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 Author Thread: Waking your partner for sex!
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Waking your partner for sex!
Posted: 2/23/2009 7:24:30 AM
No, thats not rude. Anytime I want sex and my partner is still asleep, I will let him wake up in the middle of a blow job. I enjoy the same myself. What better way to wake up then with a man between my legs. But thats just me. I know everyone has different opinions.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 50 (view)
 
Question about pseudo blowjobs
Posted: 2/23/2009 7:07:13 AM
I think she overreacted. If she wants to please you, then she needs to learn how to blow you like you like it. If I were with a man and I'm doing something to him that he was not fully enjoying I would rather him tell me than I keep doing half-assed attempts at pleasing him. Now that you have told her, after she cools off maybe you will get the blow jobs you have come accustomed to getting.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 262 (view)
 
Are women afraid of Attractive guys?
Posted: 2/23/2009 7:02:48 AM
This woman isn't afraid of attractive guys. This woman luvs attractive guys. The more attractive, the better.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 50 (view)
 
sex at first site
Posted: 11/19/2008 8:56:40 PM
I met a guy and we had sex the first night we met, and 10 years later we are divorcing. So I'd say yeah there is some chance of a long lasting relationship.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 87 (view)
 
Would you date someone who has had an orgy with 3+ men?
Posted: 11/19/2008 8:51:33 PM
Its just sex. Its not like she murdered anyone, or abused children. There alot worse women you could have dated than one who's had, OH MY GOD, sex with 3 men at the same time. Thats just my opinion.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 35 (view)
 
How many condoms is acceptable........
Posted: 7/29/2008 1:04:17 AM
I would be happy, pleased they were having safe sex. Would you rather her have sex with out a condom, then give you something? If a person is cheating, they are cheating. Atleast they are safe about it.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Is it a turn-off to be too honest?
Posted: 7/29/2008 12:56:54 AM
If you are in a serious relationship, but not fullfilled in the bedroom, the relationship will suffer. I know from personal experience. The man in my life, I've been on and off for 10 years, is the most boring man in bed. I like being with him, but I cheated, lied alot. Put what ever you want in your profile, how else will you get what you want or need. If you dont speak up for what you want in bed, who will?
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 425 (view)
 
Why is a decent girlfriend so hard to find?
Posted: 7/29/2008 12:44:32 AM
I dont get us women either. I dont think anyone does really. But thats life, we always want the bad guy. Because we are taught to go with the good nice guy, but what fun are they? The bad guys are fun and exciting to be with, they keep us on our toes.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Hmm
Posted: 7/29/2008 12:41:17 AM
Yep, things could always be worse than what you are going through.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Your heart wont let go... what to do??
Posted: 7/29/2008 12:38:29 AM
When you love someone deeply, than its hard to let go no matter how they treated you. Tell him how you feel, if he will listen. Swallow your pride, see if he wants you back. I have been stuck on the same man, who is an a**hole, but I will never let him go. I let him go physically, but I know that he is the only man I will ever love, the only one I can even imagine loving. Even if you have to tell yourself you will be together again one day, it might help getting on with you life easier.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Played again...
Posted: 7/29/2008 12:30:48 AM
You need to put a box around your heart, dont let another man play you, dont let him get the best of you. Not until you know he is going to be the one who sticks around. Keep yourself at a distance. Eventually, if you keep getting hurt, it will be a natural response, not to put your heart out there. After 10 years of being hurt by the same man, that I love more than anything, I developed a thick skin concerning him. I am indifferent to his actions to me now. You have to put yourself up, tell yourself its his loss if he wants to drop you.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
How do you ever date again?
Posted: 7/29/2008 12:25:17 AM
You could always swallow your pride and talk to the person you broke up with. Mistakes arent always permanant. Wouldn't you feel much better is you tried to make up with the person, and it worked, than not and feel miserable forever.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 86 (view)
 
betrayal online: is this cheating or fun?
Posted: 7/29/2008 12:19:55 AM
I think he was only playing. If you really loved him, you should have overlooked it. Or did the same thing, turn about is fair play. You should not have said anything to him about it, then on the day he was supposed to meet this girl you could have played decetive and followed him, that way atleast you would know for a fact he was cheating. Sometimes men need an ego boost from another woman. Or you could have always proposed an open relationship, but that life style isnt for everyone. Anyway that is just this peoples opinion.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 142 (view)
 
Ready, Set, Cum!
Posted: 7/25/2008 11:15:09 AM
Maybe you need to question your sexuality, since it turned you on some. It really sounds gay, funny though, really funny.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Single and happy: Open questions.
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:40:01 PM
No, you're not selfish. You need to figure out what you want, what makes you happy. If you are happy being single, be single. Just as long as you arent hurting anyone. Some people are better off alone. I have a "soul mate", that I love with everything, but I perfer being by myself. But I'm not lonely though. I am not in a relationship with him now, and I dont know when I will be ready to get back in with him. Thats my experience. Unless you are wanting someone, or you are not hurting anyone, your self included, enjoy your time alone.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Where In The World?
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:21:45 PM
You dont have to "hit on" people you see in the store or libary, try to strike up a conversation. You can meet new people anywhere, just be nice about it. Dont go into a grocery store acting like you would when you go to a bar. I would hope this is not the only option anyone has.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 163 (view)
 
40 year old virgin question?
Posted: 7/3/2008 3:16:13 PM
He would stay a virgin.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 190 (view)
 
SECRETS...
Posted: 7/1/2008 9:18:25 AM
I like really rough sex, being tied up, spanked, bit. Its happened once and it was a very exhilerating experience. Just finding someone who is into it is hard being in a small southern town.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 102 (view)
 
how would you react if your son /daughter told you they where gay
Posted: 7/1/2008 9:11:18 AM
Given I had grown kids, and my daughter told me she was gay, I would not care. A grown son, I would care, it would dissapoint me. Why, I dont know. I would want my son to act like a man, not like a priss. Not that all gay men are prisses. I am going to have to think more on the why. I have no problem with gay people, they are no different than strait ones are.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 43 (view)
 
Back to Monogamy?
Posted: 7/1/2008 8:59:54 AM
I dont see why she will have a problem staying monogamous. Something as easy as staying monogamous, when she has made up her mind about it, should not be very hard. She may regret it though.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 210 (view)
 
Can you be to wet?
Posted: 7/1/2008 8:51:24 AM
When I got told once I was too wet, his****was too small. If a man has enough size too fill a woman up, he should not complain about us women being too wet. thats just my take on it.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 24 (view)
 
Would you ever have sex with a person who has a name of one of your siblings?
Posted: 7/1/2008 8:47:52 AM
Of course I would have sex with a man who has the same name as my brother. I would not have sex with my brother though. My ex husband and my dad has the same name. I learned not to say his name during sex, only baby, or oh god that feels good baby. Its easier to use terms of endearmant than names, you dont have to worry about slip ups.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Mary and Joe
Posted: 7/1/2008 8:43:48 AM
That is just too much of a difference in sexual tastes. Next thing, he may want to add a goat to the bedroom. If he is turned on by that, what else is he turned on by? Is he a pedophile? Does he like screwing corpses? No wonder they deleted this post. I know people like animals in a sexual way, but its too nasty to imagine. Mary needs to have some self perservation and dump Joe. She'll get over it.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
my relationship story
Posted: 7/1/2008 8:30:00 AM
Wait until he is fully divorced until you put more stock into the relationship, or keep your guard up. If he is going out of his way to see his daughter, even if it means going out with his ex for family dates, then it seems like he is willing to do whatever it takes for his daughters sake, even getting back with her mother. If he is serious about getting on with his life with out his ex, and he is serious about you, maybe see if he will take you alone on his dates with his ex and daughter.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 66 (view)
 
I love you, do you love me?
Posted: 7/1/2008 8:17:27 AM
You could have always did what Heartbreak Kid did and say love, love love you. Not specifying who loves her. When a man has told me he loves me, I tell him he is sweet, then leave him alone.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 71 (view)
 
For those who believe in God?
Posted: 6/29/2008 8:14:03 AM
If there is a heaven, I dont think there will be food. How will those who go to heaven eat, they have no bodies, no need to refuel. I am sure that they will be focusing on other things such as worshipping their God or who ever they worship. I did read a book once where a man died, was in heaven for 90 minutes, he never talked about food, just alot of relatives, singing, whiteness. But heaven for me would have other substances I could enjoy in with out worrying about physical or mental addiction. Food is a necessaity in this life, in heaven we would not have to deal with it.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 30 (view)
 
How lonely did you feel when you discovered plenty of fish?
Posted: 6/27/2008 6:11:27 PM
You need something other than rum and cigarettes to help yourself. Dont be a whiner though.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Ex moving on...
Posted: 6/27/2008 6:08:26 PM
Some people are just needy, they need to have that other person in their life, no matter the past. I knew a woman who's husband of 10 years suddenly dies, and the next month she was living with another man. But thats was how she always was, never liked to be alone no matter what. Dont worry about what she does, you all broke up for a reason.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 30 (view)
 
what is my problem?
Posted: 6/27/2008 6:02:49 PM
If you are going to follow him around, then you need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. Since you are bold enough to show up around him alot, why not? Maybe you need him to either give in to you so you can be a couple, or you need him to tell you to leave him alone. If he doesnt want you back, then quit having sex with him period. Its hard to let go of the one you love so.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 159 (view)
 
My son is on drugs.......
Posted: 6/27/2008 5:52:56 PM
I am not a parent in your shoes, but dont let it get to out of hand with his experimenting. That leads to addiction. Being that young, addicted to drugs will sit him off for many years. Teens are so moody though, its hard to get through to them. If I had a kid on drugs, I would have them put in a rehab asap. I would not care if they were 15 or 25. Talk to his school counslers and see what their opinion is. Find some examples of how drugs will mess up a person's life, and let him see. Good luck .
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
picture
Posted: 6/27/2008 5:44:58 PM
I sure would not want to chat with a man for a few days, then decide to meet with out seeing his picture. Then find out he is a dog. I am not too shallow, its just human nature to want a nice looking mate. These days who knows who we are getting involved with when we get online. Pictures are very important, expecially when you are trying to get to know someone. If you want to be mysterious then dont tell anyone what you do for work, or something like that.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 739 (view)
 
Why Do women dump men who are nice to them.
Posted: 6/27/2008 5:38:49 PM
In my experience, the nice, sweet guys are kind of nerdy looking. The good looking one's are usually the "bad ones". Good looking guys usually have inflated egos and they have their pick of the litter so they dont have to worry about being too nice. I am more attracted to a good looking guy than a nerdy one. When I have met a man I thought was good looking, if he was real nice and weak kneed around me, it freaked me out. Not all women want romance, and kind words. I know people cant help how they are feeling. Maybe next time you should hold off on the nice feelings. Just dont be a jerk.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
Never Orgasmed
Posted: 6/27/2008 1:38:52 PM
Just lay down on your bed alone, and experiment. Maybe try doing some sit ups or leg lunges to get the blood flowing down there. Dont think about nothing else but how your body is feeling. There are certain medications that will hinder an orgasm too.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 29 (view)
 
So, where do you 'hide' your condoms?
Posted: 6/27/2008 1:32:16 PM
I keep some in my bedroom, my truck, my purse. I have even hid one in my bra when I had no where else to keep it. Better safe than sorry.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Do girls like to date bi men?
Posted: 6/27/2008 1:22:24 PM
Yeah, I would date a bi man. Maybe suggest he let me join him in the bedroom next time he got his kicks off with another man.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 164 (view)
 
Would you date someone with Herpes?
Posted: 6/27/2008 1:19:57 PM
I, personally, could not do it. But I hate germs and the like. I could not imagine going down on someone knowing they had herpes. Even with protection. You should ask yourself how you feel about her. If you hold off on sex and get to know her better it may be an easier decision. But give her the respect for telling you. Some people would not have been decent enough.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 53 (view)
 
Sexual Predicament
Posted: 6/27/2008 1:14:38 PM
Maybe its deeper than the sex for him. Maybe he has left over issues from his past. If you love him and want to keep him, and he wont change, stock up on sex toys and enjoy yourself by yourself now and again.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 11 (view)
 
Do threesome's work?
Posted: 6/27/2008 1:07:08 PM
Try to let go of all of your feelings toward him, since he in emotionally unavailable anyway. Go on with the threesome, if he is into this girl, he may end up sleeping with her anyway, maybe even having a three some with her and another girl. Wouldnt you want to be in with them instead of someone else? Its nice to know there are other women who enjoy three some's. Good luck whatever you do.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 46 (view)
 
How important is sex to you?
Posted: 3/12/2008 9:14:26 AM
For me, Sex is one of the most important things in my life. After family and one other thing. I would not want to have to do with out it. I am not freaky, or a freak, I am just very sexual, sensual woman. Its nothing wrong with being that way, just as there is nothing wrong with being virginal.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 18 (view)
 
Still in pain
Posted: 3/12/2008 8:58:42 AM
For every ones sake who is involved with you, you need to take a break from relationships and be alone while you figure this out. Its not fair to the woman you are with now. How would you feel if the roles were reversed? You are never supposed to go into a new relationship until ALL unresolved feelings are resolved. As far as your feelings for your ex lover, it takes time. You may always have the same feelings for her. Maybe you need to talk to her about it and see how you feel after. You may end up marrying her in the future, who knows.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
Help me understand this guy!
Posted: 3/12/2008 8:52:23 AM
Tell the guy to have a good life, try to find the girl who makes him the "happiest", and leave him alone. He is just wanting to play childish games with you, and he will continue to do so, because YOU let him. Just go on about your life. If he has to depend on another person to make him happy, he is not worth it anyway. We dont need to depend on another person to make us happy, if so, we will never be happy. Good luck anyway.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Tired of being turned down
Posted: 3/11/2008 10:10:52 AM
I dont care what anyone says about looks, they matter. If anyone had to choose between an ugly person, or a nice looking person, people go for the nice looking person. Thats human nature. But there are some people out there who will actually get to know you first before they make their choice to be with you or not, I dont mean YOU personally, just us all in general. When we do choose a mate, its 95% based on looks. On here, this site, there is so much to choose from, its easy to delete, and look for other options. Thats just life. Yes if people did take the time to know someone, we would find someone we could be with. We all know how men are, not all men, but most are wanting a good looking woman to be with first, then if they cant find one who will have them, they look elsewhere. Thats just life and human nature.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
My love life...
Posted: 3/11/2008 9:53:48 AM
I think you should try to work it out with your daughters mother and leave your other ex behind. Its healthy for a child to have both parents in the home, though there is nothing wrong with being apart, but if there is any chance at all for you to be a family and work it out, then go for it. Dont work so much that you miss out on important things in her life. Kids grow up fast, so you need to focus on your family while it is new. Good luck with everything.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 63 (view)
 
The happy guy within me is dead...
Posted: 3/11/2008 9:48:37 AM
So dramatic if you want to know. You are only 19, come on now, the happy guy within you is dead. Thats a little much. You will get over it soon. Learn from it though. Maybe she was not using you for money, if she really was, she would still be with you. When someone is a user they dont quit after a while, they stick with it. Especially if she had you wrapped around her finger and you buying her things. I think you have a need for attention, but thats just me.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 70 (view)
 
Sex without developing feelings.....
Posted: 3/9/2008 10:57:41 AM
If you are looking for attention elsewhere in your relationship with your bf, then you need to leave him and go for the guy who you really like. Why cant you break it off with your current bf?? Is he holding you hostage. If you are not happy, then do it and go for the guy y0u want.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
When a man from your past has been drinking.....and calls you
Posted: 3/9/2008 10:52:03 AM
If I you , I would not send it at all. I would just shrug it off until he brought it up again, sober. He may have feelings toward you, but maybe he is not really ready to let you in on his feelings, otherwise he would have told you while he is sober. You could ask him if he remembers his words to you just to see if he would talk to you about it at work, to get it out in the open some so you wont feel so uncomfortable.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 23 (view)
 
I'm In Love With You
Posted: 3/9/2008 10:40:39 AM
Me personally, I would not want to know. Because I have no intentions of being in love with anyone but one man and if someone falls in love with me, they need to keep it to themselves. It would ruin the relationship that I had with the person. Unless they were not looking for anything serious. If we could just stay friends, fine. I have friends that I truely love, men and women. If I did fall in love with someone, I would not dare tell the person unless I thought they felt the same. It could really mess up some really good friendships or relationships.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Can you date a feminine guy?
Posted: 3/8/2008 8:25:25 AM
I am a southern woman also and I would not date a man who was too girly, I like a real manly man. I like a man who is not afaird to get dirty or not afarid to work like a horse. I dont like a man who cries more than a woman or who takes better care of his skin than I do, or one who is too needy or I can go on and on. I like a real manly men anyway.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Vibrators versus men - advantages --disadvantages
Posted: 3/8/2008 8:16:09 AM
I love ALL of my vibrators and sex toys, but I will say that no matter how powerful they are and everything, NOTHING WILL EVER TAKE THE PLACE OF A REAL LIVE MAN AND HIS PENIS. The only thing about vibrators is that I can keep one in my purse or truck at all times and use it when ever I feel like it. But I would always rather have a hard****and a hot tongue than a vibrator. thats just me though.
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Can a sex addicted girlfriend be faithful ?
Posted: 3/8/2008 8:10:50 AM
I am alot like her from what you wrote, but I was never faithful to my husdband. But he always had my heart, I never once shared any emotional sex with anyone but him. But for me there is a difference between sex and love. Ask her where she stands as far as that goes. If you can understand the difference it wont be so bad to have an open relationship. But to each his own. Good luck anyway.
 
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