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twinkz

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Can women really go without sex???? Posted: 9/10/2008 12:39:34 PM
Well I am doing jut that...going without sex hubby won't get snipped and he hates condoms so no sex for us!!! I can live with it or without lol!!! I think he'll give in eventualy.

twinkz

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Selective Reasons for Abortions? Posted: 9/7/2008 4:48:27 PM
I had an abortion this summer. My reasons for this was for my health. I am totaly against it otherwise.

twinkz

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explaining death to 4yr old Posted: 11/15/2007 11:17:53 AM
Hello everyone, Again thanx for all the kind words and advice. Just thought i'd tell you about us puting balloons with notes atached in the sky. I had told ameilia we'd do it whenever she was ready. I actually though she'd forgotten about it so didn't say a thing. But this morning she looked out the window and saw a beautiful sunrise. the sky was pink. she said "we should put the balloon in the sky now because it's beautiful" so we did. we wrote on the balloon, "this balloon is for you so you won't forget me and I won't forget all of you" "I love you"! she thinks the balloon will go to heaven to God and he will give it to them. I was really moved by this and was crying Ameilia asked why i had tears? and said that it was ok to be sad. she was actually happy about the whole thing. god bless all of yo for being gardian angels to me!

twinkz

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explaining death to 4yr old Posted: 11/6/2007 5:28:41 PM
I have always been very honest with Ameilia, and not kept anything from her. Of course with our friend dieing we are waiting as he could die in another 2yrs and why put her through that now? although she hasn't said this i do suspect that she is thinking that her daddy's dad died, that her daddy will leave her too. I havn't talked to her about it as I don't want to put thoughts into her head that she isn't thnking. she is a real tropper though and every day we talk about grandpa and the memories we have of him. another pof member suggested sending balloons up in the sky with notes attached. Ameilia is excited to do this. we are sending 3 for both her grandpa's and one for her uncle. thanx everyone for posting t has really helped me. I come here almost every day and read a few posts they comfort me. god bless you all!

twinkz

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explaining death to 4yr old Posted: 11/5/2007 2:35:33 PM
every night when I snuggle with her as she's going to sleep we say to eachother good night, god bless, loe you. then we say good nght popa, Uncle smerf (his nck name) and grandpa. thanx for your post!

twinkz

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explaining death to 4yr old Posted: 11/2/2007 3:49:24 PM
thanx for the post Lady. It's true we can't make it gloom and doom. We told her grandpa is in a better place (Heaven) Happy and no more pain like he had. My daughter thinks all people that die are behind the moon, go figure. she is so worried that if her daddy's dad died, her daddy will die soon. that is why i haven't told her our friend is going to die. eventually we will. but he could live 6nths or 2yrs only god know. we just wana give her time to get over grandpa before we tell her. also my best friend of 32yrs her dad died 2mths ago and he was like a dad to me so i was ery upset ameilia knew this. It's just to soon to make her deal with another person rite now.

twinkz

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explaining death to 4yr old Posted: 11/2/2007 12:56:39 PM
Hey all, was just looking at all my forums and came to this one. and i guess I'm thinking how hard life has been on my 5yr old. my father in law died last month. Ameilia her dad and i helped take care of him till the end. Ameilia has taking ths so hard. She wanted to put her cabbage patched doll in the coffin with him. I told her she couldn't because it would be burried with grandpa for ever. Now our best friend old us he has cancer. I don't plan on telling my little girl I will keep it from her as long as i can. It just breaks my heart to see all she has went through in 1 1/2 yrs. She is one tough cookie. anyhow thanx for listening once again.

twinkz

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Things that touch your heart. Posted: 10/22/2007 2:50:41 PM
Hmm...things that touch my heart. getting a massage with nothing else exspected. asking for a hug and not being asked why do you need that? But what really touched my heart happened last friday. It was my father-in-laws funeral and they had a viewing of the body. My 5 yr old girl was very close to him and she wanted to put her cabbage patch doll amanda (she takes her everywhere with her)with grandpa in the coffin so he wouldn't be lonley. then she said when i die i want to be buried beside grandpa so i can be close to him and amanda.

twinkz

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journey Posted: 2/11/2007 1:01:30 PM
THE WOMAN Looking at the reflexion I see a ghostly image A meir portrait of a woman Once an individual with excileration Now a child intimidated by what lies before I look in the mirror Searching for a means for direction Where did it comence? Where's the conclusion? In the shadows A configuration of a woman Of a reflexion of A woman in a mirror

twinkz

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HAVEN' A GOOD ONE,,,OR A BAD ONE?........ Posted: 11/8/2006 10:08:30 AM
I'm having a crappy one. Up at 5am it had rained here and was snowing. i've been copped up at home for days. i guess i'm just feeling sorry for myself today!!

twinkz

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There's nothing like the feeling of.... Posted: 11/8/2006 9:58:25 AM
Having a pinched nerve in your neck and having no feeing in your hand! Having to type with one hand GRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

twinkz

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What Should be done? Posted: 11/8/2006 9:53:41 AM
Theres lots I should be doing but...i'd rather be here and dink my java hehehe!!!!

twinkz

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explaining death to 4yr old Posted: 6/19/2006 5:14:22 PM
Thank-you for all your posts. Today was the funeral. Ameilia hasn't said to much except that she didn't want to go to the funeral. So i aranged a babysitter for her. I do know she is very sadened by all that is going on. She seems to have the need to give lots of extra hugs and "I love you's" which is how she acted when her uncle died. We spent fathers day with her grandpa as he isn't doing to good. When I asked him how he was doing he replyed I'm here for today anyways. All in all kids seem to get through almost anything. Some kids do better then us adults. Blessing to all

twinkz

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Are you a folder or a crumpler? Posted: 6/17/2006 12:26:23 PM
nosoup, we are all wondering how your week of crumpling went!!! Please let us know lol twinkz

twinkz

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explaining death to 4yr old Posted: 6/15/2006 10:51:58 AM
Again we are going through anouther death. Our good friend choked on some food at a bar and it seems no one there knew what to do. So they called 911 and by time he got to the hospital he was in a coma. they found out yesterday he as brain dead so the family took off the ventilator yesterday. Our daughter is very upset again and is scared that me and her dad are going to leave her to. Also my father inlaw just told us he has lung cancer and is dieing. He is refusing an operation and kemo. I haven't told Ameilia this as I don't think she will handle this news very well. I am thinking that after she has gotten over our friends death that maybe we should tell her that grandpa is very sick and is dieing. Or maybe we should just wait till he does die to tell her. How can we expect a 4yr old to understand all these people dieing in such a short time? I am heartbroken for me and for her.

twinkz

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How do I get my 4yr old to listen? Posted: 6/3/2006 1:18:23 PM
Thanx everyone for the great advice. I know I will try alot of the things mentioned here. She has been as good as gold yesterday when I threatened to take her birthday party away. She probualy has done alot of thinking since then. I am thinking she is trying to earn it back lol. And she just might get her party depends on what happens between now and the party. Again thanx

twinkz

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How do I get my 4yr old to listen? Posted: 6/2/2006 5:12:17 PM
My daughter is almost 4yr's old. I am getting to the end of my rope. She won't listen to me no matter what I say or do. She has a very bad additude like her dad. She gets into things she gets into everything eg: today she has spilled the sugar on the table spilled my conditioner on her her rug. I take things away from her when this happens but it doen't seem to fiz. eg: No tv for the day. No playing with her friend. Her birthday is in a few days and I told her she will not be getting a party if she doesn't start behaving better. I pretended to cancel the cake at the bakery. she was very upset after I did this and thats when she spilled the sugar!!! any advice would be appreciated!!!

twinkz

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What would you do if you had the winning ticket? Posted: 5/24/2006 3:11:11 PM
Well the super7 is big this week so I will be buying a ticket. I am crossing my fingers that I win at least a bit. Who else is getting a ticket? Good luck to all that buy one!!!

twinkz

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Are you a folder or a crumpler? Posted: 5/22/2006 3:08:16 PM
LOL suzie, covert to a folder. When you crumple your just thowing your money down the toilet!!!

twinkz

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Are you a folder or a crumpler? Posted: 5/22/2006 2:59:22 PM
Lmao @ Hammer! Well I crumpled for the first week and used 2 rolls of tp. The second week I folded and only used 1 1/4 rolls of tp. So I have just proved that folding is the way to go. You use less tp there for save $$$! As I was folding I was very aware of how much tp I used. Thinking if I had enough or maybe I had to much. I still love to crumple but...either way I have now converted into a folder lol. Maybe while visiting other people I could get a few crumples in . But at home I will now be a folder. How did you do nosoup? p.s. Road Hammer, You can come to visit me, I am nolonger hiding my tp!!!

twinkz

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Are you a folder or a crumpler? Posted: 5/21/2006 11:18:22 AM
Well it's almost the end of our 2 weeks. It's been an interesting experiment. I have found my folding to be hard to get use to. I am very consious of my folding. how much I'm using or not using! I will let you know my results tomorrow. p.s. nosoup hows the crumpling going?

twinkz

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Does someone make sure you have something from your kids on mothers/fathers day? Posted: 5/15/2006 10:10:49 AM
Well my daughter went to the dollar store and got me a clown card that said "hope you get better soon" lol I will keep that forever. And a box of chocolates.

twinkz

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Are you a folder or a crumpler? Posted: 5/14/2006 11:42:18 PM
Well this week of crumpling went fast. I used 2 rolls and that is counting all of my out of home needing tp. Now for a week of folding. Then we will know who uses more the folder or crumpler. Happing crumpling nosoup!!!

twinkz

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Does someone make sure you have something from your kids on mothers/fathers day? Posted: 5/14/2006 1:13:47 PM
^^^^^^boy can I relate to that! Hubby came home awhile ago and gave my girl a gift to give to me. She was so upset she wouldn't give it to me. And although it's a nice gift she did not pick it out. So now he just left to take her to buy me a gift. It's kinda funny cause now he's spending more than he had planned because he had to buy 2 gifts lol.

twinkz

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Does someone make sure you have something from your kids on mothers/fathers day? Posted: 5/14/2006 10:57:28 AM
Well it's mother's day and hubby has let us down yet again! Our daughter has been waiting almost a week to go shopping with him for a B'day and mom's day gift for me. It's not about the gift it's about doing something special for her mom. Me and my girl are going to spend some time with my mom and sister for the special day. And yet again it's me making the planning for the day.

twinkz

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DO YOU REMEMBER????? Posted: 5/13/2006 6:55:03 PM
I remember my 1st mother's day!!! Happy Mothers day to all ya mom's

twinkz

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Does someone make sure you have something from your kids on mothers/fathers day? Posted: 5/13/2006 5:46:25 PM
Looking, I see we both married the same kind of man lol. No I don't need an expensive gift or any present at all for mom's day. But at least he could cook a meal for me or do something special for me on this special day. Three yr's ago I celebrated my 1st mom's day and my 40th b'day on the same day. I asked hubby to do something little for me as it was extra special being my b'day and all. He chose to spend most of the day with a friend instead of with me and his daughter. Anyways Happy Mothers Day to you all

twinkz

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Are you a folder or a crumpler? Posted: 5/13/2006 12:32:50 PM
Hey Road Hammer, we women are cleaner than you men!!! There's nothing grosser than giving a bj and the guy has just had a pee and we women get a taste of the drippings. At least we wipe ourselves drip. Ewwwwwwwwwwww...now that was yucky

twinkz

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Are you a folder or a crumpler? Posted: 5/12/2006 10:09:27 PM
Lmao @ Road Hammer yep thats me lol!!!I"m on my 2nd roll nosoup. And I have had 6 out of home bathroom breaks lol. I will at the end take these times into accoumt to.

twinkz

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Does someone make sure you have something from your kids on mothers/fathers day? Posted: 5/12/2006 3:23:07 PM
Nope my girl is almost 4yr's old and I do have a man around the house. (her dad) But he has never gotten me anything for mom's day. Rite now I'm really pissed off at him. I had a b'day yesterday and he told our daughter they would go get me a little gift. He didn't but what really makes me made is he got his best friend a card and small gift. So now in 3weeks he has a b'day then fathers day and you can bet that I will make sure he get's.....nothing. Now he'll know how it feels!!!

twinkz

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Are you a folder or a crumpler? Posted: 5/12/2006 9:31:58 AM
Lmao @ Road Hammer...interesting that my cats (7mths old) don't attack my tp. There is a roll out for the rest of the family and visters. Only mine is hidden lol!

twinkz

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Are you a folder or a crumpler? Posted: 5/12/2006 1:31:23 AM
mustang, I have my own roll of tp. Only I ahve used it also havn't had any visiors. I hide my roll when not in use as I have3yr old around. lol oh and the cats (2 of them) don't go near them!!!

twinkz

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Are you a folder or a crumpler? Posted: 5/10/2006 11:24:39 AM
Well I started my new roll of tp sun and it's now wedn. havn't had to use tp much outside of home but I have a few times. We shall see how long my roll lasts and if I have to start a new roll lol!!!

twinkz

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Are you a folder or a crumpler? Posted: 5/8/2006 7:45:27 PM
Well I have made it through the first day of crumping. I don't think 1 roll will be enough for me to make it through the week but we shall see. Hey nosoup we have to count how many time we use tp outside of home to? So far I havn't used any tp outside of home.

twinkz

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Tatoos - past their sell by date Posted: 5/8/2006 10:53:54 AM
I got an email awhile back of an old lady that had her whole body except her face tattooed. ewwww was it ugly

twinkz

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Are you a folder or a crumpler? Posted: 5/8/2006 9:57:32 AM
Naw I'm not counting squares. I will see how much is left of my roll of tp at the end of the week. (if there is even some left) may be I will need to start a new roll. I plan to keep any leftover tp left on the roll and after the second seek I will kno exactly how much more I used cruming or folding. I plan to fold my tp all next week. nosoup is folding this week and we can compare who used more at the end of the week!

twinkz

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Gas Prices- Around the World Posted: 5/7/2006 11:07:23 AM
Ok people in saskatoon sask canada went down to $110.9 hope it keeps going down as my hubby uses 1/4 tank just driving to work and back each day UGH

twinkz

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Are you a folder or a crumpler? Posted: 5/7/2006 11:04:03 AM
nosoup I will try start it tomorrow AM. I'll have to hide my tp as there is 3 users in my house but it is doable. I will post throughout the week! This is to funny It will be interesting to see who uses more you or me. I'm using two ply rite now by the way. Not sure if that makes a difference or not!

twinkz

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Are you a folder or a crumpler? Posted: 5/7/2006 10:36:54 AM
I have been thinking that maybe i should do an experiment where as I take a roll of tp for just me. Then for a week I crumple it. Then take a roll and fold it for a week and just see which one last longer & just how much is wasted lol!!!

twinkz

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What would you do if you had the winning ticket? Posted: 5/6/2006 9:07:33 PM
Ok people last week I won $10.00 & a free ticket woo hoo!!! This week the same. Maybe I'm on a roll? Anyways hope I win alot more than this next week even if it's just 2 million!!!

twinkz

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What would you do if you had the winning ticket? Posted: 5/5/2006 9:18:42 PM
Who would want to live in watson when you have 35 million? Not me anyways I'd stay where I am lol. the numbers are called we just have to wait to hear the numbers tommorrow. Buy the way did anyone buy a ticket besides me?

twinkz

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What would you do if you had the winning ticket? Posted: 5/5/2006 2:17:21 PM
Ok everyone don't bother buying a super seven tonight!!! I just bought the winning ticket and wouldn't want you wasting your money when it's all mine anyways. At least I hope I have a winner Anyways good luck to everyone that bought a ticket

twinkz

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Are All Men This Way??? Posted: 5/4/2006 4:11:14 PM
darstude I can totaly relate to what you've said. When he cares to remember special occasions and birthdays which he does. He just choses to ignore them. Like one xmas i handed him a xmas card and he said wait I have one for you to. He went and got an old one and cut the inside where the writing was and wrote to:*** from:**I just laughed. One card he bought a week after my b'day and it was from him and our girl. It said from the both of us very casual I think it was ment for acoworker or something lol. Today he read his horiscope and it said something along the line of chocolate and candies aren't a good thing to be giving. I just laughed as next week is my b'day and we shall see if he even remembers it. (I'll let you know). He does have some good qualities he is back farming and I am staying home with our daughter for now. but there also is some controlling issues to but I have been working on changing me and figuring out how I got to be the person i am today & the bad doesn't all come from being with him. they stem way back to my childhood to. I'm not putting all our problems on his shoulders that wouldn't be far. It takes two to make any relationship work and I guess through out the years I slowly gave up because I was tired of being the strong one tired of taking care of everyone else and not taking care of me!!! He knows whats going on with me and sometimes he acts like he really cares and wants to change and help me. Other times it's like I'm just around to take care of him as I honestly he can't survive alone.

twinkz

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What would you do if you had the winning ticket? Posted: 5/3/2006 8:47:00 PM
Hey road hammer I'll hold on to your winning ticket!!! Then it won't get lost lol!!!

twinkz

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What would you do if you had the winning ticket? Posted: 5/3/2006 10:09:54 AM
Monkey, I'll let you know when i open my lefty store lol. the first lefty thing i'd buy would be knives as I can never seem to find any for my kitchen and I hate the ones i have lol!!

twinkz

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DO YOU REMEMBER????? Posted: 5/2/2006 11:24:08 AM
Hey sally, I remember the snow cones, bll balls, and wacky cards. I bet the wacky cards might be worth something if you had a bunch!!!

twinkz

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DO YOU REMEMBER????? Posted: 5/1/2006 10:53:46 PM
Hey spilly my parents had one of those corner stores when I was a kid. I remember going behind the counter and taking penny candy when nobody was looking. hehe,,,those where the dayz!!! I would help stock the shelves to and my dad would pay me 50cents. I thought i was rich.

twinkz

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Are you still ...... Posted: 5/1/2006 1:56:33 PM
I have a friend that I've known for 31yr's. Not sure what has kept us together but we are still as close as the day we met when we were 12.

twinkz

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DO YOU REMEMBER????? Posted: 4/30/2006 1:46:18 PM
I remember being single lol

twinkz

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Gas Prices- Around the World Posted: 4/24/2006 10:10:39 AM
Here in saskatoon, sask. canada we are at 1.13. at this rate I will have to park my car. Glad weather is nice I can walk more lol!

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