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MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Would u re-locate if asked by someone u were serious 4? Posted: 8/26/2005 3:51:38 PM
Yes I would, it's in the works, and I am looking forward to it.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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To my Forum Stalkers: Posted: 8/24/2005 4:06:05 PM
Life is always good when you've been for a swim in a gorgeous Nova Scotian lake, it's your birthday, you're not dead, there's birthday cake (chocolate with 'nilla icing) downstairs, an eleven year old who's kicking your ar$e at Galaga and Pole Position, your dog is cuddling with you, and no one's fighting you for the remote control!

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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What were you told about the birds and the bees growing up? Posted: 8/24/2005 4:01:48 PM
I wasn't told anything. I had to figure it out on my own. Now I'm a pervert. See what happens?

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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To my Forum Stalkers: Posted: 8/24/2005 3:57:20 PM
Heh, naw... I'm obsessively stalking him too.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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To my Forum Stalkers: Posted: 8/24/2005 3:46:13 PM
Whoohoo! I'm guessing that it went over very well? snicker I'm just kinda kicking back in Nova Scotia whilst I figure out how to pick up my things in Maine and head west. Methinks I have a stalker out there.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Talking with an out-of-your-state POF'er: Do you or don't you? Posted: 8/24/2005 3:42:49 PM
I am talking to someone. Yeah, I like it. Plan to meet. Plan to hold him hostage. Plan to raise goldfish.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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To my Forum Stalkers: Posted: 8/24/2005 3:36:50 PM
Sorry hon -- but I decided to bow out and just not say anything for a while. I wasn't sure how to handle things, and there are some things (obviously) that can't seem to be kept under control. I didn't want to start a ruckus, make anyone feel the need to choose loyalties, etc. Sometimes when you don't know how to say goodbye, or even how to explain your reasons, it's best to just leave it alone. Unfortunately, in my leaving it alone, I allowed my forum stalkers to start some interesting rumors about me. Now that I took care of the rumors, it seems they still can't stand following behind me and reading my every post. Hell, I've even consistantly removed one of them from putting me on their favourites list, but they've put me back every time. I'm assuming it's to keep tabs on me since the other party manages to always know when and where I am posting, posts a reply to my comment, and then reports my original post to the other half. I hate to say it -- but the forum stalkers are a major reason why I declined to speak to anyone. When people are keeping a constant watch on you like that -- who the hell do you talk to? Anything you say or do is just going to be the subject of speculation and rumor. I met some really nice people, thought that you and Chris were wonderful, fell absolutely in love with Shake, etc -- but due to the negativity, it's spiraled out of control. Just know that everyone I met back there was great, and I appreciated your friendships as short lived as they were.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Does being alone scare you? Posted: 8/24/2005 2:36:33 PM
I'm not skeered... I'm also not skeered of the dark -- just what's in the dark. (I'm just skeered of what's in the pond these days!)

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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To my Forum Stalkers: Posted: 8/24/2005 2:32:26 PM
You got it baby.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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To my Forum Stalkers: Posted: 8/24/2005 1:45:08 PM
Please stop forum stalking me -- You know who you are. I'm not botheing either one of you. You said that I was the one that needed to "move on" and that I was "nuts" when I confronted you for spreading rumors to people. Then when I confirmed it was you -- you acted like you were supposedly doing me a favour? Who's the one's who need to move on? I don't bother either one of you. I don't say sht to anyone down there. I'm letting you live behind those rosey glasses you are both wearing, and letting you have your little friends even though I truly miss some of those people. I dropped them all like hot rocks so you could play your little games. If you don't like a post I make somewhere, deal with it. I haven't liked some of your whiney posts about how you "left" the "unsupporting partner". Keep in mind how long I asked you for a divorce and you cried telling me "no". For the last time, stop harassing me. You're the all-american man, right? Last time I checked, you were mr. patriotic, right? Hey -- what happened to that "freedom of speech" thing? I can say what I like, when I like -- without you threatening to end support. (You know, the way you are scamming your country into paying you as a married man and then only giving me $250 on the first and fifteenth?) I am making a conscious effort to leave out many other things I could say -- but I will make this comment mr. patriot: When you get so worked up about seeing me say something about you -- knowing that no one knows who you are -- it sounds like the guilt is finally getting to you. Oh yeah, and btw -- you were NEVER a member of the "group back in Alabama". Keep in mind that I* was in leadership for FIVE YEARS, since before you came and after you left. You were not only NOT a member, but even requested NOT to attend because you were a joke who treated people like sht. Stop claiming to be members and even attendees of groups that didn't affliate themselves with you. Every day your own "friends" in the group told me to get the hell away from a joke like you -- but I stuck with you -- even beyond your actions that ended us. Anymore false claims about groups you'd like to make? Want to claim to know more than you do about anything else? Perhaps your girlfriend cares to share details of my life with people? (You know, the girlfriend who's never met me but knew a LOT more than I* ever told her with a curious twist that sounded oh-so-like-you?) Care to stalk me through the forums anymore? Have a nice day -- and sorry to the friends I left behind -- but they needed people to love them, and I have all the love I need without begging for it.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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If he is online, when you are online and he doesn't say HI! Is that a sign? Posted: 8/24/2005 12:47:24 PM
Hell, I hope it isn't a sign.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Sex and dating? Posted: 8/24/2005 7:04:39 AM
Well, lemme see... Sex I can do without dating, and dating I can do without sex... ...but is either really worth it without the other?

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Define DATING! Posted: 8/24/2005 6:36:14 AM
Yeah, pretty much the same here. Dating for me is hanging out with someone and testing the waters within a defined parameter. Basically, doing what I would do with friends with the added bonus of perhaps a kiss or something that expresses that we are more than "just friends", but not more than that.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Have you ever walked out in the middle of a date or do you just grin and bare it Posted: 8/24/2005 6:10:41 AM
grins I've never had a date go bad because either of us was boring... A friend of mine used to always say, "Only boring people get bored!" If I have a bad date, it's because he got too touchy-feely too soon, got drunk as hell and became unmanagable, did something so stupid that you could tell it wasn't an accident (yeah, he was really that stupid), made me feel uncomfortable (as in, potential rapist/stalker) or just flat out confessed that he didn't really want to date and just wanted friends with benefits. Heh, I'm nobody's booty call.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Would you date someone that is going to be deployed? Posted: 8/24/2005 5:43:06 AM
It's not the time apart that is the deal breaker with me -- absence makes the heart grow fonder, or so they say. I suppose you could say that if someone feels strongly enough about something, there's no way that you can compromise sometimes. If there are already enough problems in the relationship (such as the man already cheating), then trusting a cheating, lying man to go off on deployment isn't going to work. Especially when they are telling you about the prostitutes at certain ports, the different diseases that guys have come back to the ship with, and how "Don't worry honey, I got tested for STDs and I don't have any!", suggesting that they've screwed around and they got lucky enough not to catch anything. I've had long distance relationships and been involved with military men before and didn't have the same problems -- but after this last ex and his proud "I didn't catch anything, yay!" comments, I wouldn't trust another man. Like I said -- it's all in why you serve. My ex that I share children with was in the Air Force, supported his country, didn't shove it in my face, worked hard, wasn't paid enough (because the government does NOT pay them enough for their work) and never used his political views just to p*ss me off.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Tell us about your pet Posted: 8/24/2005 5:05:13 AM
I have my widdle doggy Pixie... and she's the greatest doggy in the world. She's been traveling with me, she's put up with a lot of moving around, and she never ever leaves my side. If I move two paces to the right, she moves with me and stands right next to me. If I get even remotely upset, she curls up in my lap and rolls on her belly and looks up at me. Sometimes she'll try nipping my nose till I laugh and then she jumps up and slurps my chin. My cute widdle Pixie is the sweetest dog in the world. The really strange thing is, this is a Chihuahua I'm talking about. Not normally known to be the kind of dogs that sit right next to you when you are standing or curled up in your lap when you are sitting. Granted, right now she thinks she's a scarf because she's asleep wrapped around my neck.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Would you date someone that is going to be deployed? Posted: 8/24/2005 4:42:20 AM
I guess this is when I have to intentionally put myself in the line of fire. I would not, nor will ever date a man about to go on deployment. I will not, nor will I ever date a man in the military again. I have discovered that my political values are too far from those willing to participate in a war I don't agree with. It's one thing to serve your country, it's another to do it senselessly and without question. I was married to a man that I made it very clear to that I didn't support the current president, and I didn't want him in the military. He was a worthless loser who couldn't keep a job (Got fired from his good one for phone sex at work with some bimbo in New York he was cheating with) and admittedly I wasn't making enough to carry us through so my father was footing the bill for his Columbia House CD/DVD and BMG Music addiction. I relented because I was sick of having to ask my parents for money because he was a worthless chickensht who wouldn't borrow from his own mommy and daddy. (Considering he lived off his mommy till he was nearly thirty, I guess she would have told him to go fck himself anyway.) Needless to say he joined the Navy, and became more of a cheating, lying, no good, worthless, crappy photographer and wh*re than he already was. There's nothing like a good, long deployment to ruin an already shakey relationship. For those that have chosen to serve their country and support the President, of course please pat yourself on the back for standing up for what you believe in -- however, I am strongly against military service for the wrong reasons, and fake patriotism just to look good, make poor money, and turn the ladies heads.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Why are you single? Posted: 8/24/2005 4:31:02 AM
snicker You know's worse? This guy was born, raised, and had really never even left Alabama. I'm surprised he wore shoes.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Why are you single? Posted: 8/24/2005 4:03:48 AM
Because the men I've been with tend to have three basic problems: 1) Cheating 2) Lying 3) Momma's boy Go figure. I should have known better with the last one. When I met him he was almost thirty and still living at home with his Mommy, unable to get laid unless he was making love to a keyboard, and then I found out that his last girlfriend was seventeen and hadn't even graduated high school. Pitiful. It's better to be single than with a 'tard like that.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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why are men more interested in boobs than anything else? Posted: 8/24/2005 3:27:07 AM
...when they think of you they touch themselves.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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I attract what Im not attracted to Posted: 8/24/2005 3:25:24 AM
I'm fat and skeery, smoke too much and drink before five on Sundays. Will you marry me?

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Best Pick Up Lines !!! Posted: 8/24/2005 3:17:39 AM
...and what an interesting read it is, too!

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Does this site really work? Posted: 8/24/2005 3:16:31 AM
Well, let's see... if I added up the requests for meaningless sex/one night stands, I'd have more "dates" than I could fill up this year with. If I tallied the number of men that have suggested to me that they would love to have a more regular dating (sexual) routine with me, I could fill up vacation time. If I summed up those that wanted to consider a monogamous, yet not entirely life-long commitment, I'd have someone new to visit for each of the holidays. ...and if I took into account the man that has suggested that he'd be interested in something permanent, well, he's plenty.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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What happened to nice kind hearted girls???? Posted: 8/24/2005 3:10:57 AM
I'm not real. I'm just a delusional illusion. Go back to sleep.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Best Pick Up Lines !!! Posted: 8/24/2005 3:08:16 AM
Whatever happened to the simple, "Hi... Want to f*ck?"

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Have you ever walked out in the middle of a date or do you just grin and bare it Posted: 8/24/2005 3:06:00 AM
At parties or other social gatherings of large groups of friends, I've always been known to take off through the back door when no one was looking so that I could get the hell out without anyone saying, "Oh please don't go!" or whatever. At first it drove everyone crazy -- but then they came to realize that if I let everyone know I was leaving, it'd take me a half hour to get through the "don't go yet" and all the damned hugs. What does this have to do with anything? Well, if I will just disappear from a party and not even tell my own friends goodbye -- then I'd sure as hell walk out on a bad date. What the hell do I care if I hurt his widdle feelings? If he's such a bad date that I can't stick it out, then it's not like I am going to have a broken heart when he sends me a message saying, "that was mean". If the date's a loser and it's heading nowhere, pick up your things and take off.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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You all have my empathy, and prayers. Posted: 8/23/2005 10:31:55 PM
I've survived quite a few things that should have killed me... and currently, I'm officially celebrating my thirty-first birthday today. I was diagnosed with kidney disease when I was seventeen. I was told I had at most ten years to live before I would require a transplant or die. Thirty-one minus seventeen equals what? FOURTEEN. Bite my tush doctors -- I'm not dead yet, and don't plan on going anytime soon.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Foo Foo's Posted: 8/23/2005 9:41:16 PM
...because our ugly, worn out t-shirts are the most comfy. Not to mention, some of us are always hoping that the man in our life will decide that he hates the damned shirt, will get a knife, and cut it off us before tracing our curves with the blade. sighs

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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what did your parents call your willie when you were a toddler Posted: 8/23/2005 9:31:35 PM
My parents didn't say anything about it -- so I never thought about it. My daughter on the other hand walked in during a South Park episode and started calling little girl parts "Who-who" and boy parts "Dilly". (On South Park the penis was a whoo-whoo-dilly.) This was all well and good till she had a baby brother who got circumsized -- I took her to Dairy Queen to get her some ice cream, and the woman behind the counter asked her if she wanted a "Dilly bar". Needless to say, my daughter screamed and hasn't ever really liked DQ since. She thinks that's what happens to the leftovers from circumcision. They become frozen chocolate covered treats and slipped to unsuspecting children.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Shy guys? Posted: 8/23/2005 9:17:19 PM
I've always liked shy guys... they are the ones that seem to be the most interesting once you get them to open up. They are always worth the effort.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Special Gifts Posted: 8/23/2005 9:12:11 PM
I have a friend who's been there for a long time, through thick and thin with me. Well, many, many moons ago, it was another birthday -- and every year my family and such were bound to forget it. I didn't ever really do much for my birthday because it was always depressing to see just how forgetable it always seemed to be. Then he, and several other people showed up with one of those giant birthday cookies. I'll never forget how damned happy I was that he didn't forget me. Today (the 24th) is my birthday again -- and he was, as always, the first person to call me and tell me happy birthday. I love ya Slye -- you're the greatest friend a person could ever have, and when I think back over the years and adventures we've had, you've always been the truest. When I have needed someone you were there. You stood beside me no matter what, and you have always backed me. You're the best kind of friend -- the kind you'd trust with your life.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Thinking of moving to Canada Posted: 8/23/2005 5:39:03 PM
Hell, I HAVE moved to Canada -- and I gotta say that the women aren't the only ones looking good! (Dooley's is a nice pool hall, btw.)

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Should salary determine relationships? Posted: 8/23/2005 5:37:08 PM
I don't care how much money someone makes because I live in a perpetual state of "broke as a joke". If I do ask someone what they do for a living, it's because I am genuinely interested in their line of work. With the profession I am in, I like to see if what we do all day is going to mesh, or if he's going to come home complaining about something so logical that it's beyond me. (In other words, I don't care if he makes a fortune as a nuclear engineer -- if he's too logical for my illogical, playful nature, we won't really connect.)

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Tattoos on the breasts Posted: 8/23/2005 5:29:39 PM
I have a large tattoo across my breasts/breastbone. I happen to like it. shrug

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Boring Sex Posted: 8/23/2005 5:25:48 PM
Yeah, but thankfully he's moved on elsewhere and I don't have to deal with Mr. no-foreplay-go-for-the-gold-I'm-sorry-I-have-premature-ejaculation-and-all-I-can-manage-is-oral-let-me-over-work-your-lovenub. That was by far the most boring sexual nightmare I ever had -- and five years of only getting off with the assistance of battery operated friends got old fast.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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religion and relationships Posted: 8/23/2005 5:20:16 PM
I am bothered by someone who has no faith in something greater than himself, so I tend to only enter relationships with those who follow some sort of religion -- even if it is just a private form. I'm Pagan, so I don't give a d*mn what religion someone is. I love religious debate, and I would really like to have someone around that at least shares some of my views.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Public Affection? What is your take on it? Posted: 8/23/2005 5:17:08 PM
Public affection is great.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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tattoos Posted: 8/21/2005 8:37:48 PM
I have a lot of tattoos and piercings. I'd never hold it against anyone.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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perfection Posted: 8/21/2005 8:31:28 PM
I've never looked for the perfect someone -- I just wanted them to be perfect for me.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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what is the difference between someone stalking you and pursuing you? Posted: 8/21/2005 6:39:01 PM
Stalking or Pursuing? It doesn't matter. I'll accept either. Good. In that case, I'm going to stalk you until I have your attention and can pursue you.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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And Your Biggest First Date Turn Off Isssss???? Posted: 8/19/2005 3:07:27 PM
Turn Off: Bringing your OTHER date. Turn On: Biting.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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whats the weirdest/stupidest email u had? Posted: 8/19/2005 3:05:10 PM
I had someone ask me to go with them to Jamaica in their first email. I laughed it off and wrote them back that hell, I'd love to go... Then he sent me scanned copied of the tickets he bought. I decided he was either completely insane, or just screwing around.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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what is the difference between someone stalking you and pursuing you? Posted: 8/19/2005 2:55:33 PM
It's only stalking after s/he has said, "You're scaring me, I'm getting a protection order". Since I haven't been told that yet -- I will continue to stalk a certain person. snicker

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Superstitious. Are you? Posted: 8/18/2005 10:46:00 AM
I'm pretty superstitious... but I try not to be. Unfortunately, I tend to create my own superstitions. Such as, when my ex would leave for extended periods of time we had a running chess game going. As long as the game was in play, everything would be fine and he would have to come back. Then a friend intentionally knocked over the chessboard while my ex was gone just to screw with my head and show me that nothing could go wrong. Now, my ex and I are divorced -- and this all happened right after he got back. I was right -- things can go wrong. snicker

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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what is your favorite drink??????????? Posted: 8/17/2005 11:27:46 AM
Anything he ^^^ wants me to drink.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Peddlers Plenty of Fish Night (Drinks are some cheap) Who's In? Yay or Nay? Posted: 8/17/2005 8:59:41 AM
I'm in... (That's a big "yea".)

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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what is your favorite drink??????????? Posted: 8/17/2005 8:58:11 AM
Jager Bomb Liquid Cocaine Beer Tequila shots Goldschlager Jager ...and I'm sure that given enough time I could think of a few more.

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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HALIFAX PLENTY OF FISH PUB CRAWL ~ >D ~ Who's In? Posted: 8/17/2005 8:56:31 AM
I'm up for a pub crawl... I'm also a bored to death artist who could possibly design something. ...and um, I'm in the mood for a jager bomb at every pub in Halifax and Dartmouth. Think we could hit them all over 48 hours? snicker

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 8/12/2005 7:33:23 PM
Hi, new to the area, just wanted to leave my mark here... so consider this page "marked".

MidnightsShadow

Joined: 6/22/2005

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Part 2 of the sex survey...take it if you dare. Posted: 8/8/2005 3:02:53 PM
What sexual aspects are you into?(X Check all that apply) _X_S&M _X_Submissive _X_Domination _X_Bisexuality _X_Voyeurism _X_Exhibitionism __Golden Showers _X_Greek/Anal _X_French/Oral __Foot Fetish _X_Humiliation _X_Masturbation _X_Pain __Swinging __Threesomes __Orgies _X_Public Sex _X_Role-Playing _X_Talking Dirty In what way do you feel the Internet contributes to sex? (check all that apply) __No value at all __Encourages perversion __Promotes safe-sex __It has helped my marriage __It has improved my sex-life __It has damaged my sex-life __It has made me more open-minded _X_It belittles the sanctity of the act __Discourages adultry _X_Encourages adultry __Promotes honest communication _X_Promotes deception __It is a benign outlet for sexual frustration What level of experience have you had with sex on the Net? (X check all that apply) __None, newbie __I see very little sexual content on the net _X_Exchanged erotic e-mail _X_Talked dirty in aol chat/msn chat _X_Downloaded erotic pictures _X_Posted erotic pictures __Masturbated while online __Masturbated to material downloaded _X_Had sex with someone met online _X_Watched erotic webcam broadcasts _X_Transmitted erotic webcam video __Erotic internet voice communication _X_Read online sex stories _X_Posted sex stories _X_Responded to an online personal ad _X_Placed an online personal ad _X_Purchased a sex-related product advertised on the net __Sex on the net? Where & When? _X_Meet off line and had sex

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