Show ALL Forums
Posted In Forum:

Home   login   MyForums  
 
 Author Thread: Padded Bras??? And Why Do You Wear Them???
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 86 (view)
 
Padded Bras??? And Why Do You Wear Them???
Posted: 8/20/2012 11:15:44 PM

I'm sure that if there was a padded T-shirt/jeans/jocks to enhance male biceps/pecs/quads/penis most of you guys would be wearing it!



There are, and (for the most part) we don't.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 2998 (view)
 
Internet dating: sucks for guys, good for women.
Posted: 8/13/2012 8:38:49 PM
I don't care what anybody says. If you are used to dating physically attractive women (and expect to continue to do so.), online dating is going to be a big disappointment for you. There are just too few attractive women, on online dating sites, compared to comparably attractive men. That means that women have a much greater opportunity to "date up" online, and fully expect to.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 528 (view)
 
bald guys
Posted: 8/9/2012 7:34:27 AM
God only made so many perfect heads... He covered the rest with hair.


 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 480 (view)
 
How to find out penis size
Posted: 8/8/2012 2:21:24 PM
How to find out penis size



Open your mouth, close your eyes,
and you will get a big surprise...

Or maybe not. It's all relative.

 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 206 (view)
 
Big vaginas-fact or fallacy?
Posted: 8/6/2012 8:35:22 PM

women have to go more, that's why there are lines outside the women s bathroom.



If more women went to the bathroom without their entourage, the lines would be much shorter.

 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 34 (view)
 
What does cd stand for??
Posted: 8/1/2012 6:14:12 AM
What does cd stand for??



They stand to piss.


 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 132 (view)
 
Gangbang
Posted: 7/31/2012 2:30:49 PM
If I want to drive a nail, I grab a hammer. If I want to drive a screw, I get a screw driver. If I really tried, I could reverse the tools and make them work, but it would most often be a mess and always be more work than I should be bothered to do. Not when I can just get the right tool for the job.

If I ever want to be part of a gang-bang (and I never will), then a woman who is up for it is just the ticket. If I want a relationship with someone who is compatible with my moral standards (which do vary from person to person, and is important in any relationship), I'd have to take a pass and look for a better match for the job. No hard feelings. She's just not for me; and, I'm surely not for her.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 339 (view)
 
can a woman get spoiled by a BIG penis???
Posted: 7/31/2012 11:38:45 AM
If it matters so much then there needs to be a new profile specification on POF.



For men AND women. I find that just a little too small is just right for me. How many women with big receivers would be left in the same lonely place as those fellas with the misfortune of being especially small?



To send a message to BigDickDaddy you MUST meet the following criteria:
Female (edit)
Age between 21 and 46 (edit)
Must not have selected "Monster C0ck" as penis preference (edit)
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
What men do
Posted: 7/26/2012 10:12:02 AM
I'm confused... Are you implying there are women who aren't bat-sh!t crazy?


Who knew? ¯\_(O_o)_/¯


 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 64 (view)
 
when to tell?
Posted: 7/25/2012 5:01:47 PM
Some dudes say they want FWB, FB, NSA, etc. What they really want is freedom to do whatever they like while you sit home waiting for the call to come jump on them. No thanks...



Being a serial monogamist, I have a hard time getting my head around fvcking multiple people. It would be hard
for me to have a FWB who is f*cking other people, because I won't be. I'd rather go without, frankly.


______________________________

To the OP: Some guys don't care what you do, as long as you're available for them when they need it. (Unless you
find a guy who also has a harem. Then you'd better be good enough to stay on his list, if you aren't available too
often.) Others don't like being just another d!ck in the crowd. Be honest about what you want, and the guys will weed
themselves out and make room for the ones who can deal with you... Or those who have to take what they can get.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 117 (view)
 
favorite positions
Posted: 7/25/2012 10:19:53 AM
It's so hard to choose just one. I constantly bounce back and forth between "In" and "Out."



 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 166 (view)
 
Big vaginas-fact or fallacy?
Posted: 7/24/2012 9:07:06 PM

What it is saying is that the "virgina" has a mind of its own...a clear evidence of a living organism capable of "shape shifting"



This is true. I once saw one that looked exactly like Abe Vigoda.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 13 (view)
 
What does cd stand for??
Posted: 7/24/2012 6:07:25 PM
I means you need to be ready for a "Crying Game" moment.



__________________________________________________
__________________________________________________


Franks and Beans. lol
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Who else finds pregnant women sexy
Posted: 7/24/2012 11:44:45 AM
Some women are beautiful, even while pregnant. I wouldn't say it was by any means universally true.
Though a woman who is having your baby might be the most beautiful thing in the world to most men.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Erectile Dysfunction ... how prevalent is it?
Posted: 7/24/2012 11:10:44 AM

People are sitting around getting fat and it is killing their sex lives.



Bingo. A man's performance and desire are diminished by the health issues of being out of shape. But the flip side is also true. A man's desire and performance are affected when women are out of shape, or just plain not attractive to them. The older men get, the less physical beauty they have access to... Regardless of how physically fit and capable the man is.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 8 (view)
 
An Unusual Pattern
Posted: 7/19/2012 11:33:43 AM
Think of all your previous relationships as dry rice cake. By itself it's not that appealing. Throw some strawberry sauce over it, and it's better. It takes longer to get bored with it. Sex can make a poor match seem better. Especially good sex.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 112 (view)
 
Sex with a M2F post op female is as good or better then a real woman.
Posted: 7/18/2012 2:56:55 PM
You don't have to win everyone over. As I read this thread, it seems there is larger percentage of guys who will accept a TS than there are of women who would accept a balding blue collar man under 5'5" and over the age of 40. LOL None of us have the acceptance of everyone. The further you are from mainstream, the harder it always is. You can spend your life beating your head against a wall, or enjoy those who do accept you for who you are... No matter what that is.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 159 (view)
 
Has anyone had a good relationship with someone on POF?
Posted: 7/12/2012 11:00:28 AM
Has anyone had a good relationship with someone on POF?



Haven't even had a bad one. (O_o)

Location can make a big difference if you're a little picky. Not much going on in my area.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 80 (view)
 
Too Tall?
Posted: 7/12/2012 9:01:44 AM
I'm not a freak of nature or anything, but I'm 6'2" and 230 lbs. I've dated sub five footers and close to six feet. Never felt uncomfortable beside any woman I found attractive, and couldn't care less what anyone else thinks. I probably have been dismissed as a potential partner because I was too tall before though. Some women just don't like a man to be that much taller than they are. If we have a little muscle, we can be heavy, too. However, I did date a woman, 5'2" 130lbs. and a size 5, who could carry me piggy-back. That was interesting.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 436 (view)
 
Why do men think it is okay to bother ladies at the gym that aren't scantily clad?
Posted: 7/12/2012 8:16:47 AM

I think you're looking at this the wrong way. People SHOULD have respect for other people's boundaries. A stranger shouldn't have to EARN your respect so that you don't make a pest of yourself. Remember, you're the one intruding on someone else when you hit on them. Be a decent human being.



I agree that people should respect other's boundaries, but I know good looking women who almost never get hit on. Anywhere. And others who mostly only get hit on when they want to be. I won't approach a woman unless she's giving signals that she wants to be approached. Those signals have to be clear, or I miss them. Being dressed a certain way is not one of those signals. (Though that doesn't mean she hasn't dressed to be noticed.) Repeated eye contact with a smile may be the most subtle sign I might act upon... If I'm interested, too. Usually, I have to be beaten over the head to catch on, but some men are more in tune. This is what I'm getting at: Some women give off conflicting signals. Some women are flirtatious by nature and can't friggin' turn it off. They don't even know they are giving off these signals. They spend all their time fighting off guys they don't want to be standing in front of. Well, most of their time. The rest of it they spend ****ing about guys that don't "know their place." Of course there are those guys who hit on everyone, playing the numbers.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Did Him Now MIA
Posted: 7/11/2012 9:31:20 AM
Sounds like a POF user with a Catch and Release policy...
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 414 (view)
 
Why do men think it is okay to bother ladies at the gym?
Posted: 7/10/2012 10:36:02 PM
There are gyms for ladies only.

If you go to a gym that has a bunch of guys, they are going to notice attractive women. Some of them are going to approach you, and a few will not be gentlemen. And the guy you want to approach you will either be checking out the other guys, or more interested in the lady teaching the kickboxing classes. Pretty much the same as any other situation.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Have you ever been in a relationship with someone you did not find attractive physically?
Posted: 7/10/2012 12:30:17 PM
I've been with women I initially found attractive, who became less so when things started falling
apart in the relationship. Flaws I first thought of as inconsequential became huge turn offs.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 592 (view)
 
older guys younger women
Posted: 7/4/2012 3:58:45 PM

(29-44) is clearly shown on my profile.



Maybe it's just my old eyes (lol), but I'm pretty sure your age range is (29-41). I have to admit though, that's more generous than I was at your age (36). Even so, I too have been inundated with messages and flirts from very old women (and very large women). That's been true since I placed my first internet ad back in my late 20's. It's not just men who can't be realistic. I don't mind them browsing my profile though. I'll probably be looking at every woman I find attractive (regardless of her age) until they throw dirt over me. I can't begrudge women doing the same.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 49 (view)
 
How long is the recovery time for men between orgasms?
Posted: 7/3/2012 7:31:02 PM
By the time I get to my first, a second is more of a threat than a promise. (O_o)






(In response to the next post.) Just "ewww" and "yuck" in general. Get a sense of humor.


 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Should I tell her I'm a virgin?
Posted: 6/27/2012 9:14:43 PM

and it's even funnier that you automatically assume revealing our number would put us in a negative light.........


I said "may," and that depends on the people involved. Why else would anyone withhold a number than to avoid judgement? Otherwise, who cares?


we're not talking about teenagers here.....but grown adults. She will know or think he's the clumsiet lover she's ever met.


My first was a 26 year old widow with lots of prior experience. I was 19 and she didn't know she was my first, until it came up sometime later. But so what if his lover does realize, or suspect. If it's a big deal, she'll move on, and he'll have a learning experience or two. The next one won't be his first.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Should I tell her I'm a virgin?
Posted: 6/27/2012 8:19:07 PM

Not telling her may end up with you not getting another date!!


So could telling her.

________________________________

I've read women on this very site say that they would dump a guy the found out was a virgin (for various reasons, and some of them not very pleasant). Hopefully OP's lady isn't like that, but why introduce a possible negative that is none of her business?

It's funny that the same women who think men should mind their own business about sexual questions (that may put them in a less than favorable light) are urging a man to volunteer information about himself that could be equally damaging to his prospective relationship. (Not that it should be damaging.)

He's not hurting her in any way by not sharing this information. The first woman I was with found out that she was my first almost a year later. She had no idea. Not every first timer goes in unprepared, or with a two pumps and I'm out reaction to the V-jay.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 24 (view)
 
What do you think?
Posted: 6/27/2012 5:28:24 PM
That one's too easy. It's incestuous and gay. Here's one better. If your penis were long enough to stick in your own butt, would that be gay? And could you build a million dollar Vegas show around it for America's Got Talent? lol
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 2 (view)
 
Should I tell her I'm a virgin?
Posted: 6/27/2012 4:01:13 PM
According to most of the women on this forum, the number of partners you've had is none of
anybody's business but your own. I guess that goes for zero as well as it does for 400.


 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Question Concerning Body Type, Smoking or Religion?
Posted: 6/27/2012 2:35:11 PM
Another person who thinks it's a choice between inside and outside. Both count equally, especially at first.


Burn her! Burn her! lol

 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 187 (view)
 
Anyone else only come here for the forums?
Posted: 6/26/2012 8:55:14 AM
I joined just for the forums. Some years ago I was on another site that had forums, and this site was mentioned as an alternative when that one shut down. The people who recommended it did so reluctantly, as they felt the site was run by a bunch of ban happy nudniks. You definitely have to walk a fine line, but it's been interesting.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Nowcall that is simply rude.
Posted: 6/20/2012 5:44:24 PM
I know this thread is a few years old, but with a little time spent on Google I came across a new option being explored on the topic of restoration, through regeneration. Although not a viable option yet, there is some promise.


http://www.foregen.org/
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 142 (view)
 
what are the real reasons why a guy can't get hard/cum?
Posted: 6/19/2012 2:59:20 PM
The recent Sorrells study found that circumcision regularly removes the 5 most sensitive parts of the penis and 75% of the nerves. Taylor found the foreskin has ~20,000 nerves, twice as many as the clitoris and 3 times as many as the glans.



Starting with a circumcised penis is step one to requiring firmer stimulation to reach orgasm. Throw in masturbation, drugs/medication, stress, depression, or distractions of other sorts, and you might have a man who can get it up and not finish... And maybe not even maintain an erection. Even young men can be subject to this problem. It affects each individual differently, as each foreskin and removal are not the same or equal. Some may not have a problem at all, having not known what they are missing, and also retaining a higher level of sensitivity. Others may have lost as much as 60% of their pleasure receptors (nerve endings) with the flick of a knife. We hear about and condemn female mutilation (circumcision) in Africa, while regularly snipping our own little boys... And then treat them poorly when the results of that mutilation become evident.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 77 (view)
 
Why do some men think women who like sex are bad girls?
Posted: 6/19/2012 4:34:23 AM

I can only get so far into a thread on this subject before the posts start making me think of the opening scenes of the movie "Idiocracy."


"YAH-HOO!"
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 62 (view)
 
womens valuable vs mens valuables?
Posted: 6/18/2012 8:33:05 PM


He must have said that when he was nineteen



No. At that age, my understanding is that he was doing drugs and engaging in activity he eventually felt was inappropriate.



As in it's a childish notion. Duh.
 hardayknight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 46 (view)
 
womens valuable vs mens valuables?
Posted: 6/18/2012 9:42:51 AM
He must have said that when he was nineteen.
 hardayknight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 64 (view)
 
Older man, is he shy or not interested?
Posted: 6/16/2012 6:36:29 AM
The move I most often get from younger women has been her slipping me her number and saying, "you can call me if you want."


__________________________________________________
__________________________________________________
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Older man, is he shy or not interested?
Posted: 6/14/2012 8:36:55 AM

Could he think I wouldn't be interested because I'm much younger


That's usually how I feel when a much younger woman catches my eye. Even if she seems to be showing interest, too. Sometimes young women feel comfortable around older men and give off mixed signals. I generally have to be knocked over the head and dragged off, before I start to think there might be a mutual connection.
 ChinaShopBull
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 67 (view)
 
What unique, physical feature do you find sexy....
Posted: 6/13/2012 7:17:52 PM

Generous lips are a must.


We sometimes want in others what we ourselves don't have.



Zing! Do you feel better about yourself now?

 ChinaShopBull
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Guys, is masturbating 5x a day abnormal in your 30s??
Posted: 6/13/2012 7:10:08 PM

I'm also wondering how much stimulation it typically takes a guy to be hard enough for intercourse in his 30s or 40s.


Depends on who's doing the stimulating.


If a guy is really into a woman, and she's up for it when he is, then I don't see the point of masturbation.
 ChinaShopBull
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 50 (view)
 
What unique, physical feature do you find sexy....
Posted: 6/13/2012 3:23:48 PM

Some of what I like:

-Freckles on a guy's back
-Beauty mark/mole's on private places such as a guy's ass cheek, or inner thighs
-Chiseled/angular facial feature
-Blue or green eyes
-Thick eyebrows that aren't overgrown, yet not metro-sexual
-Medium sized lips
- A man's nipples



Missed it by a -Chiseled/angular facial feature. And about 600 miles or so. lol
 ChinaShopBull
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 48 (view)
 
What unique, physical feature do you find sexy....
Posted: 6/13/2012 2:28:28 PM
I like to be able to see a muscular hint of strength under a thin covering of feminine softness. Legs, abs, shoulders, butt, back, everything. Dark eyes and hair are a plus. Generous lips are a must.
 ChinaShopBull
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 303 (view)
 
What does voluptuous mean to you?
Posted: 6/13/2012 6:43:32 AM
Veronica Zemanova! Voluptuous perfection.

 ChinaShopBull
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 81 (view)
 
question for the women....could be graphic
Posted: 6/12/2012 9:53:21 AM
Go to a site that allows graphic photos. Put up two identical male profiles, except in one add an impressive penis photo. I bet you'll be surprised at the extra attention one of those profiles gets over the other.

Men who send those pictures do it mainly for two reasons. Some guys get off on it (for a variety of reasons), and some women do, too. For me, it's all fun and games until someone gets Anthony Weiner(ed) or Brett Favre(ed). No amateur penis modeling for me, thanks.
 ChinaShopBull
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 262 (view)
 
can a woman get spoiled by a BIG penis???
Posted: 6/6/2012 3:39:57 PM
What's that old saying? "I may not always be able to hit the bottom, but I can bang the hell out of the sides." lol


I think that's how it goes anyway. (O_o)




Umm... This IS the creepy post thread, right?








 ChinaShopBull
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 35 (view)
 
open relationships
Posted: 6/6/2012 1:42:47 PM
I'm not an open relationship kind of guy, but from reading these forums over the years, the one thing that people who have successfully pulled them off is that they stress the need for certain strengths inside the relationship. Trust, Respect, and Security... (And probably some others I could add to the list if I really put the effort into thinking about it.) Starting out with a history of cheating and selfishness doesn't sound promising to me.
 ChinaShopBull
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 21 (view)
 
open relationships
Posted: 6/6/2012 11:49:49 AM
So... you want to continue having sex with other men without feeling like you're cheating on him (Which you've already have done on more than one occasion.); but you're afraid he might actually be able to find sex outside the relationship, and you can't take it? Sounds like the typical cheater to me. What you really want is for him to never have caught you out, and still be punking him. He's a fool IMO for being with you at all.
 ChinaShopBull
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Why do some men think women who like sex are bad girls?
Posted: 6/6/2012 10:32:24 AM
Since when is "liking sex" a euphemism for being promiscuous? Hell,
promiscuity doesn't necessarily even indicate an enjoyment of sex.
 ChinaShopBull
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 7 (view)
 
What If Your Cat (or Dog) Was Your Better Half?
Posted: 5/30/2012 2:55:45 PM
I get along better with pizza and Philly cheese-steak than people,
but they just don't make for good long term relationships.

 ChinaShopBull
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 579 (view)
 
You are Hot!!!
Posted: 5/30/2012 9:47:05 AM
Would you prefer: "Eh! I guess you're okay."?


I'm not interested in dating anyone I don't find more than just passingly attractive. (In addition to being attractive on the inside.) Expressing that in a way that she appreciates can be a challenge. Some women don't like to be referred to as sexy by a man she's just met, or hot... But others are insulted by being called cute. And others feel that beautiful and stunning are over the top and disingenuous. If you don't compliment at all, others feel you aren't interested. Damned if you do. Damned if you don't. lol
 
Show ALL Forums