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restlessmarriedguy

Joined: 4/22/2004

Msg: 156 (view)

guys does this bother you about a girl Posted: 10/4/2007 7:46:32 PM
Bottomline - she's with YOU NOW ! - Therefore YOU must have something these other guys didn't have. You don't need to know what it is or why she's there. Just accept your fortune and ps she's a woman not an object

restlessmarriedguy

Joined: 4/22/2004

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how do you get over your first love? Posted: 10/4/2007 7:27:08 PM
Sorry - the short answer is never - you'll remember them with a heartache for the rest of your life. The only antidote is to find another love (not sex etc but love) that will deaden the pain - but doing that is pretty difficult ! Good luck

restlessmarriedguy

Joined: 4/22/2004

Msg: 52 (view)

What is so inherently wrong with asking for sex? Posted: 10/4/2007 7:12:40 PM
However bad you are reading body language - only the girls not worth going with will not take offense. - The nice ones are not there for sex, they're there because they like you & want to be close to you. - It may end up as sex, but the road has to be travelled (the girl sets the speed). By asking for sex your saying let's fast forward to the end & get on with it. So learn body language or be a little more courageous - not too physical - try to hold their hand, stroke their cheek / hair etc. If you're wrong she'll tell you - just keep in mind she's the right to put on the brakes at anytime

restlessmarriedguy

Joined: 4/22/2004

Msg: 254 (view)

Why do men stare at womens boobs & think we don't notice ??? Posted: 10/4/2007 6:58:55 PM
2 scenarios here :- Boob watching (covered up) It's about sex - pure & simple. If a guy is looking at your boobs - he's thinking of having sex with you. - Some guys looks at all womens boobs and are just totally desparate. Boob watching (bare / clevage / bikini etc) Although it's about sex too, it can be a surprise to the guy & he just CAN'T take his eyes off them. As far as you seeing - that's the hope - that you will acknowldge his interest & reciprocate. PS two other comments - I've seen women examing guys crotches so goes both ways & your guy is after one thing - not a plutonic friendship but wants sex.

restlessmarriedguy

Joined: 4/22/2004

Msg: 129 (view)

how to get a man to chase you ? Posted: 10/4/2007 6:49:58 PM
Depends what you mean by chase. - If you mean "court" slowly then you have to give signs of interest. - In the real world that's done through body language - ie mirroring / licking your lips etc, etc. On POF I think you should keep the conversation going - if you shut him down - or the dreaded read/deleted then the answer is no interest. Hope that that helps

restlessmarriedguy

Joined: 4/22/2004

Msg: 65 (view)

Normal for a man to get aroused by a woman other than girlfriend/wife? Posted: 10/4/2007 6:43:03 PM
Totally normal - for maturbation purposes. Could be a woman on the bus / at work / on a movie etc, etc. - It's safe if those he's thinking of are unattainable, - not so safe if it's a real possibility. But the question you should be asking is WHY is he masturbating. - From a guy's viewpoint it's because he's not getting enough (sorry to be blunt & NOT passing blame). - If you want to avoid this, to paraphrase an old wifes saying feed him at home and he won't look outside (PS Can anyone remember the full saying)?

restlessmarriedguy

Joined: 4/22/2004

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What would you do in this situation? Posted: 10/4/2007 6:35:31 PM
Two wrongs don't make a right - be a gent & let her know that you're not interested.

restlessmarriedguy

Joined: 4/22/2004

Msg: 494 (view)

Sex with minors Posted: 10/4/2007 6:22:33 PM
Although I agree (as I think everyone here) agrees that sex with minors is WRONG. The issue / question that you (akaMrSmith) asked was is it okay for a guy of 25 to date / have sex with a 17yr old. Well I'd ask what age IS acceptable. - After all once she reaches 18 the protection has gone - zero - she's an adult. I've seen (on another site) an 18yr old selling her virginity - as we speak she's at GBP 2,700! So the law is there to protect - but it's really there as the "cure" ie is effective AFTER the damage has been done. - The prevention is how the parents instill morales, guidance etc & how they protect their children. At the end of the day - you (akaMrSmith) are REALLY asking - can I (please say yes) protect my daughter from a 25 yr old guy when she's 17 or younger. - My answer is, it's your call - but if you push it too far you'll lose ALL influence over your daughter. - Bottomline, if she (your daughter) wants to - she will & nothing you can do will change that. - Therefore in my experience it's down to instilling your values MUCH earlier than 16 and ensuring that your trustworthy enough (in her eyes) that she will listen to your views and abide by them. - If you've done your job right in the past - you won't even have to worry about it - you can trust her to do the right thing. - Good luck

restlessmarriedguy

Joined: 4/22/2004

Msg: 49 (view)

is a year a long time to have affair? Posted: 3/15/2006 4:38:56 PM
I agree about judgement. I asked the forum about another serious question about STD's etc & got sat on by a load of people that know nothing about me or my circumstances. I guess that the probelm is that after a year, you're the mistress & you have to decide if you're happy playing that role. No easy answers from what I've seen The only advise I can suggest is to go slow whichever way you move. Best of luck, David

restlessmarriedguy

Joined: 4/22/2004

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better search Posted: 3/14/2006 6:21:51 PM
It would be REALLY useful if you could limit your search by Country for the online sections. Yes I know it offers this to you, but it doesn't actually work after you've filled in the additional search criteria. This site is great, but still US centric. So please remember us Europeans ! Cheers

restlessmarriedguy

Joined: 4/22/2004

Msg: 92 (view)

Why do women say...? Posted: 3/13/2006 6:42:08 PM
Hate to tell you, but if they say that, then they're probably lieing. The art is too get them so breathless they can't say anything

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