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chibirayven

Joined: 6/19/2005

Msg: 79 (view)

Why do guys say baby - honey - sweetie Posted: 9/3/2006 10:57:08 PM
The guy I'm kinda of seeing calls me either by my full name instead of the shortened version that everyone else calls me, or "baby" or "sweetie". He called me "baby" one day, but he asked first if I minded him calling me that. I of course didn't. I kinda like the pet names. I have a friend that calls me "Princess" I think it got to my head, cause I like to think I am one sometimes.. heh.

chibirayven

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Instant chemistry Posted: 8/7/2006 9:17:18 PM
I met him on a bus on my way upnorth... we talked on the phone ever since. He was going back home to B.C. then he moved to Ontario and we talk every now and then. He calls me when he's down sometimes too lol. But we also decided not to date each other, because we don't want to ruin what we already have if we break up.

chibirayven

Joined: 6/19/2005

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Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met? Posted: 6/26/2006 7:28:49 PM
I don't think you can fall in love with someone you've never met. I know I have liked people I have never met a lot. But never fell in love with them. Although, recently a guy I know in the States told his girlfriend that him and I are soulmates. Long story short, she was in love with a guy she's never met, but has only seen in dreams. And he told her that him and I were soulmates. We've never met, but have talked on the phone for hours for months, until the phone bill got outrageously huge. So it's happened to people, but I think it's a bit weird and I don't understand it.

chibirayven

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Have you ever had a psychic connection with someone? Posted: 6/26/2006 7:21:04 PM
One of my exes and I had a bit of a connection with each other. And a couple of my friends and I do. One guy I met on the bus on my way upnorth and I have a bit of one too.

chibirayven

Joined: 6/19/2005

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Brazillian wax? Posted: 6/26/2006 6:49:14 PM
L.A. waxing is where they do everything... Since it's called Lips to Ass. Where as the Brazillian waxing is just the the pubic area. In most cases they leave a landing strip, but not all. You can get a Brazillian wax and get the whole pubic area waxed. Also, how does the lazer feel down there? I've thought of it, but don't really enjoy the smell of burning hair/skin.

chibirayven

Joined: 6/19/2005

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Lying Posted: 6/26/2006 6:28:02 PM
Nope, I wouldn't trust them at all. If they lied about one thing, then they will lie about other things.

chibirayven

Joined: 6/19/2005

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Why are you single? Posted: 6/26/2006 5:39:50 PM
Mainly single because I chose to be. I would love to have a relationship with someone, but I can never find the right type of person to have one with. Plus I was thinking of moving before, so I didn't want to get into one and then have to break up with them. I'm kind of dating a guy now, but still technically single.

chibirayven

Joined: 6/19/2005

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Hamilton POF Party Friday April 21 FRANKIES Mount Hope Posted: 3/31/2006 6:55:00 PM
I'm confused... Where is it?! If it's at Frankies, I can attend, because it's within walking distance from my house.... kind of ish.... So I'll more than likely be able to attend that one... I'll keep an eye on this though.

chibirayven

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Intuitions Posted: 3/7/2006 11:02:01 AM
I always follow my gut instincts. There is that saying "trust your gut" or whatever it is. 99% of the time it is correct. It is also me being safe with things. Although, last time it happened, I accused and other stuff happened, and now we barely talk... but sometimes I still think my gut is right (with that situation). But yeah, I always trust my gut instincts with things.

chibirayven

Joined: 6/19/2005

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Why do women ask this question? Posted: 2/22/2006 9:59:19 PM
I've never asked. Unless it came up. The last guy it came up because I told him that I was more than just some "effin" number. Then we talked about how many he's been with and how many I was with. I have a friend that I asked though. I was curious. And it didn't bother him one bit. The number doesn't matter. If they are experienced, then they can teach you a few things... if they are not, and you are more experienced, then you can teach them a few things.

chibirayven

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getting kissed by a complete stranger Posted: 2/22/2006 9:41:39 PM
I was at a club once with a friend of mine. Sitting on the pool table waiting for my friend to finish with the ATM machine. This guy walked up to me, and was waiting to use the ATM machine as well. He started talking to me, and such... and then all of a sudden he started kissing me. I pulled away cause I didn't know how to react to this guys drunken kiss. Then afterwards he asked if the friend I was waiting for was my boyfriend. I wonder what he would have said if I told him yes. I was just shocked more than anything.

chibirayven

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....'if you love something set it free, if it comes back to you it's yours,if it doesn't it wasn't m Posted: 2/22/2006 2:18:16 PM
Recently, I went to see a friend of mine. We got in a fight. And when I came back, I tried to still keep in contact. I'd call, email, what not. I guess because I didn't want to be mad, and I still wanted to be friends. After a few days of not talking, I called him up out of the blue... actually I really didn't realise I was doing it until I had the phone in my hand and his voice in my ear... and I was like sh!t! So we chatted for a bit, and talked online. A few days later he apologised for being a d!ck towards me. I thought it was pretty good. We talked the other day, real late. But we'll see what else happens. Karma is a big thing with me too. I know karma works. It has with plenty of exes or people who have done wrong to me in the past. And I laugh when I think about it. Good one with one of my exes. I work at a call centre for pizza. I thought to myself that if my ex called, I'd be polite on the phone, but put anchovies or something that he hates on the pizza. Although I'd get in trouble for that, and possibly get fired. It'd still be funny. Then I just thought to myself that if him and the chick he cheated on me go for pizza, that I hope it tastes real gross. When I went to his house to pick up my things we talked. He told me how they went for pizza, and he was wanting to call the call centre and get me but they didn't. Then I asked him how the pizza was, and he was like, it was horrible. It tasted like crap! I laughed. Cause I was thinking, yeah, I was hoping it would. I dunno, it was petty, but I found it pretty funny. There were worse things though.

chibirayven

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Dating mistakes YOU made........ Posted: 2/22/2006 1:02:09 PM
All the time as a matter of fact my new guy asked "how was your day"... now guys you know what this question means.. but i go and say "well i worked out and that was good and i cleaned my whole place and organized and stuff and now .....etc A friend of mine asked me that one day on the phone, and I explained the whole day pretty much. At the end of the review of the day I gave him I started laughing. I was like wow, please tell me to shut up when I do that... or kiss me when I'm with you to shut me up. I apologised and was embarrassed. So then I asked him how his day was and what he did. lol When I visited him, I got a few kisses... although, not all were because I was talking haha. Some probably were though.

chibirayven

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does anyone get as turned off with a smoker as i do? Posted: 2/21/2006 11:52:49 PM
I've dated a few smokers in the past. I don't like the smell of smoke. Can't stand it one bit, and I actually get sick from it. So it is a turn off.... but if they dont' smell like it or taste like it when I kiss them, that's fine.

chibirayven

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Dating mistakes YOU made........ Posted: 2/21/2006 10:52:55 AM
When i get nervous I Talk and talk and talk and talk and talk and silence is really really uncomfortable.. When my bew beau asks me about my day I tend to get WAY too specific. I hate the silence so i fill it.. and i ask meaningless questions that really no one cares about :P I try to tell people that i do that though That is so much like me. I just talk away, and you ask me a question and I'll just start rambling away about it. You ask meangingless questions... do you tell meaningless stories too? I sometimes do that :/

chibirayven

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Dating mistakes YOU made........ Posted: 2/20/2006 11:36:28 PM
I've talked about exes in the past. And I ramble a lot when I'm nervous or bored... I don't like awkward silences, so I'll just ramble away... that sometimes gets me in trouble....

chibirayven

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If you sleep with a guy right away, does that take you out of the running for a relationship? Posted: 2/19/2006 11:28:13 PM
I've asked a few friends this. And a lot of them have had sex on the first date, and have ended up dating the person. One of my exes and I had sex on the first date, and we lasted a few years.

chibirayven

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Once a cheat, ALWAYS a cheat! Posted: 2/19/2006 11:05:41 PM
I know what you meant, but I still get this rather creepy mental image of some loser with his pants around his ankles, trying to grab hold of a pissed-off mountain lion's hindquarters. Thanks for the image.... a cheater doesn't get a 2nd chance with me. I know people CAN change, but I'm not willing find out the hard way since most of them don't really WANT to change. The only one who had a second chance with me, was the first guy who cheated on me. Lasted a week, and the trust was gone. No second chances since. there's something fundamental that's missing from their personality and conscience which is why they were able to cheat the first time, afterall, cheating is a conscious decision, it's not some accident. I've always wondered what made someone not feel bad for it and what makes them do it. (same thing applies to players, but that topic, is sooo old). Always makes me wonder what is missing from their personality, or if it's because they have such low self esteem.

chibirayven

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Have you ever paid to use a dating site? Posted: 2/18/2006 12:50:08 AM
Nope, and I won't :/

chibirayven

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Talking to your exes... Posted: 2/16/2006 2:26:16 PM
I only talk to three exes of mine. One lives up in Orillia, and we don't see each other that often, he is friends with a friend of mine as well. So we just chat on MSN. Another, I barely talk to. We'll go for coffee every now and then, but not that often. The other I work with, so I have to be social. Other than that I don't talk to the others. But then, we barely talk.

chibirayven

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Once a cheat, ALWAYS a cheat! Posted: 2/16/2006 1:49:04 PM
I dated a guy who cheated on me. His ex girlfriend emailed me and told me about it actually. I called him up and told him that we needed to talk. He wanted to break up with me, except when it came down to us breaking up over this, he didn't want to. What an idiot... both of us were. I dated him for a couple extra weeks, but I knew I couldn't trust him again. Guy after him tried playing me, dated for two years, cheated on me with a cougar, who in the end hurt him and he came crawling back. Meh... so yes, I guess once a cheater, always a cheater is true... the first guy cheated on every girlfriend, that's what I realised afterwards, and made me still be friends with him.

chibirayven

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Morning breath! Would u still have sex? Posted: 2/16/2006 1:19:21 PM
You both will have morning breath though. Although it's gross and smells.. you both have it...depends how much the urge is there I guess... haha! grabs the toothpaste (Although, I'm not one to talk....)

chibirayven

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Can Long Distance relationships work?? Posted: 2/15/2006 5:09:38 PM
I had a few long distance relationships. Although, they weren't real far, they were still a little bit long distance. Those were tough. Not for me, but for them. I could handle it if I really cared for the person. If I really loved the person, than I would drive, fly or take the bus to go see them if I had to. Sure I would miss the person when we weren't together... but that's what phones, and email and MSN is for. And if you get a webcam, it's just as good too. And if you really love the person and you can, you could move together. I know if I really cared for someone, and we were dating each other, and they had to move for a job... and I could afford it, and get a job out there as well, I would move with them. That is if we both wanted it. I lived and worked with a guy while overseas. He was from England, and was dating a girl from the country we were in (Hong Kong), 3 years later they were still together. I have yet to know if they are still, but I'm sure they are... if you really love the person, you could do it, it might be hard, but it could work.

chibirayven

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Would you marry someone just because they are rich ? Posted: 2/13/2006 9:55:15 PM
No... I wouldn't. I don't care about the money. I'd have to have the feelings there as well. I need the attraction and everything else that will go with it. Money doesn't buy happiness, I'd be depressed if I didn't love the person.

chibirayven

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Ever met someone at the wrong time in your life? Posted: 2/13/2006 9:40:18 PM
I think I did recently...

chibirayven

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are you afraid of rejection Posted: 2/13/2006 5:47:10 PM
I am. Who isn't? Sure it's best to know whether or not the person likes you or not... rather than thinking about the what ifs... but it also hurts if they do reject you... if you really like the person and you are rejected.. Although, rejection is a part of life, and you have to get used to it... It's still hard. It makes you wonder why the rejected you.... I know it makes me think that.

chibirayven

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do you believe in love after the first date Posted: 2/13/2006 5:41:13 PM
I think it's lust at first site. Although, there is also like at first site too.... but not love so soon.

chibirayven

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Why do women fall for players? Posted: 2/13/2006 5:39:32 PM
I agree a lot with what a lot of everyone has said. Someone said that we are dreamers and wear our heart on our sleeves... I agree with that. The guy I said played me, didn't start off with web cam chats or sex within the first conversation. It took a lot of conversations before it came up. Maybe he didn't play me... but why isn't he talking to me now? (Was what I said the truth... and it hit a nerve with him? Does he really have a gf... and not an ex, like he says?) Maybe what he said to me really was the truth... but again, we're not talking? Makes me wonder. I agree with MDNinja, I am not attracted to men just solely by looks. This last guy I found attractive, but I also enjoyed our conversations. I have friends who found him unattractive and wondered what I found attractive about him. A friend of mine said they are good with their words. They are confident with themselves, and with how they speak. This one (who my friends say did play me, and who I accused of, who may not have been, but did stop talking to me) is an English major, got an English degree in uni... makes me wonder... lol. I'm still curious as to what makes someone want to play people. What makes them want to do that?

chibirayven

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How many partners Posted: 2/13/2006 4:35:08 PM
I don't think it matters how many people the person you are with has slept with in the past. No point in asking. Although this did happen recently to me, found out what number I was, and it bothered me. But it also bothered me, because that's all I thought I was.... and confronted him about it.

chibirayven

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If you had your choice to travel tomorrow where would you go? Posted: 2/2/2006 4:10:08 PM
Oh God... That's tough... considering I've done a fair amount of travelling as it is... I really don't know. I just finished a 20 hour bus ride upnorth, and I enjoyed it... I might have to say just travel all of Canada. Then maybe the U.S... And then maybe go back to all the other countries I've visited.

chibirayven

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Valentine's Day and only 50 dollars. Posted: 2/2/2006 3:43:52 PM
Maybe go to a nice yet not so expensive restaurant. Something sweet. Or if it isn't a first date, have a nice romantic dinner at home with candles and such. What would you do if you are spending some time at a guys house for 2 weeks while on holidays... both attracted to each other, and you will be there for Valentines Day? Should we do a little something? and what?!

chibirayven

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Why is leaving better than an affair? Posted: 2/2/2006 3:30:28 PM
If my boyfriend or husband were to have an affair then I'd leave him. I'd rather them leave than have one in the first place, simply because the whole trust issue is gone once he starts having an affair. I want to be with someone who I can trust, and who will be with me and not anyone else.

chibirayven

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Here's a sick one. Posted: 12/16/2005 10:43:35 PM
Maybe that's what happened with my ex and I... actually no, he bought me that gift, we broke up, he returned his, I returned mine. I saved some money in the long run though... haha...

chibirayven

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Beauty in the eye of the beholder Posted: 12/15/2005 11:03:01 PM
Most definetly, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What one may find attractive, another will find unattractive. I got that with my exes. I'd date them, and think they were good looking or cute. And my friends would say "But why, he's so ugly" Made me want to smack them, because it's not always what's on the outside that counts... it's whats on the inside that counts as well... and in my eyes they were beautiful.

chibirayven

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HAMILTON & Surrounding Area~POF Dance Party~Sat Sept 24~Philthy McNastys Posted: 9/25/2005 5:27:16 PM
Glad to see everyone had fun. I was at Kelseys till about 10 pmish. No one knew what they wanted to do. I mentioned Philthys, no one wanted to go, so we went to Hess and got hammered. Not many people stayed out drinking for my birthday though lol. That's okay! I got more free drinks lol

chibirayven

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HAMILTON & Surrounding Area~POF Dance Party~Sat Sept 24~Philthy McNastys Posted: 9/6/2005 10:32:32 PM
I'd go if I wasn't celebrating my 24th that night. Birthday is on the 20th, and the 24th, I booked off so I could have my party. We're going for dinner but not sure what we're doing after, nor who is going... I still have yet to invite people lol So hope you all have fun :)

chibirayven

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Open Minded..............means? Posted: 8/15/2005 12:33:50 AM
I agree with you fox

chibirayven

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what flowers do you like? Posted: 8/15/2005 12:28:25 AM
White roses

chibirayven

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What's the last thing you ate? Posted: 8/15/2005 12:26:22 AM
Honey Garlic Chicken wings!

chibirayven

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Open Minded..............means? Posted: 8/15/2005 12:02:12 AM
To me it means someone who will try new things, they are also tolerant and accepting of things. As for me, I've been told I'm open minded. I have different types of friends, I like to try new things, I like learning new things. I'll also try anything (or pretty much anything) once.

chibirayven

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what is so hard Posted: 8/12/2005 4:02:45 PM
I reply even if the person is rude, but I can get rude back.... sometimes they are doing it in fun, so I can get right down dirty with them...

chibirayven

Joined: 6/19/2005

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what is so hard Posted: 8/12/2005 4:02:02 PM
Yes, I believe the person should take the time to message you back even if it's a no thank you.. or whatever. I try to reply to everyone. It takes awhile, but I try to reply. My computer has been on the fritz and it still is on the fritz. So sometimes I wait until I'm on a better computer to reply, or I reply with short answers.

chibirayven

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Have you dated anyone from POF, and how did it turn out? Posted: 8/11/2005 2:03:29 PM
Met a few people. Most went well, except for one. I thought it went well, but it didn't. Such is life. I moved on. Never dated anyone though. Just met and became friends with them.

chibirayven

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serious question everyone Posted: 8/5/2005 8:12:04 PM
Kick her to the curb. Say goodbye. I took one of my exes back once... and I didn't trust him one bit. So I said bye bye.

chibirayven

Joined: 6/19/2005

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answer honestly Posted: 8/2/2005 1:43:13 PM
Just looking to chat to people. I don't understand the whole looking for sex online thing.

chibirayven

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Msg: 131 (view)

Never Cheated and Never Will? Claim it &Tell Us Why..? Posted: 8/2/2005 1:41:13 PM
I've never cheated on anyone, nor will I. I see it this way: If I want to cheat on someone, I don't want to be with them. I'll just simply break up with that person. If that made sense. It's easier said than done. I've been cheated on a few times. Each time, I knew it was happening and the guys were surprised that I knew about it. It's hurtful and disrespectful. And I would never put someone through that pain like I've been through. It hurt a lot. So no, I haven't and won't.

chibirayven

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Am i destined to just be everyone's friend Posted: 8/2/2005 1:35:41 PM
I get a lot of the same thing. Or some guys just try too fast and want to date me right off the bat, without getting to know me. But lately it's been the friend thing lol Good luck Sporty

chibirayven

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What do you notice first about the opposite sex? Posted: 7/26/2005 9:51:35 PM
Eyes, smile/lips, and personality.

chibirayven

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How many times have you been in love? Posted: 7/26/2005 9:39:15 PM
Been in love once.

chibirayven

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How to tell if a guy is playin you or not Posted: 7/25/2005 12:39:33 PM
I noticed that with one of my exes actually. This guy doesn't do that. Actually he goes out of his way to come up and see me when I mention I'm going out. Knowing he may not have a way home. Just he acts different in my neighbourhood than he does in his neighbourhood. So that's what makes me wonder.

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