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Joined: 6/22/2005

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First Impressiions - Is it live or is it memorex ( real or unreal ) Posted: 1/19/2006 11:49:04 AM
The real issue now is : how does one make a good impression on this site ? Is it possible ? I wonder sometime, perhaps if "filling in" my profile with a bit of pink colour, would increase its chances ? Then again, what difference does it make?

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 1/18/2006 5:16:38 PM
I read profiles of those women that have a photo because i want to see what you look like. if looks are ageeable to me, then I read the entire profile. I have included a photo of myself in my profile for the very same reason. I do not judge by looks alone - you may be very pretty but have a personality that conflicts with me, and, at the same time, a girl may be OK looking but have have a bubbly, cheerful. and warm personality that really attracts me. Unfortunately, this you really can not tell from a profile alone but we can try.

Joined: 6/22/2005

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First Impressiions - Is it live or is it memorex ( real or unreal ) Posted: 1/18/2006 12:13:36 PM
First Impressions are superficial - are they not? How much truth is in them? First Impressions are very unfair - they do not reveal the true person, just one's perception of someone else based on first exposures. It could be based on actual first meeting, writings, or some other form of communication. Insufficient presentation of a person as well as wrong perceptions can be made; why do we allow first impressions to portay a person then? Is it, in the case of a job application, interview process, we have limited time and energy? We should not judge a person by its cover - what is "given off" on first impressions - these impressions are almost always wrong. In social situations and other situations time, energy, and patience are required to reveal an appropriate 'portrait" of a person. What is necessary in a person to make him or her worth seeing a 2nd time? First impressions are very unfair.

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Is it possible that girls are intimidated by me? Posted: 12/7/2005 9:20:54 AM
OK. Two things right off the top. Never claim you make money off your looks. Whether you do or don't, it sounds fishy - I guess thats why your on this site. Ok, bad joke; I'm sorry. But do you see the point? - sounds egotistical ( all that stuff - fake ). Its fine to say your good-looking but don't go overboard. After all, we all need to portray a good, SINCERE profile. Second of all, the use of the word PLAY is not appropriate in the context that its in. If PLAY is indicative of how you see women - some toy - I am sorry to say it, but its for your own good - clean up your ATTITUDE or people will continue PLAYING with your message. You might be sincere and down to earth - but women generally like good mature communication right off the start in order to make a good FIRST IMPRESSION. All that said, you sound very nice. Don't get discouraged. Even I have been given a bit of harsh advice, & I'm sure all of us have, but we all have to keep trying. Remember - good & sincere first impressions. Don't use words that have a conatations attached to them. Good Luck.

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Signs of love? Posted: 11/16/2005 7:50:59 AM
I agree, seek the 5 love languages - words of affirmation, quality time, receiving/ giving gifts, acts of service. physical touch.

Joined: 6/22/2005

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The Truth Posted: 11/16/2005 7:33:24 AM
The truth may hurt sometimes, but your not helping by lying and say its good when its not. How can he/she improve? I agree compliment what you liked of the meal and gently provide constructive critizism on the bad points. Even go as far as cooking together so you both can learn and improve together. Thats what life is all about isn't ? - Live, Love, Learn, and laugh.

Joined: 6/22/2005

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my poem that says it all... Posted: 11/16/2005 7:15:14 AM
That poem really does say it all. The scary part of it is some people are so wrapped up in themselves ( ego, masks ) and things in life that they never really discover who they are. But, the exciting part, is that we all still have a chance, we have now and the future.

Joined: 6/22/2005

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First date ... who pays? Posted: 11/16/2005 6:45:05 AM
As a general rule the guy pays for the first date, otherwise why go out. It has to do with respect and showing a good impression. Treat her right and she'll do the same and show you respect.

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Internet dating is waste of time - My opinion Posted: 7/7/2005 4:25:50 AM
The problem is, I don't have better luck in bars and coffe shops, but I'm thinking that i should be more aggressive.

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Why is it that often the most beautiful women marry the least good looking guys ? Posted: 7/6/2005 8:23:28 PM
Maybe, just maybe, they are more mature than guys are and see the person behind the looks - personality not appearance

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Young girls Posted: 7/6/2005 8:19:29 PM
If I were just so lucky!!!

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Internet dating is waste of time - My opinion Posted: 7/6/2005 7:18:16 PM
Having been a member of other internet introduction services and this one, I find this to be a total waste of time. For one thing, the very few people that write me or even reply to me just seem to "chat" - e-mailing back and forth - their not serious - just playing games. there are game rooms and chat rooms for that. I do not need that. My time and I'm sure everyone else's is valuable. Second of all, some people seem to think in order to protect themselves they must lie or exaggerate the truth about thrmselves - why? There is a computer screen and several miles between the two communicators. What do you have to hide? This is the reason e-mailing on services like this are tremendously impersonal. Just don't give out private information. You have to take a risk and be truthful. Otherwise, the whole thing is a hoax. How are we supposed to know whose sincere and whose not. Its everyones responsibilty to maintain integrity. This is an excellent fascility to meet and peruse fascinating people, but put in the wrong hands, this service can be disaterous. So far for me, the latter is the case. I'm willing to be sincere and repond appropriately to everyone that writes me - how about you? And don't give me the exuse that one must be original and interesting in their first respnse to a person's profile! They don't even know each other and what else do you say then "I find your profile interesting. Check out mine and ... " In my case, I could have better luck in a coffee shop or even the deaded night club - I don't even want to think about it. What are your feelings?

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Canadian Parliament passes Same Sex Marriage Legislation Posted: 6/29/2005 5:46:00 PM
This law is just wrong. God did not create man and woman so they can marry in their own gender. What is Canada coming to? What people do in their own homes is their business but when it comes to marriage, noway.

Joined: 6/22/2005

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-sighs- Come on People! Posted: 6/26/2005 10:03:31 PM
NL don't you have some one to chat to? You should go to a chat room.

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how many people have you met from this site? Posted: 6/26/2005 9:52:22 PM
Because I'm rather new I have not met anyone yet. I just posted my picture today. Everyone check it out!

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