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huggieangel

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Do you 'Collect' anything? Posted: 4/20/2006 1:00:35 AM
For me it is teddy bears and crystals.

huggieangel

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Not what I want,but what I have already got from this Site. Posted: 3/22/2006 4:31:48 PM
Hey dream, abyss is right he is but one out of hundreds. You are to nice a person to let him get you down. He sounds like a guy I used to live with. Sad to be like that I think. Have an awesome day everyone

huggieangel

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Not what I want,but what I have already got from this Site. Posted: 3/21/2006 11:24:08 PM
Now would i pull the wool over anyone's eyes ...heheheheee.....me sheepish !! always ROFL I have the ugg boots so need a rug now. It gets cold here in ballarat ya know ..brrrrrrr...LOL

huggieangel

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Bereaved Parants Posted: 3/21/2006 11:06:37 PM
Hi Netab, Must be something in that song. I think of jennifer when I hear it. I hope that one day there will be an answer for us. I know that our babies are around and watching over us.

huggieangel

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Awareness and Change Posted: 3/21/2006 9:19:07 PM
I found the first stage so scary. It is tough looking into yourself and making the first move to heal. As they say the first step is the hardest but once you have taken it, it gets easier. 3 years on and sometimes I think this is to hard to do. I find fear is my biggest block. But then a smile or a word from family or a friend and I know I have come this far and can go on for the better. The memories still come back to haunt but they are getting less and less. The best of luck on your road Tony. May all the twist and turns bring you to a wonderful place in your journey.

huggieangel

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Not what I want,but what I have already got from this Site. Posted: 3/21/2006 9:08:18 PM
While you are there Tony can I have a sheep skin rug and a straight water with ice ?thanks ...LOL

huggieangel

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Do you take note of how somebody relates to their Children? Posted: 3/21/2006 9:06:22 PM
I always take note of this sort of thing. I got into a relationship and it was not good. He took things out of 2 of my kids and one of his. He used his kids to get what he wanted and had no respect for them. He said that his son was jealous of him because we were together. The poor boy was 16. All he wanted was a family and dad who loved him. When I left he even went to the point of saying he would give up his kids so I would stay.The worst part was he said this in front of his kids. I was discussed. I asked him how can you give up your kids. His reply was because I deserve happiness and they are in the way. He didn't get that it wasn't the kids (they were great and I loved them) it was him and the way he treated everyone. I used to tell people I had 5 kids as this man was like a 2 year old.

huggieangel

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Not what I want,but what I have already got from this Site. Posted: 3/21/2006 8:55:58 PM
Wasn't me Tony !!!!! Honest ...LOL

huggieangel

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Bereaved Parants Posted: 3/21/2006 8:54:44 PM
I know when my daughter died 23 years ago at 11 weeks from cot death it was the hardest thing I had to face. People would say she has died, forget about her. Even when we went to see her and say goodbye we were put down for it. My reply to this was "I am the one who found her and I need to say goodbye" Then it was "well you can have more children." We could of had another 20 and none of them would ever replace Jennifer. Still today it hurts at times. I find the hardest part is not knowing why she died. Doctors come up with all these different things. I hold the thought that she was not meant for this world yet. Like the others I tell people I have had 7 children. Jennifer is still talked about and included in the family. The younger children go to her grave even though they never knew her. Her photo takes pride of place along with her brothers and sisters. Even the 2 babies I lost from miscarriage are still my children.

huggieangel

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Not what I want,but what I have already got from this Site. Posted: 3/21/2006 8:36:58 PM
I find I want to come back again and again. There are some awesome people on here.

huggieangel

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A special place to you. Posted: 3/21/2006 8:20:48 PM
My special place is anywhere in the bush. Just listening to the wild life and enjoying the peace. Far better than here with all the noise of ballarat. My special special place is also in my mind. A beautiful field with a waterfall and the greenist grass. So peaceful.

huggieangel

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sympathy or harsh words? are they seeking attention or not? Posted: 3/16/2006 7:56:23 PM
Buff have an awesome weekend and keep up the great threads.

huggieangel

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sympathy or harsh words? are they seeking attention or not? Posted: 3/16/2006 7:54:07 PM
Hey Buff I wasn't getting you wrong. You made some great points. I guess I am a bit harsh with people who do what he is doing to others. I don't see the point in dragging others down and making their lives negative and low. After having it done to me most of my life I can not see the point of it. And I know what depression is like. Been there as well. I just think we should find the positives in life (and yes I know that can be hard at times) and enjoy them for what they are.

huggieangel

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Step Parents Posted: 3/16/2006 2:35:05 PM
having been on both sides of this it is hard on both the kids and parents. I was brought up to feel I was never part of the family. Being told you are not my child etc.. Then I got into a relationship and had two step children. My kids had a step dad. He took everything out on my kids and one of his. His daughter made it quite plain that I was not welcome and she did her best to destroy what her dad and I had. In a way she did just that. I soon left as I wasn't going to let my kids go through that or myself either. Sometimes step parents can be the best for kids. It is all in way you work together.

huggieangel

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Poetry Posted: 3/16/2006 2:24:14 PM
Very kool poem oddsocks

huggieangel

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sympathy or harsh words? are they seeking attention or not? Posted: 3/16/2006 2:20:45 PM
Someone told me once you need the negatives to get more from the positives. It is sad when people do what that guy is doing. They are missing out on so much of the good things in life.

huggieangel

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An Ambition Posted: 3/16/2006 2:17:20 PM
My ambition was to stop being a door mat for others and find my inner self. I have acheived that and much more. To some it may not be much but to me it is a whole new world.

huggieangel

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sympathy or harsh words? are they seeking attention or not? Posted: 3/16/2006 2:12:46 PM
Sometimes you do have to be cruel to be kind. There are a lot of people out there who can't survive without some sort of drama in their life. I know a few who live for all the drama and negative things. They make it their life's aim to live and love like that. I lived with one and got sick of being dragged down to his negative world. There is so much to enjoy in life. But it would be a boring world if we were all the same

huggieangel

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new age ways to think Posted: 3/15/2006 8:40:32 PM
Your welcome Buff. Have an awesome week.

huggieangel

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new age ways to think Posted: 3/15/2006 3:14:09 PM
As you say we all have problems or baggage as some call it. I know myself I have come a long way in the last few years as in finding myself and getting out of the control thing from others. I have tried suggestions from others and found some work for me and some don't. I pretty much do it my way and in my time which has helped so much. In many ways I am lucky as I also have great support from some close people. Do we ever really understand ourselves fully ?? Life is a journey full of lessons. I don't think we should forget where we came from or who we are because it makes us, us. I guess if we take what others say as the so called correct way to think we are being brainwashed. It is up to us to follow our gut feelings and do what we feel is right for us. If these teachings etc work go for it and if not go with your feelings. I have learnt to follow my gut feelings and sometimes it is hard but if I don't try I won't know. You can find inner peace if it is what you want. Took me 40 odd years so it can happen. For myself it is time to enjoy the life I have left and not waste a moment of it.

huggieangel

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Poetry Posted: 3/15/2006 2:51:58 PM
There is some great poems here These are 2 of mine. TOKEN Token of our friendship that will travel through time. Special bond we share be unbroken for eternal life. Silent words shared with mystical truths. Heart beats as one with binding souls. 7.7.04 VOID Anger manifests itself deep in the bowels of a tormented soul. Fear strangling happiness from it's sheer existence. Pain swallowing the spark ignited from childhood innocence. Nothingness swarming to engulf a pleading void. 3.2.2004

huggieangel

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euthanasia /murder or mercy killing? Posted: 3/15/2006 2:44:47 PM
I have told my family that I do not want to be kept alive by a machine as to me that is not living. I don't want them to have to watch any suffering.

huggieangel

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Will you die in somebody elses Dream, or live in your own? Posted: 3/15/2006 4:19:34 AM
Yes to all those dream questions Time to get out of others dreams and make mine come true

huggieangel

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Pet Roll Call Posted: 3/14/2006 1:26:03 PM
I have a 12 year old mini foxie named Kea. She is loyal and a great watch dog. Mind you she hates the poor parcel guy..lol Have just got a 7 week old jack russell x blue heeler named Sam. She is gorgeous and has one green and one blue eye. She is a total nut case so she should fit in well..lol

huggieangel

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Do you remember the days of the old schoolyard dating? Posted: 3/12/2006 10:31:59 PM
Yes the good old school days. Year 6 the boys telling me I was a great friend. A quick kiss on the cheek. Being whacked on the head with the lid of a desk. Then high school and it all went down hill

huggieangel

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What Legacy did your Parents leave you? Posted: 3/12/2006 10:25:12 PM
My parents taught me: To help others when and where I can. Not to be selfish.

huggieangel

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Something interesting!!! Posted: 3/12/2006 10:16:52 PM
I am so glad to know after all these years I can read proper

huggieangel

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Something interesting!!! Posted: 3/12/2006 10:11:49 PM
I understood it all. Does that mean my reading is good???? It is great thanks for sharing

huggieangel

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New Zealand Posted: 3/11/2006 4:43:06 PM
New Zealand is a beautiful place. I am a kiwi but have lived in Oz for the last 23 years. I'm hoping to go home for a holiday this year. It is well worth a visit.

huggieangel

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The Worst Car Drivers You Have Encountered? Posted: 3/11/2006 4:25:57 PM
I know what you mean about those tailgaters. I've had my p's for nearly 2 years and I am so sick of those idiots. Some seem to think because you are a P plater that they can try and bully you. I usually just slow down a bit if they tail gate for to long. When I have been pulled over for a breath test I do love the look on the police-persons face. They see the P plates and it is like oh here we have a young p plater and then when I wind my window down and they see I am not young. The look is priceless and it really makes my day. Then I get a " Blow in the bag please. Thank You and have a nice day"

huggieangel

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damn cant escape yas!:roll: Posted: 3/11/2006 3:56:10 PM
Hi and greetings from Ballarat. Great to see an aussie forum. Have an awesome week everyone.

huggieangel

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The Wisdom of an Older Woman Posted: 2/15/2006 1:03:01 PM
This an awesome post. I just turned 45 and life is getting better each day. I know what I want and I am going to get it. My children have nearly all grown and left home so now it is time for me.

huggieangel

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Things You've Learned and Advice You'd Pass On Now That You're Over 40 Posted: 2/15/2006 12:03:52 PM
I've learnt never let the past get in your way. It can destroy your inner being. What goes around comes around and man do I enjoy watching it come around. Your children are the key to your heart, enjoy them and tell them you love them everyday. If I could turn back time..........I wouldn't of learnt the lessons I have. Enjoy life to the fullest it is to short to waste. Life is a story book we each write our own page.

huggieangel

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Married ladies that fool around Posted: 2/15/2006 11:52:39 AM
If things are hard and if you are both agreeable you could try a open marriage. It keeps the marriage together in a form and lets you enjoy the fun side of it as well. This way is far better than cheating behind each others back. My hubby and I have a great marriage in all aspects but felt we needed something more so each of us have a friend/lover and it works for us. No strings, no pressure and we are all happy with the situation. It is a big step to take so it has to be talked about and thought through by all parties. As they say life is to short so enjoy what you can from it.

huggieangel

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A Touch of Grey Posted: 1/1/2006 11:57:06 PM
Grey hair is very sexy. Looks awesome on men and women.

huggieangel

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The Best Friend Posted: 12/29/2005 1:57:17 AM
Be honest with them about how you feel. Make sure if they say they don't feel the same way you can handle that and remain friends otherwise you may ruin a great friendship. Good luck.

huggieangel

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Re: body cramps and sex.......not a good combo.... Posted: 12/29/2005 1:45:22 AM
Mega painful and yeah it can ruin the mood. If you have a great partner they can massage your cramp. When you feel it coming on try changing position. Works for me at times like that.

huggieangel

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The year 2007 Posted: 12/29/2005 1:33:46 AM
There is no way I am missing 2006. I have a whole new life coming and a grandchild that I will be at the birth for. 2007 will take care of itself

huggieangel

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Make you feel I want him right here, right now, no question about it? Posted: 12/29/2005 1:29:44 AM
To be himself, gentle, caring and to show real love.

huggieangel

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The one thing that is an instant turn-off, ends the conversation........ Posted: 12/29/2005 1:22:56 AM
For me it is "do you have a cam" in the second sentence and "I am the best lover you will ever have" I usually say "get a life" and delete them.

huggieangel

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Women 40+ Posted: 12/29/2005 1:11:00 AM
I think once you are over 40 you know what you want and lets face it at this age it is time to enjoy life and live it to the fullest. Afriad to fall in love .... not at all. It is a richer love that we have in the later part of life.

huggieangel

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The True Test of Love Posted: 7/25/2005 6:52:26 PM
When it feels safe and right. I don't trust many with my car not even my son.

huggieangel

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20's, 30's OR 40's..which are the best???? Posted: 7/25/2005 6:46:20 PM
They are all good years. Each has it's own special memories. All part of the learning curve. Enjoy life to the fullest and it will get better.

huggieangel

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Being attractive Posted: 7/25/2005 6:42:31 PM
Beauty is only skin deep as they say. The eyes are the window to the soul and it is the soul that is beautiful. From what I have seen, read and met there are some beautiful, awesome people here. You are all wonderful.

huggieangel

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I REFUSE TO TURN 40 Posted: 7/25/2005 6:28:08 PM
40 is a great age. I have been there for 4 years now. Only getting better.

huggieangel

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Age Issues?? Posted: 7/25/2005 6:24:07 PM
44 and enjoying life more. Age is but a number it is what you feel in your heart.

huggieangel

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Best piece of advice for people Posted: 7/25/2005 6:16:07 PM
Positive thinking. The good will always come along.

huggieangel

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What does it really take to get your profile noticed? Posted: 7/16/2005 7:35:10 PM
Maybe it is that they are no longer interested or have found someone. I have the same thing happen to me. Just a simple no thanks would be great. I have made some good friends as well so all is not bad. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Just make sure it is not a train..lol

huggieangel

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My first attempt at meeting a woman on the web.. Posted: 7/16/2005 7:22:53 PM
Hi, I think your profile is awesome. It says a lot about you and the pics are great. Good luck and enjoy the site.

huggieangel

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Am I too Blunt on my profile? Posted: 7/16/2005 7:06:21 PM
I think your profile is awesome. You know what you want and won't settle for anything less. Good luck and the right man will come along for you.

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