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Thread: more sex
dsleeth
Joined:
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more sex
Posted:
10/30/2009 3:09:13 PM
Any man with a brain-who chooses to be sexually active-will hit and run a woman who is a ****.
Any woman who doesn't have standards sets herself up to be hurt by a guy. A woman who nags and gives shit obviously has lowered her standards. So yeah, he partakes and he leaves her.
dsleeth
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UFC 104: Machida vs. Rua announced
Posted:
10/27/2009 7:07:48 PM
Lesnar looks much better now than he did in wwe.
dsleeth
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WWE needs a legends title
Posted:
10/27/2009 7:03:38 PM
I think that Cody Rhodes and John Cena are the measuring sticks by which all men should be measured-when it comes to looks! lol
dsleeth
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...A Sexual Relationship WITHOUT Emotional Attachments...
Posted:
8/23/2009 4:36:26 PM
Nope. Sex was created as an expression for love.
dsleeth
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Constant Self-Improvement
Posted:
8/12/2009 9:43:46 AM
Desperation and loneliness play so much of a role in our society, it's not funny. I am sooo sick of it too!
dsleeth
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correct me if I'm wrong...
Posted:
8/12/2009 9:34:27 AM
What men need is adoration. Respect.
Many women who are independant are not giving men what they need. We can have our careers and our lives and still adore and respect the man in our life. We just need to learn that balance.
What men need to realize is that a woman can have sex with a man that they have zero respect for.
dsleeth
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does anyone understand how men think?
Posted:
9/8/2008 10:00:54 AM
Forgot to add. THere's a great book out there called "Love and Respect" this book is changing lives. Read it. I am and I am single.
dsleeth
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does anyone understand how men think?
Posted:
9/8/2008 9:58:20 AM
Ok, there is a real issue out there that women have. Women are programmed to love and to receive love. Men are programmed to respect and to receive respect. These women might be showing more respect to the men that were in your life than you did.
Respect is hard for most women to learn how to do. IT takes work, and we must show respect even if someone doesn't deserve it.
dsleeth
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The only way I can orgasm..
Posted:
9/2/2008 4:18:58 PM
It means that you've had too many guys. Sex has become very plastic bottle ish instead of it being a wonderful experience.
dsleeth
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Religion and Relationships
Posted:
8/1/2008 10:11:35 AM
the bible states that we are not to be unequally yolked. To be yolked means to be partnered with.
dsleeth
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WINDSOR SUMMER BASH August 2nd
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8/1/2008 9:59:44 AM
If you wanna get to knw me, you're gonna have to just send me s a message. :)
dsleeth
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WINDSOR SUMMER BASH August 2nd
Posted:
8/1/2008 9:58:03 AM
Would love to come, but I work weekends now.
dsleeth
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Knocking out the two biggest options whats left
Posted:
7/31/2008 7:41:56 AM
Church. Go there and find someone who is seriously seeking God. They'll have things in their life like patience, love, rspect, everything.
dsleeth
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They're upset because I did NOT sleep with them
Posted:
7/28/2008 10:42:25 AM
So because you are a real man who controls his desires, these females wouldn't date you?
Little boys don't control their desires, same as little girls. Real men and real women do.
dsleeth
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how would a man explain this kind of behavior..
Posted:
7/28/2008 10:34:28 AM
Sperm is a waste product. If you keep doing nothing but taking his waste, why whould he ever do anything more? You are his trashbag, until you choose to stop bein ghis trashbag.
dsleeth
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Review My Profile Please
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7/28/2008 10:26:11 AM
I would like my profile reviewed a bit. I have tried to post a picture on there, but can't for whatever reason.
I appreciate any and all constructive criticism. I am still continuing to try getting a pic posted, or maybe a link to my facebook page.
dsleeth
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Does your weight affect your sex life?!
Posted:
7/7/2008 3:31:44 PM
Dr. Mehemet Oz stated that for an overweight man, for every 30lbs he loses, he gains one inch of penis size.
So yes, weight can matter in terms of satisfaction!
dsleeth
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Religion and Relationships
Posted:
7/6/2008 11:10:31 AM
I don't have religion, I have a relationship with Jesus Christ. I guess you can call it Christianity, but that can even get too religious.
Just follow Jesus, pray and ask God to reveal Himself to you, and get connected with a great church.
dsleeth
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Hi just had a date from hell....again
Posted:
7/6/2008 11:06:39 AM
lol, sorry but there are plenty of 30+ guys out there who are ruled by their member
When a man is truly in love and respect (which if a man doesn't respect a woman, he won't be into the relationship at all), he never EVER loses attraction to the woman he is in a relationship with. If he loves who she is, and if he likes who she is, he will not lose attraction to her at all.
So few people are in a relationship with their soulmate.
dsleeth
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Hi just had a date from hell....again
Posted:
7/6/2008 11:03:15 AM
I usually go dutch, just so that then the guy doesn't expect to get anything sexually out of our first date because he paid.
Plus, I also have a job that pays more than most of the guys that I know. So I usually at least offer to pay my half.
dsleeth
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are women willing to look past a mans flawed teeth.
Posted:
5/25/2008 5:22:06 AM
Teeth are vital. As a man, you are to provide for the woman that you marry. THerefore, yu are to put forth your best effort to get a job that offers a good benefit package that includes dental.
dsleeth
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To love, honor, and... OBEY?!?
Posted:
3/20/2008 5:32:22 PM
zangie, did you and your ex husband have any type of sex with each other before marriage? Anything involving lust makes it that you can't see someone for who they truly are. Was he getting you away from your friends and family? Any of these signs may have been there.
dsleeth
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why does a man do that
Posted:
3/20/2008 5:28:25 PM
THe other thing too is that sometimes all the guy wants is sex.
Love is a verb, so that means there's actions to it. Have someone prove they love you, and prove it well, first.
dsleeth
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Windsor & Surrounding Area: Lasertag & Pizza: Saturday, March 22, 2008
Posted:
3/20/2008 5:23:01 PM
Well, I can't make it: I have to work.
Go ladies go!
dsleeth
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Religion and Relationships
Posted:
3/15/2008 4:14:45 PM
wonderign1980, when someone has a real relationship with Jesus Christ, it involves every part of their life. Every decision, everything. For someone who truly loves Jesus, and remember love is an action, you have to be faced with it. There's no way around it. And when you see how much love that person pours out towards you, you will want what they truly have.
Problem is that a lot of people think they're Christians because of what they do, not based on their hearts.
dsleeth
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A question about the way women think about men.
Posted:
3/8/2008 11:22:22 AM
My initial requirements are:
1. Steady job (he has to be able to support me and our future family)
2a. Education ( I have to be able to have an intelligent conversation with the guy)
2b> If he's a for real Christian (which I am, which means that I do screw up but sek God 100%)
3. Age (huge age differences typically don't work. Typically. My parents are an exception)
4. kids? and how many does he want?
5. Respect level. If a man doesn't know how to give respect, he can't possibly know how to love.
6. Community involvement.
7. Work involvement.
8. Current living condition
9. Future plans and the actions he's taking right now to acheive them. None of which can immediately involve marrying me because that's the lamest line ever.
10. Sense of humour.
All of this is achieved while we are friends and hanging out. If you take dating out of getting to know someone, it does help. There's no attraction involved.
dsleeth
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To love, honor, and... OBEY?!?
Posted:
3/8/2008 11:13:59 AM
Oldsoul "I have a phobia about being a passenger in a car so I'm ALWAYS the driver, a gun can take care of an intruder better than any human can ( male or female), I don't dance, and I ALWAYS pay my own way !!!!!!!!!"
What happened to make you fear losing control in a relationship? Is it a divorce of your parents or something from your family life that caused it?
Don't make the man of your future pay for the mistakes of the men in your past. It's not his fault you were betrayed.
dsleeth
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To love, honor, and... OBEY?!?
Posted:
3/4/2008 4:10:13 PM
So a lot of the women that you know who are not happy in their marriages, chances are that they are not obeying their hsubands.
Good book: "Love and Respect" I don't remember the author's name, but I am taking his courses right now.
dsleeth
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To love, honor, and... OBEY?!?
Posted:
3/4/2008 4:08:34 PM
It's bibilcal that for a woman to have happiness in her marriage, she is to obey her husband. The husband is to be the head of the household.
Obedience comes when the husband is doing what is right. Whe the decisions he is making are morally (which is biblically) wrong, then the wife doesn't have to obey him in those areas.
dsleeth
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WINDSOR'S ST. PATRICKS DAY PARTY- MARCH 15TH
Posted:
3/2/2008 7:48:34 PM
I am going to have to back out of this party. I have to work all that weekend. Sorry guys!
dsleeth
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Is it Cheating when you are seperated and could you forgive?
Posted:
3/1/2008 3:00:43 PM
When I think of separation, i also think or reconcilliation. A separation is just a time for you to learn more about how you are, and reevaluate the relationship.
dsleeth
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Is it Cheating when you are seperated and could you forgive?
Posted:
3/1/2008 2:57:28 PM
Ok, as a medical professional, I can tell you this.
Condoms are 5x thinner, THINNER than a set of rubber gloves.
When you have sex with someone, you are exposing your body to unheard of things.
You are exposing yourself at a higher level than any doctor ever truly does (except surgeons, who wear 2 pairs of gloves when they do surgery).
Anyone that you are not in a monogamous relationship with, you don't routinely know their body. There could be internal cuts and things like that that you are exposing yourself to.
So in other words, it is very medically wrong to have promiscuous sex. I know that others are going to speak to this from a moral way, but medically, you are putting yourself and all the innocent future partners you have at a very real high risk. When you do meet that righ person, what will you have to truly offer them?
dsleeth
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was i being childish?
Posted:
3/1/2008 2:47:39 PM
I do think it was a bad idea because now he might have the grounds to sue you for deflamation of character.
dsleeth
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Other than sex, what makes you feel confident with women?
Posted:
2/29/2008 6:11:20 PM
Have you ever searched the term "post-modernism"? google it
dsleeth
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Why would a man do this?
Posted:
2/29/2008 6:08:56 PM
I don't agree with all of what pink1thegreat said, but I do agree that many women engage in prostitution without knowing it.
they have sex with a guy, thinking it'll keep him interested in them. they ahve sex with a guy thinking that it'll make them feel beautiful and wonderful. This is all cashing in for something temporary.
I do not agree with prostitution in any form, whether it be to have power over men or to keep a man, or for money.
I do agree with marriage, a marriage where two adults are two whole people who are sexcure within themselves before they get married. So many women and men both have it on their hearts to marry, yet sell themselves short for various reasons. Mainly impatience.
But yes, why would he buy the cow when e is getting the milk for free?
dsleeth
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Can you be to wet?
Posted:
2/29/2008 5:51:15 PM
men need respect, and women need love
dsleeth
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what does this all meen? does size really matter?
Posted:
2/27/2008 12:33:25 PM
It's got nothing to do with your weight, and everything to do with your insecurities.
Men want a woman with confidence.
It also has to do with the fact that youg ave something away to him, thinking that you had the power meanwhile you gave him the power. When you give something away, why should someone commit to it when it's already being given away?
Sex binds you.
You are a very precious person, and he didn't realize that. There is a man out there who will love you, after you become confidant.
dsleeth
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he hurt me
Posted:
2/27/2008 12:23:54 PM
Contact the police. This guy is dangerous
dsleeth
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why does a man do that
Posted:
2/27/2008 12:22:00 PM
He just wasn't into you. There will be someone out there who will be filled with a passionate, real love for you.
Love is a verb. Lots of times we hear what men say and we believe it. When a man says he loves you, if the actions don't back it up, he doesn't. If he says "I'm going to marry you." Don't believe it until you are walking down the aisle. Don't give in to anything until the promises are fulfilled.
We women get caught up in this stuff all the time. Truth is that men are not our worst enemy: we are. we don't raise the bar of expectation. We don't set a higher moral standard. I am not talking about a financial standard, but a moral one.
dsleeth
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I don't know what to do!
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2/27/2008 12:17:36 PM
Sorry, he's just not that into you. There is a man out there waiting to pursue you. Don't get impatient.
We are to be the pursued. Be patient, and let them an pursue you. When a man has that fire and that passion for you, there is nothing like that. Trying to create it will waste your time. We want to be pursued, yet we often lose patience and do the pursuing which should scare the man off. They're designed to be the pursuer.
I know him not talking to you was not right; he should've communicated to you right away that he didn't have the same interest in you, that you did in him.
I don't agree with his actions at all, but I agree with him. YOu guys moved wayyy too quickly, and you could've been putting your son in real danger leaving him alone with someone you just met the weekend before.
You don't truly kow someone by talking to them over the phone or online. This guy could be a former convict and you may not have known that. To have put him with your son for 4 hours, that's too fast. There has to be things in place for your safety. What if that guy gave you a good talk, sounded great, then came down and when he was at your place, raped you?
dsleeth
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I never saw this coming.
Posted:
2/27/2008 12:07:11 PM
If you would've not been engaging in sex with this guy, including anything to do with orgasming, chances are good (not perfect but good) that you would've seen that he was not worthy of you immediately.
You have to view yourself as a beautiful gem of a lady. If you don't, then you will still get taken advantage of. YOu are worthy of a man's best. Now, that doesn't mean that men are not worthy of our best, but the one who puts words to action and realizes that youa re worthy of his best is worthy of your best.
dsleeth
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I'm an idiot
Posted:
2/27/2008 11:56:49 AM
Bottom line is: Believe a man's actions, not their words.
I really hope that lady doesn't have an abortion. NO use ending a life over this. It'll end both her baby's life, and will break her heart. They lie and tell you that it won't, but I know of people who have had that and it's not what the professionals say it is.
dsleeth
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Why would a man do this?
Posted:
2/27/2008 11:49:07 AM
Problem is too that when one is caught up in the sex in a dating relationship, one doesn't see the other for who they really are. The hormones involved are stronger than cocaine.
dsleeth
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Why would a man do this?
Posted:
2/27/2008 11:47:56 AM
Is50, Can you messag me please? I have a questin for you.
dsleeth
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Did not want to hurt anyones feelings.
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2/27/2008 11:30:04 AM
You had sex with her because you felt bad FOR HER? I have never heard that before.
As far as trying to not hrut someone's feelings, we must be honest. I like to be tactful, but not dishonest.
But I have done some extreme things, mainly at work. I have worked in a client's home when they are smoking, even though I am allergic.
It's hard to not offend, yet not be a push over.
dsleeth
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WINDSOR'S ST. PATRICKS DAY PARTY- MARCH 15TH
Posted:
2/26/2008 2:23:20 PM
I have been trying to post a pic, can't get it to upload at all.
dsleeth
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threesomes: do they ruin relationships?
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2/26/2008 2:20:21 PM
I don't think it's about jealousy as much as it's about knowing that you no longer totally satisfy your partner.
dsleeth
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threesomes: do they ruin relationships?
Posted:
2/26/2008 2:19:41 PM
Well, if you are ok with the fact that you don't satisfy your spouse any more...
dsleeth
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Windsor & Surrounding Area: Lasertag & Pizza: Saturday, March 22, 2008
Posted:
2/24/2008 5:16:33 PM
Can someone show me how to play?
Also, I just found out that iwndsor has an indoor paintball park. Anyone interested, message me. I'll probably do a POF thing with that if there's enough interest.
dsleeth
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Other than sex, what makes you feel confident with women?
Posted:
2/21/2008 4:44:50 PM
I like this post.
I also have two jobs, and am involved in a few extra curricular activities. This means that when I talk to a man, my mind is usually on the ten other things I have to do.
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