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straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 20 (view)

Love-handles Posted: 9/24/2009 5:38:55 AM
Vegetarianism can be bad because you cannot build fat burning muscle as well as people who have a normal diet, on top of that, there are some things the body needs critically in meat, such as fish which people ate for thousands of generations meaning genetically we are made to eat meat to above Thats insane, In my whole life Inever have eaten more than 10 plates of meat, back before I got wise. And I am younger looking and in better shape than my meat eating friends and family. I really saw the difference when an ex had a roommate who was a butcher and he claimed to be getting the best meals ever, the best cuts. Well he looked like a bloated red faced mess after a month of that diet. He looked fine after the guy moved and he went back to meat once a month or so. We don't need meat, it's raised in filth, pumped with growth hormones and the animals are so sick they have to fill them with antibiotics too. Read the August issue of Time magazine. Meat today cannot be comapred to meat back when it was hunted . If one must eat meat it should be from a natural humanely raised source.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 12 (view)

How Important is it that you have chemistry with someone? Posted: 8/27/2009 5:01:28 PM
question was how important it was,, not whether it was posssible, obviously it is!

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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How Important is it that you have chemistry with someone? Posted: 8/27/2009 4:51:19 PM
I never said after a certain age it was not important, I said it was more important, because it is all the more allusive. and did I say say I knew of no differnce between spark and chemistry? hmm nope don't think I did.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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How Important is it that you have chemistry with someone? Posted: 8/27/2009 4:26:41 PM
The chemistry I speak of is a feeling of being pulled to another person, hard not to touch them, opposite magnets come to mind. (or are men like that with any attractive woman ;) In my experience hot chemistry is not common, esp. after a certain age, so it would seem to be very important. You can find all kinds of attractions but that spark of chemistry is something different Thoughts?

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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drink-on-keyboard-help? Posted: 8/26/2009 7:09:40 AM
excuse-me-mr-addict I-don't-need-YOUR-attention!! thank-you-others-for-the-advice!

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 94 (view)

new girlfriend allergic to my cat Posted: 8/26/2009 7:08:20 AM
I-once-dated-a-guy-who-sucked-it-up-that-he-was-allergic-to-my-cats. -he-took-allergy-pills He-cared-enough-not-to-ask-me-to-make-a-choice- In-the-end-his-allergies-decreased-to-nothing-and-he-adored-my-cats-and-adopted-one-of-his-own. He-said-before-me-he-did-not-know-how-loving-and-smart-they-could-be. We-are-still-friends-and-he-always-asks-show-the-cats-are-and-even-sends-treats-now-and-then bottomline-if-the-person-really-cares-they-will-work-out-a-solution-

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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drink-on-keyboard-help? Posted: 8/26/2009 6:46:11 AM
My-kitty--spilled-coffee-on-my-keyboard. I-told-him-not-to-drink-coffee-and-type!-haha Anyway, can-I-get-any-new-keyboard--or-does-it-have-to-match-my-brand-and-model? S0-far-only-the-space-key-sticks.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Your Pet or YourRelationship? Posted: 6/14/2008 8:58:56 AM
Wow, her letting go of a cat she had for 3 years shows says something about her, and it's not good. There are many compromises that could have and should have been made,,

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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MEAT EATER Vs VEGETARIAN Posted: 3/30/2008 8:58:40 AM
Meat today is so full of antibiotics and hormones it is not healthy. Not to mention the horrible abuse of the animals. My solution has been to ask the person to at least eat humanely raised and killed. I never ate meat and look and feel great!

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Just say 'Hi'? Posted: 3/15/2008 8:20:44 AM
This has happened to me a couple of times. I am slighty shy at times in person so when a strange man passes and and just says Hi I am alittle taken back, first off wondering, do I know this man? I think you need more than a hi, you have to comment on something so they can understand you are just being friendly. Or maybe thats becasue I am from NY.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Please Help Me Posted: 3/15/2008 7:14:59 AM
I would say she is just not that into you as they say. I hate the phone myself, rarely use it at all. However if I were interested in someone I might just call or at least e mail. Some folks are telling you to run but since she is not chasing you there is no need to run, just walk to the next..

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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They Only Want You Part Time Posted: 3/12/2008 5:49:25 AM
I am a loyal person but tend to be a loner and still want to maintain my own life , So I do not believe a person who seeks a part time relationship is cheating..

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Top 10 Things That Made Me Click NEXT When I Was Using Dating Sites Posted: 1/20/2008 7:00:35 PM
Some are true, some not, If for example I see a pic. of a guy with a pet I click on it to learn more. A person that has compassion for animals is very telling.... oh but holding a huge dead fish? not so good:(

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Is red hot romance possible after 50? Posted: 1/20/2008 6:50:23 PM
yes, absolutely it is!

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Animal Cruelty Posted: 1/19/2008 11:04:49 AM
Speak up for the animals- they have no voice and rely on moral people to come to thier aid.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 81 (view)

Lies, deception and abortion not a miscarriage Posted: 1/17/2008 11:52:51 AM
"Did I ask you for your stupid opinion? Maybe for you they are a concern, in actual fact I work out, I sprint on the treadmills at 20 Kilometers an hour, I go bush walking, I run, etc. My doctor tells me there are not many people who have a BMI and heart beat rest as I do. So please keep your stupid opinions to yourself." You tried to come off as a nice guy but your true colors are showing by above statement. You come on a public forum so expect all opinions. I said mine. If you have so much love to give why not go to a hospital with crack addicted babies and join the cuddle a baby program? These babies are here alive and in pain. They could use your love if you indeed have it. I think Melissa knows another side of you that would explain alot.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 47 (view)

The sex sucked and the person you've been dating is... Posted: 1/17/2008 11:42:59 AM
Since the male most often takes control of the sex, you have a lot of guts to say that the sex sucked. Almost all women have a sex tiger inside them and it's just a matter of the guy being able to bring it out of her. I agree with that!

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 45 (view)

Always on the defensive. Posted: 1/14/2008 12:09:22 PM
Hmm, guys who won't take a no? I find it easy to just not reply if I do not want them to get the wrong idea. Not a big problem. I have noticed many married men on dating sites who ask if thier being married is a problem? I say yes it is a problem and stop contact. pretty simple. One guy continues to write but I guess that is what the delete button is for...

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Calling all 40-60Something Males? Posted: 1/14/2008 11:34:42 AM
To op, I am not a man but I think that guy must want you and is just trying to scare you so you settle for him!

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Lies, deception and abortion not a miscarriage Posted: 1/14/2008 5:27:58 AM
.Note that there is a big discrepancy between males and females, 73.6 years for men and 79.4 years for women. (Hoyert, Kochanek, and Murphy, 1999). And at 50 your health concerns start becoming much more a concern. This is the time for a person to start really doing all he can for his own health . Bringing a baby into your life at this point becasue YOU will feel good about it is selfish. What are the best intersts of the baby?

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Lies, deception and abortion not a miscarriage Posted: 1/12/2008 8:36:57 PM
OP, it's possible for you to be a father for a long time to come. I think that is irresponsible. If you truly love children why not help those here already? This is a 49 year old man and would be nearly 60 when the kid is 10. That is not an ideal situation for a child at all. Having children can be a very selfish thing if you do not take into account what THEY need versus what YOU want.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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The Silent Treatment......ughhhhhh (lol) Posted: 1/12/2008 1:00:01 PM
I'd tell you but I am not talking to you now...lol

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 32 (view)

just wanted to say good bye Posted: 1/12/2008 12:57:14 PM
There are good and bad everywhere, just a roll of the dice..

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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giving a man your phone number Posted: 1/12/2008 12:41:41 PM
They can't trace your cell phone, but I would wait and only give it to show I am genuine and really interested.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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food scents as perfumes Posted: 1/12/2008 12:34:08 PM
Have you noticed how many women scents currently are vanilla, cotton candy, sugar cokie etc? Just curious what the men think of these perfumes? Do they make the woman more appealing or do they just make you hungry? :)

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Does he really mean what he says? Posted: 1/12/2008 9:29:19 AM
I think if a man is truly interested he will make time to contact and meet you. There are exceptions but after a week or so I would move on.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Lies, deception and abortion not a miscarriage Posted: 1/12/2008 5:26:37 AM
For all the babies that are killed I will say a prayer. We need love not self gratification, life is not cheap It might help you to worry about the babies that were born. There are so many unwanted abused babies here that could use your love, more so then the ones that are never born.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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very true Posted: 1/9/2008 4:47:33 AM
sorry but you lost me at 6 letters? OK count the letters- is it in yet - there are 6 letters used-, some are repeated but there are 6 letters of the alphabet used here,, I S T N Y E not that it really matters ..............

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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very true Posted: 1/6/2008 8:21:42 AM
Its not 6 letters... its 9 count again it's 6 they are just repeats, same letter though... I s t n y e

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Internet dating: sucks for guys, good for women. Posted: 1/6/2008 7:29:00 AM
I know a few women who will go out with a guy get him to pay for dinner and move on to the next guy, they have no intentioon of getting serious and just are on here to get free meals Oh now this an easily solved problem! Just don't meet for dinner, strictly coffee. short and sweet and in a very public place.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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The embarassment that is the Internet Posted: 1/5/2008 9:21:55 AM
I was unaware there was a stigma anymore! Maybe 10 years ago it was kind of odd to say you met on the internet but not now. it's so common. You can really find out more about a person this way then the old fashioned ways. I have met some crazies in real life and via friends and some nice people I am still friends with years later from online.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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excuse me but your ear is blinking! Posted: 1/5/2008 9:15:25 AM
why would this bother you? To me it looks like a person who wants to appear important. I can see it for a doctor but for average people walking about it just seems like overkill. And how can the other person hear you when the device is on your ear and not your mouth? Don't they hear all the noise around you? Oh but for driving I can definitely understand it. I am talking about the people in stores etc..

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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excuse me but your ear is blinking! Posted: 1/5/2008 7:59:50 AM
I am new here and do not know if anyone has talked about the use of blutooth devices. So forgive me If this is a repeat. But I just can't get use to people walking about with a blinking device in thier ear and looking like they are talking to me or themselves. Are you that important that you can't pump your gas or pick up your lunch without being connected?? annoying!!!

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 65 (view)

Are you offended if your date prefers not to tell you her age? Posted: 1/4/2008 1:50:02 PM
All this talk about womens age. How many women have noticed men lying about thier age???

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Do you unconsciously 'mark' your replies to messages? Posted: 1/4/2008 12:23:53 PM
What does marking your message mean???

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 897 (view)

Calling all 40-60Something Males? Posted: 1/3/2008 4:41:00 PM
Maybe because they want to feel young . But ironicallywhen you see an older man with a young woman he looks twice as old in comparison. And you just know his money is a factor in this kind of relationship.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 76 (view)

No Children....Why Posted: 1/3/2008 3:50:47 PM
Montana - I am no one you could ever figure out and I kinda like it that way !

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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new girlfriend allergic to my cat Posted: 1/3/2008 2:38:19 PM
Come on now, if I found the man I wanted to be with I would not let it go becasue he had a cat or dog or kid or anything that I was allergic to. If she was that into you she would work it out somehow and not demand you make a choice!

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 70 (view)

No Children....Why Posted: 1/3/2008 2:07:41 PM
montana I noticed one thing, you need an attitude adjustment, you come across very above it all, although for what reason I have no idea.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 72 (view)

in our age group, what constitutes a GOLD DIGGER??? Posted: 1/3/2008 8:00:03 AM
"I have many women look down on me as I'm covered in grease and oil, treating me as a sub-human idiot. Then sometimes they will see me at the coffee shop, clean with my text books. Once they find out that I'm a Med student they want to "get to know me". I don't change, just their perception of me does. " That's funny becasue I love it when a guy does not mind getting his hands dirty. I use to love wayching my ex fix my car. He could fix anything and I found that attractive!

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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change of mind or run like hell? Posted: 1/3/2008 7:07:17 AM
You mean if you view someone you are saying you are interested?? I hope no tas I view men and women just out of curiosity. It means nothing unless I write a note.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 1/3/2008 6:59:40 AM
In this day and age I feel no picture is a sign of something to hide.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Vigil for...tiger at SF ZOO that killed a man.WTF? Posted: 1/3/2008 6:53:21 AM
I wish people would leave animals in the wild where they belong! You cage and chain these amazing creatures and then wonder why they attack? The zoo messed up and the kids messed up and the tiger was just a vicitm that should not be in a pen no matter how high they build the walls.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 67 (view)

No Children....Why Posted: 1/3/2008 5:47:51 AM
Hey Montana, what are you doing here, don't you have some kids you should be looking after?? Sorry but you just keep going on and on about your joy of kids and sorrow for those without- jeeesh, enough!!

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Stringing me along or just plain confused Posted: 1/3/2008 5:39:59 AM
spay your dog for gods sake!

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

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Middle Aged Cheap Skates.... Posted: 1/3/2008 4:24:12 AM
" what about a broke guy who isn't even attractive, semi-impotent, but only wants to date gorgeous, sexy, smart women" Seems all the older men want the same thing, he can dream...

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 81 (view)

How do you know when a POF member posts a fake pic? Posted: 1/2/2008 1:31:12 PM
tell him to write a specific number on a piece of paper and hold it up and send that pic to you. Anyone with a cell phone can do it, There are no excuses for no photos these days. If he can't do I would not waste any more time on him., he is hiding something.

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 148 (view)

Would you be suspicious if someone only gave you their cellphone number n not their home number?? Posted: 1/2/2008 1:25:33 PM
If he has only a cell no problem ..but if he can only talk at certain times or in hushed tones, forget about it!

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 124 (view)

too involved with pets? Posted: 1/2/2008 1:18:39 PM
I also think the people who dump thier animals becasue they had a kid or it's just not convenient because it's too old are low lifes. I am sure they will be dumped to a nursing home by thier kids when they are old or in the way. karma, wink:

straykat9

Joined: 12/28/2007

Msg: 123 (view)

too involved with pets? Posted: 1/2/2008 1:10:40 PM
I am a big animal lover but if I say I have to get home to my pets it is usually because I am not that into the person I am with. There are arrangements you can make if you really want to. And trust me I always have had a life and continue to have a life, so to the guy that implied otherwise , if I were with you I too would need to rush home to my animals!

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