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yankee again

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What does she want? Posted: 11/2/2009 9:56:32 PM
Maybe she is just a friendly person.

yankee again

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approaching a woman cold turkey... Posted: 11/2/2009 9:53:59 PM
NOt asking is a missed opportunity. Write the name of the place down nad ask her handing her the information. Ask her to bring a freind if you will not be escorting her. Could be fun. Ice breaker for you as well.

yankee again

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I need some help and advice, please....... Posted: 11/2/2009 9:48:32 PM
It is not uncommon to feel this way...... questioning. but understand one thing your kids need a strong person, someone that is there for them. Worrying about the gf of the week is not a good thing. Show then stability and stong parent and you will be fine. You cannot control any thing but yourself. Children see the truth. They may not say it, but they see it. Hang in there, it is not easy. Let your kids know every day you love them and that you are there for them.

yankee again

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parental contact after the nest is left--how often do you speak to your kids? Posted: 10/16/2009 9:00:30 PM
My daughters are now in there late 20's I talk to them via computer more then any thing else now. When they were first on their own it was daily and weekly then after 5 years its about once every 3 weeks i get a "real call. " I am happy with my daily computer chats of hello.... they are busy ladies and well adjusted. I do miss the weekly calls but they need space as well. It is hard when they first leave the nest. Get busy with your own life. They are with theirs. Make time to be together and enjoy it.

yankee again

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Definition of Normal, Please Posted: 10/16/2009 8:42:29 PM
Normal hahahah what is normal......????

yankee again

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The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 10/1/2009 12:18:58 AM
SAg's are wonderful lovers. Great providers. However, they usally come with a lot of anger. They bottle things up and expode. You cannot change that, but there are warnings. They don't like confrontaions or rocking of the boat. It has to be smooth all the time. And frankly life is not always smooth,. Sag's run from drama and they run from LIFE to live in the fantasy of what they want. This has been my exereince with sag's. : I dated 2 different ones with differnt upbringing results the same.

yankee again

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GEMINI'S..........what was your experience? Posted: 10/1/2009 12:12:10 AM
OMG it was wonderful on even number days and bad on odd number days. I tried it for 4 months to only get out happily alive. No more geminis for me I learned a valuable lesson.

yankee again

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are u too picky? Posted: 10/1/2009 12:06:57 AM
Bald would not bother me. 1. is for me

yankee again

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Support groups. Posted: 9/23/2009 9:16:14 PM
PWP as great for me and my daughters I went for the camping, did not date in the group. I was young and so were my daughters. Any single group can be a meat market It is all on how you handle it. I met many nice folks and to this day still invite them to my home for cook outs. Along with PWP I also belonged to group in my church and a form as well in town. It was all positive expereinces for me and my daughters.

yankee again

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widow needs advice on custody issue Posted: 9/23/2009 9:08:02 PM
allination of parental rights comes in to play here. Your in TN you can apply for a state lawyer they get paid on a fee basis of income. Every county seat has the office there. The lawyers you spoke to should have advised you of this. Leagl aid society they will give you reduced fees and set things up for you. Depending on your county they will work closly with the judges to make certain your child can communicate with you. She ( your friend)only needed paperwork for temp custody to add her to the incusrance. Singing your rights away was not a good thing. But that is water under the bridge. TN has strick laws and like many states seperation of a parent from child is a no no. I stuck with my kids and kept us as a family. Sad you had to give your child away. Good luck undoing this I will keep you in my prayers.

yankee again

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IMPORTANT --> Spyware - Popups, Homepage Changing Posted: 9/23/2009 8:44:01 AM
never had a problem till big fish told me to change the pass word. today my screen changed when trying to send mail. So annoying. so i did change the pass word What is up with this action???

yankee again

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Is there any interest in a Delaware/Philadelphia area Meet-up? Posted: 9/9/2009 8:08:40 PM
Count me in for philly.

yankee again

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best western - lansdale exit of turn pike Posted: 8/8/2009 7:36:26 PM
there is a group average age is 40-50 that meet there on Fridays. So you may meet many there. On occasion I have been found there on a friday night...........on the dance floor is where I am......

yankee again

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Dating an individual with no children, how much of an issue is it? Posted: 7/26/2009 9:39:11 PM
MY kids have have moved out and are independent. I dated quit a few men with no children their views of life are very different then mine. I find they usally want younger women and they cannot share well. But that is my experenice I am certain they are not all that way. On the other hand I am now dating a 50 something with a 13 year old. His visitaion schedule is so out of wack we have no adult time. And I really don't want to spend my date nights with him and his son. Maybe i need to stop dating all together,

yankee again

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Can a leopard change his spots? Posted: 7/11/2009 9:42:28 PM
Core vaules rarly change. If they do you are in for the roller coaster ride of your life. Leopards cannot change their spots. But they can get a dye job when it wears off its still a leopard so beware. MY adult children had the basics at home, when they went off to college and on to the world they changed to be an adult. But the core values are still there.

yankee again

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Advice on marital status? Posted: 7/11/2009 9:18:45 AM
Legaly your still married being seprated down not limit what your soon to be x wife can aquire. In the eyes of the law yoru married. And in my eyes your a player

yankee again

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Zodiac signs... whats yours and does it fit you? Posted: 7/11/2009 9:15:20 AM
Virgo...........

yankee again

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Confessing Your Needs Posted: 7/6/2009 3:03:35 AM
confessing Needs?????? i have no idea what you mean. 'wants or needs are different.

yankee again

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Over 40 crowd. Women calling. Do men like it??? Posted: 6/29/2009 5:44:18 AM
I am old fashioned here, if we have a repore I will call. If it is one sided I don't. That means he has to show interest as well.

yankee again

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To wear make-up or not - 1st date Posted: 6/29/2009 5:42:09 AM
This is a not brainer. Well for me it is. I get showered and dressed and then decide. And keep in thought, less is more. I dress for me. Not my date. I am a individual. Love me as I am. But I would go with what makes me feel comfotable. I am a basic no makeup person. A little lip color goes a long way. Stop worrying. And dress to impress you and realax and enjoy.

yankee again

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Heard a cute joke recently.. Posted: 6/28/2009 6:52:51 AM
Thanks guys they were great..............

yankee again

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What would you say to the love of your life? Posted: 6/27/2009 1:00:12 AM
Hine sight is 20/20 Life is too short to live in the "What if's " of it.....go grab it before it runs away.................. and old song comes to mind..............Hold me, Thrill me, Kiss me .....Never never let me go..........Maybe that is what we need to do. :)

yankee again

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Is flirting the right thing to do? Posted: 6/27/2009 12:53:08 AM
according to men posting on here everyting we do is flirting except money chat and kids.

yankee again

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Lower Standards For Free Dating Sites? Posted: 6/27/2009 12:50:25 AM
Nope my standards are the same.......HIGH....................I am on a paid site as well........Free seems to work better too..............

yankee again

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Becoming Musicians later in life Posted: 6/26/2009 11:53:11 PM
I think its great, but that is me. Maybe they did not have the time as a child to explore their art. Musicans are artists and it is a pasttime that can make them happy and make money as well. I find it a great attribute to a person. As many in the arts would share their talent. A muscian is no different that a person that collect coins. It all in what you admire in a person. As you can tell I love muscians.

yankee again

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Do you hold back in forums to improve your profile? Posted: 6/26/2009 11:40:15 PM
NOpe its me...................like it or move on............If i post to appeal to all......who would i be...................a rug ???? door mat..... do you want mary poppins all the time??

yankee again

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Does chemistry happen immediately? Posted: 6/26/2009 9:27:08 PM
got rejected no chemistry in the email : cute note and the attached wine glasses I guess guys don't like "cute"............. He thanked me and said sorry no chemistry.

yankee again

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She said I betrayed her trust Posted: 6/26/2009 1:59:50 AM
a house hold account should have been set up for the bills...........then no one has to account for anything. A saving account for the wedding bills. And she shold have allowed you to see where the money was going.

yankee again

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What am I doing wrong? Posted: 6/26/2009 1:54:54 AM
OP Your doing nothing wrong...........Pick better guys, ones that like what you want to do. And enjoy being you.

yankee again

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What would you say to the love of your life? Posted: 6/26/2009 1:25:54 AM
cee cee eat some cake and send them a note. I saw you across the room.......Fear caught me. I froze in your sight. Add a few great adjectives and see where it goes.

yankee again

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What Made You Happy Or Smile Today..? Posted: 6/26/2009 12:09:52 AM
I got a ticket to KennyChesney wohooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo Going to be a great concert, I will be there.

yankee again

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Profile Pictures Posted: 6/26/2009 12:04:25 AM
Protecting your identity is good. You did send a picture so that is on the dude. Don't let one bad apple spoil the whole bunch.

yankee again

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addiction recovery and dating risk Posted: 6/25/2009 11:56:46 PM
Rule one they need one year of sobrity before they can commit. Run girl run..........it is not worth the pain. I just got out of one reationship I met on line. He claimed to be in AA. Quoted the books well. But he could not walk the walk. Alanon will tell you to go on with your life. It is not worth it until he is sober and working a program. Go to alanon. And protect yourself. Not all addicts are the same. Beware you need guidance.

yankee again

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too many oposite sex friends..... Posted: 6/25/2009 11:42:42 PM
Thanks Dave interesting twist there,

yankee again

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Does chemistry happen immediately? Posted: 6/25/2009 11:40:43 PM
I think it depends on the people. I met one guy from this site we had wonderful chemisty right off the bat. Sadly it burned out on his side. but we had 5 months of happy times.,......for that I am greatful. Gave me hope it can happen. Some times its a quiet ember and it flares up when the time is right. Like a log when you think it is burning out gives off one more bright light.

yankee again

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ok aside from the bad pictures Posted: 6/25/2009 8:59:12 AM
OKay.......................thanks yet again..go figure i ask a guy and its a woman helping me. Thank you again hurricane.

yankee again

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ok aside from the bad pictures Posted: 6/25/2009 8:06:44 AM
Thanks hurricane.........................going back to fix that LOl can you tell I am math major not english LOL

yankee again

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ok aside from the bad pictures Posted: 6/25/2009 12:17:51 AM
Thank you for you kindness in this. Mr Wutz. I will keep ya posted I am in the PA and NJ forms as well...........Have a great week...:)

yankee again

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ok aside from the bad pictures Posted: 6/24/2009 11:48:05 PM
Thanks mr Wutz..............i am going back to work one context. AS for emails I have the age limit for a reason. you can al;wasy contact me in the pa forms if you really wanted too................: ) Thanks again

yankee again

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How about this? Posted: 6/24/2009 11:19:26 PM
one question: why did you live so many places ..???.........that sends red flags to me as being ustable. You may want to say you visited them and list a few.

yankee again

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Tell me what you think Posted: 6/24/2009 10:45:15 PM
Looks good to me . Great pictures and great information I am not a fan of the testimonal pages. Good luck in the army when you are go.

yankee again

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ok aside from the bad pictures Posted: 6/24/2009 10:40:58 PM
i hear ya as i posted that will be fixed?? What about content of profile???? is it all in the pictures>>>???

yankee again

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ok aside from the bad pictures Posted: 6/24/2009 10:31:21 PM
Please give me some insight. Guys only. Sorry ladies. I have some luck with getting responces. But I want more. Any advise is good. BE gentle I know the pictures are an issue. I will fix that this week. I have a buddy coming over to take some pictures. If you are over 45 even better.

yankee again

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too many oposite sex friends..... Posted: 6/24/2009 10:23:14 PM
allowing him to do it. LOL ok thanks carrie........................

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too many oposite sex friends..... Posted: 6/24/2009 8:20:30 PM
Thank you blues Good luck to you as well.

yankee again

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too many oposite sex friends..... Posted: 6/24/2009 7:24:03 PM
ty Scott and Shadow. He is history. And he knows it. It's all good.....................time for new fishes.

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too many oposite sex friends..... Posted: 6/24/2009 7:05:51 AM
ty blueeyes you hit it that respect issue.

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too many oposite sex friends..... Posted: 6/24/2009 6:36:14 AM
BAldy he did not ask me to go to Friends.................

yankee again

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over fortyfive, we need hearts like chocolate Posted: 6/24/2009 3:05:46 AM
My heart is covered with magic shell as it warms it opens back up. Many people at this age of life have hardened hearts. Sad to think about. However, it is true. I would love to hope that if they are on a dating site or dating at all the heart is still able to be opened to the prospect of love.

yankee again

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He seems like a gentelman, but neglects his dog : red flag? Posted: 6/20/2009 9:52:30 PM
REd flags for me, how they treat the pets, the kids and the neighbors.

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