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singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

Msg: 21 (view)

A Matter of Trust Posted: 11/22/2009 9:57:17 AM
Now you may say to yourself Thank God she is the ex because it could have been worse as you could have married her

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Do ANY Men Read Profiles (First or at all?) Posted: 11/21/2009 7:04:09 AM
I read all profiles before I make the choice of sending an email and I make it none to the person by talking about something they said in thier profile or am just giving them a compliment and thats all and moving on.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Rejection-men have been dealing with this a long time. Posted: 11/19/2009 5:22:52 PM
lovemysox27 Not all men will stand up and get cheated on because me myself I don;t care how good you look you cheat on me you get the freaking boot and no begging will help. Also no matter what you think there are good/nice guys around it's just in your case you have not met any that meet your specs thats all. And there again some men do read your profiles because I know I do read them and from there I will decide wether or not to email them. And it can be just the heading that will stop me or just in the basic information I will not email them or hell if I don't like how they protray themselves I will not email them.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Rejection-men have been dealing with this a long time. Posted: 11/18/2009 9:18:34 PM
I don't look for nothing but I do think it will be Respectfull to say Thank you no matter what it is from holding a door to saying thats a nice shirt/blouse you are wearing. And if someone hold a door or give me a compliment I will say Thank You and thats just being Respectfull thats all nothing more. Just like I looked at your profile womaninprogress and no I didn't read but I will say this you have very good pictures of yourself and a pretty smile. But no I don't expect you to say anything but at the same time saying Thank You can go along way with some people and thats because its being Respectfull as I see it.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Would you message someone if you knew they weren't going to respond? Posted: 11/18/2009 9:11:02 PM
Happens every day but you know what who cares because when they are not getting them messages no more they are the one that have to say why didn't I reply back maybe he/she could have been the one.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Rejection-men have been dealing with this a long time. Posted: 11/18/2009 9:03:16 PM
I admit I am rather picky myself so I guess I caused a double standard. Not intentionally though. But sometimes what I dont get is when I get emails from men in their 40's and 50's come on now thats just not realistic. Men still cant read a woman's profile these days? I guess I have been put down by men so much that yes I am bitter. I have decided I would rather be happy and alone then settle for what I am not attracted to so yes I am a double standard. Same thing for most men but at the same time most will can give and take a compliment where a female will not even say Hey thank but not interested Thank you. So I bet most of those men are complimenting you and nothing more and you think they are coming on to you. And I know this because I have giving female compliments and a vast mojority or then Do Not Say Thank You or anything and No it's not because I want to get with them. And I say that because most of them are out of my area to talk with if I wanted to so if anything I will say alot of females are shallow conceed and stuck up but at the same time I don't do that because not all are the same.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Rejection-men have been dealing with this a long time. Posted: 11/18/2009 5:05:50 PM
I have to agree with hawking Jr when said Meghon Fox is not all that and thats true from my standards as well. And me personally a female has to have some meat on her bones because I don't like really skinny females because I don't want hug bones. But no matter what rejection is rejection no matter who the stuck up female is that is doing the rejecting.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Would you rather lie, or tell the truth? Posted: 11/17/2009 3:45:41 AM
I will tell the TRUTH and in my case I have no submitted to any female from oral sex so I guess they were not that good at it

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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What is an NSA relationship? Posted: 11/15/2009 5:33:15 PM
No Stupid A$$ allowed so don't ask question just take care of business and just smile and enjoy the ride then get the hell out when done

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Rejection-men have been dealing with this a long time. Posted: 11/15/2009 2:25:12 PM
Rejection is an every day thing my way and you know what I am so use to it that it doesn't bother me at all. I just take life one day at a time and not sweat it because one day those very same people that is trying to look for something better will be knocking on a close door of the one they turned down.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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cell phones and cheating Posted: 11/14/2009 7:49:43 PM
From my end I would never check my SO cell phone as I would Trust her but I will show her I Trust by having her answer my cell as I have nothing to hide from whomever calls me. Call me crazy but hey thats just the way I am and None of my ex's can say I was the one who cheated or they couldn't Trust as one or two of them wants me back because they know they can Trust Me

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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why do men assume you want to talk sex ? Posted: 11/14/2009 4:53:17 AM
There again I see females making statements but is making in the wrong way what you should have said was Why do SOME men assume you want to talk sex ? because they you have it stating is that All men is like that. Yes I know you didn't mean that all men are like that but for some who is not like that then its accussing them as well. And if you keep getting men like that then just move on as you will bound to find one who is not like that.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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from one dater to another: 'show me your drivers license, please' Posted: 11/12/2009 10:56:41 AM
Never had it happen to me but I will say if a female ask me for my lic or any ID she better be ready to produce hers right after she ask me. But as far as doing a search on me then hey she can spend all the money she wants to find out who I am I have nothing to hid. But I tell you what I will not spend the money to do a search for her and we are only have a frist time date or meeting to see if someone lied about what they look like.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Looking to move in with my GF but family doesn't agree Posted: 11/9/2009 3:11:21 PM
Dude your a grown ass man but then again if you let your mother and other family members make and or tell you what to do then you mike as well move back home to get your baby blanket / bottle and pacifier. And when you do that just turn on your Man Card because your not grown yet and don't deserve to have a Man Card yet so say to your Man Card on your way back home to your boss aka mother.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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A Plugged up Toilet, so she packed up and left?! Should I let it go? Posted: 11/8/2009 3:28:46 AM
Change the dam locks because that woman is freaking crazy as I stop reading when you said she pack up all her stuff and left. Because that was me I would consider it over and xecond she would have not complain to me about my son using a bathroom in my place. FYS{ I wouldn't Care If She Had No Place To Go

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Can you be friends with a EX? Posted: 11/7/2009 8:06:13 PM
In some cases yes as I am with a few but overall I am gonna say Hell No because which ever the one that messed up the ralationship will be the one who is wrong and will try to make it yyour fault. So why try to be friends with someone who don't want to own up to the mistake they made or don't want to deal with you anyway after the relationship is over with anyway.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Your two cents worth...... Posted: 11/7/2009 5:48:27 PM
"If you can't take me at my worst, then you don't deserve me at my best." It speaks the Truth even more so for some people with the way things are going now for them.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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23 year old woman without children, and I'm weird? Posted: 11/7/2009 3:54:04 PM
Because maybe they are always coming across females who have one or more kids and divorced. But am gonna say props to you for who you are and what you can say about your status

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Join the army at 40 Posted: 11/4/2009 1:40:52 PM
Thats Great Good Luck WIth Your In WHat You Do

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Steven Segal aka Lawman Posted: 11/4/2009 2:49:50 AM
So your saying he is a deputy sherriff in Louisiana

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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The Box Posted: 11/3/2009 8:20:30 PM
^^^^^^^^^^ ^^^^^^^^^^

singleagain66

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Steven Segal aka Lawman Posted: 11/3/2009 8:19:33 PM
Do you believe any of that crap they are saying that even though he is a actor he is also a Sherriff. And to top it all off he is suppose to been one for about 20 yrs and am gonna be honest am not believing it at all.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Single Parent and Racism (for the kids?) Posted: 11/3/2009 6:24:24 PM
As you see from my picture to the left I kinda get the same thing you get and I have mixed kids from my ex who is white.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Join the army at 40 Posted: 11/3/2009 5:57:17 PM
alli oop your comment of >>> I think think the u.s gov. is thankful anytime they can get a new pawn no matter the age. good luck to you. That kinda tells people specially me a man who served proudly in the military mainly the Army and who has three brothers / sister & Aunt who retired from the Army that you have very little respect for the military. And with the comment no matter what you say will not convice me other wise because everyone else gave on here gave much respect for him and his choice in going in. And if he does decide to go in he can maybe do his trade there in the army because they train and teach just about anything today. So if he goes in you should say thats great and wish him all the best because if it was not for people of the military and thats all branches we would problally not have the freedom we have now.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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WSRFR Asked a good question, Can men and women be friends 'after' having sex? Posted: 11/3/2009 5:30:48 PM
Yes you can and I have and we are still friends till this day and its been over ten years

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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The Box Posted: 11/2/2009 12:28:44 PM
Well Honestly I would have to think about it but knowing me I would not do it because of how it I got it. It would be blood money and not sweat money or lottery money

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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The Box Posted: 11/2/2009 12:15:59 PM
Well I do know that with Indecent Proposal I would never ever do something like that ever. Now if it is just Sleep and No Sex then ok but other than that Not No But Hell No and I am being real on that. But with the question I just ask I am gonna say No because thats a huge risk of losing someone close in the family.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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The Box Posted: 11/2/2009 10:30:38 AM
Even though I have not seen the movie I do have an ideal of what it is about but my thing is how many people will do that. Push the button for a million dollars knowing somewhere in the world someone is gonna die because you pushed the button. Now be truely honest with yourself would you push that button knowing that and remember it can be anybody in the world so that will include family /friends and maybe your kids. Don't Forget You Don't And Would Not Know WHo It Will Be At All

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Confused & upset - Why do men do this? Posted: 11/2/2009 5:33:21 AM
Hey I went one a date awhile back and it lasted five hours and thats shocking for me but anyway I am still friends with that person still. We talk every now and then so it's not the length of the date it's the chemistry because either its there or its not.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Confused & upset - Why do men do this? Posted: 11/2/2009 4:57:08 AM
Well lets not just say all men do this because they dont and I have come across some females who do the exact same thing. So I know what your talking about and yes it does get confusing and it sucks.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Love,Quality of life and who pays Posted: 11/1/2009 5:29:58 PM
If a female looks at me and see that then she is not a woman I want to be with because am all about 100% / 100% and nothing more. AKA . . . . I think thats another way of saying thats a gold digger or _______

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Buying his ex-girlfriend a car? Posted: 11/1/2009 5:26:02 PM
Whats wrong with this picture 1) He buy his girlfriend a car 2) He's paying $400 a month for it for her 3) She has a boyfriend 4) He got the brakes fixed on her car 5) He called from your palce to talk to her 6) He blows you off for a week 7) He lives at home 8) You got STUPID on your forehead and don't see it Now need I say any more

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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why only date good looking prima donna's? Posted: 11/1/2009 12:19:01 PM
Well I can't speak for all men but I will say this and that is I don't look for the so call Prima Donna's Barbie Doll types as you call them. Those are the ones that for the most part are to stuck up on their selves and and may even step out on you.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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separated but still living together... to believe or not Posted: 10/31/2009 2:18:00 PM
Didnt they have a tv show where the husband live in the basement and talked to a rabbit . . . . . .Lol

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Men, tell me whats the attraction Posted: 10/31/2009 7:57:31 AM
Could the same reason women thinks they can change a man from what ever is wrong or whatever they dislike about him. And I have aeen good women good dogged and dragged threw the mud so in saying both people male & female will try to rescue & or change a person.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Is me been insecure or she up to something with her ex? Posted: 10/29/2009 3:04:55 PM
Sounds a tad insecure but then again me I would not date someone that far as Iknow its hard to see her when you want to. But you have to remember she does have a child with him and you have to Trust her just like she has to Trust you.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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my boyfriend asked me for money Posted: 10/26/2009 3:08:24 PM
Now I knew I would not be the only one to say dump / leave / kick to the curb the so call boyfriend. And we are all strangers to you and don't know either you at all and we're all in different parts of the world so when we all say dump him then dump him because he is not worth it at all.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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my boyfriend asked me for money Posted: 10/26/2009 2:23:06 AM
Dating one week and he wants money already equals a big HELL FREAKING NO !!! and thats about all I can say. The money was given to you or will be given to you and not him and I guess next time you will not tell him anything but am gonna go my way and you go your way and have a nice life because its over. JMO

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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I need help! Posted: 10/25/2009 7:04:55 PM
Overall you do things when you feel comforatable doing it and not before because then that way you know you want to do it and not because you have to do it.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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do your breakups revolve around the same issues? Posted: 10/25/2009 11:30:30 AM
Yeah your right TitoSmith I don't think I will give up but I may just cross to the darkside and just get what I can get from the woman and leave. But then again as a good man that I am I probally will not use the females like others do but go for the full three outs before I decide to really quit and do something bad

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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do your breakups revolve around the same issues? Posted: 10/25/2009 7:55:00 AM
My last two left because: 1. I was in the army reserve and got shipped to kuwait/Iraq for about 15 months and thats was the ex. wife who I divorced when I got back even when she wanted back in because she left when times were tough and I don't need someone like that. 2. The 2nd left because she said I told her she was coming in between my kids who I got on the weekends and I was at her place during the week with her and her kids go figure. Now get this later on she wanted back but I was not having it which now I have heard from her she had two boyfriends who cheated on her. So far me I am guessing thats two strikes now and the next one will put me out the game and theres no telling what I will do then but I am hoping to hit a homerun so I can from all the crazy woman out there

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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cheating with a stripper Posted: 10/24/2009 8:11:52 PM
He Cheated and got an STD behind it so no matter what you will not be able to Trust him again. Because I bet if he didnt get the STD you would have not known he Cheated and the keywords is He Cheated and mid life crisis is BS. He would have been better off buying a boat or something in a mid life crisis

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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From lover to boyfriend Posted: 10/24/2009 10:47:35 AM
Sometimes having the next door mentality is not always a good thing

singleagain66

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Do most women find 18 to be too young? Posted: 10/24/2009 8:08:00 AM
That formula works best at the age of 22 an up to keep things legal in the eyes of some people. Below that it's well the judgement of the person to see what I guess is how do they fair in deciding what to do about dating and not messing up meaning not get frowned upon.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Discussions about past relationships Posted: 10/21/2009 3:26:14 PM
I read it and still there is no question in there that I saw unless its in there somewhere and I miss it?

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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My gut Posted: 10/21/2009 3:21:31 PM
Dude she lied and was with another guy and yes its true you can't prove nothing happen with the guy but here's the thing she can't prove it either so she can tell you anything. So what you need to do is her good and find someone who will not do what she did to you. And is she then so what maybe next time she will not do what she did to the next guy she meets and get in a relationship with.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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How hard is it for men to not cheat? Posted: 10/21/2009 12:54:47 PM
I can happily say that no matter what kinda relationship I am I have never in my live and will never ever Cheat because I would not want it done to me. Wait I was cheated on which explains why I am divorced now Now I can go and find someone who will be there for me just as I will for her and live out our lives very happily

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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2 weeks into a great new relationship and you win the lottery, now what? Posted: 10/20/2009 1:33:06 PM
Do you tell your new partner and hope he/she doesn't see a spending spree in his/her honour? Yes I will go on a spending spree but what kind I have no clue but I will take her with me and get her somethings as well but will not get crazy Do you break it off and do all the things you've ever wanted to do as a single person? Nope I will not break it off but I will make sure not to give access to my money Do you tell them but get a lawyer right away to make sure that money STAYs your money? Yes I will get a lawyer but it will be for other reasons or do you give the winning ticket to your parents to avoid any immediate possible problems? No I do not give it to my parents but I will be taking care of my mother (father is decease) / sisters and brothers as well as a few slect friends who been there for me or do you sit on the ticket for months hoping that the relationship is the real thing and if it is the real thing and if it is the real thing you then have to explain why you kept a winning lottery ticket a secret.???? Nope am not sitting on nothing because if it was her she wouldn't

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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Interracial couple denied marriage license in Louisiana Posted: 10/19/2009 8:19:26 PM
Just heard on the news that the Gov has ask the JP to step down but not sure he will do that and all he had to say was he just has a problem with the offsprings of an interracial couple. Which as everybody knows is know of his dam business as he is not taking care of those kids or is the parent of the kids.

singleagain66

Joined: 12/29/2007

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How to trust someone ater they left and want back Posted: 10/19/2009 8:17:32 AM
Yes you can but it depends on the situation as it don't work with everyone because once the Trust is gone it's hard to get it back

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