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zopz

Joined: 1/3/2008

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How do you feel about girls that bang immediately? Posted: 11/2/2008 1:00:06 AM
Obviously it's a person to person thing (like pretty much any opinion related thing). Me, personally, it has nothing to do with respect, but I can say that someone who wants to go at it that quick is not for me and I will be all up for passing on that one. It's not what I'm after and it's just a complete mismatch when someone wants to do it right away like that. There's also the fact that I get totally turned off to a person like that too...

zopz

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how often should boyfriends and girlfriends see each other? Posted: 9/20/2008 12:48:51 AM
I think it's up to the two in the relationship to decide how often is often enough. There's no right or wrong for everyone.

zopz

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How to turn first contact into first meeting? Posted: 9/20/2008 12:47:20 AM
Maybe he's thinking that because you initiated that you might suggest meeting, if you're that interested? I'd wait to see if she would suggest something to me first actually. But I'm a little impatient and if I want to and she doesn't suggest anything quick enough, I generally make a suggestion about doing something either way and if I get a positive response, that's great, but if I get a vague 'yeah we should do something sometime' then I just leave it at that. I don't take not suggesting something as disinterest, but I'll throw something out there and go by that response if they don't throw something out there fast enough for me.

zopz

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Christian Men Posted: 9/19/2008 10:29:11 PM
People use all kinds of tools in an attempt to further their gains in the world. Religion is one of those. Many people use religion as an ego boost and to make others think they are so great and whatnot, when they really aren't. This is the way it's always been (from what I've seen) and I don't see it changing any time soon. People are individuals. Not everyone is going to act the same way. At all. So I approach people as individuals and wouldn't even dare to apply a single label or belief to everyone just because of a common factor that isn't really tied to anything. A lot of people claim to be different things. How many of them really are what they claim to be? I know that a lot of people that claim to be religious really don't act like it (well, they do, in church), I know some people that aren't really religious at all and seem far more so than some people that claim to be religious (in the way they behave and all). None of this is anything new and I don't suspect it's subject to change any time soon. Everyone's a different person, so applying a single label to everyone in a certain group is not going to fly.

zopz

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Odd bit of knowledge Posted: 9/19/2008 10:19:02 PM
Maybe the guy's a closet diamond enthusiast? Who knows. I know I generally know the price of something utterly useless off the top of my head or something similar. I'd just take it as the person has an interest in the matter, myself. I don't really do the 'reading into' thing though. What if he just happened to know what an ounce of gold was worth, would it be any different? Or anything that's actually highly valuable/sought after. I'd just think it's an interest in the matter or it happened to stick out reading somewhere or something.

zopz

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No picture, but private image(s) Posted: 9/13/2008 3:50:19 AM
I have plenty of pictures, just none up for public viewing. Why? Well, I don't even really have a reason, I just don't feel like having my pictures public and have felt that way for a little while now. I must be hiding something, right? It couldn't possibly be that I'm single, not pursuing anyone, no kids, not bothered by the idea of my picture being seen by countless numbers of people, or anything, could it? It doesn't bother me that people don't have pictures public. But I do want to see what someone looks like (just as I'd assume they'd want to know what I look like), but it's really not a pertinent thing if you don't mind just having friends either, so I just don't see the problem at all. I'm ultimately looking at personality, so I care more about a filled out and complete profile than a missing picture. Everyone has their reasons, and I'm not going to go saying how horrible people are just because of something they've decided that really doesn't determine anything about them.

zopz

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Do men really like bitchy or demanding or challenging women? Posted: 9/6/2008 9:54:17 PM
I would never be in a relationship where someone treated me 'harshly' in the slightest or did the short leash thing. I'm not a pet, so leashes aren't fitting in the slightest. Don't worry about what other people are or aren't doing so much. I'm surrounded by people that are in relationships or always seem to be talking to people that they're interested in or whatever, but I can't seem to do any of that to save my life. I just don't worry about it, as lame as it sounds, because when I did it made me question myself and what was wrong with me. It's just harder for me to find someone that's interested and wants to show it or take that chance with me, oh well, I'm fine as is.

zopz

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Does anyone have a bf or gf test? Posted: 8/31/2008 8:59:35 PM
With everyone having keyless entry now it doesn't make such a great test anymore. Are there any other good tests? I have an old truck that doesn't. And if you don't have keyless entry, it's quite obviously not outdated, then is it? Now, that aside, I'm not into tests. I would naturally get her door first, and I would definitely appreciate the fact she would reach over and unlock my door. I'm not into menial tests though. I let life be the test.

zopz

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After one date is it okay to...? Posted: 8/31/2008 5:11:41 PM
I do the same thing. Either way is 'fine' as long as you're up front about it. I won't date anyone that's a 'multiple dater' because of various reasons, but it's the same reason I'm a one person guy all around, so I don't think it's weird for me to want the same.

zopz

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answer time between mails Posted: 8/31/2008 2:30:40 PM
I answer messages when I have time too. Sometimes I'm only on for a few minutes, sometimes I'm on the 'tail end' of my online spree and get off a few minutes later. I never purposely let a message sit for any reason other than I don't have time to respond right away. It's stupid to play games and I won't do it. If someone wants to keep my interest, replying in a timely manner and not playing games is a sure way to do this.

zopz

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What a man assumes when you write him... Posted: 8/30/2008 11:34:27 AM
I don't care if someone liked my profile and that I 'should' assume that's why they write to me. It's nice that people actually say things like that. But maybe that's me and my crazy ways. I think it's nice when things like that are said because it's a spoken compliment to you, it's not left to be assumed (an assumed compliment is no compliment at all), and if you say why you're messaging someone, it leaves no room for assumption and generally can make your intent clear. I can't stand having messages with no clear intent and I'm left guessing with do they want to actually meet... or do they just want to stay on here and talk... because some people are just that unclear about their level of interest.

zopz

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how does this letter sound? Posted: 8/29/2008 3:56:37 PM
the reason i didn't say so earlier was because i didn't believe a woman should make the first move. It's just un natural. Yeah, I mean, it's totally unnatural to show interest in someone and want them to know how you feel. I mean... that's just crazy! Men who are interested would jump off a plane to be with the person they're crazy about Here's a little bit of information for you too. Most (normal/sane) guys aren't going to be 'crazy about' anyone in that little bit of time. Also, they tend to call these people crazy that would do what you said. It's impractical to just go head first for anyone you're interested in. By asking him out i interfere with what the future is supposed to hold for me, having a date that was never meant to be and having my ego bruised further when later on he'll make the first move with someone he's really smitten by. I got it now. You think that your future is predestined and you don't have to initiate anything to get what's 'coming to you' or whatever. So that would explain why you think it's unnatural to show interest. So, I guess you could continue to sit back and just wait for your predestined future to just fall into your lap and not interfere with anything. Or you could actually uh... take some control of your life and make a move and go for what you want, rather than sitting waiting for it to come to you while you do nothing to go for it yourself. I'm pretty sure you don't get anything in life by just sitting there waiting for your future to come to you. I mean, unless your future involves being jobless, homeless, and just a poor life all around.

zopz

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Who gets the second door? Posted: 8/28/2008 10:51:22 PM
I would prefer B or C on that list. Both of those show that they're a thoughtful person. If she opened the door for me and waited, I'd probably just tell her to go ahead of me and grab the door anyway (not that I'd make a scene if she told me to go ahead after that), but it really is the thought that counts there. It's really not a big deal, but it does matter to me because I want someone that does think about others, holding doors and whatnot is just a way of doing that.

zopz

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do men find the nipple piercing attractive? Posted: 8/28/2008 12:04:14 PM
I don't find it attractive in the least. But I have heard a few times that it can possibly kill the sensation... nerve damage or something and does just the opposite of an increase. Heard the same from people that have gotten....other...piercings.

zopz

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Internet Dating Awkwardness Posted: 8/28/2008 11:28:23 AM
Uh... I didn't know that meeting people meant you had to connect. The only thing is that you talk to someone on the computer as opposed to being in person at first, then you move to the real world instead of just doing it online. There's nothing really strange about it... I don't go dating random people, I like to get to know them first, so it's pretty much the same here. No 'connection' required really.

zopz

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Just Stop It! Posted: 8/28/2008 11:21:53 AM
When I see stuff like that it gives me the feeling that I'm going to be perceived as such and have to walk on egg shells to get anywhere. One thing happens and get accused of being something you aren't. It's not bad to say things like that in itself, but more often than not, when I've had an experience with someone like that, it's gone about that way.

zopz

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mozilla firefox browser updates for version 3.0 Posted: 8/28/2008 2:36:08 AM
I don't know what toolbar this is supposed to be referring to... I have nothing extra on my FF at all. I've had it since June maybe... but it didn't put anything on here, it just updated me to v3. Only problem I have is that my fingerprint scanner thing isn't compatible with v3, but worked perfectly with v2.

zopz

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conversation doesn't flow - lack of compatibility? Posted: 8/28/2008 2:32:32 AM
Uh.... if it's the first time? I don't see why anyone would be bothered that the conversation is awkward or whatever. People get nervous, some people need more than just one date to get past this nervousness, I don't think it's a big deal at all.

zopz

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Are you who you want to be? Posted: 8/28/2008 2:16:07 AM
No, I'm not who I want to be. I wish I was Batman. Really....so desperately....

zopz

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The 'go to' piece of clothing Posted: 8/27/2008 1:48:51 PM
I pick the shirt I feel is funniest at the time. Oh yeah... I'm really that bad. Or maybe the tuxedo tee, it says I wanna be formal, but I'm here to party too.

zopz

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Tongue Ring...Yes or no? Posted: 8/27/2008 1:09:51 PM
I'm definitely not big on tongue rings. I'd really prefer not, but it's not like it's a huge deal or anything really.

zopz

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Dating a political Junkie? Posted: 8/26/2008 8:21:59 PM
I know someone that's with a political nut. I'll be honest, I think it's a ****ing nightmare. I hate getting into politics and I only get as involved with it as I have to to make a decision on my voting decisions. I really can't say exactly how much I loathe politics. I can handle differing opinions and all, but I just don't like when it's some huge passion of a person or something.

zopz

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how do men feel about... Posted: 8/26/2008 8:19:06 PM
I'm baffled by this idea of an introvert with an extroverted personality... I really am. Someone that falls in the middle, I can understand, but how are you one with the personality of the other? Cus I've always been under the belief that if you're introverted, that is your personality... But either way, I get quite irritated with 'typical' extroverts. I hate large gatherings and stuff, so if that's a problem then I'm pretty sure that wouldn't work then.

zopz

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What do you think is the hardest part of dating? Posted: 8/26/2008 8:07:29 PM
The hardest part is getting one. Or something like that.

zopz

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why men want women to have all this.. Posted: 8/26/2008 1:50:17 AM
I can say that I'm really not a fan of all dressy so the red dress thing isn't an issue. If that's what someone wants to wear though, their choice. I'm also going to have to say no on the tall thing, I actually kind of prefer short for some crazy reason (crazy, I know!), but I don't really think much about it unless it's someone closing in on my height. Call me crazy if you want.

zopz

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Would you open you marriage to save it? Posted: 8/26/2008 12:57:07 AM
Instead of being divorced they are still happily married and very much in Love. They are fulling needs outside their marriage that they can not get inside the marriage. Their marriage has apparently NOT been devalued by their "hobbies" but has become stronger. As my dad and his Army buddies always said...."You can not argue with the facts on the ground" And to some people, a marriage means that everything is fulfilled within that one, single relationship, not going outside of it to meet needs that should be met within that relationship. And for many people, this means sex. Going outside of marriage to meet whatever needs (especially involving sex), well, a lot of people do have problems with that. If you have to resort to do something like that, it's really not a true marriage and needs to be ended. Some people don't think that way, so whatever, but I live by my beliefs and not theirs. It's just not a true, fulfilling relationship if you have to do that stuff, and I think that even if it's not marriage. There really is no point in being married if you even want to do things like that, if you ask me.

zopz

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Must be college educated? Posted: 8/26/2008 12:27:46 AM
It is possible to be smart and never come within 50 miles of a classroom. However, grad schools don't just hand out masters degrees like toilet paper (yet). I honestly do not believe it is possible to get a degree from a grad school without hard work and intelligence. Anyone can go to school. Still doesn't mean they aren't stupid. I know many times where I just think facepalm because someone 'smart' just said one of the dumbest things I've ever heard. And I'm not trying to claim anything. Just the fact that having a degree or going to college doesn't automatically make you smart. You can be just as much of an idiot with a degree as that person that dropped out of school in 8th grade. In fact, people in my family have never finished school and not gone to college, and they're far smarter than most of the people I've come across that think they're so smart because of a piece of paper. Intelligence is proven by your mind, not what some institution gives you. I'm not going to think anyone is smart or dumb based on their education. It's just not a smart thing to do. No one has to 'prove' their intelligence to me. What I do is give the benefit of the doubt until I think 'wow... you're really stupid' and in that case, stupidity is proven. I really don't think it's a hard concept that just because you go to school doesn't mean you're smart, just like not going to school doesn't mean you're automatically smart. So to sum it up in one sentence, intelligence is in no way determined by your education.

zopz

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experiment in favorites Posted: 8/26/2008 12:18:28 AM
Maybe my massive list of people that favorited me is why I'm having no luck here! That must be it!!

zopz

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Matchmaking on PoF Posted: 8/25/2008 9:46:33 PM
I've never had this happen to me at all, but would not be opposed to it just because of the idea at all. I mean really, what's the harm? As far as doing this myself, no, I wouldn't. Mostly because I don't have the personality where I'm like 'hey, meet my friend!' at all, so that pretty much stops that right there.

zopz

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Would you open you marriage to save it? Posted: 8/25/2008 2:46:27 PM
No. Opening any relationship is not the solution to any problem. All that does is allow people to have relationships with others and 'get what they're missing' elsewhere, which I do not think is right at all. As for other people doing it, I feel it's not right but they can do what they want, it's their lives after all.

zopz

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Must be college educated? Posted: 8/25/2008 2:27:48 PM
Just because someone's been to college (graduated) doesn't mean they aren't a moron. I like to learn and all, but I'm not a fan of going through formal education, so if that's going to put me off someone's list as being unintelligent, oh well. I've seen some profiles that require guys to be going somewhere with their life, which means to have a degree or at least be going to college, because clearly, you can't be intelligent and/or going somewhere in life if you don't go to college. I couldn't imagine how bad off someone would be if they dropped out of high school!

zopz

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Are you a YouTube junkie? Posted: 8/25/2008 1:48:20 PM
I don't go there all the time but I do look around there a lot. It's like searching for anything really... if you know what you're looking for, you'll find it, but if all you do is randomly browse, you're going to run into a myriad of pointless crap. I happen to think some of this pointless crap is just plain hilarious too.

zopz

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Differences between online dating and real life dating Posted: 8/23/2008 2:02:56 AM
Biggest difference with anything related to this and comparing it to real life, it's a million times easier to meet people in person. In person you don't get read/deleted when you try to talk to someone. I've never once been flat out ignored by anyone in person like I have been many times online here. I think the main thing is that people judge too much on a few pictures and words because they just find something they just may not like, so they totally pass on to the next person. When given this same situation in person, they are more likely to not even think of it because of the myriad of other things they are also seeing. Probably something along the lines of the internet making this appear much more linear than it really is and these situations in person are much more complex and therefore handled completely differently. Even though they are both the same, it's like comparing note writing to actual face to face conversation. Words on paper are so much different than an actual conversation and you only have one way to go with the writing/reading. I think that's the real killer with this kind of thing for a lot of people. So many just think they know it all about a person or whatever because you really don't have all that much to work with (that linearity and its ugly head, you know).

zopz

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What to wear on a first date? Posted: 8/23/2008 1:56:33 AM
If you prefer a decidedly male response: [scratching my balls] guys like to see you wear nothing at all! I really haven't laughed that hard at a post in a while. Thanks for that one. Now to wait for more people to come in with answers like this...

zopz

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This was a suprise! Posted: 8/23/2008 1:24:24 AM
There are two possibilities I would pick up on someone suggesting something like that to me. Either they are like bat shit crazy/stupid, or they really trust me. Either way, I would find it awkward and definitely not a preferable way to meet someone for the first time.

zopz

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Weird foods eaten in bed Posted: 8/23/2008 1:20:00 AM
Now that's just kind of weird. Here I was thinking it might be a simple thing like eating in bed and cleaning up in the morning. That's not quite the same though...

zopz

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What to wear on a first date? Posted: 8/23/2008 12:51:04 AM
It really doesn't matter to me as long as it fits the situation and it's nice/clean. Nasty looking clothes are a big no (hey, who would've thought). Then again, I'm not one of those picky types, so maybe I'm not a good person to say about that. I don't think it's a big deal at all with shorts and a shirt or anything, assuming it's not like tiny super tight clothes or something like that.

zopz

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Weird foods eaten in bed Posted: 8/23/2008 12:48:14 AM
I haven't had much experience with prune pits but I don't think it can top pee fermenting in the toilet overnight...

zopz

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My girl is controlling Posted: 8/22/2008 11:29:04 AM
I think the definition of the word "see" needs clearing up. I took it as meaning see -- spend time with (in a completely platonic sense). Same thing I thought... surprising more aren't asking for clarification...

zopz

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Is being an individual really a turnoff for people? Posted: 8/21/2008 11:36:59 PM
This really did make me laugh and I have to say something. Who really cares if people don't like your hobbies? Are your hobbies destructive to your life or the lives of others? No? Then what's the problem? It's not hobbies that make a person. Is a person boring just because they're into stamp collecting? Absolutely not. I see absolutely no reason that someone should be passed on just because they have a hobby or interest that I don't have or might find strange. It's the person that matters, and as long as there's no problem with the hobbies or interests, I don't see a problem. I like games, I also like a myriad of other things, and I'm damn proud of it. If someone has a problem with the fact I happen to be a gamer, I don't care. I enjoy what I enjoy. While some people enjoy sitting there yelling at their TV watching sports, I enjoy sitting in front of mine playing a game. No difference there at all. If my 'individuality' is a problem, oh well, not my loss.

zopz

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Why - lack of information? Posted: 7/30/2008 9:27:00 PM
The lack of information is easy. They want you to feel that allure of their mysterious ways. You know, because everyone loves to be in mystery about others.

zopz

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Why do men not reveal whether they have a car? Posted: 7/30/2008 9:24:02 PM
I n/a this one because, honestly, it's not important (also no one's business here). Now, if I end up hitting you up to bum rides everywhere, that'd be a problem. But why would it be a problem if someone (male or female) can get around just fine? Whether they have a car or not.

zopz

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The 3 Day Rule Posted: 7/30/2008 9:20:53 PM
People with brains don't play by these silly rules.

zopz

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Guy Advice needed Posted: 7/30/2008 11:51:58 AM
and for the record rune to me i am single i dont need to declare that i am married getting a divorce that is my business and no1 elses It's also deceptive to those that look at your profile. You may think you're single, but you're married, separated, or divorced. Since all of those are options, single implies never married. If it's no one's business why not go with the ever popular PNTS?

zopz

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Signs of an eating disorder? Posted: 7/27/2008 9:21:17 PM
If she's not eating enough that would probably explain the lack of energy? Plus, the fact those energy drinks are sugar free doesn't make them really any better for you, really shouldn't be drinking them that often, sugar free or not. I'm no health nut but I do the basics like that. Nothing good can come from depriving yourself of food... that's how you get malnourished and all that... and probably worse than actually overeating a little. I don't know how you get through to someone doing that though. I've never had to deal with it but there's no way starving yourself is good. Not eating is no way to lose weight (assuming that is the issue), that much is certain. And that whole BMI thing doesn't really take into account muscle mass at all. 30 pounds of fat is going to be worse than 30 pounds of muscle. So judging by height and weight doesn't mean anything on its own.

zopz

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Gut feelings??? Men, help!!!! Posted: 7/27/2008 8:13:16 PM
Maybe the fact you say really like Ace Ventura just irked this guy the wrong way? I dunno...

zopz

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Just curious... Posted: 7/27/2008 7:51:32 PM
Worst pet peeve, when you really want to get a feel for who they are or where they come from, and ask em "What kind of music are you into?" and they respond with, "I like everything." That really gives me nothing to work with or any idea of who you are. When they say this I try to name some genre that they wouldn't seem to be into, or sounds really evil like Grindcore of Death Metal or something, to which they prove that they weren't thinking about the answer they made. This also peeves me greatly. I don't think it would be so bad as to be 'worst' but definitely bad. It's so annoying when someone says anything or everything and clearly doesn't. I'll link them to something from my library (and yes, some grind is in there, along with quite a bit of death metal), just to hear them **** and moan about how awful it is. Others are things like cleavage shots and claiming they want a guy that likes them for them and not for sex or anything (dur, think what you're advertising with pictures, supposedly worth 'a thousand words'). Saying no to drugs and smoking then finding out they smoke weed (once again, dur, if you smoke it, are you not smoking at least?). Deceiving pictures (angles to look thinner or whatever really). You've got the numerous profiles complaining about where are all the nice guys and all that, that's an original one. Generic profile that pretty much says 'ask me whatever you want to know!' I don't even bother with people that give me nothing to work with. So sorry if I'd like to get a little bit of a feel for someone before I take my time to make an attempt. I also find requiring someone be older to make absolutely no sense. I really can't figure out why it is such an issue that someone might be a whole year or month younger. There's a lot of stuff that really does peeve me and not all of it is minor either, but anything else escapes me at the moment. Not all of the mentioned stuff is 'deal breaker' material but I am put off by things like that if I see one of them initially. I haven't really come up with any 'real life' peeves though, just the whole deception bit that goes along with pictures or other dishonesties.

zopz

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Is there ever a reason not to pursue a girl? Posted: 7/27/2008 6:56:32 PM
They call someone who won't stop pursuing for anything a 'stalker' and they generally get restraining orders against them.

zopz

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no sexual advances Posted: 7/27/2008 2:25:00 AM
Contrary to popular belief, there are guys out there that do take things slow when it comes to 'trying' anything. And a lot of it would probably come out of respect and not wanting to jeopardize something good by doing so.

zopz

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Is she controlling? Posted: 7/26/2008 1:31:37 PM
My dad had a motorcycle accident years ago and was wearing a helmet. The road ground through the helmet completely to where there was a hole from it. If he wasn't wearing a helmet, it would have done that to his head. I don't think I need to say anything more about my stance on the matter. And having an issue with you not wearing a helmet is not controlling or manipulative. That's a matter of wanting someone you feel strongly about to stay as safe as possible. I wouldn't want to date anyone that rode a motorcycle and didn't wear a helmet. Has nothing to do with control or manipulation. Now, I'm all for deciding whether you want to wear a helmet or not (or seat belt, too, for that matter). But I'm also allowed to decide if I'm comfortable with someone (potentially) important in my life doing something like that.

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