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twilight eternal

Joined: 1/2/2008

Msg: 12 (view)

I AM DELETING MY ACCOUNT DUE TO MY POSTS BEING LINKED TO PROFILE Posted: 11/10/2008 8:40:09 PM
At first when my post started showing up on my page I didn't really like it or want it. However it wasn't because I wanted to hide anything that I was saying, it was truly because I didn't think it made my profile that visually appealing. I've gotten used to it now though :) and accepted that if someone cares that much about how the appearance of posts on my profile make it look, then they aren't right for me anyways :) Best of luck in the future op.

Twilight Eternal

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Caught with his pants down Posted: 10/12/2008 8:14:08 PM
The bigger question is, have you changed your locks yet?...

twilight eternal

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Canucks name Luongo as team captain Posted: 10/3/2008 2:25:08 PM
lol Yes we agree on that but my point is , "so what?", why does that make it a bad move? The Canucks have Alternates to talk to the refs, what they need in a captain more than anything is leadership. Right now we're just splitting hairs though , so I think we can agree to disagree lol.

twilight eternal

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Canucks name Luongo as team captain Posted: 10/3/2008 12:08:58 PM
naming him team captain is a lame duck move. Why? The problem is, by league rules, a goalie cannot wear a C or an A on his jersey, and is not allowed to carry out the on-ice functions and duties of a captain (or associate captain). Because he can't stitch a letter to his jersey or go talk to a ref? He has Alternates for that.

Twilight Eternal

Joined: 1/2/2008

Msg: 16 (view)

Canucks name Luongo as team captain Posted: 10/2/2008 11:01:01 PM
Yep. He's been doing that for two years. Don't need a C on your jersey to do that. Oh wait. Luongo doesn't have a C on his jersey. Never mind. lol :P Yes, but now he's officially the one in charge. The teams going to be built around him in the years to come. Might as well give him the biggest role.

Twilight Eternal

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Profile Review? Any help greatly appreciated. Posted: 10/2/2008 10:09:30 PM
Thanks, I cut out most of what you suggested. The interests I want to try and keep balanced, and pretty inclusive. I debated if the "showing up" part would work to sabotage me or come across as being slightly funny. It's the same reason I had the intermission part. As for the teeth, thanks. I've tried to get some more pictures with me showing my teeth, but the ones that do always seem less natural to me for some reason. Either that or I'm half blinking or doing something else to mess up the shot :) If I find more that I think pass as okay I'll do some switching :) Thanks for the input!

Twilight Eternal

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Canucks name Luongo as team captain Posted: 10/2/2008 7:55:43 PM
The alternates can discuss things with the refs such as penalties or any on-ice disputes. The captain is a leader, a player that the team wants to represent themselves with, and in many ways the type of person they wish to strive to be like. Luongo can lead by example on the ice, and I'm sure can motivate his team both on and off the ice.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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are you happy with the Leafs offseason so far? Posted: 10/2/2008 12:56:04 PM
Jumping back in... If off season includes pre-season... then no... no.....

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Canucks name Luongo as team captain Posted: 10/2/2008 12:52:36 PM
The only official responsibilities of a captain are on-ice The Captain is a figure head of the team, they look to him for leadership on and off the ice. It's more than ceremonial face offs etc. If the only duties for a captain were things a goalie couldn't do, they wouldn't allow a goalie to be a captain, anywhere, in the first place.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Canucks name Luongo as team captain Posted: 10/1/2008 9:49:39 PM
What are you people talking about? Consider me one that thinks they made the right choice placing the C where they did.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Profile Review? Any help greatly appreciated. Posted: 10/1/2008 9:09:17 PM
UPDATE I changed my profile around a little and was hoping for a little feedback. My questions basically the same though lol. I've had my fair share (I believe) of females first contacting me, and I get the occasional girl who responds to a letter I write, but I am still noticing that a fair few of the girls I've written to in the past view my page after reading my letter (so my letters are doing there job of getting them to look at my page), but after that, few go on to write me back. I understand that not everyone is attracted to everyone and I accept that, and know that this is likely the reason those mentioned don't write back. I wanted to ask for a review though just in case someone else could maybe see something on my profile I'm missing that would turn people away. Thanks for any help you're willing to give :)

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Profile reviews? Great idea! Posted: 9/30/2008 9:57:07 PM
I personally really like it. What I got from it was that you have a cool personality and that you at least seem willing to talk to people :) Good move reducing the "favourites" though. I sometimes use it as a "bookmark" like feature so I can easily get back to peoples' pages after I have written them. But if you have a large number of people that add you without ever messaging you then yes that would be cause for deletion :) P.s. Toronto should look VERY promising :P

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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tell me what you think about my profile! Posted: 9/30/2008 9:45:58 PM
It needs to be longer... You put something there which is great, and it's not one of those profiles that just has "Just ask me" which I hate... But there should still be more. Talk a little bit more about your personality etc. Also, this: "Single mom and enjoy meeting single dads for adult time. " On here will likely get you a number of creepy letters.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Would appreciate some help! Posted: 9/30/2008 9:41:27 PM
Other than the more pics idea... not really :/ I'm not sure what to say actually... Your profile was the first one that I've actually truly laughed out loud at points for... I've been debating editing mine... I might just steal some of your material ;) j/k With some new pics, if you don't start getting some letters, then someone must be stealing them from your mailbox.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Let me know what you think! Posted: 9/30/2008 9:34:27 PM
I think it's a nice profile. Additional pictures could help. It's well written but you may want to format it slightly different. Sometimes with the text all in a solid block it appears a little unattractive.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Question regarding Polarized Rule Posted: 9/23/2008 4:34:18 PM
Forum Categories are Areas of the Forums sharing similar Thread Topics. Polarization applies the Thread Topics only, and have nothing to do with Category Designations or their Purpose. I understand. My point/question then being, wouldn't it make sense that the "Thread Topics" that appear within the "Forum Categories" of ask a guy/ask a girl be allowed to be polarized? I'm more looking for a answer of "This is why it is" as opposed to "This is how it is".

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Question regarding Polarized Rule Posted: 9/23/2008 2:21:04 PM
Taken from: "Forums: Anybody ask Anybody = Chatroom" These (2) Two Categories were not designed for the Purpose of: "Anybody ask Anybody", which could not possibly be Forum Categories specific to any Area of Discussion, and could only end up becoming Chatrooms. The Rails on the existing Rules specifying On-Topic Discussions in the Forums: Ask a Guy/Ask A Girl Forums can only barely be held in Place as it is, and still remain a Category. I'm sorry if I am reading this wrong, but wouldn't this be an argument FOR polarization in the ask a guy/girl forums? Quite often I see arguments on the subject between female members as the OP prefers to get a males opinion but is flooded with female posters' views. (I use the above example because I visit the "Ask a guy" forum a little more frequently, but I'd bet there would be the same amount going on in the "Ask a girl" one if I spent the time looking.)

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Sure-Fire First-Date Killers Posted: 9/23/2008 1:59:50 AM
First date - meeting at a library. It is about 3 degrees in Colorado. I am sitting in my truck waiting for the guy. He pulls up in a vehicle with an older woman. She smiles and waves at me. He jumps out and looks A LOT younger than his said '32' years. I am in shock. He opens my car door and jumps in. The lady waves at me frantically with a huge grin. He: My mom said she thinks your really cute. Me: How old are you? He: What did I say I was? Me: Age please? He: Aww, come on...I really like older women. Me: Age....now! He: (sulking) 18 Me: I will take you out for lunch and then I am taking you home. He: Can I get french fries?. LOL I love it.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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a review please Posted: 9/23/2008 1:35:03 AM
Hey, there are plenty of guys at that age or slightly older that are looking for long term relationships... Don't paint such a gloomy picture for her :P OP as for the profile, it's a nice one. It's to the point, you have some good info filled out, and the pics are nice and flattering. Although it isn't the norm (or so it seems) I personally prefer longer profiles as I feel I can get a better opinion of who it is I am writing, and seeing more interests on a profile. That is all just personal preference though. Others will likely tell you the exact opposite. lol.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Does anyone suspect that the Viewed Me section is fake? Posted: 9/23/2008 1:28:35 AM
I believe mine to be pretty accurate as I have had a few confirmations regarding people who have showed up and who I know viewed my page. Yet at the same time I was once approached by this girl who said she saw me on her viewed me page, however I'm pretty sure that I never visited her page before.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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My posts aren't appearing Posted: 9/23/2008 1:24:09 AM
I was running into the same problem, thanks for clearing that up lol. I thought I was banned for a little while or something as the posts I made right before I noticed it happening were deleted too. (Then I noticed it wasn't just my posts but the whole threads I posted in)

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Gifts and Roses Posted: 9/23/2008 1:17:39 AM
Do people also have different gifts that they can send? I once got sent a guitar... I've never had the option to send a guitar...

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Question regarding Polarized Rule [Closed Thread] Posted: 9/23/2008 1:14:18 AM
Sorry if this has been asked already but I did a search and nothing came up... so here goes. The Polarized rule as stated in the Forum Rules Report Thread. # Polarized Thread No Thread may exist designated exclusively for Response from a specific Gender, Ethnicity, Orientation, Religion, Public, etc. Such a Thread will be deleted. The entire Concept of a Forum is for anyone to post their Opinions and Thoughts, providing they are On-Topic, on any Threads he or she sees fit. As an Example: ...This is a Question ONLY for the Men to... = No Good!!! ...This is a Question for the Men to... = Is OK!!! Further, any Threads or Topics that cause a similar Type of Polarization may also come under Review on a Case by Case Basis. Now I understand why this is a good rule for the majority of the forums, my question is, why does the rule still apply to the "ask a guy" and the "ask a girl" sections? If a member is posting in one of those sections they are obviously seeking the advice of the opposite sex. So why is it against the rules to ask for only men or only women to respond in that case? I'm not saying guys should be banned from the ask a woman section or that girls should be banned from the ask a guy section, but I recently read an ask a guy thread and almost the whole thing was the op arguing with two other women about whether she could ask just the guys for there opinion or not. It's how I found out about this rule... So yeah, isn't having this rule in those two forum sections kind of against the point that they were originally put there for?

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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noob @ this site Posted: 9/23/2008 12:33:17 AM
Just keep looking, you'll find someone that strikes your fancy.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Do you Feel Used by Women for Sex? Posted: 9/18/2008 8:06:18 PM
Actually I've had something close before. I've gone on a date before where after NOT accepting her desire of a one night stand things were over.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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cant figure out what i did wrong Posted: 9/12/2008 10:21:16 PM
In response to : I don't like when the OP feels he/she has to respond to EVERY reply on the post. This is not a chatroom. ...So? All he is doing is clearing up misconceptions and giving future respondents a clearer picture on what their relationship was like. I've seen threads where there will be 20-30 people saying the same thing over and over again in back to back posts, THAT I find really annoying. An Op responding to posts in a thread he started? He's keeping things on track. Good for him I'd say :)

Nightfall Romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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What is he thinking? Posted: 9/11/2008 12:04:29 PM
I take this different than most of the above posters. I see it more as him trying to rub it in that he's happy. Vengeful like... Then again I don't know him, you, or his wife. He could just as easily be interested in you again, or just trying to mend the fence and see if you two could still be on good terms.

Nightfall Romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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do men view women through 2 different lenses? Posted: 9/11/2008 11:56:30 AM
I would give the same answer as the one I quoted. Only if I was to further explain it I would add that in groups 1 and 2 there are always some that like to hope the fence every now and then. If you wanted to break it down into only two groups I'd have to say I view women as; 1. Those I'm interested in. 2. Those I'm not interested in. But, I know women view men the same way.

Nightfall Romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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When iming the firtst few days is this okay. Posted: 9/11/2008 11:47:09 AM
I think it would really depend on the guy and the tone of the conversation. As long as it's clear that you two are just talking about your interests there shouldn't really be any expectations of getting to take part in those interests without the proper first steps. I'm a pretty open person too. I'll talk about stuff like sex if it comes up, but just because I talk about it with someone doesn't mean I'd do it with them.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Please prove me wrong! Posted: 9/2/2008 1:02:16 PM
no disrespect aimed at you op ..but i am getting the feeling you blokes who are having no luck in pof are just using this forum to publicly display yourselves... That's a pretty broad and all inclusive statement isn't it? I'm sure that there are plenty of guys and girls for that mater out there trying their best, but for reasons, maybe not entirely their fault, are still unable to find what they are looking for.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Ah, Yet Another One Up For Review Posted: 9/2/2008 12:57:41 PM
Overall it is a pretty good profile. I would consider maybe adding a few more pictures though. Also, you should go over it once more looking to correct spelling and grammar errors. There aren't many of them (like there seem to be in most profiles) but there are a few. Good Luck.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Crapy Situation - What to do? Posted: 9/2/2008 12:44:13 PM
I've never had a female friend volunteer the record of her sexual initimacy unless she was really unhappy with the guy or wanted me to knock her socks off. I think that really depends on how open your "friends" are. I have a fair few friends that are fine sharing personal issues with me... even when I don't want to know lol.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Crapy Situation - What to do? Posted: 9/1/2008 4:28:51 PM
They have been going out for around a year nightfall_romance and far away = 4 or 5 hours drive away at least to a different university. I looked at your profile and it's a bit ironic, your 25 and the guy she's dating is 26... lol. I don't really see the irony but ok. 1) They have been going out for a year. To everyone lengths of relationships mean different things, but if they have been together for at least one year then there is likely at least some connection there. If they were to break, there would likely be some hurt feelings somewhere. If you tell her how you feel and she breaks up with the other guy, possibly hurting him, would you be able to live with that? On the flip side, would you be able to live without telling her?...Would you be able to handle it if the feelings weren't returned? 2) If you do decide to tell her, and lets say she really likes you and leaves her BF for you, She will still be 4-5 hours away. Do you feel that you could have a relationship while that far apart? I'm not saying it isn't possible, but it does take some work. In the end there are arguments both for and against you telling her. It really boils down to though what you feel you need to do, and what your morals tell you to do.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Crapy Situation - What to do? Posted: 8/31/2008 8:56:43 PM
Um... to make her feel comfortable u should start dating somebody and since u guys are friends ., tell her bout it. this will make the situation easier and make it so u guys can stay good friends untill both of you hopefully become single at the same time ... I don't even know where to begin with that one, but I think it's a horrible idea. He'd be using this second girl, still have feelings for the first, and the first girl (if she has any idea how he feels) would likely take it as a sign that he's moved on. OP, sorry if I missed it but (1) how long have the two of them been going out? and (2) you say she will be going far away sometime soon, how far away is far away?

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Am I not pretty? Posted: 8/31/2008 4:05:54 PM
Is no one going to say anything about the username?? That's the first thing I noticed. Definitely recommend changing that. EDIT : I think I am looking at the new user name actually... "IBruiseeasily20"? I would think about changing user names again. -Take another look at your spelling and grammar. -Adding one or two pictures might help. The one you have isn't bad, but I find that pictures give more depth to profiles, and allows viewers a bit more of a personal look into your life. (Profiles with only one picture could come across more as fake profiles too. Or at least they do to me / I've seen a few I know are fake and they all had one picture.)

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Revamped profile......comments/suggestions please?! Posted: 8/31/2008 3:54:13 PM
I think this might be locked in the future, but until then. -Check for spelling and grammar errors. (Caps on words in the middle of sentences etc.) -The headline looks good to me. (In my mind it's not a HUGE deal anyway) -I would shorten the "I want a man who's ..." part. See if there are things in there that you can join together or maybe drop altogether. -I like the pictures, the two close ups of you in the pink shirt look the best I think. -Maybe add in something more about your interests? Good luck.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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OK, is there somthing wron with my profile? Posted: 8/31/2008 3:39:40 PM
I know I am not in your target market on this site but I thought I'd mention a few things. - Pay attention to your grammar and spelling. - More pictures couldn't hurt. (try some different shots, maybe a smile) - "I understand that people want me to be serious sometimes....., but i really don't listen" Right away it looks as if you're telling girls that you wont listen to them. -"And I cant think of many more basics......" .... Try. -"If you want to pitch a tent in my head somewhere you wont have a problem finding space.... Its very roomy in there." I would think most people would stop reading here if they made it to that point. -"and other things may be if you can think of asking. I like doing other things if your curious then just Ask me........................" You're repeating yourself and the first one can some across as a little insulting. -"i don't really mind if the girl is a few years older then me" Unless she was really interested I think this might give a girl whose older than you second thoughts about writing to you. -"send me a message now...." I don't think it looks good ordering people to write to you. -"Defiantly A Zoo, Specifically the chimp exhibit, because you need to meet my Family" Defiantly? = Definitely? nice joke, but the use of the wrong word causes it to bomb and actually takes away from your profile. -"but its almost Fall so there are more things to do" If you claim that there are more things that you and a date could do in the fall than in the summer, it might just be my personal preference, but I would include a few ideas. I would also take a close look at what you send out to girls as a first contact message. Make sure it's well written and clear. Hope some of this helps. I also hope that it doesn't come across as me trying to be harsh or anything like that. I just commented on what I thought might be causing your problem. Good luck.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

Msg: 39 (view)

Why do men want sexual slaves? Posted: 8/29/2008 12:15:51 AM
Some people also just get off on trying to offend others...

nightfall romance

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Why do men flirt if they already have a girlfriend? Posted: 8/28/2008 11:35:13 PM
It really varies by person. I myself in my last relationship and those prior to it in fact, never flirted with someone other than my girlfriend. On the opposite end of the scale though, I have a friend who flirting is almost like a way of life for him. He will openly and heavily flirt with multiple women even if it is right in front of whoever he is dating at the time. To me it doesn't make much sense, but everyone's different. I also have female friends on both sides of the issue. Some that would never flirt with anyone but there boyfriend, but others that flirt with any male that comes near. It's part of one's personality I believe.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Have yet to see a good answer to this question? Wish someone would tell me!!! Posted: 8/24/2008 11:53:28 AM
In the situation you're describing it sounds like they wanted to act as nice and as positive as they could to leave the date/meet on a high note. He possibly didn't think he was acting SO thrilled. Maybe in an attempt to just make it seem like he was happy he over did it too much while trying to be convincing.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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Embarassed to be seen with me? Posted: 8/24/2008 11:43:18 AM
When you asked him if he was embarassed to be seen with you and he avoided it, was it the first time you asked the question? Was it following a number of questions such as "how do I look?", "Do I look bad in this", ie. other questions that would imply something is "wrong" with how you look? I don't mean to imply anything by asking this, but I've been in similar cases where after telling a girl about 10 different times in 10 different ways that she looks great and not to worry, I'm kind of tired by the 11th time. There are many reasons as mentioned in other posts as to why he might prefer to stay in more. His response was a bit odd (based on what you've given us) but then again, maybe he deals with those types of questions different than most. Maybe he thought it was so "wrong" of you to think that, that he didn't think it was worth responding to? He's the only one that knows for sure.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

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How valid is that Men's Favorite and Least Favorite Topics List Posted: 8/24/2008 11:29:40 AM
I prefer starting off light and upbeat : My Top Favorite Conversation Topics 3. Hobbies/interests in general 4. Hopes and aspirations 5. Music 7. Movies 8. Entertainment And my least favourites are only subjects I don't really have much to say in. I'm fine talking about almost anything as long as it's a two way street. If someone wants to know about my past relationships etc, sure, but I'd like to know theirs then too. My Least Favorite Conversation Topics 4. Religion 8. Fashion 9. Gardening

nightfall romance

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What does he want? Posted: 8/24/2008 11:16:36 AM
^^^ This coming from a guy that thinks "Outdoorscotttage" is a word? O_0

nightfall romance

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Do I sound scary? Posted: 8/22/2008 3:02:01 PM
^^^^ Geez, it hasn't even been a day yet... Give her some time...

nightfall romance

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Msg: 48 (view)

Would you date a guy that believed in UFO's Posted: 8/22/2008 2:40:29 PM
^^^^ That it's an "unidentified" flying object... It's what UFO stands for.... So yes I do believe in UFOs. Do I believe in little green men... not as much. Do I believe in life somewhere other than on earth? I think it would be pretty arrogant not to.

nightfall romance

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What does he want? Posted: 8/21/2008 10:23:43 PM
Next time he tries to kiss you, punch him... If he can't be "friends" with you without keeping his hands... and other body parts... off of you then he isn't worthy of your friendship.

nightfall romance

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Msg: 31 (view)

Girls what things do only talk to other girls about? Posted: 8/21/2008 12:52:09 AM
"Best chocolate" ? P.s. Wants to listen in on more of Morgana's talks

nightfall romance

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Found my guy on Hot or Not - not good Posted: 8/20/2008 7:25:36 PM
His loss OP. Keep your head up and remember that there are better times ahead :)

nightfall romance

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Msg: 32 (view)

I've always wondered ... why do men lie about having sex with a girl? Posted: 8/20/2008 5:32:07 PM
I see it so often in these forums...generalizations. They really get me. What is so hard about saying, "why did HE lie about having sex with a girl" as opposed to , "why do MEN lie about having sex with a girl" ? Or better yet, "what causes a man to lie about having sex with a woman?" Thank you :) In regard to the OP's question. I'm not sure. I never have, and to the best of my knowledge neither have any of my male friends. Actually I am pretty sure that I have had more female friends lie and say that they DID NOT have sex with someone than I have had male friends lie and say they DID have sex with someone.

nightfall romance

Joined: 1/2/2008

Msg: 212 (view)

Illiteracy decreases your chance of response!! Posted: 8/20/2008 4:59:20 PM
(Bad Joke Starts) I just bring along a test for girls I meet to fill out. The illiterate ones just draw little pretty pictures.... (Bad Joke Ends)

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