until I 1 saw the guys that did all of that stuff come out burned, getting junk in their eyes even while wearing goggles. (I got a metal fragment in my eye while wearing goggles and changing a tire... go figure : on the upside, I still have 15/20). And 2 I found out that it took one mechanic 10 years of this work to start making in the $20 range. So, I said that I wanted to go back to school and do something and that got me dumped a few weeks later. Like, what in the world!!! I'm trying here, for us you know. Later, I worked elsewhere 50-60 hours and barely paid all the bills by myself but I did it. What did she do? Not work and go cheat. Did I get rid of her? Yep and 6 months later all I wanted was to be with her. Why? well, that answer is somewhere between Love and Stupid. But at long last, one night she fessed up with a bit of her doings in a nice Christian way and we have not seen each other in 4 years. You may be forgiven but I will never forget. Anywhoo... guys are strange animals and without being around their situation we can never be certain about what is going on. For me it was Stupid Love, for him it maybe something else. My point is that,"It is very possible that there are more things going on than we know and that not everyone is out to mess someone over". Hence Stupid Love.

Sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Can't tell she's wearing make-up? Posted: 6/13/2008 10:53:06 PM
Some guys think it is a complement to say that. Being one that prefers really light makeup, I appreciate not seeing blue eye lids and super rosy cheeks. Goodness that very thought is damaging. eww.. Other guys just are not close enough, have bad eye sight or have little to no experience at this. If you are told that when you are wearing it, look closer at him. Does he wear glasses? Should he? These will clue you in on him. good luck and go light and natural!!!! Please for the love of beauty!~

Sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Hooked Posted: 6/13/2008 10:37:47 PM
That is awesome! I'm glad it worked for you! :D :D :D

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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I like the gal but she smokes Posted: 1/25/2008 4:47:38 PM
Good gawd pull up your boot straps! It's rare that you meet someone that you get along with much less someone that you can really fall in with. Explore the reasons why you bleed. It can be anything that your not use to. Or the amount of something that is different. When I was young and I went to the store in the summer, My nose would run like crazy in the AC. I figured that it had to be the AC smell... but no.. it was going from hot to cold. If you can, keep her, get over the problem and live a long loving life together.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 130 (view)

Would you date someone who HAD cancer? Posted: 1/25/2008 4:35:56 PM
Love is LOVE One should not fear to love.... we all can die at any moment. Remember that and love to the fullest! I heard a preacher on the radio today and he said that for years he had prayed that he would never have to deal with a spouse dying or a child dying.... I think he is a coward! It is a man's job to be there for his family, no matter what until his number is up. He has no right to choose to let the burdens fall onto his family rather than on his own shoulders. I say that he is a coward and does not deserve to live nor love.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 108 (view)

not cumming during BJ? Posted: 1/24/2008 6:53:15 PM
other than bad skills, teeth or not going long enough... no issues... :D

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Condoms.... Posted: 1/24/2008 6:51:08 PM
MAAAn If your going to be cooking a pot roast RIGHT you better have that oven really warmed up. But olive oil.... sweet... toss a salad to go with the main dish.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 76 (view)

What would you do if somone told you. Posted: 1/24/2008 6:35:07 PM
BIG Points on her part! I'm very sorry but I don't think I could handle that. I have been good for 80%+ of my life and I too am looking for my One and now someone tells me that I can have a chance at having my one but I get free luggage to carry if I take the chance.... Everyone falls in love and unfortunately it does not always stay there in love. Hence a 50% divorce rate. So after I have been the almost perfect guy for years, my pot of gold at the end of the rainbow is not full of gold.... First off, I want a damn RE- DO! 2nd it's not fair to anyone but now you get to choose if you want to make this your last rodeo or not. It sucks. a lot... Answer yourself this one question.... How would you feel about telling the next Mrs Right that you have XXX ..... For what it's worth... I'm very sorry man.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Muscular women... Turn-on or off? Posted: 1/24/2008 6:23:11 PM
I don't care what you bench press. Strength is only one part of the complex game. So bring it on. Know what I mean. Now if one is with someone that does not have a whole lot of self worth then maybe one would intimidate them... who knows until you are there.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 87 (view)

Good grief ! my date turned out to be a tranny ! Posted: 1/15/2008 5:47:04 PM
Post-op OR Pre-op?? Come on now, it does make a difference! How did you find out anyway? Do you think you may wait around till after the operation?

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Just curious about anyone having good luck on here Posted: 1/15/2008 5:43:33 PM
Thumbs up here! I'm meeting her again tonight! Yippy! :D

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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He logged into POF while on a weekend Date with me Posted: 1/15/2008 5:42:35 PM
Did he make it home before you? Did he check his on the way home? We the people are addicted to the internet. It's like a drug. Go a few weeks without checking your mail and see if you get the jitters...

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 206 (view)

Dont give in to the sex girls Posted: 1/15/2008 5:39:18 PM
What are you saying in the OR post? It's okay to sleep with him if he is hot and you want fun... but it is not okay to sleep with him if you want a relationship? Ohhhhhhh kaaaayyyyy...... I'm confused... I must say that not everyone is that shallow. As a matter of fact.... I once had lunch with a wonderful girl. It turned into a trip to the mesume and then a movie and then climbing a local mountain top to watch the sun set and then dinner... then drinks at her place..... yes, I did not leave for 3 years. So, it's not always like hit and run.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Strange but True Posted: 1/15/2008 5:00:25 PM
It is not something you share at work in big back stabbing business..., I do but then that is because we are all dating off POF ... we are nurds and don't get out much. This site IS for meeting new people and dating. Maybe even meeting new people and building relationships if you like eachother... Anyone who tells you that no good comes from internet dating either had a bad experience or they don't trust communication of the future. How many single men/women do you know that are datable? I asked several friends to just name some and I have even been asked... ZERO is the number that 99% of my friends and co workers gave. POF is a way for all the dateable fish to get together in one pool to find each other. :D

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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People who are unsuccessful at getting dates Posted: 1/15/2008 4:54:10 PM
Be true to one's self and the devil may care! If you are lost and people will be searching for you... you are to sit in one spot and wait to be found. Not wonder around the woods. SO why not stay the same and let yourself find the right one? OR you are a loser jerk and need a tharapist. :D No but really, why would you change just to find someone.... they won't like you when you are who you really are so why in the first place?

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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How would you feel about a WOMAN with a GUN? Posted: 1/15/2008 4:43:31 PM
If she can handle a weapon of certain destruction with coolness and ability SURE why not? That is so sexy too! Less bad guys for my Kungfu to have to handle. But if she drinks or does drugs or is hot tempered... she gets a spoon!

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 75 (view)

Do any guys actually like pessimistic girls? Posted: 1/15/2008 4:40:01 PM
That is fine with me. But when she tells me that she does not think I can tie my shoes correctly, she will say that she is sorry or we will stop just short of the orgasims.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 85 (view)

If you are a middle aged man . Posted: 1/15/2008 4:36:17 PM
Check out some profiles of young 21 year old women... some of them ask for 27-50 year old man. Yeah, it happens. There are problems with that but it's not my problem and when I have a daughter to look out for, I also have a shot gun and a spoon too. As a woman you may want to avoid these men so that you don't get traded in for a newer model but other than that, why does it irritate you when people like differnt things? Frankly, I am 30 and I can not stand the idea of a woman less than a minimum of 23 if she is mature. The reason is that, I figure that by 23 she has not have that many adventures and she needs to see the world some more. At the same time, an older lady is just fine with me. Whatever floats one's boat.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 203 (view)

My Questions For MEN!!!! IF you can answer one or two of these that would be great!!! Posted: 1/15/2008 4:29:00 PM
That is all part of being a man. You have described several problems that not all men have. Most of these problems occure due to upbringing and a social climate that forces men to be men rather than who and what they are. Acting macho is a good example or being a jerk to his woman when his friends are around yet a cupcake when they are not. That is a serious lack of self confidance. Ditch him. Men draw back from relationships for the same reason women do... who ever came on too strong or told the them that they loved them on the first date if not just after the first IM session. whoa red flag and psyco.. Don't hate men, find a good one. Talk to them, challenge their brains... take it slow and enjoy the ride. punish them if they do bad things... much like training a dog. :D

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Can he taste the spermicide? Posted: 1/15/2008 3:50:06 PM
Trust me, if he is doing it right, he is getting a mouth full. By now he may think that is normal.. trust me again yuck! Kinda like cotten mouth and acid at the same time. Same thing goes for lubes... eww.. It may say that it tastes like cherries but they are very wrong. Not that I have ever had the displeasure....

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Being held...for the girls Posted: 1/15/2008 3:45:02 PM
When she falls asleep in my arms, it is the greatest thing ever, each and every time! When she hugs me... whooo whoooo yummy. Now if that is caused by a bad childhood, so be it, because I like it!

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 85 (view)

Big Girls ridin ?!? Posted: 1/14/2008 6:47:16 PM
Sometimes the pressure on the legs makes it uncomfortable. Try not to sit too much on his legs. trust me. And yes, if he ain't worried.... "Save a horse, Ride a cowboy".

sauder

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Cum and BJs Posted: 1/14/2008 6:43:32 PM
Marry me too! please..... :D

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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10 Reasons Why We Should Have Sex !!! Posted: 1/14/2008 6:39:37 PM
WOW I'm sold... where can I buy this stuff called "sex" ?? Can you get it at Walmart?

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 40 (view)

How do you know if its ok to kiss her? Posted: 1/12/2008 9:15:48 PM
MAN.... go ahead and ask her permission to kiss her hand have a tape recorder going because I need to hear that for a good laugh! Both me laughing and her laughing. 1 if you are not the kiss the hand type guy, it's not your style and you will give her a good belly laugh. 2 You must feel the kiss. 3 Get close enough to kiss her and back off naturally. Show little to no interest. Do this at least twice to test the water, by then you will know due to her reactions to you being so close enough to kiss her. If she wants it, you will be able to feel it. If you feel it... 90/10 rule and no tongue! You move 90.... she moves 10..... and nail it. Watch and pay attention to the movie "Hitch". Ohh yeah.. watch Opra too. Or during the standing huggie thing.... move some hair and slowly, gently find some upper shoulder/low neck to kiss... pause 2 seconds and go 1" higher. Lay 2nd kiss to the higher spot and pause, wait 1 second and put the 4th kiss another inch up or just below and behind the ear lobe. Then look at her.... into her eyes... chuckle and get closer... once in very close proximity, 90/10 rule. If this does not work there are one of three reasons... 1 she does not like you, 2 she is a lesbian or 3 you never got this far due to her grabbing your ears in a death grip and laying one on you. Good luck young padiwan..

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Sticking it to me.... and not how I like it! Posted: 1/12/2008 9:01:53 PM
High school and weird stuff happened among friends that at the time I did not know had transpired. Eleven, almost twelve years later I run into my old friends and find out a lot of information. PEOPLE get over it, is my answer. If I had wanted to date so & so I would have, then! Now, years later, some people are trying to act like it was yesterday. Come on, I have lived and died a few times since then. Move on. Now for your question. Do the kids really need you or are you putting yourself on them os that you can feel good about yourself? I suggest swallowing that bit of pride when you have to talk to him. In short, get over it and just deal with business. Don't let it eat you or soon there won't be anything left. good luck. I know it is hard.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Involuntary innocent infatuation: has this happened to you? Posted: 1/12/2008 8:53:17 PM
Darwin was right man! Go ahead, tell your spouse. See how long you live after doing so. Question: How far apart are the shells from the shotgun and is that a big enough time gap for you to run? No, seriously. A solid relationship is a solid relationship. To enjoy work involves enjoying the people one works with too. Just remember the grass in your backyard is by far greener.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 76 (view)

On the subject of Hair - Straight or Curls - what turns you on most? Posted: 1/12/2008 8:19:42 PM
Have you seen my hair? And NO it is not a Mohawk... even though I could so pull one off with cuteness! I much prefer the medium to long straight and flat hair. It can get messy and bouncy later and really bring out her eyes, if done right. On the same note... Super short and highly styled out of a magazine hair is hot. Just don't get too close to the fireworks or she could pull a Micheal Jackson.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Sex better with a woman with kids or no kids? tighter better Posted: 1/12/2008 8:13:20 PM
It's like putting together cheap Wal-Mart furniture. Put Tab A into Slot B. Put Tab C into Slot D. Sometimes it looks like the display model and sometimes it isn't really close. Depends on the guy which feels better. How much dirt is being used to try and fill the hole?

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Not a single date via POF- any other ideas? Posted: 1/12/2008 8:04:42 PM
Money?? Dude, I'm a photographer and I can get the photo/s you need. I can also put my over priced education to work and get your profile straight. Give them something to sink there teeth into. you. Well, as long as your not a scum bag, that is. I do have standards. ANyway... first tip watch the movie "hitch" with the fresh Prince in it. It will help if you pay attention.javascript:smilie('') javascript:smilie('')

sauder

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What are you hiding? And why hide it? IE: Kinkyness Posted: 1/12/2008 7:50:14 PM
Emm... I have a few good reasons for not posting those things. 1 Are you or will you be looking for employment in the future? Some HR departments get bored and really search you out, looking for stuff. On the upside, you may get hired if the right person saw it. "Hey look, a freak, he will fit right in with us", 2 If I posted my list, my dance card would be so booked there would be a six month waiting list. Considering that I don't have a lot of time, it would just be wrong to have to turn wonderful women down so often. Not to mention my poor email server being over worked. Being upfront and all, I do not view this a subject for anyone but VIPs.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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girls tell me im cute and funny but wont date me! Posted: 1/11/2008 1:55:53 AM
lol... a new member of the door mat club. You are not the first to deal with the "your cute, your great but I'm going to date someone else". Use your Kungfu on that bad-*ss and you will have them lining up. Good luck on not getting beat down. Oh, on a very serious note: Quit taking crap from people. That is #1 on the list of why they don't want you.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Asians and caucasians. Posted: 1/11/2008 1:50:52 AM
Dude, if you like her... go for it. As far as I know there is not any social taboo about your topic. Quit being scared.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Cost-saving suggestions for a wedding reception? Posted: 1/11/2008 1:47:43 AM
Don't go. Saves money and trouble :D

sauder

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Do I give her a second chance? Posted: 1/11/2008 1:47:06 AM
Be happy young man. If you are not, then what is it all worth? If she does not make/ help you to be happy then find one that will. I tell ya this much, they always beg when it is not their idea. Not to sound mean or anything... but experience speaks. They say nooooo at first... maybe pout or cry... then beg... then they fight you or throw things at you.... you become the worst guy ever! Most reactions are very unreasonable. Unless it is their idea, then it is cold and quick. Like over an IM quick... Which brings up a good point.... why do we look down on email, phone and IM break ups? You never know how the other is going to act... why not be safe about it and do it in an email? So, make yourself happy and if it is with her then good, if not then prepare to take a beating or a guilt trip and then get away as fast as you can.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 88 (view)

Do gentlemen still exist? I mean sweet gestures Posted: 1/11/2008 1:39:28 AM
yep they are still around... but most of the time... doing such things will do nothing more than get a guy kicked to the curb, fast. So when you find one, appreciate him, even if he is not yours. Make sure you reinforce the behavior.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 92 (view)

Oh....My....Gawd! Posted: 1/11/2008 1:34:59 AM
Ya should have pushed him off the banister and kicked him till he quit breathing... now it will be your fault the next time he does that or worse to someone else. geesh...

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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sigh im not sure about this.. Posted: 1/11/2008 1:32:15 AM
Yeah... can I get the cliff notes version? Maybe I will wait for the movie. If you like her, ask her out. If you fail, cool. If you don't, enjoy it.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Soooo confuzzled about this Girl, Advice Please! Posted: 1/11/2008 1:30:45 AM
Grow a pair young man and ask her out. Shoot, i will do it for you... what is her number? If you wait for the engraved invite your gonna be sad. If you want something in life.... You go and Get it.... or fail and ruin your entire life. Either way, life is a roller coaster and if you never try, you will never know. You will also never enjoy success.

sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 116 (view)

is gentlemanly behavior and chivalry still important? Posted: 1/11/2008 1:25:38 AM
yeah, they say it is important. Experience says they are wrong. It gets you nowhere, fast. Held a door for a lady today, her nose was stuck up high and she didn't even bother to breath a thank you, Sc**** you or even look my direction. So, do it if you want to but I've yet to see any benefit from it other than getting kicked to the curb pretty fast. On the up side of that.....it helps to free up your free time faster so you can lick your wounds sooner.

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