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alicia1989

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met on POF Posted: 9/16/2009 1:46:50 PM
So i met a amazing guy on here. We talked on the phone nonstop and texted all the time till one day he decided that he wanted to meet me . We both already had feeling for each other and it was obvious that we clicked. Met him everything was perfect we started hanging out every day it was amazing. He even told me he loved me after a few more weeks and i got very close to him he was no longer just a friend he was a best friend and a lover...Weeks still went on and he told me i was his soulmate and he knew i was the girl for him. Spent an amazing weekend with him and his family and then all of a sudden he started acting really different. Couple days went by havent been hearing from him as much then 2 days went by not hearing anything. He calls from a different number and says his phone was messed up. I could tell something was different by talking to him and he tells me he is still in love with his ex girlfriend and havnet heard from him now its been a week and my heart is hurting so bad to where i dont know if ill ever let anyone get this close again...

alicia1989

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picking guys up at the gym Posted: 7/28/2009 9:27:02 PM
to answer your question about going there to "really" work out yes i do i have worked my butt off and lost 40lbs so yea i do go there for me not to see how many guys i pick up i could care less

alicia1989

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picking guys up at the gym Posted: 7/28/2009 9:23:18 PM
im worried i might not have put on enough deodorant and they might smell me hahahahahaha kinda nasty to say but its the truth!

alicia1989

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picking guys up at the gym Posted: 7/28/2009 9:17:15 PM
well i usually wear jogging pants i mean there about as tight as blue jeans ...and like a tank top with yea a lil bit of clevage but not like anything major

alicia1989

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picking guys up at the gym Posted: 7/28/2009 9:03:41 PM
yea i usually go in there with no makeup or very little and lookin like a mess haha and if i spend 4 hours getting ready i wouldnt pick up guys like i do in the gym haha but i have heard about how you should never hook up with a guy at your gym but thats a totally diff subject! lol

alicia1989

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picking guys up at the gym Posted: 7/28/2009 8:51:49 PM
So i have been working out now after i get off of work everynight now for hmmm 4 months and i notice that i go to a gym thats almost a "club" with no alcohol. I get hit on a hell of a lot more working out then i do when im all dolled up haha its almost like why do i even get ready or is it that guys just think its hot that a girl goes to the gym? I never thought the sweaty nasty look would do it for me

alicia1989

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Do you guys suppor Obama's view on interracial marriage? Posted: 7/6/2009 4:03:22 PM
^ dont agree with that...

alicia1989

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Question for the ladies Posted: 7/6/2009 3:30:40 PM
i just posted a forum about this situation i have men tell me i am very "intimidating" kinda makes me mad . I think im attractive but i deff wouldnt be a 10

alicia1989

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Do you guys suppor Obama's view on interracial marriage? Posted: 7/6/2009 3:28:15 PM
im only attracted to people of my race too thats just me though!

alicia1989

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Help Posted: 7/6/2009 3:06:06 PM
I dont know any girl that would say "i dont think so" when i guy asks them out for a second date...thats harsh

alicia1989

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POF people in public Posted: 7/6/2009 3:04:45 PM
I have come to realize that i see POF people in my area all the time lol. And its always in a country bar and they will send me a message that night when they get home and the whole time ill be thinking "hmm that guy looks like a guy of pof" but im thinking i dont wanna go up to him and be like "uh hey do you get on Pof?" and he will look at me like wtf is that??? But it seems like they dont contact me untill i get home and say "hey i saw you here " But they never seem to say anything in "REAL" life. And ive had one guy say i am very "intimidating" and they dont approach me ? has anyone else had anything like this happen to them?

alicia1989

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im good enought to sleep with Posted: 7/6/2009 2:23:58 PM
Dub08 you took the words out of my mouth!!!

alicia1989

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First contact? Posted: 7/5/2009 12:09:34 PM
If your interested go for it :)

alicia1989

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final surprising update on golf girl Posted: 7/5/2009 12:08:35 PM
awww thats sad :(

alicia1989

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Mudding? Posted: 7/5/2009 12:07:12 PM
there isnt shit to do here but that kinda stuff lol

alicia1989

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How important is money? Posted: 7/5/2009 12:58:11 AM
This for me goes both ways 1. ive dated guys that have money and they seem to be very**** and think they can run all over you and that they can replace you very fast because they have money. 2 i have also dated a guy that didnt have a pot to piss in and i supported him for a year and a half and i was madly in love with the looser and i dont know why. 3. you have to think when you marry someone there credit is YOUR credit and if they have really bad credit and yours is very good you pretty much are screw'd .

alicia1989

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Needy People
Posted: 7/5/2009 12:39:06 AM

OK so i have a VERY needy friend she is my age (20) has 2 kids and has been married not separated. Ive known her for going on 4 years she has been there for me and i have been there for her. Everyone knows about the situation when you have kids the father usually gets them every other weekend. I am on this website to date guys and maybe find a relationship but it seems like she gets very jealous of me dating and trys to get me to go out with her all the time . I feel bad for her because she has the kids all the time and when she goes out im sure she wants to go out and have fun. But it is cutting into my dating life and being able to get to meet people. I almost feel like im in a relationship with my best friend she calls me 20 plus times a day and is one of those people you can hit the IGNORE button and they will keep on calling and when she does call its just to talk about nonsense . When i am with a guy she always want to show up or she just shows up randomly not even being invited!! i mean what is the deal and what should i do i feel like im on lock down please help me!

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alicia1989

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Being picked up at work Posted: 7/4/2009 2:23:16 PM
Ha...Ive been asked out and hit on at work one of my jobs i wear NO makeup and there is no AC and your very nasty sweaty and i still have men asking me out !! and that kinda makes me feel better about myself :)

alicia1989

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Subjective description Posted: 7/4/2009 2:08:09 PM
I am 5'9 and with heels i am close to 6 ft tall...tall to me is atleast 6ft bc i am so tall myself but i have dated guys my height but just never worn heels around them it all depends on the woman.

alicia1989

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Men Ejaculation Posted: 7/4/2009 2:02:38 PM
ive had guys go a LONG time... that doesnt really answer your question but it was a good many times i wasnt counting

alicia1989

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READ no reply? Posted: 7/4/2009 1:52:58 PM
Well sometimes i read it and ill get busy and come back even if it takes a day or 2 and reply back but thats just me.

alicia1989

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do women really know what they want? Posted: 7/4/2009 1:43:45 PM
Well for me if i email a guy im interested in and then he just sends an email back short winded like that. It tells me either he isn't that into me you have to act like your interested and want to know more. Because if its just a lame "hey whats up?" i kinda think hmmm not much of a personality...but thats just me :)

alicia1989

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I have a question about pictures Posted: 7/4/2009 1:33:45 PM
i have a pic like that but im kinda tall so it kinda looks dumb when i do it from a normal angle...but like i said i do have one of those on my profile lol

alicia1989

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Hanging around Posted: 7/3/2009 5:31:40 PM
i would get another apartment i had a guy that used to live beside me in one that would sit out by the stairs and try to talk to me and yea it got creepy also

alicia1989

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do you think Posted: 7/3/2009 12:53:31 PM
or everyone on this site is shallow one of the two

alicia1989

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Goofy Pictures in profile Posted: 7/3/2009 12:34:07 PM
some girls dont think anything is funny ..you know like the fake boobs fake blonde hair bimbos...but some girls actaully do have a since of humor when others think the guy is a creep

alicia1989

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do you think Posted: 7/3/2009 12:29:48 PM
I am a girl and sometimes ill send a guy a message and they dont send anything back to me ...i think we all get rejected

alicia1989

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what is the shortest height of man you would ever date Posted: 6/30/2009 1:09:18 PM
I am 5'9 and in heels i am very close to 6 feet tall ive dated guys a lil bit shorter than me but just never worn heels. But when i go out with my girls none of us are really "short" but i have dated a guy that was the same height as me that still wanted me to wear heels because he thought it was sexy...but really and truely i like it best when i can still wear heels and be the same height as him or him taller

alicia1989

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is meeting in a bar ok? Posted: 6/29/2009 10:46:59 AM
Everyone always says "never talk to anyone you meet in a bar" but if your in a bar and they are too why does that make them such a bad guy or girl? just wanted to see if anyone had had anything good come out of one?

alicia1989

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Women with Harleys Posted: 6/29/2009 10:37:32 AM
i ride harleys but....guys always seem to like it but i do live in the south so it might b different for somewhere else

alicia1989

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Piercing, when should I bring it up? Posted: 6/29/2009 10:28:44 AM
wow thats hot but im kinda into that sorta thing lol

alicia1989

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Sexting Posted: 6/29/2009 10:13:15 AM
im going to admit i have done this before

alicia1989

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Maybe love is not out there for me ? Posted: 6/22/2009 12:36:39 PM
thanks for the advice yall :)

alicia1989

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Cute Adam and Eve joke Posted: 6/22/2009 12:05:14 PM
so did adam and eve have belly buttons...they were never born? hmmm thinking too hard right now.....

alicia1989

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Why do we always make excuses for them? Posted: 6/22/2009 11:53:20 AM
The whole issue is we were out one day and his phone rang over and over and i told him "Good God who keeps calling your phone" and he said,"O its just John he has been texting me and calling all day" so i left it at that. 2 Days later same deal text after text after text and honestly i dont think a "guy" would b texting like that. So my phone died later that day and i asked him if i could use his to call someone and i know what yall are thinking you just wanted to b nosey and see who was texting his phone well the thought was there but i didnt even have to look to see that all the texts were from a girl named Liz. I have no idea who Liz is never heard of here are anything. Asked him about it and he got mad and said i just wasnt trusting him but how can i trust him if he said it was a guy named John and the one text i saw said "i would kiss you but my tounge is blue"!!! WTF? Then he tells me "Liz" is a friend of his sister and it was his sister and friend texting him bs'ing around.

alicia1989

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Why do we always make excuses for them? Posted: 6/22/2009 11:43:15 AM
Not with him ...havent been for 6 months he just keeps coming back into my life trying to make things work when i know it will never happen. Honestly i can say i don't love him anymore just trying to figure out if this was my fault or his? Which i dont want to put the blame on anyone but is it me that has the problem or him? I dont want to carry this to a new relationship .

alicia1989

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Why do we always make excuses for them? Posted: 6/22/2009 11:36:31 AM
He always seems to make an excuse for what he did wrong and turn it around on me like as if i were the bad person. Then says that i look way into things and i am accusing him of something he didnt do and then he turns it around saying i have a trust issue

alicia1989

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Why do we always make excuses for them? Posted: 6/22/2009 11:25:57 AM
When you are talking-dating someone and they do something wrong you always seem to make up reasons y they did the things they did. But when your on the outside of someones problems your seeing it all a different way there just making up excuses to make them seem like they did nothing wrong...why cant we seem to see the lies when we are attached to that person?

alicia1989

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HOW COME? Posted: 6/22/2009 11:09:51 AM
honestly i dont think married ppl should b on here period!!!! but thats just me

alicia1989

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do guys really like thick girls? Posted: 6/19/2009 12:27:00 PM
i am a thicker girl but not fat by any means i always tell the guys up front that i am a thick girl and they all say i like a girl with some meat on there bones but what exactly does that mean? do i need to say o by the way i have some meat on my bones or hey im thick????

alicia1989

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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral Posted: 6/19/2009 12:18:29 PM
well personally i dont like anything in my ass..but some girls do when a guy trys doing that i tell him to stop it doesnt feel good to me

alicia1989

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ok guys i need your help!! Posted: 6/19/2009 11:59:44 AM
Me and a friend of mine went into this very nice japanese resturant last sunday and everytime i go in there i notice this one cook that works there he is a Micronesian cook at that ive never dated anyone that wasnt white and my family is very southern so at first i noticed him staring at me from across the room and i was thinking god he is hot lol....well one of the guys that works there came up to me and told me he thought i was very attractive and that he had a thing for me...sooo i told the guy that i was interested in him also and gave him my number...so the same guy that is relaying me the messages told me that he didnt have a phone!!! who doesnt have a phone nowadays!!! anyways we left after eating and i get a text from the guy that i gave my number to..to give to the guy i thought was cute saying "danny which im guessing is the micronesian cook was sad when i left and wanted to talk to me " but if he gave my number to him then why was he texting me?....so today i find out the micronesian is married buy a friend that works there...so why did he even bother trying to talk to me???????

alicia1989

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Hey girls what are some signals?? Posted: 6/19/2009 11:51:54 AM
ok normally girls dont just walk up to guys and hit on them i mean i do everynow and then with a few drinks but why wait and pass up a great girl when she really might be into you go talk to them but please dont use cheesy pick up lines ughhh

alicia1989

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Maybe love is not out there for me ? Posted: 6/19/2009 11:45:32 AM
Ok so im 20 years old very outgoing love to have fun ..i would say im attractive work 3 jobs but has alot of free time ...and i have NO luck on this site at all whats the deal? and this has to be so long so ...............................................................................................................................

alicia1989

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Profile Turn off's Posted: 6/19/2009 11:39:56 AM
i agree with the spelling part if you cant spell when your trying to flirt with me you might as well just not talk to me lol makes me think im dating a big tard

alicia1989

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tired of being lonely Posted: 6/19/2009 11:30:51 AM
im lonley too :( i can deff understand your pain

alicia1989

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Married Men on POF Posted: 6/19/2009 11:27:28 AM
so i deff have had this happen to me TWICE i went out with a guy umm about a week ago off here ended up being married and looking for a 3rd person..deff not my thing

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