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doink 1962

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Is it possible to control attraction? Posted: 11/20/2009 2:31:59 PM
Guess I don't think as indepth as that? I mean , I would never think about who is in control by who is going to cut the grass, or such things as that. Cotrol of attraction was the question and can you control it? I think to a point you can, depending on circumstances and knowing what is right or wrong.We all have things that we find attractive , may not be what others think is attractive which makes it so unique , think we all control it to an extent.JMO

doink 1962

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How much alone time do you need? Posted: 11/20/2009 2:24:23 PM
Seriously that is some funny stuff!

doink 1962

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Stephanie Spielman Posted: 11/20/2009 4:46:35 AM
I just heard that lastnight watching a hockey game, they mentioned it. That is too bad but I hope she is an inspiration to others and some good comes from it.

doink 1962

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What are your Pet Peeves? Posted: 11/18/2009 4:19:33 PM
Those are mine as well the only one I would have added is people who are lazy.

doink 1962

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What the color of your eyes say about you! Posted: 11/18/2009 4:18:08 PM
No , because mine are that way. Most of the time they are blue but if I wear a green shirt they will turn more towards green?

doink 1962

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What is wrong with the person's profile above you in this thread? Posted: 11/18/2009 2:48:28 PM
Debbie , I know , it's just that I have been watching too many of those uncovered programs lately and the themes have been about pervs and such so I guess I am on my box top trying to save the world! LOL, thanks for not taking offense to what I am trying to say.

doink 1962

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What is wrong with the person's profile above you in this thread? Posted: 11/18/2009 2:46:10 PM
Tj , I love the joke, now that is funny! Very good profile as well! It explains so many sides of you and that your hopeful of finding the right person for you! Shows you have many interests and are pretty active, all strong points IMO. Looks like some of your photos may be from POF events? Might want to explain that so people don't think these are all of your previous dates if that makes sense? Again overall I think it's a great profile and one that must have taking some time to do!

doink 1962

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What Do You Have To Be Thankful For? Posted: 11/18/2009 2:30:16 PM
Old one that can be used year after year! ( I hope! LOL) 1. That I still have a living parent 2. That my kids are healthy and happy 3.That I am healthy 4. For the many friends I have 5. That my Brothers and sisters are happy and healthy 6. That I still have a job in tough economic times 7.That I still don't need a little blue pill (sorry could not resist,came to mind? LOL)

doink 1962

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What is wrong with the person's profile above you in this thread? Posted: 11/18/2009 2:23:59 PM
Overall think hers is a great profile! It shows you have a very open and funny style and are not just here to jump into any relationship without giving it some time. The only think I don't care for even though it's edited is the picture of a child, and I mean this for safety reasons only, not trying to offend. Overall I think it is a very well done profile! Not sure I want anyone to critique mine because I know they can have a field day! LOL

doink 1962

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I don't think anyone has enjoyed the 69 position since 1969. Posted: 11/14/2009 10:37:49 AM
Weird my bone locks up as well!

doink 1962

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shaved or unshaved? Posted: 11/12/2009 5:29:15 PM
I had a beard and mustache for about 20 years and then about 4 months ago decided it was time for a change and shaved them off. What is better I don't know , I mean handsome is handsome no matter how I do it!

doink 1962

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What is your favorite type of sex? Posted: 11/11/2009 2:49:59 PM
Sex involving me is the best!

doink 1962

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Do Men Like Hearing There Name Said In Bed Posted: 11/11/2009 2:38:11 PM
Depends on who is saying it! LOL

doink 1962

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Sleeping naked Posted: 11/11/2009 2:37:19 PM
I can't think of the last time I slept with anything on? Only if my kids are over is usually the only time I wear clothes when I am home, just like it that way?

doink 1962

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Foreplay or Actual sex - what is more exciting to you? Posted: 11/11/2009 4:27:23 AM
Well how about that we all seem to be in agreement with each other! Go figure!

doink 1962

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Foreplay or Actual sex - what is more exciting to you? Posted: 11/10/2009 1:12:22 PM
Good call and no doubt it starts way ,way before you do anythnig physical, that is one of the main things that make it so hot! (could not think of a better word)

doink 1962

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Male Butt Posted: 11/10/2009 1:07:48 PM
Do you girls think the postion of "tight end" in football was not created for you? LOL

doink 1962

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Foreplay or Actual sex - what is more exciting to you? Posted: 11/10/2009 12:47:37 PM
Hmmm, tough call and either way can you really be wrong with an answer here? I think most ofthe time in is the foreplay that is more exciting but not always! Boy , I answered that like a politican! LOL

doink 1962

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do men like getting more then giving Posted: 11/9/2009 2:16:58 PM
Thanks Tickle nice name yourself! Yeah you have jacked this thread! LOL. Like Isaid you have the right attitude and hopefully you get your cake and he eats it too! I think it will all work out in the end and your right about not saying no head if he does not eat you, who wins in that? No one. Too bad we can't all have this attitude and I can say I have never had to deal with an issue like this so take my opinion with a grain of salt! Good luck, now let's open the buffet line! LOL

doink 1962

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do men like getting more then giving Posted: 11/9/2009 2:01:56 PM
I don't know tickle , seems to me you have got it right! Yeah , you might enjoy him going down on you but you are willing to overlook that and look at what he does have to offer you! To me that is the key, hell if we could all do this things would be so much better! And with your understanding who knows maybe 6 months down the road he'll be eating like there is no tomorrow! JMO

doink 1962

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What does it mean to fall in love? Posted: 11/9/2009 12:34:05 PM
Now I see why you are the CEO ! LOL

doink 1962

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Let's get naked Posted: 11/9/2009 4:10:23 AM
Yeah it was for him and it was in Downtown Cleveland, great experiance and people were really cool about everything. I would do it again in a heart beat!

doink 1962

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Let's get naked Posted: 11/9/2009 4:00:04 AM
Funny I have no problem with it and have been nude with 3,000 others for a picture once. Not sure if it is confidence or my thinking is ,it is what it is! I am not the best looking or biggest or tightest but it's mine and thats all I have so what can you do? I think if someone is willing to get naked with you then I am sure they will overlook your flaws, like I said we all have them!

doink 1962

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Embarassing yet unavoidable Posted: 11/8/2009 11:09:54 AM
All I can say is " Wheres the queef"

doink 1962

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do men like getting more then giving Posted: 11/7/2009 8:04:50 AM
Your mates mothers vagina? Hmm, anyhow I love pleasing a woman , it is such a turn on and yes I like to get it back in return. I guess I have never thought about which is better because they are so different, nothing better than to please your woman this way and make her so desirable! Guess maybe I sway to saying I like giving better!

doink 1962

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Why do so many people want sex so fast? Posted: 11/7/2009 6:43:54 AM
That was pretty good Crok, well said!

doink 1962

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The Future of Pleasure... Posted: 11/6/2009 1:43:01 PM
Throw us all in a big pot and boil us is what they should do!

doink 1962

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Occasional Crying with an Orgasm... Posted: 11/5/2009 1:56:22 PM
I cry all the time from not finding a partner to have an orgasm with!

doink 1962

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Big Labia Lips On Women Posted: 11/5/2009 1:38:25 PM
This whole subject is funnier than shit! I mean seriously if we are looking this hard for something wrong in a partner, well good luck is all I can say! Big Labia lips,wow

doink 1962

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What does it mean to fall in love? Posted: 11/5/2009 1:32:50 PM
I am not sure I have any imperfections!

doink 1962

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Sucking during and after sex? Posted: 11/4/2009 1:31:15 PM
I don't think it is abnormal and I find it a great turn on, tells me she is really into it and whats wrong with that?

doink 1962

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Why do so many people want sex so fast? Posted: 11/3/2009 6:18:44 PM
Thanks Debbie and you have a great night as well!

doink 1962

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Why do so many people want sex so fast? Posted: 11/3/2009 6:12:01 PM
What does that mean?

doink 1962

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Why do so many people want sex so fast? Posted: 11/3/2009 6:07:34 PM
Where are these people you speak of because I have not met them? I have met some really nice woman on here and besides I would not judge anyone on here anyway, who am I to say ? Why do people want sex so fast? Maybe they want to live like there is no tomorrow!

doink 1962

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do young women lust after older men?? or is this a mith?? Posted: 10/30/2009 4:11:01 PM
Don't I wish this was true! Hell I'd be happy with older women lusting after me or even peers at this point! LOL

doink 1962

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Bi women or Straight women? Posted: 10/30/2009 4:09:20 PM
I say yes and yes!

doink 1962

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What song are you? Posted: 10/24/2009 6:33:39 AM
I'm no angel by Greg Allman

doink 1962

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Lake County? Posted: 10/16/2009 3:47:12 PM
An illusion perhaps! LOL

doink 1962

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Lake County? Posted: 10/16/2009 1:56:36 PM
DO you all remember when.......

doink 1962

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Why women want guys to come to THEM Posted: 9/25/2009 9:47:39 AM
Wow are some people responding to the same subject? I must admit about what Dylan Roode wrote and agree! I too love an impressive snatch anyday ! Sorry could not resist!

doink 1962

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What You've given up for a good F*CK....... Posted: 9/25/2009 9:38:26 AM
I gave up a butterfinger!

doink 1962

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Would you prefer to be free of sexual urges? Posted: 9/25/2009 9:37:36 AM
No , I would much more happier if I could take care of those urges more than I get to!

doink 1962

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Does what you eat affect your love life? Posted: 9/16/2009 8:42:04 PM
Thought your love life would be much more affecting as to who you eat! Sorry could not resist!

doink 1962

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Does what you eat affect your love life? Posted: 9/15/2009 7:01:57 AM
Sweet Jesus now it's come down to what I eat also? I can't win !

doink 1962

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Is there a way to explain it to kids? Posted: 9/11/2009 12:57:54 PM
Wow good call there Erin, I agree 100% ! I tell my boys anything and try to do so in a humorous way but to explain as well. Half the time I think they know as much as me and it is fun to watch their faces when Dad dicusses things with them. Kids should be taught not shammed or left guessing. JMO

doink 1962

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If you haven't seen it all do you want to or would you? Posted: 9/9/2009 3:56:05 PM
I am a firm supporter of this league!

doink 1962

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Compromise or no? Posted: 9/7/2009 6:22:51 PM
Seriously this has to be one of the funniest posts I have ever read! When you say "hoping people with open minds reply" I almost cried! If this is a deal breaker for you I shudder to think what other hang ups may be lurking and trust me I'll bet she does also!

doink 1962

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sex drive in women over 40 Posted: 9/7/2009 6:12:09 PM
After reading most of the repies from you woman all I can say is THANK God since I am not getting any younger either and it is nice to know that I might still have a chance of some of the good sstuff in life!

doink 1962

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Masturbation, How often is normal? Posted: 9/4/2009 8:06:29 AM
I'm blind, I'm blind!

doink 1962

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Do women think about sex as much as men? Posted: 8/31/2009 5:07:21 PM
From my experience (no not as a woman ! LOL) I have found that the older I get the more woman have opened up about talking about sex. Don't know if I am the only who feels this way but I guess at my age wtf do we have to hide anymore! JMO

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