Oh go cry in your borscht! Women DO want nice guys, but they want guys with gumption. Look it up.
So not bad, just "aggressive"? I think you mostly proved his point.
Being that I'm not that sort of guy, I'm pretty jaded too. Not that it'll stop me though — life's too miserable without hope, and I'd hardly be the first guy to violate the "bad boys get the girl" stereotype.