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consigliori

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Are there some men who really DON'T like women but need their sexual needs met? Posted: 11/23/2009 2:50:22 PM
Are there some men who really DON'T like women but need their sexual needs met? Yes. There are some really evil, selfish men out there who use women for sex. And there are some eternally naive women out there who are unable to learn from their own or others' experiences but think it's ok to act like a perpetual victim. A match made in heaven.

consigliori

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marriage on the way out?? if not why are there so many divorces? Posted: 11/23/2009 2:40:16 PM
Nor do i fling feces at others. Not that I'm not tempted sometimes.

consigliori

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How do YOU stop loving someone Posted: 11/23/2009 2:37:11 PM
Conventional Wisdom (that contemporary sage) says you have to learn to hate her. 50 Ways to Leave Your Lover: 44. Start a rumor you caught a horrible, disfiguring STD from her. 45. Call all her exes and start a an Ex Club based on the premise that she’s a particularly cruel and manipulative narcissist. 46. Send letters to her kids stating you love them and wish you could take them to Disney World but their mother is against it. 47. Call the tax assessors office and inform them she recently renovated her house. 48. Tell her family that you really like them and you’d like to maintain contact with them. 49. Find out who she is dating and call him to “warn” him about her. 50. Start a POF thread about how you were used and abused.

consigliori

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Would you cheat on SO for alot of money? Posted: 11/23/2009 1:39:01 PM
No, absolutely not, never, no-way. How much was that again?

consigliori

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marriage on the way out?? if not why are there so many divorces? Posted: 11/23/2009 1:16:34 PM
Idealizing an institution that you yourselves couldn't even accomplish. Wasn't it Plato who asserted that the phenomenal world could never attain the ideal? FO: Are you suggesting that people shouldn't strive for the ideal? That they should just accept defeat and embrace a lesser standard?

consigliori

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Text talk in the over 30s Posted: 11/23/2009 12:56:10 PM
Text talk in the over 30s You mean people over 30 know how to do that?!

consigliori

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Is it worthwhile to date here? Posted: 11/23/2009 12:53:30 PM
If you're really funny in the forums and you have a hot bod The Creator will pay you to stick around. Don't ask me how I know that.

consigliori

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What are these guys doing? Posted: 11/23/2009 12:48:09 PM
Even on this site, I get plenty of traffic and messages, but they seem reluctant to meet face to face, even if we get along really well. Is it just the fear of meeting a stranger? This is a generalized social phenomenon referred to in medical journals as anthrophobia with xenophobic tendencies. In laymen’s terms it means some people are attached to their environment and unwilling to have their perception altered by getting off their PC and venturing in to the real world. Locally it’s referred to as ichthyphobia, which in laymen’s terms means: “somebody who likes to fish but is afraid to catch anything”. Will the real Cliff Claven please step up!

consigliori

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when someone of age hasnt had a relationship Posted: 11/23/2009 12:39:46 PM
I find it hard to believe that at 42, you have not had a relationship. Where have you been living all this time? What she said. Is this another - "hey look at me I'm a virgin thread"?

consigliori

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marriage on the way out?? if not why are there so many divorces? Posted: 11/23/2009 12:35:05 PM
Two comments (niether one of them responsive to the OP): Marriage contracts and prenups don't do much for ordinary people. Contracts are subject to interpretation. Parties to a contract spend as much time arguing about the applicable facts or the meaning of the terms as divorcing couples spend arguing about who gets what. The prediliction to argue and the desire for vindication is human. Angry parties (couples) will always find something to fight about and some reason to fault each other. It's misguided to attribute the high rate of divorce to abuse, insanity, infidelity, etc. While these conditions certainly contribute to the stats (and are grossly over represented per the re-telling) the real reason is that many people don't have what it takes to see the commitment through. OK - three comments. Yes it's expensive to obtain legal assistance. But frankly, sometimes (or even often) it is the cost of the legal battle which brings the parties to their senses and prevents them from arguing about every stitch of clothing in the kid's wardrobe.

consigliori

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Women V/S Men Posted: 11/20/2009 6:19:31 AM
An oldie, but worth reprinting: A man riding his motorcycle was on his way along a California beach when suddenly the sky clouded above his head and, in a booming voice, the Lord said "Because you have tried to be faithful to me in all ways, I will grant you one wish.” The biker pulled over and said, “Build a bridge to Hawaii so I can ride over anytime I want.” The Lord said, “Your request is materialistic, think of the enormous challenges for that kind of undertaking; the supports required reaching the bottom of the Pacific and the concrete and steel it would take! It will nearly exhaust several natural resources. I can do it, but it is hard for me to justify your desire for worldly things. Take a little more time and think of something that could possibly help mankind.” The biker thought about it for a long time. Finally, he said, “Lord, I wish that I and all men could understand women; I want to know how she feels inside, what she's thinking when she gives me the silent treatment, why she cries, what she means when she says nothing is wrong, and how I can make a woman truly happy.” The Lord replied, "You want two lanes or four on that bridge?"

consigliori

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Women V/S Men Posted: 11/19/2009 7:17:46 AM
11. Facials make your skin glow. 12. Anal sex cleanses your colon. 13. Swishing before swallowing whitens your teeth.

consigliori

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New Fish, Please Read Posted: 11/18/2009 12:56:32 PM
List all the places you've never been and things you've never done on your First Date description. Put "camping" and "outdoors" in your Interests section because you once sat under an umbrella on the beach. Be sure to assert your independence just in case someone is inclinded to think you might not be.

consigliori

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Is there any recourse??? Posted: 11/18/2009 12:31:41 PM
My what big teeth you have grandmother.

consigliori

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Is the number of acceptable places to approach women offline shrinking? Posted: 11/18/2009 12:29:30 PM
"Offline shrinkage"? Nothing like the cold light of IRL to shrink an online package.

consigliori

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single mom's pressured into lesbian sex Posted: 11/18/2009 12:23:21 PM
I think adamcon is just hoping to hear some racy stories about lesbian sex. The same is probably true for every other guy that clicked on this thread too. I was just hoping to pick up some tips about HOW to pressure someone into lesbian sex. All I got so far was wait outside the gyno clinic and lick your lips a lot.

consigliori

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Why some men never want marry? Posted: 11/17/2009 3:40:02 PM
Why some men never want marry? I wanted Mary. She was the high school cutie. We never got merry though. She wanted to marry. I don't want her any more.

consigliori

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I don't want to be interviewed Posted: 11/17/2009 3:35:58 PM
I like activity dates. Let's get drunk and screw!

consigliori

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Rejection-men have been dealing with this a long time. Posted: 11/17/2009 3:25:50 PM
I am the one. Or at least I was the one. Then we became two. Now we're the five. OP: In the world of today, we women, who wanted equal rights, are now expected to make the first move. I disagree w/ this. I think guys are still expected to be the movers and most women still prefer it that way.

consigliori

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Honesty in Dating Posted: 11/17/2009 12:25:19 PM
Back in the olden days, when I was still on the fish market and the pond was a miasmic swamp, I would always assume that people were free to date others until after the exclusivity talk, and thereafter by mutual arrangement - or not. But then maybe it's different in Vegas.

consigliori

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Hooked on having a FWB? Posted: 11/17/2009 12:09:55 PM
He gets the sex, requiring no committment and no responsibility, little or no drama... He still has to keep her interested (a/k/a "do the heavy lifting"), accept social judgment, take responsibility for accidental progeny, accept legal consequences of shared domicile/goods, manage jealousy issues - and no drama? Who the heck have you been dating? There's ALWAYS drama. And on top of that he has to keep his two or more FWBs separate, juggle schedules, pay for twice as many gifts/dinners/trips, always appear in top form and mind the competition (after all - what's to keep her there?). Not to mention all the time he spends on internet dating sites hoping to find Miss FWB II or wondering what will happen to his love life when his tits sag and his pecker doesn't work. And then you miss out on the good stuff: spontaneous sex, somebody to scratch your back/watch your back, sharing the workload, splitting household costs and the unity that comes of years and years of pulling together.

consigliori

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Women V/S Men Posted: 11/17/2009 11:46:04 AM
^^ I'd shed a tear - if guys did that kind of thing.

consigliori

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how come women initiate the breakup 80% of the time? Posted: 11/17/2009 6:21:06 AM
because the trailer fowl is flying up the side to the front, leaving it 1 short, consigliori You know, the only other person to get that has been my 6th grade son. Be afraid. OT: 'cause the guys won't ask directions to get to the courthouse?

Consigliori

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independent women fall the hardest Posted: 11/16/2009 2:48:24 PM
All except the bikini thing; my boobs do look much better in my skimpy leather bikini top. Yes, well - there is that.

Consigliori

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Most Overrated Destinations Posted: 11/16/2009 2:45:24 PM
OVERrated? That's tough. That has more to do with the location's reputation than whether or not it deserves high marks - a phenomenon which isn't necessarily the fault of the location. Many of the most famous tourist areas are overrated - Paris, Venice, Munich, Honolulu, Giza, Buenos Aires ... but that doesn't mean I didn't enjoy them. They had much to offer - just not what I expected. The flip side is that some places surprise you. Fer instance I had low expectations of London but really enjoyed it. Maybe we ought to toss the guidebooks out the window and use an atlas instead.

Consigliori

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Iceland ~ Anyone been? Posted: 11/16/2009 2:27:43 PM
How did it go? I've flown through often enough to know to stay away from the Brennivin but I would like to know more.

Consigliori

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why if he stopped calling he acts interested? Posted: 11/16/2009 2:24:40 PM
Forget him. But if you hang out at that bar often enough word will get around and you'll have lots of dates.

Consigliori

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Right or Wrong? Your Take on This ... Posted: 11/16/2009 2:22:22 PM
No covalent bonds had been established. You were all free electrons.

Consigliori

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should I forget it? Posted: 11/16/2009 2:15:08 PM
No biggie. He just remembered he had forgotten his wallet.

Consigliori

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What do guys think DATING means?!! Posted: 11/16/2009 2:13:39 PM
I am stunned that so many guys don't know the difference between a quick bounce and a date. We do to! A quick bounce is a quick bounce and a date is a slow bounce. I'm stunned to realize that so many women over the age of 20 - no make that 16 - are surprised to find out men want sex. Let me tell you something else you probably don't know - men have different parts!

Consigliori

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why do men always have to look at other women!! Posted: 11/16/2009 2:07:17 PM
why is it that a man cant be happy with just you? Why is it that women can't be happy with men just as they are? EDIT: Or did someone say that already?

Consigliori

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Is dating a 22 year old virgin male OK? Posted: 11/16/2009 2:05:51 PM
Virginity from what I have read is a cheap shot used by a desperate man to get sex. I heard that too. Like REALLY desperate. And kind of manipulative - in a sick sort of way. It could even be deceitful if the guy weren't telling the truth.

Consigliori

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Flakey & inconsistent behavior. Localized or more common than I realize? Posted: 11/16/2009 2:02:45 PM
My ex didn't get the "Move to Florida" memo. Anyone got an extra?

Consigliori

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You know you're getting old when ... Posted: 11/16/2009 2:01:18 PM
Please, some kid calls me Ma'am at the gym I go to. It makes me want to punch him in the adam's apple every freaking day. Yeah. Reach over and squeeze his zit.

Consigliori

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independent women fall the hardest Posted: 11/16/2009 1:58:53 PM
< < Is an independent man. Doesn't need a woman. Is cleaner, neater and more organized than most women. Does it all better, faster, with more grace, and looks better in a bikini than most women. Just don't tell my wife.

Consigliori

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Dating A Single Child Posted: 11/16/2009 1:38:46 PM
Never, only children are almost as bad as 'youngest' children. If you didn't take a little chit while you were growing up you can't possible be an even-tempered, tolerant partner. See. If you'd had an older brother you'd given you heck every once in a while you would have thought that was funny.

Consigliori

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BF will not tell me his birthdate or where he works - is this wierd to you guys? Posted: 11/16/2009 1:26:06 PM
He's a private person. Some of us are like that and some information is more private than others. Look at it this way - he's not lying to you, he's being candid. He's just not ready to give you unrestricted access.

Consigliori

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honest answer... Posted: 11/16/2009 1:11:22 PM
What exactly is the "more" you seek? Children? Financial Support? Public pronouncements? It would be helpful to know more about your goals and whatever it is you think is lacking.

Consigliori

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having a tough time. (could use alot of help.) Posted: 11/16/2009 1:04:50 PM
I've tried to cut communication and its not working. Does not jibe with: I've tried talking to him about it still no changes. I've tried emailing him no changes. But still you say: how am i suppose to move on with my life without him when he's being the one being in constant contact with me. Then you say: Nothing is working, and nothing is changing. And I say - naturally nothing is changing. YOU are treating the situation as if you are still together. Move on.

Consigliori

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When is the time right? Posted: 11/16/2009 12:56:45 PM
My thoughts are that guys want to go from one woman to another woman. I prefer to go from one group orgy to the next - but in lieu of that I'm happy with one good woman.

Consigliori

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Embarrassing moments brought to you by your kids Posted: 11/16/2009 12:52:33 PM
We were in the early stages of toilet training Son #2. He had just reached the stage where he could identify the source of various body functions and was proud he could identify them. We were at a kids' party with some other parents when someone’s partially-inflated balloon slipped and fluttered noisily around the room. He turned to me and said “Daddy icky butt?” We were at a weekday funeral of a distant relative. Son #2 (about 2 yrs. @ time) was the only child in attendance. The priest finished his (rather long winded) homily about passing on. In the hallowed silence that followed, my son, who had been sitting patiently, said very loudly - “all gone!”

Consigliori

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She is barely legal, He is 48 Posted: 11/16/2009 12:27:25 PM
I said MOSTLY mature!

consigliori

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Prague Posted: 11/16/2009 10:03:14 AM
^^ I agree. I liked the historical central market (inter alia) in Krakow. If you go that far you should check out Zakopane and the Tatras mountains too. Edit: And when you get out of the city, stay in the Pensions. There's no better way to get a little color.

consigliori

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horror movies = red flag? Posted: 11/16/2009 9:54:21 AM
I might be worried if that was ALL they watched - but then it wouldn't be any worse than a woman who ONLY watches chick flicks and drama. How scary would that be?

consigliori

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Women V/S Men Posted: 11/16/2009 9:52:09 AM
In summary, Husband 1.0 is a great program, but it does have limited memory and cannot learn new applications quickly. You might consider buying additional software to improve memory and performance. We recommend Cooking 3.0 and Hot Lingerie 7.7. I wanna meet the guy who makes this stuff up!

consigliori

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She is barely legal, He is 48 Posted: 11/16/2009 9:49:56 AM
Or we have self esteem, are (mostly) mature, met a young woman we like and want to reproduce.

consigliori

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how come women initiate the breakup 80% of the time? Posted: 11/16/2009 9:41:30 AM
I know I know pick me It's because... they don't initiate the breakup 20% of the time. Hey I got another one: why is one side of the migratory waterfowl V-pattern longer than the other?

consigliori

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Astounded by the amt of perverts on here... Posted: 11/16/2009 9:36:48 AM
Guys want to use me if they can for just sex. Now that's perveted. Shame on you guys. Sexual deviants.

consigliori

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I'm travelling to Egypt and Jordan in June, any advice? Posted: 11/13/2009 3:03:25 PM
5. Pls. just drink water in bottles. AND be sure the bottles haven't been opened and refilled before you buy them. Man did I make that mistake. I enjoyed taking public transport - the windowless trains, crowed buses and ferries with goats. It was a good way to meet real people. I hated the flies. Damn things fly right into your eye and stick there.

consigliori

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Planning an Island vacation... Any suggestions? Posted: 11/13/2009 2:56:07 PM
Not Jamaica. I loved the culture but the diving bites and the political situation is dodgy unless you know some locals to show you around.

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