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Linerunner

Joined: 6/14/2005

Msg: 39 (view)

Fantasy what over 30 fantasizes about? Posted: 12/29/2005 10:41:24 PM
Personally I don't believe a fantasy should come true. If you're out there knocking fantasies off your list and having to come up with new ones you're not fantasizing hard enough.. lol fantasy-the power or process of creating especially unrealistic or improbable mental images in response to psychological need . Examples of fantasies: Having sex with an anime girl, having every past girlfriend of your life suddenly assemble a harem for you, catching an extremely attractive burglar in your house who then "bargains" for her release. Having sex with two women at once or eating food off of a lover's tummy are not fantasies.. you can realistically make them happen easily enough. They are desires though, and certainly worthy of pursuing if they are things of interest to you. I just think "fantasy" has been a bit too generalized and reduced to common levels these days.

Linerunner

Joined: 6/14/2005

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should women in their thirties consider dating men in their twenties? Posted: 12/28/2005 10:29:29 PM
Hell no! I say this because I'm in my thirties. Things are hard enough as is without all the thirty somethings rushing off to pick the unripened fruits of the twenties bush! ;)

Linerunner

Joined: 6/14/2005

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Scam Posted: 12/28/2005 8:13:46 PM
These are like the emails I get from some "corporate exec" in places such as Nigeria and the like saying they need to wire me so many dollars (usually hundreds of thousands if not millions) and all they need is an account number so they can make it happen. lol As if anyone out there is actually going to randomly hand me a massive amount of cash? I just am amazed these sort of things go on because all I can do is sit there asking myself "Who out there actually falls for these scams?". Someone must.. or we wouldn't be seeing so many of these damned emails.

Linerunner

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Re: body cramps and sex.......not a good combo.... Posted: 12/28/2005 7:36:46 PM
Even if you're not into "working out" you might consider a stretching routine. Helps blood flow, sleeping patterns and does wonders for preventing cramps when doing bursts of activity (such as sex).

Linerunner

Joined: 6/14/2005

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At what point do you give up on Romance? Posted: 12/28/2005 7:18:03 PM
I'm talking about a man approaching me in the real world and telling me that he saw me and couldn't let me go by with out saying hello Scary. I prefer to talk a bit.. get some kind of sense of whether or not they'd be receptive before putting my head on the chopping block for all to see. I have never ever had a guy take me out to dinner at a non fast food place. I've never taken a date to a fast food joint.. ever. I have never had a guy open doors for me I always open doors for everyone, date or not. (Except guys.. they're on their own lol) I have never ever had even a single romantic gesture from any man in my life... Like chocolates on Valetine's? Asking them to be my valentine even if we're already going steady? Getting tickets to a show she wants to see and arranging for them to be on the serving tray at the resteraunt? Slipping a note that just says "I love you" and is signed into her purse to be discovered who knows when? Romance isn't dead. It's out there.. so yes, I'll chime in with your friends and agree that when you least expect it Cupid can strike. But this thread tells me something. You're thinking about it.. enough to write about it. That's not going to help the magic to happen, in fact being hyper aware might even prevent it. Live, laugh... and it will find you if you let it. Best of luck

Linerunner

Joined: 6/14/2005

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What do you expect the other person to bring to a relationship? Posted: 12/28/2005 6:59:02 PM
Personally, I don't think that a person's job should factor on what they're bring to a relationship. Unless, of course, bringing money to it is what you're looking for. Cooking? Again, not something I measure romance by. I suppose it might factor into a marriage or if you yourself have always been cooked for.. but for the most part it's a non factor. I expect them to bring themself to the relationship. If I'm happier with than without them, it's a good sign. If they make me laugh or smile. If they actually care how my day was and enjoy my company as much as I do theirs. These are the things I look for in a romance, not what they can do for me or give to me.

Linerunner

Joined: 6/14/2005

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how do you get revenge on someone you loved Posted: 12/28/2005 6:52:36 PM
How to get revenge? You don't. Putting any more effort into something that's over is a waste of your time and lets that person know you're still messed up over it. Best revenge is to move on and not let the past interfere with the future.

Linerunner

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The year 2007 Posted: 12/28/2005 6:44:28 PM
I'm going to try and figure out how I lost a whole year! Here I was thinking it was 2005 all year! ;)

Linerunner

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How/where did you last meet SOMEONE? Posted: 12/28/2005 4:12:35 PM
The last girl I dated for more than 3 months was my first girlfriend 20 years ago! lol I met her in school and asked her to go with me to a dance. And since there shouldn't be anyone here still in 9th grade I doubt this little tidbit is going to be of much use... ;)

Linerunner

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Is there no more humor left in the world? Posted: 12/28/2005 3:54:01 PM
I hear ya, Zendy. I would say a good 90% of my comments or replies on here are made with tongue in cheek but if I don't include emotes to go with them they end up getting taken seriously by someone. However, there is light at the end of the long dark tunnel. I am here to amuse and entertain you. Even if I have to tie the lot of you to chairs and break out the feathers! ;)

Linerunner

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No Baggage? Who Are You Kidding? Posted: 12/28/2005 3:44:31 PM
Ever hear or say a word so much that it loses meaning? Well I'm going to be using "luggage" for a while now while I relearn baggage. ;)

Linerunner

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what about me Posted: 12/28/2005 3:41:09 PM
There are some things you just can't ask for advice on. You and only you are the only person in this world who can truly know and decide whether or not to stay with your husband. As you stated, he's not abusive, or sure.. it would be easy to sit back and advise you to get out of the relationship. I know it's not an easy choice, but really.. can you possibly listen to what strangers hundreds to thousands of miles away who have no idea what being you is like to give you advice on something so important? I no way do I mean this message to be insulting, I just feel the ball is your court on this one, and I wish you good luck in making whatever choices you decide on.

Linerunner

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How come I sometimes hear from guys with kids when I state that I don't want to date fathers Posted: 12/26/2005 10:29:37 PM
Here's one possibility. Maybe they're looking for a woman who doesn't want to date a father! lol I've seen stranger things on here...

Linerunner

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 12/26/2005 10:14:43 PM
Err.. nevermind. It said 2 a minute ago, now it's fixed.

Linerunner

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What makes a woman over 40 sexy? Posted: 12/26/2005 10:13:34 PM
Sometimes they just are. And you're one of them bucs. :) Been a while since I've been on here. How've you been? (And those **stards kill my post count! What's up with that? )

Linerunner

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No Baggage? Who Are You Kidding? Posted: 12/26/2005 10:09:22 PM
So just because someone has never had something serious enough happen to them to effect them for the rest of there life, causing issues for years to come, they're boring? lol I would say it's more likely they are lucky, or smart in the way they handle their business. But I suppose boring is a possibility. Of course you'll never know.. since you walk away. ;)

Linerunner

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so, why are you still single? Posted: 12/26/2005 9:52:15 PM
I'm a pain in the rear, head strong and simply put: I'm too used to being single. At this point I haven't the slightest memory of what it was like to be in a relationship and how to go about it. These days I screw up things right out of the gate, and like so many profiles on here say, women just don't have the patience or inclination to work it out and give me a chance to adjust and improve. Everyone wants the perfect fit immediately, with no effort involved.

Linerunner

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Three cheers for mediocre! Posted: 12/26/2005 9:33:07 PM
Well said. I'm all for holding out for someone who speaks to you and the things you look for, and not just grabbing up the first person to look in your direction. But to quest for perfection is to quest... forever. While you're at it, swing by and pick me up the Holy Grail. ;)

Linerunner

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No Baggage? Who Are You Kidding? Posted: 12/26/2005 9:29:07 PM
I have none of the things people usually associate with "baggage". I've never been married. I have no children. There are no ex girlfriends in the picture. I have no major injuries caused by mishaps or my own fault. I've never been to jail. So I have to say yes, it is possible to find someone without "baggage" if those types of things are what you think of when the term comes up.

Linerunner

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The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........ Posted: 12/26/2005 9:23:17 PM
"So .. what kind of car do you drive?" "My last boyfriend took me yachting in the Carribean.." "I'm so horny I could hump a gearshift... do you drive a stick?" "Let's hurry this up.. I'm meeting another guy at 11." "So and so is so sexy. Why can't you be more like him?"

Linerunner

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For those that DON'T have children, WOULD you like to someday? Posted: 8/2/2005 1:34:34 PM
I think Nicolas Cage said it best in "The Rock": "Bringing a child into this world is an act of cruelty." The way things are going in the world I can't really see having any kids that will be sure to have the whole messy thing collapse right on their heads in 30-40 years (probably with children of their own by then to boot). Call me cynical, but that's the way I feel.

Linerunner

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Search packed with 18-26yo...Whats the deal??? Posted: 8/2/2005 1:27:01 PM
From what I read on here most of them are doing fine and don't even need to be on here. It's just another potential source to help stack the deck in their favor. If you get passed over in favor of one, and they already know/date plenty of women not from POF, it just screws it up for the rest.. but really nothing can be done about it. I guess they just can't get enough.

Linerunner

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Would you date a guy who is constantly in between jobs? Posted: 7/31/2005 5:15:12 PM
Heh.. it's all about the buck. Personally, I stop talking to a girl the moment she asks how much I make. It's not because I don't make enough.. between my jobs I make plenty. It's that I don't want to be with anyone who bases a relationship on the bottom line. I'm not looking to go into business with you. I won't be checking your credit score. No BCI check will be conducted. Money is the weapon upon which society will be impaled. Just my two cents.

Linerunner

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What's the better to take a chance on - a woman, or a lottery ticket Posted: 7/31/2005 4:47:25 PM
Heh, if I hit the lottery I wouldn't have trouble with women. Unless of course you're looking for true love, in which case I can only wish you luck. Lots of it.

Linerunner

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Single older men acting like we are suppose to??? Posted: 7/31/2005 4:36:04 PM
It's called "natural selection" and for the most part it's true. But as human beings we have the ability to beat the system and do things other lesser creatures in nature do not. I'm not entirely sure that's a good thing, but it's nonetheless true. In nature the old and weak die off, unable to survive and spread their seed to the betterment of the species. Humans, in their will and compassion, do not always allow nature to follow its course. Which, if you are among those not "fittest", is a good thing for you. Of course, it's probably just me overthinking the plumbing as usual. Just relax, stay in the game and best of luck to ya.

Linerunner

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For the Men Over 30 Posted: 7/31/2005 4:30:13 PM
Heh.. scary. Almost looks like this one was written for me. I'm 35. I'm single. I have no kids. I have never lived with any girlfriend of mine. The answer? I wouldn't move in with, commit to or have children with anyone I wasn't certain that I loved. I don't mean "in love" either.. that giddy state where people typically make life shattering mistakes. I mean love meant to last. And since I have yet to find that the search goes on.

Linerunner

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the best year of your life? Posted: 7/31/2005 4:26:01 PM
20 whole freaking years ago. Summer of '85. Man, that's sad.. been downhill ever since. lol

Linerunner

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Where do Ya meet people when you don't drink , or hang in bars? Posted: 7/31/2005 4:24:31 PM
I've met more girls at the club than anywhere else. But of course that's because I work there. lol I would have to say there is no good place to really meet them. At least in my experience. It's all blind luck really. I'm not the type who fires off like a shotgun, trying to hit on every girl in the place and hope to get lucky, so popular social gathering places don't do much for me.

Linerunner

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Best way to pick up a MAN?????????? Posted: 7/31/2005 4:03:52 PM
Wait.. are you trying to imply that there are women up there who actually try to pick men up? Sheesh.. have them report to RI right away.

Linerunner

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How long can a woman go without using her vibrator? Posted: 7/31/2005 3:37:01 PM
Heh.. all I have to say is the guy turning meggs down is freakin nuts! OT: Depends on the gal, just like every single question people seems to ask on these forums. LOL Haven't you figured it out yet, there is no one answer to any question asked about sex!

Linerunner

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the secret to women Posted: 7/31/2005 3:30:47 PM
There is no secret... they have what we want, and they know it.

Linerunner

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Why would a guy turn down a fuck buddy? Posted: 7/19/2005 3:36:09 AM
lol I'd turn down a **** buddy in a heartbeat. It's not what I want. If I was a rabbit maybe I wouldn't care, but sex has to have meaning for me. It could be this guy is searching for his special someone too, not just sex.

Linerunner

Joined: 6/14/2005

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Do guys lie about there size? Posted: 7/18/2005 7:00:48 PM
The only thing I can think to say on this subject is... why the hell are they even discussing their size in any of those places/situations to begin with? I'm not going to walk up and ask a girl if her vaginal lips are "in or out", so I don't expect to be asked about my length, thickness, or status of my foreskin. lol In most situations, anyone openly discussing their size in public is only doing so because they know no one's going to call them on it. ("7 1/2 huh? Whip it out tough guy... someone get me a ruler!") A little modesty goes a long way... if you got it like that, just be confident that when the time comes, someone who actually gives a flying **** how big you are won't be disappointed. Everything else is just peacock strutting and chest beating. ;)

Linerunner

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Porn Star as a wife Posted: 7/18/2005 6:46:40 PM
I'd marry Traci Lords if I could... but she's retired so she doesn't count. Active? Nah... what are the chances she's ever going to be in the mood after getting tossed this way and that all day? ;) Seriously, my answer is no. I have to be the only guy in my girl's life. Sharing is for group therapy. ;)

Linerunner

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What do guys really expect/want? Posted: 7/18/2005 6:41:34 PM
Ok as a previous poster stated, you're going to get all kinds of opinions on this one. My first advice is ignore the one who stated "all guys expect/want". Those words ought to be a felony. lol Men are as diverse as women, and nothing about them is universal. Anyone who makes broad statements about all men are lumping us all into their way of thinking because it gives them comfort to have company in their opinions. Sort of like the robots in "I, Robot" who huddle together when the lights are out. ;) Now, my personal take on your questions: 1: I expect nothing more on a first date but a sign of whether or not there is chemistry. I'll know by the end of the date if there's going to be another. On the second date I expect that the attraction will come into the conversation at some point. And yes, some affection is good. 2: Either the chemistry is very strong, in which case I'm feeling it too and probably wouldn't think anything of it, or (more likely) she has low self esteem and feels "giving it up" is the only way to keep a man's interest. If I suspect that to be the case chances are I go home. 3: There is no set time for the first time. Depends on the attraction and experience of the couple. I've waited 4 months... or 4 hours.

Linerunner

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Is something wrong? Posted: 7/12/2005 8:11:03 AM
<----- That is my grin.. lol

Linerunner

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Is something wrong? Posted: 7/12/2005 8:05:27 AM
And you look sorta pissed off in your pic. Take at least one smiling and get it up on here asap.

Linerunner

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Let's hear it for the men!! Posted: 7/12/2005 7:52:45 AM
Hey, if y'all think we're that cool how about showing us the love... in our inboxes lol Seriously though, any non male bashing sentiments are always appreciated, and you girls rock for it!

Linerunner

Joined: 6/14/2005

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Part 2 of the sex survey...take it if you dare. Posted: 7/12/2005 7:45:19 AM
What sexual aspects are you into?(X Check all that apply) __S&M __Submissive __Domination __Bisexuality __Voyeurism __Exhibitionism __Golden Showers __Greek/Anal _X_French/Oral __Foot Fetish __Humiliation _X_Masturbation __Pain __Swinging __Threesomes __Orgies __Public Sex _X_Role-Playing _X_Talking Dirty In what way do you feel the Internet contributes to sex? (check all that apply) __No value at all __Encourages perversion __Promotes safe-sex __It has helped my marriage __It has improved my sex-life __It has damaged my sex-life __It has made me more open-minded __It belittles the sanctity of the act __Discourages adultry __Encourages adultry __Promotes honest communication __Promotes deception _X_It is a benign outlet for sexual frustration What level of experience have you had with sex on the Net? (X check all that apply) __None, newbie __I see very little sexual content on the net __Exchanged erotic e-mail _X_Talked dirty in aol chat/msn chat _X_Downloaded erotic pictures __Posted erotic pictures _X_Masturbated while online _X_Masturbated to material downloaded _X_Had sex with someone met online _X_Watched erotic webcam broadcasts __Transmitted erotic webcam video __Erotic internet voice communication _X_Read online sex stories __Posted sex stories _X_Responded to an online personal ad _X_Placed an online personal ad __Purchased a sex-related product advertised on the net __Sex on the net? Where & When? _X_Meet off line and had sex

Linerunner

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Relieving ones self is a bodily function, not sex! Posted: 7/12/2005 7:40:45 AM
BTW, from this thread's title I thought it was going to be about golden showers.. lol I almost didn't even bother to read it.. ewww

Linerunner

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Relieving ones self is a bodily function, not sex! Posted: 7/12/2005 7:39:28 AM
Hmm.. I can take myself out to dinner and a movie, but I can't get laid by myself after?? Damnit.. I thought I had this whole dating thing beat! lol Ahh well, it keeps one sane while searching for the real thing. ;)

Linerunner

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why do most guy only want to met for sex????? Posted: 7/12/2005 7:36:54 AM
Why ask why? If someone does not fit what you're looking for, move on and keep . I see these sorts of threads all the time, it's like asking why people are different heights. It just happens. Keep on searching and be clear in your profile that you aren't interested in rabbit dates and intimate encounters. You'll find someone in time. Good luck..

Linerunner

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Best Friend's Ex:Completely Off Limits Always or Fair Game? Posted: 7/12/2005 7:31:57 AM
If she's someone he dated while you've known him, I'd say no. Unless of course it was just a short thing that wasn't going anywhere, in which case he probably doesn't even care. If they dated before you met him, fair game in my book.

Linerunner

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Guys: what is the biggest turn off? Posted: 7/12/2005 7:29:15 AM
Women who think the first date is the script for how the entire relationship will go. Too many variables and possible nervous mistakes on that first date to judge. I mean if the night goes horribly then sure, I'd call it a day as well, but just because it doesn't go perfectly? Please.. either have some patience or don't waste my time.

Linerunner

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why do woman constantly flirt? Posted: 7/12/2005 7:22:51 AM
I don't even flirt with women when I'm single, which is pretty much all the time these days.. but that's another matter. But I see nothing wrong with it, and it doesn't bother me. As long as it's non-physical I see it as harmless distraction.

Linerunner

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The Bleeding Truth !!! Posted: 7/10/2005 7:52:06 PM
::tries to remember why on Earth he revived this thread:: Very true, it is indeed natural. As is mucus, ear wax, and sleepers. But I'm not going to pop any of those into my mouth anytime soon either. lol

Linerunner

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Snow Balling... Posted: 7/10/2005 7:41:39 PM
Oh yeah.. that's exactly what I want to taste! And yes, I'm being sarcastic. ;) I shot it away from myself for a reason.. out of sight, out of mind! lol

Linerunner

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To you, when is a guy/girl considered a slut? Posted: 7/10/2005 7:39:00 PM
I don't really use the term "slut" but I have a simple system for figuring if a girl is "wild" or not. If she has sex without feelings or attachment, she's wild.

Linerunner

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Guys ... Thong, Bikini, G-string or Full Cover... ;) Posted: 7/10/2005 6:46:06 PM
A sexy gal can wear a burlap sack and still be sexy, but my fave is the lace numbers they wear with garters and stockings. Just something classy about that... Oh and yeah, thongs on the plus size gals I can't say goes good.. that strip of cloth would be raising a white flag if it could.. lol

Linerunner

Joined: 6/14/2005

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Men who are reluctant to wear condoms Posted: 7/10/2005 6:32:20 PM
I absolutely despise condoms and will not wear one. But then, I don't have casual sex either. Has to be an actual relationship with someone I care about and know for it to get to the bedroom. Before that happens we'll have already dealt with the STD thing, and probably both got tested for peace of mind.

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