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Joined: 6/11/2005

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SPORTS THAT WERE NOT MEANT TO BE PLAYED BY WOMEN. Posted: 10/16/2005 10:55:15 PM
are you talking to me about your daughter kicking my ass..i hope not cause I was actually complimenting the ladies side of it all when it comes to woman in sports as I am a woman in sports myself so hopefully you were not talking to me...i think it's great that your daughter was scouted for team ontario and well is the captain on her school team that is great shows leadership and that woman can play sports too.. cheers!!!

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Diet tips Posted: 10/16/2005 11:22:00 AM
leafslady ----- you look FANTASTIC for your age and for the changes you have made yourself do...You look great and to the other lady that has already lost 20 pounds EXCELLENT keep up the good work...i have to get into the gym and lose some weight I unfortunately had a car accident and well my foot is injured at the moment so I can't walk really well right now don't know but may have to have surgery anyways trying to watch the diet and try other things and once the foor is better back to the gym cheers and good luck to everyone that maybe trying to lose weight!!!

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SPORTS THAT WERE NOT MEANT TO BE PLAYED BY WOMEN. Posted: 10/16/2005 11:15:27 AM
Wow this is a very touchy subject woman and sports..my opinion is if a lady has what it takes and can play the sport and play it well then she should play. There are lady leagues today to play in any kind of sport is she wants to play and if she wants to play there then she should. If she wants to challenge herself and play with the men then that's fine too but, she must keep in mind that men have a different level of fitness and physical body structure which was just the way God made it to be and if she is going to compete with or against men then she should be prepared for the bumps and bruises. Woman have to understand speaking from experience that when woman start to play in men's leagues it becomes a threat to their ego. Sports at one time was always seen as a man's place and well now that it's envolved drastically it's a touchy thing when woman start to step on the territory of most men not all. When I was college I played college hockey with the guys and believe me I was prepared for the bumps and bruises but, I lasted and I had fun and well they did try their best to get rid of me but, it didn't work I showed them i was tough as nails but, I never complained cause I knew i had no place to compain cause I had made the choice to play with the guys and I knew that if at anytime I felt uncomfortable or felt that it wasn't for me anymore I could leave and play with the woman. i have played alot of sports with guys hockey, soccer, football and well I had no troubles. The one sport I will have to agree with everyone I think the bodybuilding is rather unattractive for a lady in my opnion. As far as any other sport if a woman has flaunt as they would say

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Whats so bad about being an RN?! Posted: 10/14/2005 6:16:24 PM
Well Superjo this one is for you girl GO FOR IT continue your nursing degree cause hun speaking from experience it's an amazing and rewarding career. I am an RN in Canada and have been for 5 years now I work in Cardiac Surgery fulltime and working on a part time job in Emergency. I am actually heading to Africa at christmas to do some nursing volunteer work in Ethiopia so there are a lot of exciting opportunites that can come out of nursing. I love my job it's the best thing I ever did for myself. It's truly what wolfboy said...I think some maybe intimidated because woman that are nurses are usually very smart, intellectual and intelligent people. They make decent money and are very independent and have control of their lives. Unfortuantely due to the way back in time role that men work and woman stay home and cook and clean that unfortunately is the issue why some may not date a nurse cause it's that intimidation they have no control cause she makes he own money and controls her life independently. Don't let the opinions of others shattered you life long dreams become a nurse honey if that's what you truly want to do....I love it!! cheers tamtam13

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Can't Find A Man and don't know why? Posted: 10/14/2005 6:07:50 PM
Hey good2bebad I did put my profession back up cause truly I realized it's about what I think of myself and my profession. I think very highly of my profession and I am totally NOT ashamed that I am a RN. I can't help the fact that I may make more money than someone else I didn't decided the wages that I would make. I am not out to intimidate anyone. Truly I guess it goes back to if someone is intimidated by the fact that I am RN then they are either jealous or they are very insecure about themselves. I love being a nurse I have been a nurse for 5 years and work in Cardiac Surgery and looking at part time work in Emergency. I have nothing to be ashamed about at all so therefore, I put my profession back on my profile and well that's just me. I am not like the nurses that guyd40 was talking about not even close and well he is hanging out with the wrong nurses probably the ones that have been nursing for 30 years. Advise guyd40 find a new group of nurses to hang out with.

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Can't Find A Man and don't know why? Posted: 10/13/2005 11:06:41 PM
hotasexymama thanks maybe I will try it but, in response to this statement you made : just don't come down on others who don't like you the way you are. There are more than 30 million people in Canada I think right? Who cares if someone doesn't want to be with you, I always say "nextama thanks maybe I will try it........ you say not to come down on others that don't like me just be who I am and do what I want...that's what I am trying to do and well I guess don't come down on me for being who I am and wanting to not change for anyone cause some of the advise that others have been giving not you but others that I should lose weight to get more dates and all that crap and that saying that my attitude stinks for saying I am who I am and I shouldn't have to change to suit the likes and needs of others that is sorta coming down on me don't you think? I am not here to offend anyone or be rude to anyone I am just here to hear what strangers have to say or any advise that might be wise that I could use and in the end do what I feel is best for me and my happiness...I will try to rearange my profile and see what happens and in the meantime just have fun and do what I love doing travelling, working, and sports.... thanxs cheers tamtam13

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pre-date appearence screening Posted: 10/13/2005 8:58:24 PM
doing away with a body type and having a weight category WHAT??? that is totally mental I think that is offending people completely and opening people to get hurt and be disrespectful cause well that's what society is like today most of society that is rude and disrespectful and well because society is prefocused on set guidelines that people should look like and be it would make the dating scene harder than it already is not easier, besides whatever happened to liking someone for personality, sense of humour, self confidence, facial attraction, laughs, things in common there is more to a person than what their body type is..You can always change a body type but if they have a crappy attitude and a crappy personality and well have nothing in common with you it's hard to change all that...

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Msg: 33 (view)

Can't Find A Man and don't know why? Posted: 10/13/2005 8:47:53 PM
thanxs Karam at least someone sees it my way your a cool chick and yeah I think i learned my lesson now about asking for advise...STAY CLEAR.... blah blah blah... You Rock Karama stay cool girlfriend!!! Cheers

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Whats so bad about being an RN?! Posted: 10/13/2005 8:44:45 PM
yes all this started from me posting something about having trouble finding the rigth person and that it's all an appearance thing blah blah blah and well some people gave me advise that i should chagne my profile alittle and this paramedic LPN wrote that I should not put down that I am RN cause he wouldn't date me and well that I would have alot of other issues with other professions cause I am an RN and that it's an obstacle and will be difficult to find someone cause I am labelled as such. Anyhow I don't understand what the hell that's got to do with the price of cheese anyhow, meaning being a nurse. I love my profession and well I shouldn't have to quit my job because someone doesn't like me and has to label me cray if that's the case then maybe I should quit and flip burgers oh no better not then I will be labelled as the junk food junkie..

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Msg: 31 (view)

Can't Find A Man and don't know why? Posted: 10/13/2005 8:37:45 PM
Karma who is brutal? I think I made the wrong decision in starting this whole section completely I should have just shut my mouth...anyhow who are you saying is brutual?

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Can't Find A Man and don't know why? Posted: 10/13/2005 8:25:56 PM
so i have a question for you so you say that me being and RN is a label so there it is an obstacle so what what are trying to tell me that I should quit my job as RN to avoid being labelled and have an obstacle in meeting people and meeting men? I am not taking offense I just don't understand how being a nurse is an obstacle to meeting people or dating someone. If that's the case then maybe I should go and flip burgers and get a label as a junk food addicted....lol tamtam13

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Can't Find A Man and don't know why? Posted: 10/13/2005 8:20:50 PM
a high quality picture? I a confused what does that mean NAVIGATOR and I am who I am it's the truth I don't think it's a crappy philosophy at all considering that you are given what you are given you are who you are and I meant it as a statement of I don't think I should have to have brown or blond hair cause it's a person happier, or that I should lose weight for anyone, or that cause I have a crappy car I should buy ane xpensive one to have people like me that's what I meant by that statement. I probably should never have started this in the forum cause now I am getting mixed messages and well look what it has gotten me into... and for hotsexymama thank you for what you said and do believe that you know what your talking about and i understand everyone has issues and problems in life but, I have had soem pretty crappy luck when it comes to meeting people including woman that are suppose to be friends. I have a lot of people prejudge me before they even know me. I try to say the right words in my profile and they are the wrong words, alittle difficult when you don't understand what the expectation are of people. I try to erase things out of my profile and it's still not right I try to be cool and suttle and it still doesn't work. So maybe it is my attitude then maybe it sucks and maybe that's why I am still single. And when I said about the other gentleman being single I was acting out on him offending me about losing weight to get more dates cause that would help. So how do you writethe perfect profile? How do fulfill the perfect expectation of everyone? How do you impress for success? thanks again tamtam13

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Can't Find A Man and don't know why? Posted: 10/13/2005 4:14:17 PM
Ok thanxs everyone for your messages and advise and replies going to move on in my life now and well take in some of that advise that was given to me this forum is old news now and we an get on with life and look at other people's interests like GO LEAFS GO how about those leafs? they need to shape up or ship out Cheers and again thank you to everyone with polite words of advise tamtam13

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Can't Find A Man and don't know why? Posted: 10/13/2005 3:37:14 PM
this is a response to mamiyaguy's message for me..i am not saying there is anything wrong with older or younger men, I am just not interested in dating men that are way older than me or way younger than me. I understand that it may limit my choices but, I do believe that everyone does have the right to certain choices for themselves that will make them happy. I do want children someday and well most older men usually don't want families at an older age or have already had children from a previous relationship so therefore, I would not want to waste my time with someone who is not prepared to have that same lifestyle and vice versa. About younger men most younger men 19, 20, 21 etc. are not ready to take on the responsibility of being an adult and well most of them want to drink, party and have wild sex and well I have alredy done that in my life and want a serious man to settle with, not a part time lover. thanks for your message tamtam13

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Can't Find A Man and don't know why? Posted: 10/13/2005 8:42:07 AM
This a general post to everyone that did respond to my message I thank you for your advise I think a lot of you agreed that my first date section was long and well i was trying to show my personality and sense of humour but, maybe I need to look at it and cut it short and sweet. So I thank you if you responded with that type of response. I also thank the lady who stated that losing weight is for me not for getting a guy. Lastly in response to thegenie, thank you for your response but, it is obvious where your mind is and what matters most to you and that being appearance rather than personality and beauty from the inside. You say that I should lose weight to have more guys hitting on me and more dates well maybe so but, truly I am who I am and I am not changing myself to suit the happiness of others you don't like what you see then you and I are not compatible. I know that may be harsh but, truly it's not I should not have to lose weight to gain the attention necessary to love someone unconditionally. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I guess what your are saying to me about losing weight will get me more dates tells me alot about why your still single and why your on this dating site. Truly if you are SO PERFECT then why are you single and why are you on the dating site, besides what are you hiding you don't even have a picture on your profile? Thanks again to everyone for your advise. tamtam13

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Can't Find A Man and don't know why? Posted: 10/13/2005 8:31:15 AM
sorry that last post note was in response to guyd40 not everyone else tamtam13

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Can't Find A Man and don't know why? Posted: 10/13/2005 8:30:33 AM
I guess what I would like to say first is thanks for your advice but, truly it's advise that I won't be taking. My reasons for that first off I don't know what you mean by "this closes doors for you from other professionals" means I have no idea what your referring to. Secondly, I am very passionate and proud of my profession and very happy in my profession. I speak very highly of my job and what I do for a living, therefore, it's apart of me so I am not ashamed of it and not about to hide what is apart of me. If someone does not like my profession or does not like what I do for a living then they can kiss my a*** cause I am not changing my passion to suit the happiness of others. It's about my happiness. Thanks anyways for your advise. tamtam13

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Can't Find A Man and don't know why? Posted: 10/12/2005 1:03:45 PM
Ok here is the scoop I have all the qualities or alot of the qualities that a man is looking for or at least I hope to think so and I have profiles on different single sites, but the funny thing is I hardly get any messages I hardly get any guys intererested and if I do they are either 19 or 20 or 50 or 60 and well I can't understand what I am doing wrong. I even stopped looking cause well my best friend said don't look so I stopped looking and well i still can't find anyone. I can't even remember the last time I was on a date men don't ask me on dates and if they do it's cause they want sex and well i am not about that and I am not going to give it up on the first date sorry. I will be honest I am a bigger girl I don't weigh 120 pounds and workout in the gym 5 times a day I do excercise and keep activity I am just not a devoted junkie. I do plan on wanting to lose weight but, that shouldn't be the reason why men don't ask me on dates or don't find me attractive..Anyways I find myself a very attractive regardless of my body shape and size and well i love myself anyway i am... Anyhow maybe someone on here guy girl or otherwise can give me some dating advise... Cheers tamtam13

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