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Relationship Theory
Posted: 9/28/2008 1:16:48 PM | | I'm agree with you on this 100%. I've always felt, for a very long time, that each person in the relationship should have some activity, hobby or passion that is just his or hers - alone. I think it's very healthy and a good way to keep the relationship balanced. I mean just, because you're part of a couple, that doesn't mean that you have to be "joined at the hip" or become some single entity. You don't stop (and shouldn't stop) being individuals. For me, the purpose of being in a relationship is growth. You help each other to be the best you can be. It's also about learning how to love UNCONDITIONALLY. To have the essence of true friends, mature, easy with each other, natural, with no urgency about the connection, no neediness and no desire to change each other into something else. Just simply accept each other exactly as you are and Love EVERYTHING about each other, even the parts you're not so crazy about. | | | |
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