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trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

Msg: 17 (view)

I Am Private Posted: 1/29/2006 1:50:09 AM
nothing is expected. though the girl I,ve actually goten close with we sort of have full disclosure with eachother not an agreement or anything. just 2 people who would be better off shutting up basically a good thing till you hear something you didnt want to. than shit really hits the fan

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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I Am Private Posted: 1/29/2006 1:49:11 AM
nothing is expected. though the girl I,ve actually goten close with he sort of have full disclosure with eachother basically a good thing till you hear something you didnt want to. than shit really hits the fan

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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the chair. Posted: 1/29/2006 1:14:32 AM
mabey it's my age or what but when I do it I get this odd look cant tell if it's surprise or disgust. didnt anyone else listen to pepe le pu. that skunk knew all the moves

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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What do you do . . . Posted: 1/29/2006 12:34:11 AM
what kind of knock is to nice. stuck up arrogant**. that is a knock. to nice. belive it or not allot of times that is saying. your to good for me. **ing stange way to put it but allot of times that is what is ment

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

Msg: 17 (view)

this might sound stupid but. Posted: 1/29/2006 12:23:56 AM
alright this probably came off the wrong way. what can I say shit does when I,m pissed. I,ve got a more to the point post in the advice forum. check it out if you care. see what I,m getting at

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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How to pick up a girl that's in a big group of girls? Posted: 1/28/2006 11:45:37 PM
I try just talking to her. dont be rude to the rest or anything just treat her like she's the only one there. it usually works for me

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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this might sound stupid but. Posted: 1/28/2006 11:38:15 PM
look at it lie this. talk to someone (preferably a female) living in alberta. than talk to another living somewhere else. just about anywhere else. I can almost guarntee you the girl in alberta will be the one with the sob story. mabey it's because over the last couple of weeks I've heard some rather **ed up storys about a couple of girls close to me. mabey it's because of what I hear about guys I've met who seemed like good guys at first. all I can safely say is that it seems to me the dudes out hear (not all of them it may sound like I,m generalizing but I,m only really talking about the people I,ve met) seem more the type to nail some passed out drunk girl or slip something into her drink than people I,ve met elsewhere what I,ve heard over the last little while makes me sick. wether it's hear or elsewhere wether I souind dumb or not. at the very least your probably thinking. dont look so much at theness. think of your mother your sister or your girlfriend. than think of some idiot getting mad or grabby. think of some goof deciding she's his property instead of a person. this probably doesnt sound right coming from a guy period. mabey people just keep more tight lipped mabey people are scared to report things out hear. but from my experience ( not long but extensive) in this province. most of the guys (not all but most of the ones I've met) seem to think they have something coming to them simply because. if they dont get it one way or another they'll try and take it. just so long as who they take it from cant fight back. mabey I,m an idiot and this type of thing doesnt happen the way it appears to me. but I bet if you ask around enough it does. and so far I havent heard half the storys of abuse anywhere else that I've heard hear. havent seen friendlier people anywhere else mind you. I just think there seems to be a **ed up under belly hear that people need to start talking about instead of ignoring. or every person in every town big or small I meet is a liar. look past the pissed off rambling and look at the issue

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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this might sound stupid but. Posted: 1/28/2006 11:08:17 PM
mabey some people should ask around a bit. mabey I do sound stupid. but I bet if you take the time to speak to someone close to you you will find something along the lines of what I speak of. regardless of what some think. the men out hear I trust much less the women slightly more. either way that doesnt say much. if someone says dont touch me. dont ****ing touch them.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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Human Value.... Posted: 1/28/2006 11:03:57 PM
who cares it's, 20 bucks. just money. if I guy is going to try and insult me over 20 bucks I dont want it. it's only 20 bucks. money can be made or found just about anywhere. it's just paper with a number on it. so long as you eat who gives a shit

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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somebody who doesn't drink .. a turn off? Posted: 1/28/2006 10:58:50 PM
if I find a person who legitamitly has no vices. I dont even feel comfortable around them. I dont really have a problem with staying clean and sober or anything. I just feel out of place around such people

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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the chair. Posted: 1/28/2006 10:57:28 PM
ok. if I guy pulls a chair out for you girls. does it look good impress you or is it cheesey dumb or fake. I,ve had mixed reactions doing it though it was only done to 2 different girls. 1 loved it. the other sort of busted my balls about it. good or bad

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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Sex feels better to women??? Posted: 1/28/2006 10:52:33 PM
listen to who makes more noise. or who gets kinkier. thats a good way to tell who's getting theirs

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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starting as friends moving on to something more Posted: 1/28/2006 10:51:34 PM
never been in this situation. but looking at it I can say from my point of view that I wouldnt even want to look at her again. forget about it and move on. anything at this point will most likely be uncomfortable

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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this might sound stupid but. Posted: 1/28/2006 10:49:59 PM
ya I kind of get that attitude allot. all I can really say is that I hear allot more bullshit in this province than anywhere else in canada. is it the guys or are the girls more decitfull than I had thought. either way there are some problems in this province that need to be handled one way or another. if you go after someone weaker tha yourself your aint shit but a bully. if you act like such sooner or later you'll get whats coming. I think it's time for allot of the guys hear to grow up. or the girls need to stop playing the victim. either way there is a much darker underbelly to this province than the other ones. I,m not really trying to cause anything. people tell me I,m a cocky asshole but I dont really care. my point is that certain problems seem to be more prevalent hear than the rest of the country. what the fuck gives.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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shy Posted: 1/28/2006 10:42:01 PM
thats kind of odd. the older I get the more attracted to me they seem to be. I geuss if your shy be shy. twirl your ankle into the ground as you ask for a number. if your shy be shy. so long as you ask for the number or a date you'll probably get it. just dont be something your not. (Iwould look like an ass if I tried the shy routine) be yourself but play it up a abit. if you can get a smile you can atleast get a date

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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this might sound stupid but. Posted: 1/28/2006 10:39:40 PM
alright this might sound dumb or **y but whatever it,s on my mind. I,ve lived all over this country save for the both costes. why is it that in ontario manitoba BC. a fair share of the girls seem to have atleast one or two stories either involving being hit or raped by some guy. either a guy they thought was their friend or otherwise. most men in this province. either big city or small. they seem firndlier to your face but they also seem much more deceitfull. I see a real lack of character balls heart and strenght in the men hear. are all alberta boys weak cowerdly es that need to hurt women and kids. why is it my cousin and all the friends I,ve met in red deer have atleast 1 or 2 ed up tales to tell. calgary and edmonton are no different. since moving out hear I find the females much more trusting less deceitfull and fairly naieve. (if that isnt spelled right sue me). and the guys out here though at first glance seem friendl;y are much more likely to nail a passed out drunk chick hit their girlfriends or kids and genneraly seem much less mature and responsible than their eastern or western counter parts. the only guy friends I have incalgary are dudes that werent born hear. I,ve spent many a teary night with my princess my cousin and her frinds and other girls I know. listening to them spill their guts out about things that have happend in this province. do I have to personally kick every alberta boys teeth in or am I a magnet for women that have been hurt??? ps. every alberta boy I,ve met wether he's big small works out boc=xes or does karate. whatever. so far they've all been complete es. no character liars. no heart no balls. just bully's that like to talk. am I wrong about this place or do I need to start being allot meaner tovery dude that crosses my path. so far I like the ladies hear. boys so far. except for those born elsewhere. you make me sick. your not even men. grow up fight a man not a girl or a little kid. if your pissed try and take it out on a guy like me. someone who has the heart and will to fight. your girl and kids ahouldnt bour target. unless some of you guysre **es to. either way if I ever hear a story about some guy getting to grabby with my girl. his mother will get peices of him in the mail for years. start living with some character and dignity. if I,m wrong prove it so. but I dont think I am. most of you boys are just that. boys. old childern trying to get over whatever happend in the past. leave it there. dont turn the gun on those close to you. your girl. your kid. turn the gun on those that have it coming. turn it on yourself. not those that care and worry and hurt and love you. even if they piss you off theyre the ones in your corner. boys. even if you cant. try and act like men whenever possible. it makes the few of us that try and live with some measure of dignity and respect for others look that much better. mabey it' just me but most of the alberta boys are complete cowards. no heart all talk cant handle themselves if theyre mothers lives depended on it.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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Flowers????????? Posted: 1/28/2006 10:11:00 PM
I,ve never bought flowers for a chick. if I ever do take it as a big damn sign. if not dont take it personal. I just dont like you THAT much. thats all. I always figured giving/receiving flowers was a personal kind of thing.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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When do you take off your profile when you are dating someone? Posted: 11/11/2005 4:49:41 PM
you dont. never know when you might need a quick hook up

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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What is the craziest thing you did to get noticed? Posted: 10/6/2005 11:35:48 AM
dyed my hair blonde.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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just a thought calgary. Posted: 10/6/2005 11:33:34 AM
screw you guys. go flyers. but ya. what bar should we crash. I figure any on 17th is good. if your going to enjoy a hockey game you may aswell enjoy the crowd to

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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how do you say it Posted: 10/6/2005 11:26:13 AM
my main problem is this. I seem to have lost my balls when she is around. I always try to play it cool around her... but the whole damn time my stomach is on a spin cycle. she does the same thing...most of the time. I cant figure out if she's like me. trying to play it cool or just is.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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How do you get along with your Father? Posted: 10/6/2005 11:11:20 AM
mom and and eh theyre both peices of shit

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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how do you say it Posted: 10/6/2005 7:43:05 AM
hey fez lick my sweaty nut sac from reading your other posts.... atleast I can get some. someone make him take that stupid photo down.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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street musicians and buskers??? Posted: 10/5/2005 9:19:39 PM
I want to slap each and every one of them. one of the greatest advertisments for birth control ever. no offense. they rank right up there with mimes

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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New Macleans mag article / Girls gone too nasty??? Posted: 10/5/2005 8:32:15 PM
the ones with class I like if she wants to be a pig, let her be a pig

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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Have a question for the men out there Posted: 10/5/2005 8:30:18 PM
if he wants someone to hang out with your probably on a job interview for his girlfriend if a guy wants to hook up he wants to get laid

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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just a thought calgary. Posted: 10/5/2005 8:17:18 PM
since hockey is back. why dont we pick a pub and a game night or something.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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ur fav non guitar instrament Posted: 10/5/2005 8:13:40 PM
I like the cow-bell and the kazoo

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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Things YOU should NEVER to say to a Woman: Posted: 10/5/2005 8:10:29 PM
NEVER and I mean EVER say they've gained weight. lucky to be alive

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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how do you say it Posted: 10/5/2005 7:25:38 PM
nah she's not really like that. shes one of the least emotional girls I,ve ever met. I like that it does make reading her allot harder than most girls. she's like me. she's cold. what I like about her is what makes it a ****.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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Accents A Plus+ Posted: 10/5/2005 7:06:53 PM
being an irishman with no accent. when I hear one. it melts me

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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Signs you want me to talk to you Posted: 10/5/2005 7:05:43 PM
eye contact. and a pleasent look. pretty well anything but an angry or disgusted look. eye contact and a look. thats how you know

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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how do you say it Posted: 10/5/2005 7:02:22 PM
ya if I,m lucky she will. that doesnt change the butterfly feeling.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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how do you say it Posted: 10/5/2005 6:50:46 PM
I dont think a text message will work. we barely speak at all unless it's in person

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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Are Women really from Venus??? Posted: 10/5/2005 6:47:27 PM
where do you find these women at. I,ve known 1 like that in 20 years. and belive me I,ve met allot of people. there is nothing special about women just because.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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scents Posted: 10/5/2005 6:45:05 PM
but have you smelled the summer scent. it's so damn fresh. I,ve been kissed by strange girls at clubs wearing it. my favorite cologne yet.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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the pursuing done by men Posted: 10/5/2005 6:40:15 PM
I dont get it what is the big secret. if you make eye contact with someone at a bar and you get anything either than a look of disgust. it's invitation to approach.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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Are women afraid of Attractive guys? Posted: 10/5/2005 6:23:03 PM
everyone gets intimidated by someone they see as being hotter than they are. out of your leauge.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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I never imagined so many lonely people. Posted: 10/5/2005 6:01:29 PM
I,m not lonely. I prefer not having friends. with friends like I had you didnt need enemys. I,ve got sort of a realationship going...I geuss. I probably should be lonely. but I got me. thats better company than most people have

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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Do you believe in love at first sight? Posted: 10/5/2005 5:58:10 PM
its easier to love someone you dont know. I,ve had 5 different girls say they loved me. none of them knew me longer than a month. they didnt love me they loved the idea of being with someone. all 5 were dumped within minutes of saying it

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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Get them while their virgins!!!!>> Posted: 10/5/2005 5:51:35 PM
ya thats fez

trvlingman

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how do you say it Posted: 10/5/2005 5:38:00 PM
simple question. how do you tell a girl you love her. Ive never said this to anyone. how the hell do I say it to this one? I mean I cant just look over and say you know I love you right. how the hell are you supposed to say it

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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scents Posted: 10/5/2005 5:36:02 PM
I like a girl to smell of vanilla. that fresh out the shower smell drives me up the wall. myself I wear allot of cologne. my 2 favs are tommy summer scent (down to my last couple uses. damnthis stuff worked wounder) and my eternity for men. summer scent. it's new I bought it to replace the tommy. damned if it doesnt work even better.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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How do you escape the haunting memories Posted: 10/5/2005 4:40:55 PM
you cant. I still have dreams about the first girl I kissed. that was 10 years ago. we havent seen eachother since. every now and than when I fall asleep. she'll mak her way into a dream

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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Good things about being single.... Posted: 10/5/2005 3:39:09 PM
I been doing those since I was 12 it's not fun anymore. a bed to yourself. how is that a good thing. only good thing about the single life. atleast for me anyway. I can have sex when I want it.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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Visible Panty Lines...Turn On!! or Pukesville!! Posted: 10/5/2005 3:36:51 PM
when I was younger I loved them. nw that I,m a bit older I realize. it's about the same thing as guys having their boxers visible. underwear should only be seen by those ment to see it. panty lines say to me. lazy

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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Women - Need advice! Posted: 10/5/2005 3:22:32 PM
I love how women throw terms like booty call player loser and other words like that at guys. what it really boils down to is if they dont get what they want. YOU have some kind of problem. dont even bother telling them. wait till they ask where they stand.

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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What irks you about the opposite sex? Posted: 10/5/2005 3:19:02 PM
it never fails. no matter what a girl says. she means the opposite

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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How do you like people (in terms of seeing the opposite sex) Posted: 10/5/2005 3:18:29 PM
for me. it's nothing. it cant be described. I'll know by the first time our eyes meet. I'll feel a spark and be yours. it doesnt matter how hot she is. she could have the greatest personality in the world. if I dont feel that spark. that electricity the first time our eyes meet. the best she can hope for with me is to be my next peice

trvlingman

Joined: 6/11/2005

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Womens' Opinions Needed.... Posted: 10/5/2005 3:16:07 PM
unless you find a party girl most women hate it. even the ones that smoke it. usually they want to be the pot head in the realationship. basically wome like a guy who is pretty well sober. they need someone to keep an eye on them. though if you expect me to look after you AND stay sober. there better be talk of a reward. I dont know any girl or woman that likes a guy who spends most of his time in a haze

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