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Joined: 6/20/2005

Msg: 83 (view)

HEY GUYS A QUESTION FOR YOU Posted: 11/25/2006 8:06:06 PM
okay, I don't know all of the details, but if a guy is with you, and you see that he hasn't changed his profile for some reason, especially after a year, there are two explanations, one, he doesn't get on here enough to change his profile, or two, which if he is using the site still, this is always the answer, it might not be that he is cheating on you, it may not be that he is playing you either, those are both probable answers, but what I think is probably happening is that he might not feel as strongly towards you as he says he does (that is if he tells you he loves you) but he may be with you specifically because he is so emotionally insecure that he cannot stand to be alone (that is the case with just about all guys)...... and he hasn't changed his profile because he's waiting for something better to come along...... I've got an idea for you, it is foolproof, it has worked for me multiple times..... make a new account and profile, get some pictures from a hot friend, or some pictures from a low profile website and post them on the profile.... then based on what you know he wants from a relationship, make that your profile description, make her almost the perfect girl, because if you make her too perfect, then he might see it coming (cuz everyone has flaws)..... anyway, what you do then, is play online detective, email him, and see if he replies, if he is a great guy he'll respond with something along the lines of "I'm with someone so we can be friends, but nothing more" but if he gives you some line like "I SHOULDN'T be doing this" then at that point, I'm almost 100% positive you can arrange him to come and meet you, and bust his ass then.... if he is, sorry babe, no decent woman deserves that, all the good people end up seeing all these bad people until they end up finding they're perfect someone. I know that I'm still looking for my perfect someone, and I'm only 19, so I mean, I don't know everything, but I'm not an idiot either, I am so determined to find my perfect someone that I haven't had sex in 3 years, because I don't like one night stands, because sex isn't that good when your partner doesn't know your preferences..... and I don't feel like having a monologue with a stranger before I f*ck 'em :) -David Moon

Joined: 6/20/2005

Msg: 12 (view)

Moving to MI! Posted: 6/27/2006 9:29:58 PM
and by the way shout out to steve280z and jaymz for their much valid points.... good jobs not high in Mi, but being an Electrician will work too, 12,000 electrician jobs in the next 8 years opening. good chances for a near grad like myself

Joined: 6/20/2005

Msg: 11 (view)

Moving to MI! Posted: 6/27/2006 9:24:50 PM
damn...... you found something to do in the jackson area? that is surprising I can't find anything to do in Lansing that is worthwhile

Joined: 6/20/2005

Msg: 13 (view)

The gril of my dreams Posted: 3/8/2006 6:00:07 PM
and what about finding the girl of your dreams? That is a great feeling, the only problem with being with the girl of your dreams is that "they tend to become real after time" but then again, being with someone tends to win out in human nature over being alone.

Joined: 6/20/2005

Msg: 292 (view)

Class action against Yahoo Personals and Match.com for fraud Posted: 11/20/2005 10:09:52 PM
That is completely horrifying..... considering the fact that it really makes you wonder about buisness' nowadays.... I'm just glad that I'm a member here where I know that the people sending me mail aren't perfect enough to make me think that the admin and hosts are sending me false mail (not that it would benefit them anyway, because I'm too broke to pay anything) but.... I do know this: I feel so bad about those people that are being conned out of their money thinking it is getting them some sort of future happiness in the mix... I feel plenty bad enough when someone mails me and then stops for no reason, but when you find out that the "hottie with a great personality" turns out to be the same guy you're paying to get you the one and only, that must just be a shocker. I hope those companies pay for their crimes against us humans. thank you and goodnight. -Dave

Joined: 6/20/2005

Msg: 21 (view)

Why do guys act like they like you one minute..then the next they don't Posted: 6/27/2005 8:40:02 PM
I don't want to sound cold-hearted, because I do feel for you because I have had it happen to me at times as well.... I can just say a lot of guys on the internet (not trying to make a stereotype, because there are a lot of good ones I'm sure, and even a lot of internet women do this too) they either ARE interested, but a few dates into it, you might do something that slighty reminds them of a traumatizing relationship, and they get scared fearing the same heartbreak as before.... OR they are doing that simply for their own satisfaction, the knowledge that someone wants them and they want to make themselves "unavailable" to said person and hurt that one (or more than one's) feelings because they feel that if someone wants them enough to cry or feel bad about them not wanting them all of a sudden, it makes them smile..... simply put, they do it to give themselves an EGO BOOST. thanks for listening, -Dave

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