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ChinaShopBull

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Msg: 498 (view)

What do you think about cougars? Posted: 11/18/2009 5:12:26 PM
Cougar is just another term for something that has been around forever. Some young men would never get laid if not for older women. It may be more out in the open these days, but it's nothing new. The older woman gets what she wants, and the young man gets what he can't anywhere else... A sexually aggressive woman. Prey doesn't have to have hunting skills, and when it wants to be caught, the hunter doesn't have to have the best bait either.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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whats the most orgasms you've had in one day? Posted: 11/18/2009 3:06:55 PM
from a guy^^^^^^^^ what abunch of liars on here! There are all sorts of opinions. Uninformed ones are always the best. 12 isn't even that remarkable for a healthy 20 year old. Most ejaculatory orgasms in one hour for a man... 16 http://www.health-mediainfo.net/Men-Health/167390.htm

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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whats the most orgasms you've had in one day? Posted: 11/18/2009 7:41:36 AM
12 times in about 12 hours. I was 21 and my GF wanted to see how many times we could do it. I probably could have done more, but I always take a while. I was very sore (Raw)... So was she (she's the one who quit). If inspired by the right person, I can still have multiple sessions per day... Nothing like that one time though. I wouldn't if I could.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Hairy butts rule Posted: 11/18/2009 6:51:04 AM
Long hair is best on a woman! I don't want a woman who looks like she is a man. Pony-tails on cool! If her hair length is the only thing keeping her from looking like a man, that's not exactly a shining endorsement for her looks the first place.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 172 (view)

Why Do Men Think All Women Like Their 12 Inchers????? Posted: 11/17/2009 10:43:26 AM
I'm curious to what the ladies actually prefer in respect to actual diameter range If you can wear their wrist-watch as a c0ckring... You're within the desired range. ____________________________________________ Not all women prefer extremely large equipment, but all women want to try it out at least once. If you're a small guy, you never want to see the look on a woman's face when she sees her first monster... It's not a look of fear.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

Msg: 487 (view)

What do you think about cougars? Posted: 11/17/2009 10:35:33 AM
Who wouldn't date younger if they could pull it off? The women my age who are attractive enough to get my attention, are attractive enough to get a younger man's attention, too. That's why I date younger. Not out of preference, but out of necessity. There just aren't enough women my age who've taken care of themselves and date their age group... Unless they need a meal ticket.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Is porn ruining real live sex? Posted: 11/10/2009 10:52:43 AM
I wondered why most men over 50 wear glasses Hell. I've been wearing mine since age 12. Damned Sears catalogs!

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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How to do safe cunnilingus?? Posted: 11/10/2009 10:10:20 AM
Ever considered outsourcing?

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Whats wrong if you dont feel like having sex? Posted: 11/4/2009 5:31:00 PM
If you have a penis, being disinterested in sex (for any reason) is evil. I mean, weren't we put on this earth to service a woman's every desire? To not do so is surely a sin against nature. Eating her out when you're not in the mood is the height of selfishness. Can you think of no one but yourself?

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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do guys like the smell of a woman's natural vagina? Posted: 11/4/2009 6:13:39 AM
Has anyone eaten out a caucasian woman and an asian woman before?? I keep on hearing that asian women are muskier. don't ask me! I don't eat Asian women vary as much as any others, depending on diet and health. I've been with several who were very clean and nearly tasteless in comparison to others. Most often the smell comes from sweat, lack of cleanliness, a previous lover's semen still inside, diet, or an unhealthy vagina.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 11/3/2009 10:12:38 AM
Msg 483, are you for real? Folks read her profile, WOW Too bad for her that the best pvssy eaters are bald guys with no teeth. She's screwed.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith?? Posted: 11/3/2009 9:53:46 AM
Stop kidding yourself.... if you're not very wealthy or George Cloonie look alike, forget about it.... What's in their minds is "What is that old freak looking at ?" On line? I agree. But I'm neither rich nor a perfect physical specimen (Though in good shape.) and I attract many younger women. (Not that I take advantage of every opportunity.) Most young women though, are as grossed out about much older men as I was/am by older women. I think a man that has held up well over the years is a better example of good genetic material than taking a gamble on youth. Maybe some young women agree. Though dating our sons could be a better alternative for most.

ChinaShopBull

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What is sexy about FAT??? Posted: 11/3/2009 9:38:35 AM
Not all cultures have held overweight women in high esteem over the centuries. In Western culture, the hour-glass figure has long been the preference... Whether thin, or more buxom, a discernibly smaller waistline has been considered more attractive. Science defends the "Barbie" figure as being more fertile, as well. In Asia, where the largest concentration of human population is, obesity has never been a selling point for fertility or attraction. http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/3682657.stm If a man finds fat to be attractive, why ask why? Just enjoy it. The truth may not be flattering. Few men would choose a large woman over a slimmer one, given similar personalities and status. Many of our preferences are shaped by our experiences with the opposite sex from birth. If thin women have rejected us throughout life, or treated us poorly, and bigger women shown us more kindness and acceptance, then it isn't hard to see how fat would be seen as a safe haven... Or even preferred. I've had better experiences with women born in foreign countries than those born in The States. This has influenced my preferences in much the same way.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Nobel Peace Prize Laureate confirms Faux News is NOT a news organization Posted: 11/2/2009 2:38:53 PM
He said "Joe Scarborough".... Maybe those names aren't considered liberal enough by your standards, or their own (I mean, who wants to admit being liberal but the most extreme of them.), but that doesn't make them conservatives. Having a single view that doesn't toe the line of the idealogical extremes (Either left or right) is enough to have you kicked out of the club. That doesn't mean that from the center you still don't look like a leftist... or a right-winger. Van Susteren is closer to the center than Colmes, but she's still on the left side of it. I think people confuse fiscal conservatism with social. Napolitano is a strange mix of liberal and conservative ideas and stances... I guess he could be considered either balanced or unbalanced depending on who's doing the measuring. He says a lot of stuff that sounds leftist to me during his show. http://freeconservative.org/judge.htm I'm right of center myself (Duh. Right?), but I can't watch Hannity's show. Glen Beck is a riot though.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Nobel Peace Prize Laureate confirms Faux News is NOT a news organization Posted: 11/2/2009 10:21:55 AM
I have to agree. Fox is just packed full of right-wing commentators like... Judge Napolitano Greta Van Susteren Geraldo Rivera Alan Colmes Mara Liasson Juan Williams Marvin Kalb Martin Frost No liberal opinions represented there. No sir.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Nobel Peace Prize Laureate confirms Faux News is NOT a news organization Posted: 10/28/2009 3:40:13 PM
If you think Fox is a mouth piece for the Right, that shows your political bias to the left. Sure, they're farther to the right than nearly half the country, but they're far to the left of the larger portion of the other half. Considering the center has drifted to the left over the last 30-40 years, I'd put Fox just right of center... Even with the obvious right leanings of several of it's commentary and editorial shows. Obama doesn't like having tough questions asked of him. That's all. Especially without a teleprompter nearby. It's political strong arm tactics... Chicago style. Being Left-wing shills doesn't disqualify MSNBC or CNN from being news organizations. How does being slightly to the right rank as more distasteful? Obama is opening up a can of worms the Left ought to be wary of. What happens when a Conservative has the White House (and Congress) and decides there are several other candidates for Presidential attacks and banishment from access to his administration? Outrage and indignation from the Left. That's what... And Fox will be right there to back them up. You can count on that. Hell, Rupert Murdoch even endorsed Hillary for her Senate bid.

ChinaShopBull

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H1N1 has mutated. We're screwed now! Posted: 10/28/2009 3:01:30 PM
ORLY? http://voices.washingtonpost.com/44/2009/10/27/obama_girls_vaccinated_against.html?wprss=44 Well that settles that. There's no way the Washington Post would be party to spreading propaganda for a sitting Liberal Democrat. 95% of Americans will get a tax cut, and Obama Care won't cost Americans a dime more than it already does. Those girls could have been vaccinated for ringworm for all we know. I'm not saying they didn't get the shots. I'm just saying that there's no way to be certain.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Decent guys: are they all either taken or gay? Posted: 10/28/2009 2:50:49 PM
Barney Frank is both. Oh, Wait! He isn't decent. Barney's not really gay. He's just really embarrassed by his speech impediment.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Looking for perfection? Posted: 10/28/2009 1:14:11 PM
I wouldn't want perfection, even if it were attainable, but that doesn't mean I'd settle for all jacked up either. "All jacked up" is defined by me, and may not be the opinion of the next person. In reality, the "perfection" we all seek is just a range of acceptable qualities from our personal perspectives. What I might be perfectly happy with, may be "all jacked up" for someone else.

ChinaShopBull

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What do you consider too much skin? Posted: 10/28/2009 9:27:31 AM
My definition for "too much skin" adjusts on a case by case basis.

ChinaShopBull

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what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed Posted: 10/28/2009 4:58:22 AM
what do you do if you male date starts crying in bed 10) Turn off the lights. 9) Ask the gay midget to leave. 8) Loosen your grip on his balls. 7) Explain that "eating him all up" was meant figuratively. 6) Try a smaller strap-on. 5) Put away the knife. 4) Hide the peanut butter and put the dog out. 3) Unclench your thighs. 2) Call a paramedic. That grinding sound was his pelvis turning to powder. 1) Lower the voltage.

ChinaShopBull

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why is that an older woman looking for younger men is OK but...older men for younger girls is BAD Posted: 10/27/2009 2:10:38 PM
Have you ever tried to date ladies around your age who don't act, look, feel their age? Nobody would call you sick if you do so. Your problem solved! That's just it, those women tend to choose to date younger men, as well. (Not that there's anything wrong with that.) I date women I'm attracted to. Age doesn't affect that to any large degree, since it's generally not printed on their forehead. If I'm attracted to a woman, and find out she's my age or older, it doesn't change my attraction. It just doesn't happen very often.

ChinaShopBull

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H1N1 has mutated. We're screwed now! Posted: 10/27/2009 12:59:15 PM
Chinashopbull posted a mashup of music set to the vaccine victim's affliction that was in extremely poor taste. Yes it was in poor taste, but not meant as a joke. I didn't make the video and saw no humor in it. It just happened to be how I first learned of this girl. Unfortunately, I added it to this thread without checking for a better version. As you can see, I replaced it as soon as I found a better choice. We can't have the super sensitive getting all out of shape and side-tracked.

ChinaShopBull

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H1N1 has mutated. We're screwed now! Posted: 10/27/2009 9:30:52 AM
What's worse... The flu, or the possible side effects of the vaccine? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mScGC7nFDxM&feature=related

ChinaShopBull

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attracted to blondes last ten years...all of a sudden brunettes...anyone else? Posted: 10/27/2009 7:25:35 AM
Never really cared about blond hair much... Until I saw an Asian cutie with blonde hair. So I guess I did a limited switch from strictly brunettes, to include blondes who used to be brunettes.

ChinaShopBull

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Would you date a women bigger and more muscular then you? Posted: 10/21/2009 2:42:31 PM
If I were 5'4" and weighed 105 lbs. soaking wet, I would. At 6'2" and a leanish 205, there aren't many attractive women my size or bigger... If any.

ChinaShopBull

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Yes, men have needs too! Posted: 10/21/2009 12:29:46 PM
Farceur has it nailed. It's the natural progression of women being in command of their financial needs, and living in a society that affords them relative safety and reasonable expectation of protection by the Law. Everything an independent attractive woman has to offer a man is on her terms. For a man to have any chance of equality, inside a relationship, he must choose a lesser mate. One that isn't in demand or capable of supporting herself. Hardly an attractive proposition from my perspective. Being an independent man, through hard work and hard knocks, I do not "need" a woman for anything. Part of me dreads the day I meet a woman I do "need", for surely it can't end well. Part of me can't wait.

ChinaShopBull

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Yes, men have needs too! Posted: 10/21/2009 8:35:16 AM
Yeah. We're more complicated than that, but any day that includes a Philly cheese-steak and blowjob is a good day.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Decent guys: are they all either taken or gay? Posted: 10/21/2009 8:29:20 AM
I've never heard a quality woman ask this question.... Just sayin'.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? Posted: 10/20/2009 4:00:20 PM
My guess would be that pretty women don't need to be good in bed to keep the guys, and ugly women need to compensate for their unattractiveness. THIS COMMENT IS SO FAR FROM THE TRUTH..... a person size, shape, color has nothing to do with ones sexuality !! Maybe not directly, but how someone views or values themselves makes a difference in many aspects of behavior (both positively and negatively), regardless of how anyone else sees or values them. It's not how the world views us that makes the most difference in how we perform (in all matters); but, the world CAN influence how we see ourselves. There are many reasons why someone might be good or bad in bed. That doesn't mean that there is no truth in a comment that doesn't apply to you personally. Some women DO try harder because of their less than ideal appearance. Some women never meet a man that needs a little extra attention to overcome the view, and haven't developed their skills beyond beginner levels.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Virginity keep it or blow it??? Posted: 10/14/2009 7:55:28 AM
Fek I'm selling mine for $5 million on EBay. Hell, I'd sell mine for a steak dinner.... As many times as possible.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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How many women fantasize watching their man with another man? Posted: 10/14/2009 7:43:11 AM
CSB, Are you volunteering? You look purdy. I'd have to see how you look in a dress before I can answer that question.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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How many women fantasize watching their man with another man? Posted: 10/13/2009 6:11:44 PM
I find the idea exciting. Sexuality is an interesting thing. I am straight, but if my partner wanted to make this fantasy happen, I would do it. I have watched gay porn with a girlfriend and it made both of us hot. Ya gotta love the "I'm straight, but I'd suck a d!ck." posts. CSB... (Just another closet homo hatin' on the open minded. )

ChinaShopBull

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What adult movie would you suggest watching Posted: 10/13/2009 9:49:10 AM
If I had to pick one movie that every woman I've ever watched them with has enjoyed, I'd pick "Zazel". (I think it may one of my favorites, too. ) It's different from other porn I've seen in that it has a dreamlike quality to it's production. Very well done flick, even if it is about a decade old.

ChinaShopBull

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I am not sexually attracted to my own ethnicity Posted: 10/7/2009 5:34:32 PM
Im not really attracted to blonde guys.. haha Same thing?? Yeah, I get that. I'm not attracted to women with thinning hair and hairy chests either. I guess that's not really the same thing. Is it. ____________________________________ Seriously. I am mostly attracted to Asian women. Not that I'm not attracted to women of my own ethnicity, as well... But when I am, those women tend to be well above average in the looks department. I am more likely to (subconsciously) let flaws slide with Asian ladies, and concentrate on their positives.

ChinaShopBull

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Are they really studying this in the UK? Golddigging is not a myth. Posted: 10/7/2009 3:17:06 PM
Who cares? Even if all women are gold diggers all men have to do is refuse to get married to someone poorer than them and not buy her anything. I would never marry below me financially ever. I agree 100%.... BTW, I'm 43 and still looking. I hope you have better luck, Yungin'.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Who Does All The Work In Bed? Posted: 10/7/2009 8:29:32 AM
As far as I know most women do those things on the bottom also (touch him, move their hips, etc.) That would be a big negatory. It's not common. Most of the movement women use in bed with me is a result of what I am doing to them, or an effort to get themselves off. Very rare is the woman that is active in a manner designed to get their man off or keep him excited. The guys I've discussed this with tend to agree, but add that the less attractive the woman is, the less true this seems to be. Having no experience with unattractive women, I have to take them at their word on this. I'm not interested in verifying this point with personal experience.

ChinaShopBull

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Very long hair on a woman is very femine and sexy, but few women have long hair Posted: 10/6/2009 10:27:11 AM
I can't say I prefer long hair, as I've noted earlier. It depends on the woman, and what looks best on her. Some women actually look better with short hair. I do understand the frustration of TOMic Bomb with older women who can't deal with a man dating mostly younger women. They don't seem to have a problem with women dating younger men though.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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Is it possible to like both very voluptuous women and super-skinny ones? Posted: 10/5/2009 4:53:08 PM
Yes, it is. In fact it's possible to like some skinny women and not others. It's also possible to like some voluptuous women and not others. Veronica Zemanova is voluptuous without being out of shape and flabby. Keira Knightley is skinny without being bony and unfit. I find them both attractive, but not because of their body type, but because they are fit and healthy looking.

ChinaShopBull

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Do Big Trucks turn on the Ladies??? Posted: 10/5/2009 3:23:35 PM
I had pictures of cars hanging on my walls long before I ever noticed women. I find it interesting that women would think the cars I choose to buy are in any way related to them, or anything else other than my own desire to own a car that appeals to my personal love of automobiles. I know there are men that buy cars for their appeal to the opposite sex, but most of us do not. The reason why many of us do not drive expensive cars before we reach middle age, is because most of us can't afford them before then. Some women are interested in cars the same way I am. Some of them gauge the wealth of the driver by what he drives and are drawn by that (or repulsed). Many do not care at all. Others play the sour grapes game... (His penis is probably small. He's compensating.) They recognize (subconsciously) that if a man does buy a car with the intent of attracting women with it, then she probably isn't attractive enough to be the woman he's trying to attract.

ChinaShopBull

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Two orgasms with the same erection? Posted: 9/29/2009 11:56:21 AM
Posted By: CCsMom Message: I dont get some of these responses from men. I give my BF multiple orgasms (He's never had multiples with any of his prior gfs), during sex. Normally 3 or 4 within an hour or hour an a half time frame. He claims I "Milk it out of him". 'Taking' his orgasm is very erotic for me. Why are all these other men saying they can only get 2 if they go at it for several hours or all night???? Makes me think the women aren't doing their jobs. Just like us men, not all women are working with the same tools or skills sets.... Let alone putting in the same amount of effort. Most women seem to expect the man to be responsible for his own orgasm... Of course that's only after taking care of his primary responsibility... Her orgasm. As far as multiple orgasms go, I've been with a couple of women that could drive me that crazy. Most leave me struggling to get one.

ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007

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men that love big women Posted: 9/29/2009 8:53:55 AM
Human beings are quite flexible and adapt to their surroundings and options well. People tend to develop preferences that they can attain. If my preferences didn't match the women I can actually date, then I would be an aberration. The same thing goes for everyone. If you cannot find a person (you are attracted to) to date, then your standards are too high, or you need to work on your own appearance (or whatever it is that's holding you back... Finances, personality, personal hygiene....) in order to elevate your quality of options.

ChinaShopBull

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Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it Posted: 9/29/2009 8:34:17 AM
If I was sleeping with someone I had no real feelings for, an ugly vagina (as defined by my tastes) would be a deal killer. If it was someone I truly cared for, it would have to be truly deformed or mutilated to be an issue. Even then, I don't think it would be a major issue... Unless I suspect it had been a penis in the past. :o

ChinaShopBull

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Strong opinions on pot smoking here and abouts; why? Posted: 9/23/2009 2:29:08 PM
it's THC...not HTC...and my question to China is...why is it illegal? Typo... (Shame emoticon goes here.) As far as why, I really don't care. I've heard all kinds of theories, but no solid reasons. It's not that big of a deal to me. If I never get to smoke MJ for the rest of my life, I'll be fine.

ChinaShopBull

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Strong opinions on pot smoking here and abouts; why? Posted: 9/23/2009 11:58:43 AM
Pot is illegal. I can lose my job for a positive drug screen for HTC. Therefore, I avoid smoking the stuff or socializing with people who do. It's simple really. Eliot Ness was asked what he'd do if prohibition was repealed. He answered... "Have a drink." If pot is ever legalized, maybe I'll follow his lead.

ChinaShopBull

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BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured?? Posted: 9/23/2009 9:58:10 AM
I learned years ago there are three things a man should never ask a woman about: 1) her age 2) her weight 3) is she going through menopause. You left out the big one these days.... "Are you pregnant?" Or... "When's the baby due?" You just can't tell sometimes.

ChinaShopBull

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Msg: 145 (view)

Do Big Trucks turn on the Ladies??? Posted: 9/23/2009 9:47:28 AM
Really...you must not spend much time on the CB! No. I don't. That's the idiot box. You get to listen to the same 5 or 6 idiots for miles (or all night long, if you're trashy enough to listen to one while you're in a truck stop) making the rest of us look like a bunch of idiots too by association. You don't strike me as particularly bright or knowledgeable on the subject, so I'll not be discussing it further with you. It's a bit off the original topic anyway.

ChinaShopBull

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Women more likely to have one-night-stand while on vacation? Posted: 9/22/2009 6:58:26 PM
If you're single (which is the topic here) I'd say it goes without saying that you're on vacation without an SO. If one isn't in existence, it'd be hard to include them. Single or not, the issue is the same. Women are more likely to cheat on vacation, than at home, also. Not guaranteed, just more likely than normal. Beyond that what single people do is their right and their choice, so long as they aren't hurting anyone or doing anything that's unsafe. I think the word promiscuity is too vague and too often used in describing women. Promiscuity is a word. Nothing more. It was used as defined for both men and women. I concede that what one person considers promiscuous may not be the same for another. I wasn't attempting to assign a moral value to any actions. If you think men aren't on a mission to have a lot of sex with strangers outside their usual environment, you haven't seen a lot of guys on spring break. I think I said just the opposite of that. The thing is, most of those same guys are the same or similarly inclined, inside their usual environment. A smaller percentage of guys are behaving differently in relation to how they'd respond to possible sexual encounters while away from home. They may behave differently in the pursuit of it, but only because they know that (in the situation of Spring Break as you've chosen to use as an example) the women around them are more open to the idea. Having said that, Spring Break isn't the only time people go on vacation, and while men may be as open to (and in the pursuit of) sex as women on vacation (And probably even more so), their chances of actually finding it are greatly reduced in comparison to women... Unless they want to pay for it.

ChinaShopBull

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BBW...Why is it so hard to be full figured?? Posted: 9/22/2009 3:12:17 PM
Most obesity researchers now agree that metabolic differences, not willpower, are the driving forces behind weight and appetite control. Studies suggest that an imbalance of brain chemicals and hormones, including cortisol, ghrelin, leptin and serotonin, can increase cravings and make certain foods difficult to resist. You do know that our metabolic rates are not static. Metabolic rates can be affected by exercise and diet, among other things. http://www.bodybuildingforyou.com/articles-submit/jeremy-likness/dont-let-metabolism-fall.htm Willpower may not be the direct cause of obesity, but it takes willpower to get off your ass and get into the gym to stimulate the changes required to maintain a healthy weight (and a higher metabolic rate).

ChinaShopBull

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Women more likely to have one-night-stand while on vacation? Posted: 9/22/2009 1:30:55 PM
the bottom line is some single women may take advantage of being somewhere they don't know anyone, even if the weather isn't any different. And some don't do stuff like that, even if they could because it's not their thing. I suspect there are men in both categories as well. This isn't a gender thing. Male or female, if you are somewhere you know no one - you can make it what you want to. Agreed... to a point. Women are fond of pointing out a double standard of behavior for men and women; so, while in a place where they're not known, many women will feel freer to act upon opportunities they don't act upon at home. Men, on the other hand, (while they may also behave differently) do not vary their behavior (so far as promiscuity goes) to the extremes that many women do while on vacation without an SO. Women often comment on the quality of men they meet in other places, compared to where they live. I think it's their own behavior and sense of freedom that changes, not the quality of the men they encounter. I'd say yes, in general, women are more likely to have a one night stand on vacation than when they are at home.

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