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smiles_at_you

Joined: 12/31/2007

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Opinions welcomed Posted: 3/1/2009 1:17:01 PM
Hiya, thank you both for taking the time to read and comment on my profile. Thank you for thoughts on pictures, the white shirt picture was the last sunny day of last year, probably a few months ago now but its also most similar to how i look now (recent hair cut) so it is now main picture. And i'm now looking at pictures with niece in a different light so they are long gone. Spaces spaces spaces, lol. Now i can understand myself better so thats got to be good for other people. And bold sentance gone. Thanks again Any other opinions welcome

smiles_at_you

Joined: 12/31/2007

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Opinions welcomed Posted: 3/1/2009 10:24:25 AM
Hi folks, i'd really like some honest opinions on my profile. I have popped back to this site on and off for 2 years (ish), i've tried to alter profile in that time but still with no luck. I get very few people contacting me and the ones i do get i would rather didn't bother - please don't take that the wrong way i'm not just being fussy but i'm not looking for that kinda relationship. Thank you for any help

smiles_at_you

Joined: 12/31/2007

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A ring from the past Posted: 12/29/2008 9:17:22 AM
Would you sleep in the same bed that an ex wife or husband slept in together? I used this as a good excuse to treat myself to a new bed

smiles_at_you

Joined: 12/31/2007

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Unconditional Love Posted: 12/29/2008 7:01:56 AM
this is lovely, does the special person have any idea?

smiles_at_you

Joined: 12/31/2007

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Im 20 shes 16. Posted: 12/29/2008 2:14:29 AM
So if you had a daughter who was 16, and she came home a with a 22 year old , you would be ok with that?? good Lord. Sorry but that's a crock of sh1t, no adult male should be dating someone who barely eligible to get her drivers license, who cannot vote, drink legally, cant even buy real estate, or invest in the stock market, what the hell is wrong with the guy? Tell me why cant he stick to people his age group, and this nonsense about the girl being mature for her age is bull sh1t, Because young girls are not ready for the responsibilities in life I was the one who was 16 dating a 22 year old and therefore i would not have a problem to allow this in the future if i were to have a daughter in the same situation. Surely this should be about the idividuals rather than the age they happen to be when they become attracted to each other. Yes the guy i was dating was over 6 years older than me, but he also was a gentlemen, worked hard and had morals and values. Yes he was older but that is not enough alone to say he was unsuitable for me. My parents respected my choice and were happy to welcome him into the family and for 7 years my parents treated in like a son. When i 16 i know they would rather i was dating a guy like him than someone my own age who trying to be the big i am, rebel at school or even worse in trouble with the law. Age should not be the only factor. I am 23 now and i'm sure if i was to date a 30 year old guy now no one would bat an eye lid.

smiles_at_you

Joined: 12/31/2007

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Im 20 shes 16. Posted: 12/28/2008 2:54:31 PM
I dont see the issue, when i was 15 i was dating a 22 year old guy, a decent friend of the family. I was very mature for my age but i will also add that nothing illegal happened. The age gap was never an issue we always saw each other as equal and as our families saw how happy we were they never had an issue either. My parents met him and knew his family and frankly they respected my decision and would have rather i was with him than someone bad boy from school. Despite a 6 and half year ago gap we had 7 very happy years together so i'd tell you to follow your heart, age shouldnt be that big an issue

smiles_at_you

Joined: 12/31/2007

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What's up with this new age of women.. Posted: 12/28/2008 2:03:18 PM
Hiya KrZy, i completely feel what your saying. It works the other way round too. Not all but a lot of guys are just looking for at most a fling. Yes i maybe young but i already know that i am worth far more than that. I was in a very loving relationship for 6 and half years, I know what that feels like to have that kind of relationship and if i cant have that again then i rather not bother. I can;t understand why more people have a have a bit of repect for themself and have some morals and value things in life. ( sorry rant over now)

smiles_at_you

Joined: 12/31/2007

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Why do women date mutiple guys at once? Posted: 12/28/2008 1:14:42 PM
multiple men? isn't one enough? i'd be more than happy with one decent Prince Charming

smiles_at_you

Joined: 12/31/2007

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A ring from the past Posted: 12/28/2008 8:04:48 AM
I have a very special ring that my ex bought me for my 21 st birthday. I used to wear it every single day without fail, it wasn't an engagement ring but we had planned to spend our lifes together so we both saw it as that kind of symbol. When the relationship ended i had to stop wearing the ring, felt very strange so my best friend bought me a new ring, the new ring has 3 interlocked rings and now symbolises friendship. The ring from the ex is in a kinda treasure box of other jewellery, letters etc etc, it was too painful to wear everyday. Bought back too many memories - even if its just the time we spent 4 hours looking for the ring as i lost it while we were washing the cars. I think jewellery from the past should be kept, it has soo much meaning and memories but as these are now in the past it should not be worn.

smiles_at_you

Joined: 12/31/2007

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The habits your ex had that make you glad its over. Posted: 12/28/2008 7:53:36 AM
His disgusting feet, not only did they smell but they had flakey skin and manky toe nails. The bottom of his side of the bed used to look like it was covered in dandruff but it was from his feet and where he'd been stratching them in his sleep - argh used to drive me potty

smiles_at_you

Joined: 12/31/2007

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What's one thing you loved/love/miss about your ex? Posted: 12/28/2008 7:42:56 AM
I miss the fact that he was my bestfriend for 8 years. It'll be hard meeting someone that could measure up to that. I know exactly that feeling. I don't know if i'm looking back with tainted glasses or if it really was that good. But now i don't want just anyone, I want the a Prince Charming better than the one i lost

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