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CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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leaving after almost 3 yrs..heartbroken, alone and wiser Posted: 1/10/2008 9:43:06 PM
OK let me do the math now she joind 7/2/06 thats not 3 years it's about 18 months ... ...... Somethings not adding up .........

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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need some easy food ideas kids can make Posted: 10/22/2007 8:20:41 PM
Hi I work in a Special Needs Pre School with 3 to 5 year olds with learning disabilities every child can learn from cooking. First off they love to cook all of them and 2nd they are safe if you supervise them. I have 15 kids with 3 of us no one has ever been hurt. One thing we did just last week was made a barn yard no stoves or cooking to worry about. Gram Crackers Peanut Butter Square Pretzels Animal Crackers Spread the peanut butter on a full size gram cracker make a fence with the pretzels and stand the animals in the fence they love it. We also make vegetable soup with them the can use a plastic knife to cut par boiled veggies up. We just have to remember it's the process not the product that matters with young kids.

coolwatermom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Why buy the Cow when you can get the milk for free ? Posted: 8/23/2007 3:35:36 AM
Ok Ladies .........Be sure to keep his milk and sausage away from your eggs or you could be stuck connected to that little piggie for life ........LOL ....

CoolWaterMOM

Joined: 6/12/2005

Msg: 34 (view)

Comfort foods Posted: 6/30/2007 7:17:16 PM
And no one said my all time favorite Clam Chowder And also Beef Stew

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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plentyoffish good for chats only Posted: 4/25/2007 3:14:20 AM
maybe its the people here You think maybe it's just you??? ....... Give it some thought

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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can we change somebody Posted: 7/6/2006 7:57:52 PM
Nope and as the song say's Shoes Don't Strech And Men Don't Change

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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completely ignored first meeting... Posted: 7/6/2006 7:54:21 PM
Some people are just out and out rude move on your better than her hun

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Conversation. Lost Art? Posted: 6/29/2006 3:38:20 AM
You have that right it is a lost art With e mail IM and text messaging on a cell phone how much true face to face conversation do you have to have with a person any more. Very little from the looks of things it's sad.

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Where does Size Acceptance Fit in The Dating Game? Posted: 6/21/2006 8:29:52 PM
I don't have high blood pressure, High colesterol, Diabetes or any of the so-call weight related illnesses that so many people meantion. No not yet but the weight till take a toll on your body in time don't fool yourself into thinking your fine now and always will be.

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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On a first meeting: does someone liking you turn you off? Posted: 3/11/2006 3:23:15 AM
its repulsive. looking at your pics, i had an epiphany: outdoor shots are brutally unflattering. I would have to agree with you on that IN YOUR CASE He looks just wonderful ignore sugar I intend to Not a nice post no reason to be nasty

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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I need some help Posted: 2/25/2006 7:05:23 PM
we have been to counseling 3 times now You went to 3 big counseling sessions that's all. Please you may need to go for years to see any progress at all. Shame on you . Put some effort into your wife she deserves better than what you have done for her.

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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I need some help Posted: 2/25/2006 12:49:07 PM
One more thing if your little chickie pooh already knows your married and will still be with you. What makes you think in 5 years she won't find another guy that suits her fancy and will dump your sorry A** Your setting your self up for a world of hurt buddy

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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I need some help Posted: 2/25/2006 12:40:15 PM
I have a few questions for you. 1. Dose you wife have any clue that their is a problem with the marriage? 2 All the time you have been investing on this affair your having have you spent as much effort to saving marriage. 3 What true real life time have you spent with this other woman ? You wife is getting the crap time with you This other woman has the best part of you. You at your best because you know you have just a limited time with her. 4 Have you given your wife the quality time she deserves and has earned with you. Also one last bit of advice DO NOT I REPETE DO NOT TELL HER ABOUT THE OTHER WOMAN Unless you are 110% sure you want to leave. If you feel the least little bit of love for your wife and that with some work it could work out. Once you tell her the trust is gone and nothing will ever be the same take this to your grave if you have to. But telling her and staying is rubbing it in her face. It will do no good at all for her it will only clear you of the guilt you feel. Take my word for it I have been in her position and it is not a good feeling. I wish to this day 5 years latter he had never told me at all.

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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what would you buy......... Posted: 2/9/2006 9:37:18 PM
A Pet Rock and a Rubics Cube........ I thought I was so cool .....

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Did i mention the sex was amaising??? Posted: 1/31/2006 1:26:48 AM
I love when women go trolling for attention and the drama that comes with it is so amusing Sounded like I was talking to a 16 year old good god .......

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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sex Posted: 1/29/2006 4:53:06 AM
Before I go off on a rant this has to be one of the stupidest things I have herd in my life. I guess what they say about blonds is true. Maybe had you paid more attention in high school to Health Class than to passing Class Tramp 101 you would know how the human body works, not just how you can make the body work for you. The body goes back into shape in just 6 short weeks no wide gaping anything left ggess. Well thank God at 21 you know it all and have made up your mind not to have kids. save your little money maker for what it's good for. Lucky for you your mom did not think the way you do.

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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are single moms too fussy Posted: 1/23/2006 5:07:28 AM
Problem I had once the kids liked me too much the mother got jealous and it didnt work. The kids took up alot of my time, To be honest with you I would be creeped out if someone I was with was spending more time with my kids than me. I would start to worry what's going on. I don't think it has anything to do with being jealous. But that may just be me as an over protective mom.

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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why why WHY???? Posted: 1/19/2006 4:48:49 AM
those no good sluts,, how dare they do this and make us men feel like pond scum Well first off if they do that to you what do you want with a no good slut anyways you want one that is good at it .......LOL....... And 7times send me an e mail it will get my full attention baby

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Does a Virtual Friendship Count as a REAL one? Posted: 1/16/2006 5:27:20 AM
I can't forget coolwatermom and cyndi, great friends and we talk every day... You better not hun I would miss way to much hun I talk more to you than some people I see face to face every day

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Does a Virtual Friendship Count as a REAL one? Posted: 1/15/2006 9:23:25 AM
Blind people have friends.............. That about says it all great way to look at it

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Dating SomeOne On Line Safely Posted: 1/15/2006 6:54:31 AM
If you have a stun gun and riding in the passenger seat, wait until he's at a stop light and then zap him in the balls. When he recovers in shock, tell him that your ex convict brother used to personally request this on a daily basis. Do you get a lot of call backs after that one ..............

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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If your folks saw your forums what would they say? Posted: 1/5/2006 1:42:09 PM
My Mom would say nothing Just smak me up side the head and say knock that sh*t off ........LOL

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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What Do Men Expect Out Of Women Posted: 1/3/2006 3:25:55 AM
i expect lots and lots of great sex and lots of fun.....everything else i can do my self or buy........ Oh he** you buy the great sex and fun to if you know wear to shop hun

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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I Set him up and he fell for it!! Posted: 12/31/2005 8:48:08 AM
" Ok guys one little tidbit I left out not that it really matters anymore he still wanted to date me and told me he wouldnt be intimate with anyone." Funny how you thought to add in that tidbit 40 plus post latter and only after everyone told you what a fool and how child like you are acting. You played the game and lost you wanted to have your friend hit on him and him say "no I am with someone". After he told you he wanted to see others. He did just what he told you he was going to do. I am not buying it one bit grow up and move on he obviously has. Your just trolling for attention now because he dumped you. He was trying to be kind about it you turned it nasty by playing games how sad is that. It's women like you that make men think that all woman play head games.

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Best and worst 1st e-mail messages Posted: 12/30/2005 4:58:26 AM
All right I just got this a few days ago why would you ever start a first introduction off with the words bite me init no hi hello nothing? He comes off like he is doing me some big favor just typing to me. okay bite me --i will chat -talk with you --letrs get to say hello first customize the conversation from there --maybe we will eventuate to date each other --who knows --have to sstart at a point on the time line-right ? heres my em xxxxxx@yahoo.com happy neew year JIM

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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what would you do? Posted: 12/24/2005 4:18:05 AM
One Word......... Used..... He is a pig and a cheep one at that

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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What Women should never wear on a date Posted: 12/18/2005 7:16:53 PM
veedub447, A big NO NO you forgot baby...... She should never show up in a maternity out fit. I would think that would spoil the mood. especially if her belly hangs over the top of the paints..........LOL

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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When the girl wants to be JUST FRIENDS Posted: 12/12/2005 4:43:39 AM
still lives with his ex-wife Maybe you are an idiot but not the biggest one on the planet. That crowing glory has to go to the girl your in love with. At least your not getting used for sex on a dirt road like she is... Think better of yourself and get the hell out of dodge and away from her if he is using her like that I am sure he has a stable of women that have fallen for his line of BULL... Also I would wonder if it is truly his ex's or he is just a bigger slime ball than she is saying. Good luck

Coolwatermom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Dose This Kind Of E-Mail Bother Any One But Me Posted: 12/4/2005 8:05:30 AM
Hi, Hope u r doing gr8. I like ur profile and 'd luv 2 be friends w/ u. I'm on xxxxxx@yahoo. Will be glad 2 hear 4rm u soon. Hv a lovely wknd. Am I just knit picking or is this just someone to dam lazy to type out a word it makes me crazy when I get something like this from a 40+ year old guy if it was some 18 year old kid ok. I would say just immature let it be but someone that wants you to take them seriously. What do you think?

CoolWatermom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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why do they have to live so far away. Posted: 12/4/2005 4:57:45 AM
[/Why are you letting your self fall for someone so far way?] Oh please like we have a chose who we fall in love with. If I thought like that I would be doing the 91 year old al timers man that lives next door to me ...... Please if it is true love you over come the obstacles and make it work....

CoolWatermom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Yours and hers/ weight escalators going opposite directions Posted: 12/4/2005 4:24:00 AM
[She needs to stop it, because its not working is it, are you wouldn't be here asking for advice. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink] She can't just give up on him and let him kill himself. He is scared by all the bad press Gastric Bi Pass surgery has gotten over the years and you really can't blame him. I was to I am now 11 months post op and it was the beast thing I ever did for myself. You just don't go to the Dr. one day and sat "Hey doc I want gastric bi pass can ya hook me up " ....... LOL .... no no no you go in and see and be evaluated by a number of Dr. to see if you are even a candent for the surgery. You see a psychologist to see if you are in the mental frame of mind for it. You see a dietician and they have you lose weight to start so that you know and are in the habit of eating like you will have be after the surgery. I had to attend support group meetings. It would be wise if you can convince him to at least start the process to get as much info as he could about it. At least if he would try and get to that point he can always back out my surgery was moved up 3 hours because the person before me backed out on the table. Good luck with all this feel free to contact me if you need more info worstguy I have a ton of it..... Hugs P.S. Yes it dose work -156 pounds at goal for 3 months and holding.

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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The PIC or the Profile Posted: 11/29/2005 1:57:40 PM
The pic first than I read the full profile But if it is a new local name with no pic I will check out the profile. I also like to read if they have posted in the forums. You get a good feal for them from that way

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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TAKING IT TO THE EDGE Posted: 11/4/2005 4:07:48 AM
My ex Why is she an ex's what is wrong with her ???? .... she let a catch like you go not smart.

CoolWatermom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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How many is too many? Posted: 11/1/2005 3:21:31 AM
("first guy to give her an orgasm" seems so common, I am starting to wonder if that might be one of those "white lies" (trying to be sweet) that women tell their man to make him feel good...) Yup it is well at least at my age it is .......LOL ..... Might be true for the 20 and under age

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Ladys dont like short-dikked men Posted: 10/30/2005 2:34:46 AM
OK 100% honesty..... If I guy has a 2 in****who the hell cares as long as he has a tong and knows how to use it

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Cindy Sheehan vs Sen. Clinton Posted: 10/27/2005 4:19:17 AM
If you're looking to subsidize the cost of public safety, charge the ones who cause the stir by being confrontational freaks You have the chance to do that every 4 years it's called voting I do it every chance I get. The majority voted for him to run this show not you so live with it. You get your chance to change it the next time around when and if you vote.

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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married men looking for single women!!! Posted: 10/27/2005 4:08:13 AM
it sure makes it harder to weed out the bad fish... You got that one right from one good fish to another.

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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married men looking for single women!!! Posted: 10/27/2005 3:53:58 AM
AMEN!!! WHY DON'T THE "MARRIED" PEOPLE HAVE THEIR OWN WEB SITE??? THEN THE MARRIED CAN LOOK FOR THE OTHER MARRIED SO THEY CAN ALL CHEAT AND BE DISCREET You want to set one up for Men and Women people that like dogs and others that like cats. Please grow up some people come to this site for friends and the forums. Not all of us are desperately looking to snag a man.

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Cindy Sheehan vs Sen. Clinton Posted: 10/26/2005 7:58:35 PM
When the ** did you lose a son for nothing? No I did not lose a son but how about try a brother and have a son over their now you don't dare tell me you did your time I have 20 years in the service. You are what 20 years old and a student what do you do shuffle papers one weekend a month and play war camp in the summer. You make me sick you are clueless about the real world get your self a pair of big boy pants and grow the heup. In my eyes you rate right up their with the likes of her Cindy Sheehan.

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Cindy Sheehan vs Sen. Clinton Posted: 10/26/2005 7:47:06 PM
One more thing, if ( and I dont know if what you said is true about her husband leaving her ) but if that is true then phuck him! If he would leave his wife because she doesnt agree with the man who sent their child to die on false pretences she doesnt need him anyway!! Your right you don't leave your wife for not agreeing with her . BUT you do leave her for disgracing the memory of you hero of a son who died doing what he knew in his heart was right defending this country. No one forced him to stay his time was up he could have come home but he wanted to stay and fight for what he knew was the right thing. Again black sheep DO YOUR HOME WORK BEFORE YOU POST !!!! It was in the media every paper and news show he was on saying I do not agree with what she is doing. Him and other family members have come out openly against her.

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Cindy Sheehan vs Sen. Clinton Posted: 10/26/2005 7:34:18 PM
well if thats the case: your falmily considers YOU to be an embarrisment for your silly comments on here, ( see how silly that sounds? ) LOL what I say here is not going to have any effect on my family like it did hers. I will say it again do your home work before you go spewing off at the mouth. Hey Mom had a stroke during the 30 day protest back in Aug. I am sure what loosing her grandson and having her daughter make an a** of her self to the nation helped that a lot .

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Cindy Sheehan vs Sen. Clinton Posted: 10/26/2005 7:26:49 PM
really, so you know her family and they told you this personally? Do your home work blacksheep it was in the media.

CoolWatermom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Cindy Sheehan vs Sen. Clinton Posted: 10/26/2005 4:24:29 PM
The fact is she got what she wanted and lost a lot more in the process. For what it did not bring her son back she lost her husband and the respect of her family.

CoolWatermom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Cindy Sheehan vs Sen. Clinton Posted: 10/26/2005 3:57:07 PM
If her son died to protect you ***holes then maybe he did die for nothing I am sorry but her son died doing what he loved protecting this country just like millions of others have. He served because he wanted to no one made him do it. She was asking for an audience with the president she got on with him for 30 min back in May right after her son died. She is just trying to get her 15 min of fame at the cost of her son I am sure we will see a movie of the week and a book deal out soon enough. If you bleeding hears feel that bad for her how about you send her a link to POF she is single now her husband left her over what a mockery she was making out of her son's death

CoolWatermom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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married men looking for single women!!! Posted: 10/26/2005 3:42:24 PM
I never said KCE 33 was a female? I just coppied and what was said by another member's post was not directed at you. Your name was just in the post

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Cindy Sheehan vs Sen. Clinton Posted: 10/26/2005 2:09:12 PM
they should arrest her for treason and get her outta here.... At the very least that should do that. If you ask me it's war time shoot her for treason. No place for her in this country she is trash.

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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married men looking for single women!!! Posted: 10/26/2005 2:00:02 PM
LOL...PINKFIZZ....YOUR AS WELL A BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ALSO.....MAYBE THERE IS A REASON WHY KCE33 DOESN'T HAVE A PICTURE ON HER PROFILE...... Some one better start looking closer at the profiles on this site KCE33 is a dude and I can vouch for him a dude with a di*k a nice one at that

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Girls who dont fill out profiles.. Posted: 10/26/2005 3:15:57 AM
Oh my good God it drives me crazy that some women only post boobie shots and than wonder why men are hitting on me and only seem to want sex... Well DAH what is that all you advertising yourself for your going to get how you present yourself. You want class act like you have some

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Why must men always attract the women???? Posted: 10/24/2005 4:28:01 AM
We usually have to make 1st move and be eager to please the first 2-3 weeks of a relationship!!! Ok but after the first 2 or 3 weeks what do you do ? We spend the rest of the time pleasing you men and in some cases the rest of our lives.

CoolWaterMom

Joined: 6/12/2005

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Facial hair and going down on a woman Posted: 10/20/2005 3:44:25 AM
Yes Yes Yes Very Nice

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