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R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 161 (view)

Cash For Sex Posted: 5/22/2009 5:14:06 PM
If s0meone is going to pay you money to have sex with them, cool. It is still a job and all jobs are lame, but if all you have to do is make someone, male or female, cum for cash, there is nothing wrong with that. It is the easiest job in the universe. The best situation is being able to mentally please someone and have them help you out just for speaking to them.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 969 (view)

yes or no? Friends with benefits! Posted: 5/22/2009 4:48:17 PM
I think I have this situation now. My girl is my friend and I pleasure her sexually. She isn't a soul mate because we barely see each other, but we are good friends and have good fun when we are together.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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Whatever happened to dating? Posted: 5/22/2009 4:46:40 PM
I don't think it is cool to string someone along for years if you have no intention of being with them seriously. If it doesn't click in that instant, then it's better to let someone go and find somebody else who is more on their level.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 158 (view)

How to treat a lady Posted: 5/22/2009 4:44:46 PM
If I have to be chivalrous to a woman it means that I don't consider her to be my equal. If that is the case, I should just forgive her and move on until I meet a woman who doesn't care about that stuff.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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Friends Vs GirlFriend/Boyfriend Posted: 5/22/2009 4:43:04 PM
I have to disagree with this. In my experiences, friends and family symbolize a lack of forgiveness. For me, women who are always up under their family and friends are a turn off. Still living in the same house with their parents even though they are approaching 20, working a job, going to school, hanging out with girlfriends, hanging out with siblings, etc are all signs the woman is not secure with herself and her relationship with God. Friends and family are not always going to be there. Few men and women understand this. Your woman is not always going to be there either. This is becaue eventually you will forgive and forget them. There is nothing wrong with this but a woman who does not understand this is someone that I won't be around for long.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 39 (view)

ONE Line Answer- What's the AGE Gap You Can Overcome? Dummies Guide to How to Bridge a Big Age Gap! Posted: 5/22/2009 4:35:53 PM
The max I have bridged is a woman 20 years my senior. I was 25 or 26 I believe and she was 46. It was a good experience for me. My tips would is be persistent. Older women think they are spiritually way more advanced than a younger man because of their age but often that is not the case. That 46 year old lady might as well had been 15 years old. The relationship was way more beneficial to her than it was to me but I still had a good time and enjoyed the experience. The age doesn't matter at all. Just because someone is older does not mean they are actually more advanced than you.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 87 (view)

Would I be considered old fashioned? Posted: 5/22/2009 4:30:41 PM
I'm not really sure where you get these values from but if you think they are real, then you will behave that way. I have had first night sex on the first date with a woman and the relationship lasted for several years. I have dated women and not had sex and it lasted maybe a few months. And back in the days, once you bought your wife, you could do whatever you wanted to her so you are not old fashioned at all. In fact you are the future. Maybe you just don't feel comfortable with most men and you are looking for something more before you commit yourself sexually.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 214 (view)

How important is it for your partner to be physically fit or in shape Posted: 5/22/2009 4:26:48 PM
Not really sure what kind of "moves" you are looking for but you will meet this type of man and most likely he won't stick around, but maybe he will. Also just because a man is in shape does not mean he can pleasure you correctly. The power to forgive means that the man is giving. You don't need to have a diesel body to be 100% committed to pleasing your woman. Spiritual pleasure goes a long way but sexual pleasure also works if that is what she wants.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 107 (view)

What are the benefits of getting a divorce in an Amicable split? Posted: 5/22/2009 4:23:38 PM
Not really sure there is a benefit. If you can work things out amongst yourselves than that is key. Why would you want to get another marriage after you can see that it doesn't work is beyond me. If I ever got married, I would just stay married to that person unless they really wanted a divorce. If we both can't decide, it is best to stop worrying about it and continue on with your life.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 27 (view)

What is your expectations of the perfect man/women for you??? Posted: 5/22/2009 4:21:24 PM
The perfect woman is a woman who, similar to your mom, is always there but she is way beyond your moms phyically (as a symbol), spiritually and mentally. She should be someone who also wants to return to our Father and your best friend. You only meet the perfect woman when you realize that you are perfect and 100% innocent. In reality the women or men you are with are all the same except they represent different stages of your spiritual development. With every growth and relapse, these symbols change before your very eyes. The goal is to forgive people, especially these women so you can eventually meet one who will join Father with you.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 82 (view)

Do you ever wonder if what people are looking for is a 20 year relationship overnight? Posted: 5/22/2009 4:14:54 PM
At a certain level it is just easy to know people and then you don't need to care anymore. I hang with men or women for the intellectual stimulation which is a spiritual benefit. If 1 or 2 conversations can fulfill that need, then there's no reason to talk to that person again really. It is nothing personal and it is actually for their benefit. Some people linger around for the physical or material benefits and that is cool as long as you don't take it seriously.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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Should I call or give up? Posted: 5/22/2009 4:11:11 PM
I think you should give up. It's probably a wrap. Unless you really like this dude keep it moving.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 80 (view)

I'm out of your league Posted: 5/22/2009 4:10:07 PM
OP has a point. Nothing is ultimately attractive about one person to another person. In terms of physical looks there are no leagues. There are only spiritual and mental leagues. A woman can look stunning but not have any intelligence at all. A man can be real ugly but be so spiritual that he attracts many people.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 152 (view)

Cheating mother Posted: 5/22/2009 4:06:42 PM
Well I was in a similar situation with my ex. I downloaded keylogger and found out some stuff, nothing too major. I said somethings to her on the side but nothing out in the open because you don't want to scare people or accuse them. Even though I saw what I saw, none of it is true because I didn't know the situation. Eventually she told me she was sleeping with some other dude anyway which was ok because we had an open relationship. You saw what you saw but you have no idea what your mom is really doing. For all you know she is just doing some kind of weird internet chat room or cybersex which is nothing at all.If you confront your moms with false evidence or tell your dad, the person who will suffer the most is you. So I suggest you chill and let everything continue as it is while forgetting what you saw.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 77 (view)

She becomes what she knows I want Posted: 5/22/2009 4:02:27 PM
Well you are projecting on these women. You have this list of things that you need so women are going to do what they have to do to meet those needs so they can be with you for whatever reason. If you no longer project what you think you need on a woman, you will meet women who are more honest and real.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 48 (view)

what woman really want!! Posted: 5/22/2009 3:53:38 PM
I think women want men who are more spiritual and intelligent than themselves. Some women are ready for this challenge but most aren't.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 63 (view)

What do we men need? Posted: 5/22/2009 3:51:30 PM
Food, shelter, clothes, and some good company once in a while. I'm very low maintenance. All that romance stuff is bogus to me.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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Date thought I was taking advantage of him by asking him to get me a pack of gum Posted: 5/7/2009 3:56:58 PM
OP, try to see his point of view and also don't blame yourself for how his negative feelings towards the experience. Nobody was wrong, neither you or him.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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Unemployed...the new 'retired'??? Posted: 5/7/2009 3:53:03 PM
What exactly are　wise investments? Investments in money or investments in understanding reality? Money　appears and disappears quite often but reality stays the same. Material stuff is false because it doesn't exist, it's not permanent. Treating it like the way it is makes sense to me. How can there be any such thing as retirement? Retiring from what, a job? What is a job? Just something you do for money. But money disappears, so what was the point of working in the first place? If you are working just so you don't have to work when you could have already stopped working years ago, how does that make any sense?

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 613 (view)

Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..? Posted: 5/7/2009 3:48:16 PM
Calling someone a cheater is a judgement call. There is no such thing as cheating. Some people just don't want to forgive themselves and others. I would rather be happy. Sexual pleasure with other women while you have a "girlfriend" is something that happens. Some dudes do it some don't for whatever reasons. Of course reaching the level where you have ultimate happiness regardless of sex or not is great but cheating is an illusion. If you love the person, you shouldn't care what they do, you still love them unconditionally.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 89 (view)

Is Brutally Honest Honest or Just Brutal? Posted: 5/7/2009 3:43:26 PM
Not really sure and I really wouldn't care either way. But more often than not, someone who wants to be brutally honest without any humor involved is just someone who is verbally attacking people. It doesn't matter because you don't have to deal with it. Just forgive it and keep it moving.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 295 (view)

Abusive Women : Signs to watch out for Posted: 5/7/2009 3:40:59 PM
Yeah I have been in a few "abusive" relationships with women where I have been psychologically threatened and physically attacked. But all that stuff is in my own mind and I forgave those women. They didn't do anything wrong that deserves judgement when I did things to fire up their anger instead of forgiving them. They have to handle their own forgiveness and hopefully fix their self hate but I don't feel angry or condemn them.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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Not a relationship problem but I need some advice please. Posted: 5/7/2009 3:31:43 PM
I'm not sure if this is spiritual OP. Being a in trance over a woman is attachment to something that is not real, which in your case is her supposed spirituality. Get to know who she really is instead of projecting what you want unto her.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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WHY DO MEN WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOU, BUT NOT DATE YOU? Posted: 5/7/2009 3:28:28 PM
I think you are attached to him OP because you blame yourself for your behavior but you are fine. Don't worry about it too much. Once you relax and stop feeling sorry for yourself, everything will be fine.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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Gender Superiority Complex? Posted: 5/7/2009 3:21:37 PM
I think the gender complex falls under the ego complex where everyone makes a judgement call on others instead of looking at themselves. Getting over feelings of gender superiority is probably the first step towards unraveling the ego.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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How do you put aside your feelings when you're upset? Posted: 5/7/2009 3:19:11 PM
OP you checked his phone and saw what you wanted to see. Understand how your boyfriend feels and do not judge him. Secretly you subconsciously blame yourself but you are not wrong and neither is he. Forgiveness is not simple you are right. Try your best to forgive him though for what he did not do.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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Ideal Relationship Progression Posted: 5/5/2009 4:37:55 PM
What would be your ideal way to get to know and be with your significant other? For me, I need someone on my spiritual level. Material riches and what not matter less than someone who can be with me at all times and is interested in exactly the same stuff I am. Getting to know someone implies to me that they are not that person. I shouldn't need to get to know the woman. We need to click instantly or not at all. The path of finding that other is probably the most ideal way I can think of. Once I start seeing a person less and less then it is time for me to move on and find somebody else I can instantly click with. Sometimes it happens but if the person is false or not real I won't see them again. If the person won't follow me and work with me so we can be together then that person will fade from my reality. Finding an other who can be with me always from beginning to the end is the goal.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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Relationship with someone that suffers from depression Posted: 5/5/2009 4:26:23 PM
I think it is because her spiritual level is too high and she sees her life as a waste. She wants to get out and come to my Father but she is bound so there is a pull on her soul in two directions. She needs to sacrifice her spiritual call or her material life. Since she can't leave her current material situation for whatever reason, she is depressed. All you can do is help her find herself spiritually. Help her move on with her life and don't selfishly judge her and try to make her stick around if you are not spiritual enough and she doesn't want to be there.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 69 (view)

Why do women complain when their husbands are away from home too much because they are AT WORK? Posted: 5/5/2009 4:01:58 PM
A material life is false. It isn't real because it is temporary. Clothes rip, money runs out, etc. A spiritual life is forever. A man who can't be there is a man who is not real. A few people know this. They take the temporary money and move on to another man if they are spiritually strong enough to do this. Some women are trapped in the material comforts and can't move on while others can.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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Healing past wounds. Posted: 5/5/2009 3:58:41 PM
Single or not is not really the issue. The issue is within yourself OP. The women you meet are just projections, illusions. The real woman is the woman of your dreams, who will always be with you forever. An illusion fades away but reality stays the same. You were just not ready to date that particular woman but you had to go through that to see how most women are just projections. You projected your hopes for a perfect woman that ended up being false. Now you have to go through the process of realizing what is truly great about other people and yourself. Once you find the truth, you will be happy and you will meet that person that will be with you forever.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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I care for him, more than he cares for me.....but he sends me mixed signals.... Posted: 5/5/2009 3:24:17 PM
There is nothing you can do but work on your own spiritual life. Read books, meditate, work less, work out, and get yourself together. Once you do that and get more attractive phyiscally and mentally than he can handle, you will be able to dominate the situation or just leave him for a better challenge. You are going to be stuck with this dude beneath him unless you start doing some serious self work.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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Apologize for what exactly? Posted: 5/5/2009 3:20:51 PM
It's less about gender and more about who is more attached to whom. She started the argument because she was afraid you didn't like her and was going to leave her. She needed to get an emotional rise out of you to keep you around. This only works if you really want to stay but if you are committed to moving on to a better situation there is nothing she can do really but accept it. So you don't need to apologize unless you are going to accept her constant presence in your life. If you don't want that, don't apologize, she will start another argument and keep arguing until you leave the relationship. I think that it is best to leave and find a better situation. Who wants to argue all day with someone who is hysterical because they are too attached? If she can't do exactly what you want, good looks or no good looks she will inevitably fade from reality. I know it sounds cold to just leave someone like that but either you want what you want or you don't get it.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 108 (view)

Does the sexual double standard keep women from having casual sex? Posted: 5/3/2009 5:16:15 PM
There is no such thing as real casual sex, it is a hallucination. If there was, there would never be a lack of sex among anyone because people would have sex with anyone regardless of their looks or material value. There is a sexual triple standard for everyone. You can only have sex with certain people in certain situations at certain times, etc, etc. There are even strict laws about sex even in the U.S. Sex is almost forbidden around the world. Only people with money or those living in rich countries can have sex regularly. Then people put extra restrictions on themselves by needing to date a specific looking person like one person looks that much different from the other. Even if language was an issue, which it isn't, it is pretty dumb to only have sex in such a narrow lane. You can see this attitude in the Bible. If we can feel good off of any sexual experience, why would God forbid it? The reality is that people cannot forgive themselves. There is a lack of forgiveness that represses people sexually which causes them to wildly crave it. If you are content and forgive yourself, then sex is available to you from anybody regardless of if you have money or not. Having a preference about it just doesn't make any sense at all and God did not intend for it to be this way. It is not cool to hold women to a double standard sexually or to be held to it yourself. Sex is free and should be the right of anyone who wants to feel good from anyone else.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 77 (view)

Do we go into relationships, knowing that it will end? Posted: 5/3/2009 5:04:42 PM
Everlasting unions are for God not people. The only true relationship is between Father and myself. You can only truly love yourself and others if you love God. Fake romance love based on how some woman or man looks is not real. Everyone looks pretty much the same and we can all do pretty much the same things. We interact with each other the same way. There is no reason to attach any significance to a material world and specific people because it doesn't exist. It sounds simple but it is hard of course. You have to forgive me for being heavy handed but I know what I speak is the Truth. Anything you get like sexual orgasms and good looking women doesn't matter and you should treat it as such because it won't last. Going into "relationships" knowing this will make you happier and more willing to forgive others for their inevitable tresspassess.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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A ex as a roomate and dating?? Posted: 5/3/2009 4:59:56 PM
Not sure why this is a problem unless you are possessive and jealous. Try to forgive yourself and you will feel better. No need to attach extra significance to stuff that doesn't matter. I dated a woman way after our romantic and sexual relationship was over. We still lived together and she had other boyfriends. I really didn't care because I have alot of love for her and others. I forgave her and understood her needs and what she was going through. In return she really helped me out. This is what love is all about not about jealous feelings and wanting to be top dog or number one in somebodies love life. It's not worth it and it inspires a lack of love in others.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 73 (view)

This is no picnic. Posted: 5/3/2009 4:55:05 PM
Money does matter to her hence the pictures. Forgive her and love yourself by forgiving yourself. You don't need to attach any extra significance to the situation. There is no real problem. If you really want to go on a picnic, talk to other women regardless of their looks,what they have, or what they want. Then you will be going on all the picnics you want while other dudes won't.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 103 (view)

is a woman's personality directly related to her appearance? Posted: 5/3/2009 4:39:58 PM
Appearance is an illussion. In reality we all look the same and behave the same. We all have the same basic needs. We should all love each other but we don't because we can't forgive ourselves and others. Forgiveness is the ability to love anybody and be in a satisfying relationship with everyone and our Father, including our enemies. Love based on anything material is a lack of forgiveness but we should forgive others and ourselves if we behave this way. This is the only way we will come to know the true love of our Father.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 151 (view)

What motivates you to look for a relationship? Posted: 5/3/2009 4:32:50 PM
Dates don't exist to me so I guess my motivation for still being in relationships with people is my love for myself, others, and God, my Father. Also I would be lying if I said I don't still like the material aspect of relationships but since I am pretty modest with what I receive at least I am on my way to true love. Dates to me is like treating somebody more special than someone else when they are not. It is like you don't forgive yourself for lack of love so you try to engage in material dating to fulfill your spiritual needs but this does not work. Paying or going out with someone specific is weird to me because everyone is the same. It is like you are attaching significance to a face that looks pretty much the same, a body you have seen before, clothes, cars, money, etc. Asking God for forgiveness will unlock the love we all have for each other. It is a hard road to forgive yourself. But the rewards are great when you are no longer dominated by stuff that doesn't really matter like material possessions and looks. Don't we all wish we could be totally free of caring about this stuff.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 50 (view)

Shallow? Or can you really tell in 20 mins? Posted: 5/3/2009 4:22:52 PM
The statement should be the opposite. You should be able to love someone within 20 minutes because people are pretty much the same regardless of looks and personality. Everyone has the same basic needs. If you can't relate to people on a basic level then you won't be able to love anyone that quickly. One person doesn't matter any more than the next person. No one is that much better than someone else. If you feel that way it is because they have something that you want material wise like a nice body or money. Would you still love them if they didn't have that? Probably not. I've been with good looking, not so good looking, poor, rich, all types of women and have had all types of friends. They were all pretty much the same. I tried to love them all. I think about them fondly. If you can't love someone quickly then you don't know love. There should be no preference. I will love or at least give the time of day to any woman who approaches me for a relationship even if I don't think she is that attractive. That is the reality of the world. Unless you can forgive yourself and others for the way they behave, it will be hard to truly love and be loved.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 48 (view)

Being in love but visiting sex dating sites Posted: 5/3/2009 4:16:47 PM
There is no love for a specific person. You have to love everybody the same or you are a hypocrite. If a quick orgasm from one specific looking person is something you need, then you can get that but it won't be love. It will be what it is, using someone because of their physical appearrance to get off. Any dude can use online porn for that. Why even have a girlfriend or date a bunch of women for sex? Loving everyone means that you love yourself. It means you forgive yourself and others. It means that you don't show some specific person a specific "love" based on their appearrance and what they can do for you sexually or materially. That is shallow and that isn't love. You won't receive any true love or forgiveness back behaving that way either. Of course, that type of true love is hard to practice. The best thing I can do now is not treat a woman like a sex toy, an expensive bank account, or sex a bunch of women. I try to forgive people and myself by not being caught up in what they can do for me. It is a hard to love like this but I think the love you receive back is worth it.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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I need help understanding the way women think Posted: 5/3/2009 4:04:33 PM
A very touching story man and very true. Sex is a very big deal to people, more to some than others. The problem is that sex can never fully satisfy anyone. Sex is like a happy meal or take out. You get a one shot satisfaction and then you crave again almost immediatetly. True love is love for yourself and everyone. Love is forgiveness. You have to forgive this woman for what she did and I know you do. In terms of your short term sexual needs, I just treat it like my basic necessities similar to food, shelter, water, and mild entertainment. Sometimes you still need to get off. It would be great if you didn't have to, but some still do. Whatever you have to do to keep yourself sane is good. Looking for true love is not worth it because the love is you. Another person can't give you happiness. You have to have that and project that. Then you will find someone who can satisfy your basic needs or you can just satisfy them yourself and still be happy. You don't need to be in some type of romantic relationship or get married for fake romantic love just because everyone else is doing it.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 25 (view)

Being friends with all the EX’s…Normal?? Posted: 5/3/2009 3:57:26 PM
No not really it's not natural. She's still stuck in her past. Put her in that same situation because you don't want to be like her. I can be cool when I see a girl I knew, but no need to bring them back or hang out with them. For me, I like to separate myself from most relationships in terms of how much value I attach to them. Other than basic material needs like food, shelter, infrequent sex, and mild entertainment, love and all that extra stuff just doesn't make any sense unless you love yourself and everyone else. And if you love yourself, then there is no reason to get frustrated about a girl. Just take care of your basic needs and keep it moving.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 52 (view)

What is wrong with me or is it him [ladys help] Posted: 5/3/2009 3:52:56 PM
OP Before you worry about someone else's hang ups, you need to handle your own. You judged those men. Instead of judgement, ask for forgiveness. I am sorry if this comes across wrong but I've been in the loop before too. I didn't get out until I forgave myself and others. It's an ongoing process that really takes a while but it is worth it. Don't let stuff like that possess you. Forgive it and move on.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 101 (view)

Why R they so Critical? Posted: 5/3/2009 3:48:29 PM
Someone is trying to give you advice. You can take it or leave it. This happens to people who think they are smart but get humbled. It is hard for them to accept the fact that no, they are not on top of some pedestal. Everyone experiences this at some point in their life. If you are attracted to smart people, then you experience this often. You should be happy that you are blessed to be hanging out with people who are intelligent.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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What do women really want? Posted: 5/3/2009 3:28:26 PM
From my experiences, women want a man to care and when the man cares, they want to leave. That is what women want. They want a man sweat them, spend all their time with them, all their money, all the attention, whatever it is. And when they get it, they are out. That is why you have to fall back because relationships end regardless of if you are all over a girl or not. At least when it ends, you willl have already moved on. If you fall back, the relationship will last longer until she gets tired of you. A woman getting tired of you because you are not interested in them is a good thing trust me. You don't have to be mean, but just be in control of yourself.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 28 (view)

what am I suppose to do with a woman that dont wanna let get go!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 5/3/2009 3:25:35 PM
Stop feeling guilty dude. Let her do what she wants and don't get upset about it. If she wants to be out, then let her leave. Let her do what she wants to show her you don't care. If you do that, she will be jumping all over you because she is not prepared for it to be totally over. You don't have to talk to her or anything just do your own thing and let her have what she wants material wise. She'll start feeling more guilty than you and want to make things square but just keep not caring even when the situation is in your favor. It doesn't mean you treat her wrong. Just fall back from being so worried about her.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 30 (view)

I just dont understand females of any age Posted: 5/3/2009 3:21:28 PM
Man, you should have left after you asked her to leave with you. Like right when you asked her to leave and she said no, you should have said aight, got up and left. There is no time for that man. One girl is not any better than the other at all even when you consider looks. If she can't hook it up according to what you want, why stay?

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 126 (view)

Why Must It Always Be the Man Who Make First Contact? Posted: 5/3/2009 3:10:12 PM
Because women are too humble to talk to somebody they think is attractive. They don't think they would be able to date that person. The confidence is not there. Or they could be just used to dudes approaching and paying.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

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Is it possible to 'tame' a man? Posted: 5/3/2009 3:08:58 PM
Is it true that women want to tame men? I'm not so sure. What does OP mean by tame? Like not a drug dealer or a gangbanger? Women have been done those lanes before. Rogues are in vogue right? But there is something tiring about most women. They are boring yet they want action. Why don't they become the action? I think many women put rogues to sleep.

R.O.

Joined: 1/9/2008

Msg: 97 (view)

High Maintenance versus Being Realistic Posted: 4/30/2009 2:05:08 PM
Your definition of high maintenance is the type of woman who wants an evil man. She wants an evil man with lots of cash to burn. But this facade fades when she has to deal with a child. She can't act like this or she will risk losing her baby. A realistic woman is a woman who has faith in God, our Father. But the problem OP is that the woman you described as high maintenance is like that to an evil man but not to a child of God. The high maintenance woman you mentioned just treats evil like it is, evil. There is no reason for a humble woman to respect an evil man. She might treat men like this but she won't treat a child like this. If she treats a child like an evil man or tries to turn a child into an evil man on purpose, then she is confused or a very, very evil woman.

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