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bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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how old you are vs how old you look/act Posted: 5/22/2007 7:32:39 PM
The age factor in dating has always mystified me. For me, I feel, look and live as though I am younger than my physical age. Although I relate well with people in a wide age group, I live as though I didn't know how old I was; except with more experience. One never knows who their perfect match will be....I don't think physical age has anything to do with it. Satchel Page said it best..."how old would be, if you didn't know how old you were..?"

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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Sensitive Guys. Posted: 5/13/2007 2:57:50 PM
Sensitivity is a state of being. Anybody can be sensitive when the opportunity arises. Either, one has sensitivity to certain things, or they dont. Like many have stated already, "I can smell it a mile away..". If one is truly sensitive, it shows in the way they carry themselves. There is a difference between sensitivity and emotional. It doesn't mean they are a suck ass or less of a man, or woman for that matter. I've met lots of women who are not the sensitive type, and those who are over-sensitive. It shows. It works both ways and it is the same as other personality traits. You are attracted to it, or you're not.

bhoda

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How do you take it when someone asks for MORE pictures, including full body ones? Posted: 5/6/2007 10:20:08 PM
Full body shots are fine if you are comfortable with the person you are talking too. I know there are many, many explanations for and against, as we're on page four, but do it if you want to. Exchanging pics is one reason you meet in person. Then, if you click, great, if not, hopefully you meet a nice person in the process.

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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Don't you find a porno movie boring sometimes? Posted: 4/10/2007 8:13:53 PM
If you're tired of the usual crap, check out Ninworx. You may have a different opinion afterwards.

bhoda

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I love to cuddle. Guys, when you say that, what do you mean? Posted: 3/10/2007 9:07:53 PM
Spending that cuddling time is great. It has more to do with closeness than it does sex. That is personal.

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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Tattoos on women turn on or turn off? just curious Posted: 3/10/2007 8:54:22 PM
Tattoos are great. Everybody has something they'd like to remember forever. Find a way to depict it and etch it on. It's beautiful.......

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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what is everyones opin on tattoos? Posted: 3/10/2007 8:46:01 PM
Tattoos are great. I have several and think tats on women are beautiful.

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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Excited in public: Mind game or fun tease? Posted: 3/19/2006 11:19:04 AM
Fun tease all the way. The build up to sex, mentally or physically, is half the excitement. Being in public just adds to the ecitement.

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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What do you hate most about being single? Posted: 3/19/2006 11:14:39 AM
I like the freedom of being single for now, and I look forward to when I can share my life with a girlfriend. It's the part of not always being able to pick the phone up and have the person dedicated to me being there ready to share with.

bhoda

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First you marry for love, then for money? Posted: 3/14/2006 8:03:31 PM
How true is this? Does the attitude change after the first time around?

bhoda

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How many times.... Posted: 3/14/2006 7:59:23 PM
I like to hear that most people wouldn't continue with the relationship. I am not a glutton for punishment. The cat o nine tails, however.......

bhoda

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How many times.... Posted: 3/14/2006 7:24:47 PM
It has been an on going thing for a couple of years. There were issues involved at the various times and they always seem to get resolved to some degree of satisfaction. We are not together. Not sure if trying, yet again, would make a difference in the future to the relationship.

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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How many times.... Posted: 3/14/2006 7:09:02 PM
How many times should you break up and get back together before you call it quits? Can you love or care about someone enough to endure the instability of this kind of relationship? I don't know.....

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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big question..question of the day! Posted: 3/10/2006 9:17:57 PM
Everyone has different motives Bo. I think we all have a responsibility to ourselves to establish our own boundaries and not be compromised the "attractive value" of a potential date. I agree with taking time to qualify the relationship for what it is. Instant gratification is not worth it at someones else's expense. Morals and respect are still important virtues for some of us guys.

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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Sex and Respect Posted: 3/8/2006 7:53:07 PM
If you are respectful before, chances are, respect will follow.

bhoda

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Friends or not Posted: 3/7/2006 9:53:35 PM
I think you all make valid points

bhoda

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Friends or not Posted: 3/7/2006 9:26:42 PM
......if the relationship doesn't work out, why be friends? Never mind the usual cliches, i mean who cares anyways. How would it make you feel knowing that your partner is friends with all their ex's?

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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Do you equate sex and love as the same thing? Posted: 8/22/2005 10:01:05 PM
Oh there's a huge difference betwen love and sex...sex may help a realtionship-but love holds the bond. What about a relationships based on sex? Can't that be just as bonding between two people, but without the pressures of a "love" relationship?

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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Do you equate sex and love as the same thing? Posted: 8/22/2005 9:22:24 PM
Depends on what you're looking for. One can look for sex but not want love. If you're looking for love, then you may be prepared to go without sex for a while..........

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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If you had to name one single attribute in a mate what would it be? Posted: 8/22/2005 9:20:17 PM
honesty.....

bhoda

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/19/2005 8:41:40 PM
hmmmm. I have no opinion on pennies. Except that if one cant respect small money, they can't appreciate big money......

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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who expects more? Women or men? Posted: 8/19/2005 6:53:36 PM
Does it really, or are you just being sarcastic? I don't know if there's something wrong with me or not. I had my share of boyfriends, and I had bad experiences as well as good ones, so maybe there is, maybe there isn't, all I know is I'm still waiting, and I plan to go on as I always have until something happens. No. Although sarcasim is one of my traits.... The bottom line is.....stand up for what you believe in morally or otherwise. Accomodate your partner but dont compromise your values. Give a bit to get a bit, but if equality and respect dont exist, well then......one gets what they deserve. I believe in the benefit of doubt, I believe that one should try to do unto their partner as they expect their partner to do unto you. If it doesn't happen, a walk to the store may be a good idea.......

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/19/2005 6:45:58 PM
Love does matter..it gives us a sense of purpose....and yes its so powerful..eventhough I am only 5' 1", it makes me feel few inches taller:-) ...as well it should.....

bhoda

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who expects more? Women or men? Posted: 8/19/2005 6:29:18 PM
And that makes a whole lot of sense sez. Give and take is one thing, but never compromise yourself for the sake of a relationship. In the end, it may not be worth it.

bhoda

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who expects more? Women or men? Posted: 8/19/2005 6:21:51 PM
No, it means you know who you are. It could mean that you are limiting yourself to a smaller group of acceptable individuals, by your standards, but everyone should be themselves. All know how much they will give and take to be in a relationship, you have to respect that. If it works, great, if not, oh well. The less one is prepared to accomodate the other, the less chance you have of a successful relationship with that person. Depending on what is important to you I guess.....

bhoda

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who expects more? Women or men? Posted: 8/19/2005 6:13:08 PM
I think I mean that everyone who is in a relationship is in it for a reason. I mean that everybody persues relationships for a reason. Call it friendship or companionship or whatever, but everybody expects something because they know who they are. If the expectations are unreasonable to the other person, then the compatibility isn't right. The key is to receive what you expect from your partner, while you accomodate their expectations or needs. It has to be reciprocal and mutaully beneficial, or the relationship doesn't work.

bhoda

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who expects more? Women or men? Posted: 8/19/2005 5:55:32 PM
I appreciate that taichidanny...I was hoping he'd share his experiences and thoughts with us. Obviously I was mistaken. Canadian Hottie 30 has a point but how can you be in a relationship when you expect nothing from the other person. Is this not how couples learn and develop and grow with each other? It doesn't mean it has to be selfish, but in a healthy relationship you have to expect something or you will be eternally dissatisfied.....am I wrong?

bhoda

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who expects more? Women or men? Posted: 8/19/2005 5:48:37 PM
What's that?...you mean nothing? It works both ways I think......

bhoda

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who expects more? Women or men? Posted: 8/19/2005 5:47:09 PM
C'mon Skywaffle......you must have a thought about this eh? You must have some experiences......

bhoda

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who expects more? Women or men? Posted: 8/19/2005 5:38:23 PM
Nothing personal ... but seriously! Have you ever had a girlfriend or a wife? LOL, yeah I'm a 36 year old virgin. The point is to share your experiences. I have had both. If you don't want to offer an opinion don't respond to it.

bhoda

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who expects more? Women or men? Posted: 8/19/2005 5:35:49 PM
OK, and which thread are you responding too?

bhoda

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who expects more? Women or men? Posted: 8/19/2005 5:31:31 PM
Obviously you're confused.......I can see many different opinions on this....

bhoda

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who expects more? Women or men? Posted: 8/19/2005 5:28:43 PM
Yes but, is it the woman or man who seems to have more expectations"? I think one needs to have expectations from their relationships. Everybody has needs regardless as to the capacity. But everyone is in a relationship for a reason. It's not because they want to be alone.

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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Is Chivalry REALLY Dead? Posted: 8/19/2005 5:11:53 PM
Chivalry is NOT dead. So says me.....

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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who expects more? Women or men? Posted: 8/19/2005 5:11:00 PM
I'm sure that alot of you have different opinions, but realistically, frim your experiences, who expects more from the relationship...men or women?

bhoda

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/19/2005 3:56:00 PM
battydad knows.......

bhoda

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/17/2005 7:58:59 PM
you're so demanding and you will get me into trouble! lol i get told off for doing more than 2 posts in 24 hrs! my mail is fixed. Hehe, sorry GG....

bhoda

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/17/2005 7:58:06 PM
Yeah, and alone.....

bhoda

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/17/2005 7:30:08 PM
big fish tells me off. it's fixed btw. and this means....???

bhoda

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/17/2005 7:21:53 PM
Not at all. Everyone has great things to say.

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/17/2005 7:17:14 PM
which planet are we on now? btw? obviously a different one from me right now. hahaha (oops) stop it bhoda, you're turning me on! Well if you allowed messages from canada...........maybe I could explain. Take a look at Warminster on your map. I used to live there.....

bhoda

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/17/2005 7:14:37 PM
No it doesn't........take a look around.....

bhoda

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/17/2005 7:07:13 PM
Well of course we would discuss it. Why are you here talking about it? Same reason as us all. Because it means something to you. I am discussing POV's that directly relate to my experiences. Apparently there are others who can relate to this as well. I am analytical. I look at other peoples perspective because it enhances my own. Love can only be, in its' truest form, what it means to two people. Having the benefit of others opinions, maybe helps one appreciate what they have, or wish to have.

bhoda

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/17/2005 7:01:21 PM
In a perfeect world, with perfect people, then maybe yes. Unfortuneatly, people make things more complicated because they think too much. But I love the song......

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/17/2005 7:00:09 PM
Even though I love knots GG.......call me a sentimental fool. I'd love to love someone I trusted and admired. Truthfully, respect means everything to me. Respect is the master key. It is the lockpick of happiness. Or in lamens terms....the key to the heart.

bhoda

Joined: 6/16/2005

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/17/2005 6:53:36 PM
Choosing a life partner should not be based on love. This may sound politically incorrect, but there is an innate truth in my theory. Love is not the basis for getting married. Love is the result of a good marriage. When the other elements are right, then the love will come. So this means that if marrying for love doesn't work, you marry for money???

bhoda

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/17/2005 6:52:24 PM
Well funny you should ask........

bhoda

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/17/2005 6:39:55 PM
Good job GG. This is the point. Men aren't always from Mars you know.......

bhoda

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/17/2005 6:32:35 PM
I dont know, my cats have manners......

bhoda

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Does love matter anymore...? Posted: 8/17/2005 6:13:19 PM
Attraction yes...that is a given if two people are to explore love. How you can you love someone if you don't respect them. That is the question. Can you love someone more than you respect them?

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