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 Author Thread: People, why against the rocking chair on the porch?
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 78 (view)
 
People, why against the rocking chair on the porch?
Posted: 11/20/2009 8:30:07 PM
"Sorry to hear that."

After our bonfires, we build huge bonfires, firewalk or dance.

Sure we go to a patio to eat, but when we are finished, we move on to the next activity. So what Different strokes.


Why do some people who enjoy their rocking chairs have problems when others don't enjoy the same thing! I would think that if you are doing what you enjoy, you won't care what others enjoy.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 72 (view)
 
People, why against the rocking chair on the porch?
Posted: 11/20/2009 2:18:12 PM
"People who enjoy stillness haven't necessarily lost their inner peace, Moraima."

Never said it did. People are missing my point. We are all different, and get different things from different things.

Nature gives me energy. Some people it gives stillness. Neither is right or wrong.

"I find a great stillness rests on me when I spend time at the ocean, watching the waves, watching the sky, looking for dolphins or seals. It calms my mind and it's wonderful. "

When I spend time at the ocean, I am busy and energized. Walking for miles, swimming in the waves, playing with the sea creatures. My mind is already calm, and the ocean invites me to play, as do my friends that I meet while jogging on the beach.

ps. It sure is a good workout for the calf muscles walking in wet sand. Then my muscles feel great, and I want to do more and more.

Then again, I don't have many voices in my head..............sorry, just joking.

My number one rule for myself is that when I have too much chatter in my head, it means I have work to do to fix something. Get the work done, and the chatter is gone.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 70 (view)
 
People, why against the rocking chair on the porch?
Posted: 11/20/2009 2:03:42 PM
"Ever rock a baby?"

Frankly, no. I have always refused to hold babies. I do know that many people enjoy it, and some people can't get enough of it. However, babies aren't something some people want to be part of and it is just fine to not enjoy it.

"No conventions, protocols or facades involved. "

My point is working towards and achieving no conventions, protocols or facades in our lives is something that is within our ability to do. People sign up for having conventions, protocols or facades in their lives, when it is unnecessary to do so.

Inner peace allows for having all the energy we need at our finger tips without having to look outside ourselves to find it.

If people have to create a place, and time to find relaxation and peace that is their choice. If your home, job, lifestyle doesn't give you peace, and you want more peace then make changes. If you enjoy things the way they are, then enjoy that.

In my work day today there were many possbile stressers. For me, it was just the way things were. I deal with each issue until it was no longer an issue. Didn't lose my inner peace while cleaning up the muck. Others around me lost their inner peace and will probably need to destress in their rocking chairs tonight.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 68 (view)
 
People, why against the rocking chair on the porch?
Posted: 11/20/2009 1:23:03 PM
"the motion of rocking has a calming influence and conjures a feeling of safety, peacefulness, if only for a moment in time."

Sorry but I don't get why people's lives are so hard for them to bear that they don't feel like the above 99% of the time, whether they are in a rocker on the porch, or at a business meeting. Life can only ruin our calm if we let it.

Certainly real, serious issues come into our lives once in a while, but not daily unless we choice to live a non calming, unsafe lifestyle.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 65 (view)
 
People, why against the rocking chair on the porch?
Posted: 11/20/2009 11:35:58 AM
"asking if taking time to appreciate the natural world around us, to pause and hear the birds, watch the sky change, feel the wind on our skin is less important than constantly rushing, never noticing what's in front of our faces."

I can appreciate the world of nature around me. However, instead of just watching, I get out there and feed the bird, take care/nurse the wildlife.

Enjoying wind on my skin is as natural a breathing. I am quite capable of using my energy and enjoy the eliments on my skin at the same time.

Deck sitting bores me. Walking out to greet nature is my nature. Gardening relaxes me. Sitting doesn't. My body enjoys keeping moving.

Different strokes for sure.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 61 (view)
 
People, why against the rocking chair on the porch?
Posted: 11/20/2009 9:41:20 AM
"Definitely a twitchy opinion, lol!"

Having high enery levels is considered by me as a blessing. Yes, my energy is a tiny bit less than it used to be. However, most of my friends are 20 to 30 years younger, and I enjoy their high enery levels, keep up with them, as do several others who are my age or older.

I no longer see friends who don't enjoy high energy activity. If people enjoy slowing down, go for it, but please don't slag off people who don't enjoy slowing down yet, and may never enjoy it.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 59 (view)
 
Nose & Ear Hair
Posted: 11/15/2009 6:46:30 PM
"Hair is hair. Hair is not dirt or bacteria. "

Seriously, nose hair is full of dirt and bacteria. Hair acts like a filter to the body. It sucks in all manner of dirt, mold, dust mites, and then grow bacteria. It you don't believe me, ask a doctor or a scientist.

ps Check out sebaceous cyst caused by clogged hair folicles. Fun wow to deal with on another person............ew.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Nose & Ear Hair
Posted: 11/15/2009 12:43:12 AM
Certainly is a nightmare. I am not a man's mother, anymore than he should need to act like a parent to me. If he can't keep himself properly groomed, I won't be looking at him not even as a friend. Doesn't he see it? Oh please, if he doesn't care, he doesn't care, so why should I.

Meet someone for coffee a couple of years ago. Photos looked fine. Of course they were a good 15 yrs old, and he had to be 15 yrs old than he said. The overgrown eyebrow (one side only) was distracting because he bobbed up and down as me talked. The eyebrow hair almost touched his cheek it was so long.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 59 (view)
 
So.... remind me... What's the downside of 50 and single...???
Posted: 11/8/2009 6:27:41 PM
I have no problem being 60, 70, 80 and 90 single. Just want to live as long as my single mother did....................
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 57 (view)
 
So.... remind me... What's the downside of 50 and single...???
Posted: 11/8/2009 5:23:17 PM
"many obsess over "making damned sure" the rest is the best and yet, they lose focus and end up wasting time,,,"

Praise be that I have had love in my life, and don't have to turn myself inside out trying to prove I am worthy to receive real love.

Nothing to prove so single is comfortable.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 149 (view)
 
What's the upside to being over 50 and single
Posted: 11/5/2009 8:04:17 PM
I just love the upside to being able to travel where I want, when I want. Was taught by most men that have tried to date me over the past few years that they either didn't want me to travel at all, or they wanted me to travel only when and where they wanted to travel to. Would be nice to find someone who felt comfortable enought to travel to where he want to go if he didn't want to go where I was going.

I didn't even know I love travelling so much until I became single.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 147 (view)
 
What's the upside to being over 50 and single
Posted: 11/5/2009 7:30:09 PM
People who looked at the upside of life didn't just dream. They go out and get out and make their dreams come true. We wouldn't have flight etc. if everyone had stayed home and wished for things to do different.

I am sure glad my day after becoming single again where I dreamed of what used to be became finding and creating actively what I need to do to fulfil my dreams. Staying home of dreaming about what I wished I had just isn't for me.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 145 (view)
 
What's the upside to being over 50 and single
Posted: 11/5/2009 6:28:43 PM
"Empty Bed Blues is the name of an old blues song, Bessie Smith. A song that is satirical and humorous. You didn't get the allusion."

So if the people who haven't heard the song read " has to do with the empty bed blues" what were they supposed to think except you posted in a thread about upside of being single, that if people were honest they would admit to having empty bed blues.

"You have made all kinds of assumptions and personal attacks based on your not seeing the light hearted humor in my comments. Talk about bitter, angry, and mean spirited. "

Try that I was posting about people who need someone in their bed. It was you who took it as a person attack and assumed it was all about you.

Amazing how people who don't agree with you or can't read your mind, you call bitter, angry and mean spirited. Why you are so upset right now is on you. Why you find my opinions all about you is also on you.

The topic tread is about the upside of being single. Too bad those who can't deal with those who see the upsides of being single gets them so upset.



"Don't you ever wish... just once, to have that skin contact. To feel his skin against yours.To breathe in the smell of him,...that's a natural human need whether you wish to acknowledge it or not. "

Who? some imaginary man? Honestly, I never think about being held by an imaginary man. Breathe the smell of him.................sounds too teenage crush for me. that is not human natural............more like romantic nature of dreamers.

I am glad I have found purpose in my life that leaves me free from having a need to dream of an imaginary lover.

The biggest upside to being single for me is to find purpose in life and engage in that purpose that improve my life and the lives of others.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 140 (view)
 
What's the upside to being over 50 and single
Posted: 11/5/2009 1:08:58 PM
"moraima..who made you the expert? who said my bed is empty? all i meant was this single life aint for me and would like to find a good one for keeps.

no one likes a preacher! "

???????????? Where did you get that my post had anything to do with you? Where did I address your post? It wasn't you name that I mentioned.

One of the upsides to being single is that you can see humour when accused of something that was nothing to do what the accuser is on about.

Self esteem works words for people with the downside problems of being single, but they will have to put the work in. If that annoys people, they should ask themselves why.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 137 (view)
 
What's the upside to being over 50 and single
Posted: 11/5/2009 12:15:51 PM
" has to do with the empty bed blues"

Ismene - There is a big difference between empty bed blues and a healthy sex life. If you had posted about wanting a healthy sex life, I won't have posted what I did.

Empty bed wows is totally different. We don't have to have a live in to have a relationship. Needing the protection of having someone around through the night is all in the mind. It takes time to no long be in the habit of sleeping with someone but after a few years many of us see it as an upside to being single.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 136 (view)
 
What's the upside to being over 50 and single
Posted: 11/5/2009 12:13:00 PM
" has to do with the empty bed blues"

Ismene - There is a big difference between empty bed blues and a healthy sex life. If you had posted about wanting a healthy sex life, I won't have posted what I did.

Empty bed, empty nights is totally different. We don't have to have a life in to have a relationship. Needing the protection of having someone around is all in the mind.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 133 (view)
 
What's the upside to being over 50 and single
Posted: 11/5/2009 11:50:45 AM
It has plenty to do with lifestyle. People need to be able to function happily whether or not they have someone to get through the night with. Please check with definition of co dependent.

Now I understand how it takes people time to learn to move from being married to being single. After a number of years though, keeping the "I need to have someone in my bed or I will be unhappy" attitude is all about attitude and the ability or lack there off to go with the flow.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 130 (view)
 
What's the upside to being over 50 and single
Posted: 11/5/2009 11:24:19 AM
"the days are ok but the nights suck.
Finally, honesty."

My nights don't suck. I have done work to heal after being widowed yrs ago, then I went on to create a single lifestyle I enjoy. Those complaining about their lifestyle need to stop the poor mes, and work on their lives. Unhappy people are unhappy whether single or married if they just sit around and wait for the world to change.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 107 (view)
 
What's the upside to being over 50 and single
Posted: 11/3/2009 8:28:43 AM
Different strokes for sure.

Never again will I miss the comfort of being alone in my feather bed, being tossed around every time the other person tosses and turns. Never again will I have snoring keeping me awake most of if not all the night.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 104 (view)
 
What's the upside to being over 50 and single
Posted: 11/3/2009 7:49:02 AM
"you can sit around and make up excuses of why its so great to be alone....then, when you go to bed at night, wake up in the morning, have nobody to share that great news you got today, do things alone, be alone, you remember why it sucks to be alone. "

Some of us want/need someone living with them. Some of us don't want/need someone living with us. Both lifestyles are right for those who choose to live that way.

Living alone for me is just plain peaceful. If I want company I can go out and have company, or have people come back to my home. However, I get to say goodbye at the end of the night, which is the way I like it.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 84 (view)
 
What's the upside to being over 50 and single
Posted: 11/2/2009 5:04:35 PM
"I suspect most people who are so happy with their freedom would give it up pretty quickly if the 'right' person came along."

Provided he lives at his place, and doesn't want to live at mine, and doesn't give me a hard time when I leave for 6 months a year in Cuba. Otherwise, see you.

Better be prepared to not sleep in the same room when we have sleep overs etc. etc.

 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 77 (view)
 
What's the upside to being over 50 and single
Posted: 11/2/2009 10:02:13 AM
"they wouldn't be here seeking someone to share life with.'

Many of us, me included aren't here seeking to share our lives.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 117 (view)
 
Promiscuity ~~ Pros and Cons
Posted: 11/1/2009 5:39:07 PM
Easy to tell it has puddled their brains NTM...........and they want us to join them.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 38 (view)
 
who gets your stuff?
Posted: 11/1/2009 3:01:21 PM
I don't have kids, so I intend to spend every dime of my hard earned cash before I go.
Except the money set aside for my friends to pay for my pets care if need be.
With good planing this isn't so hard to do.
BB, since we know each other well, we know your kid won't have it any other way. My guess is that she will make exactly the same decision for her kid(s) that might or might not be.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 107 (view)
 
Promiscuity ~~ Pros and Cons
Posted: 11/1/2009 2:12:37 PM
I hear you FarmExe....................they don't even clue in to how jaded they become................but we see it.

I sure don't want other people's leftovers. That statement has got me in flamed in the past, but the flaming is worth it. Won't catch me with people who think promiscuity is cool................ Grow some self esteem, and get a real life.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 34 (view)
 
who gets your stuff?
Posted: 11/1/2009 2:09:16 PM
My parents left me many things that were valuable. Valuable to them, not me. The first on of their friends who said they liked valuable items got to take them home. Any of my friends, their friends who want a piece of furniture took it. I don't need anymore furniture (especially someone else's taste in furniture). I took box after box to ValueVillage. Others boxes went to the dump. There fav. things are boxed and taking up closet space as I can't bear to garbage them, but no one else wants the stuff (no family left but me).

Lesson learned. People don't want other people's stuff at our age. We already have everything we need at our age. Lesson learned. I have started donating my valuable items to charity auctions, and giving things away that are just taking up space. If a friends appliance died, if I have an extra, I give it to them now. A lot more stuff will be given away when I downsize so that I can leave the country 6 months a year, so by the time I am no longer here there should only be a few things to go to the dump.

"Now on a sadder note...the thing that amazed me whenever my Husband died...people came up and asked me for stuff...not sentimental...but the expensive tools."

It shocked me too when it happened to me. Now I am not at all surprised what low lifes do.
Typical behaviour for many people.....................best to stay very far away from low lifes like that.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
So.... remind me... What's the downside of 50 and single...???
Posted: 11/1/2009 9:30:47 AM
I had a good marriage till I was widowed.

Now I have a good single life. I am not needy, love my own company, love the company of friends I love.

I admit I had to learn with experience that I would enjoy being single. To begin with I figured being older and single was going to suck. I would have been shocked back then if I thought that 16 years later, I would be loving my single lifestyle. Give it time folks. Get to know the real you. Spoil yourself by doing all the things you have always wanted to do................life is only a problem if you make it a problem.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 42 (view)
 
What's the upside to being over 50 and single
Posted: 11/1/2009 8:52:03 AM
"when you go to bed at night, wake up in the morning, have nobody to share that great news you got today, do things alone, be alone, you remember why it sucks to be alone. Give me a good women anyday....I'll put up with the other stuff."

"Putting up with the other stuff" is a hint that the real issue in that statement is
co dependency.

"Most of you sound like you got out of a bad relationship but there are some of us that had good/great relationships with people that encouraged us, loved us, treated us with care and respect, enjoyed doing things together and having seperate interests. "

Because we have had that we realize that what we had was one in a million or two. After we spend a few years in datingland, we realize the true value of what we had, and realize too that we won't accept anything less and end up in a bad relationship.

I don't get what the issue is with being single and having to try to be happy. Some of us are very happy, and won't/couldn't wake up in the morning with any one less than what we deserve to share our lives with. Having had real love, we learned the true value of love, and won't be accepting/pretending that we have found "the One" again.

Someone said to me years ago, "at least you had real love even if you had to go through being widowed. Most people never get a death do you part real love that stood the test of time". That person was right.

It has nothing to do with being willing to risk. Nothing to do with having to be with someone because we can't stand being single because we have to be part of a couple or we figure we don't measure up. It has to do with true happiness that comes from inside, and the recognition that if love isn't real, it isn't worth our time.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Sitting solo on a scary Saturday (Halloween)
Posted: 10/31/2009 1:30:29 PM
"not sure how N1H1 is going to affect things "

Not a nice thought that we can come in contact with the virus just by welcoming children to our door for candy. (Maybe I will mask tonight for the shell out.)

Sure wish everyone gets to the point where holidays are just about fun, instead of the "poor me" is am alone for the holidays. Been there, done that. Life has been so much better for years now since I got over it.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 45 (view)
 
what is with the phone number
Posted: 10/25/2009 8:57:46 PM
"women who said that giving out or getting a phone number is absolutely terrifying."

I am terrified of one thing only, and that is of being bored senseless by multiple calls from someone I no longer want to talk to.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Heart Strings
Posted: 10/25/2009 8:51:24 PM
"As soon as they get to the Kitty with the caption that says "Will I die today " I nearly go to tears ."

I don't cry. I stopped crying years ago when I first started working rescue. I take the pain out of my emotions by fostering, nursing, teaching and bring the animal back from the place where they don't care if they live or die. Most of my close friend work rescue of domestic animals or wildlife.

There is a reason why fate has decided I should never seen someone abuse an animal. Going to Jail would be a problem for my on going rescue work.

The above could be a big part of why I don't suffer fools.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 13 (view)
 
what is with the phone number
Posted: 10/25/2009 10:38:24 AM
"Glad I'm not on your "care about" list, seeing you in here reading and posting and not tending to my feelings,,,"

For a cutie like you, I would find a few mins.

I don't get why people are ok with their phone ringing dozens of times a day. It would drive me to boredom. I spent a week with a friend in Ottawa. All day long her cell phone rang, or she was calling someone.............."what are you doing now" was always the question..............I guess some people shouldn't live alone, and need a lot of company via the phone to get them through the day.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 6 (view)
 
what is with the phone number
Posted: 10/25/2009 9:56:35 AM
Why would I want cold calls from people I am probably not interested in anyway?

If a person can't spend a little time figuring out whether they are the other person have things in common via email, they are in too much of a hurry for me. Hurrying into the next bad relationship never worked for me.

I am far too busy, and don't have enough extra time for people I do care about. Why would I want to waste time taking phone calls from all and sundry.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 71 (view)
 
Shelf Life on profiles
Posted: 10/22/2009 4:16:36 PM
"Let's face it, it should not take more than a month or so to find a new partner, "

If you are willing to boink anything that comes along, then sure

"I met some girls who are great looking"

It is a good job this women isn't looking for a boy here

Too funny that so many don't want to realize that at our age, chance are about 7 to 1 that we are going to meet anyone who interests us enough to be in a relationship with them.

I will continue to work on my enjoyment of life without a partner to spoil things
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 100 (view)
 
Lack of Kids
Posted: 10/18/2009 1:42:20 PM
There are probably some others around who were taugh by dating several people who had children, that dating people with children is a bad idea. After the Ex dramas, kid dramas, and the Daddy dramas with multiple people I walked away from that scene and never looked back.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 52 (view)
 
The World Revolves Around Me and Don't You Ever Think It Doesn't Peopler
Posted: 10/17/2009 5:21:19 PM
Taken from my fav. coffee cup,

" DIVA Pron: dee-vuh............

Noun

* One who believes it's all about them........always has been..........always will be.

* One whose favourite rality show is their own.

* One who would rather be right than happy............"

Hell, I didn't buy it. It was a gift.

 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 44 (view)
 
End of pof \ dating experiences
Posted: 10/15/2009 5:59:26 PM
"the ultimate goal I gather is to end up writing a submission to pof success stories? "

For us, then those who are here for forums have different things in mind.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 154 (view)
 
Silver haired dancing machines your thoughts.
Posted: 10/15/2009 5:56:23 PM
Anyone here know what shag means in the UK?
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 152 (view)
 
Silver haired dancing machines your thoughts.
Posted: 10/15/2009 4:28:44 PM
I will pass on Youtube...................bad enough on the dance floor, don't need instant replay.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 228 (view)
 
Liberal vs conserative
Posted: 10/15/2009 4:27:41 PM
Amazing how Liberal bs Conserative can mean totally different things in the USA and Canada...................I can only imagine what the rest of the world thinks. Sad indeed.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 147 (view)
 
Silver haired dancing machines your thoughts.
Posted: 10/15/2009 3:24:50 PM
"santa cruz is a dancing county"

Love you my friend, but...................Santa Cruz Del Norte, Cuba is a whole different planet as far as dance style goes.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 145 (view)
 
Silver haired dancing machines your thoughts.
Posted: 10/15/2009 3:21:59 PM
Dancing for me is for my fun...................that doesn't include being sweated on by some out of shape aged dance geek.

Oh that I could find a man my age to go to Hip Hop class with me.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Death and the age of 50....
Posted: 10/15/2009 3:07:23 PM
"many people seem to be dying right around the age of 50"

Get your point OP, but..................my late husband died at 38, my father at 80 after living with cancer for 21 years, and my mother at 90 after refusing surgery.

"With Michael Jackson's recent passing"...................then I will live forever with the comparision in lifestyle.

"family history, drug/alcohol history " Never happened in my world.


"We don't do nearly the amount of physical labor that our ancestors did. "

Speak for yourself.

"We have access to immunizations"
Quick way to die young.

" and some form of healthcare "

Don't get me started on Drs. errors in surgery.

"so, why do people seem to be leaving here in unprecedented numbers at this milestone birthday? "

I intend to get to atleast 90 like my Mother TKU!

If I live past my 90 yrs. , I may end up past my expiry date and have to oft myself due to lack of funds.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 114 (view)
 
Show some intelligence when writing someone.
Posted: 10/13/2009 8:45:52 PM
"There is a distinct possibility that all such visual offerings could have been blocked by the proper settings in your profile.
For instance, similar to the age restriction, you can set the minimum and maximum length of displayed objects. "

You may think it is funny. Wonder how funny you would find it when these guys are contacting your female relative. Fortunately, pof put an end to this type of nonsense.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 107 (view)
 
Show some intelligence when writing someone.
Posted: 10/13/2009 8:17:38 PM
"sounds like some kind of surrealistic nightmare brought on by angst ..... "

Unfortunately not. It was all too real and too often, and happened to many here.

Show some intelligence when writing someone here.........................?



Many know that they have constantly been rejected because of their lack of intelligence, so they figure they have nothing to lose. Insulting those they think are responsible (ie. most women) is the best they can do. It is plain and simply sick minds at work.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 3 (view)
 
Resources men and women bring to relationships
Posted: 10/12/2009 1:06:07 PM
It would have to depend on what the individual (female or male) is looking for.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 12 (view)
 
perplexed
Posted: 10/11/2009 2:01:22 PM
"So you don't want the person that you are involved with to know things about you. "

I couldn't careless what they know about me, but I won't be questioned, or would I have someone demand information. They would be gone from my life.

I don't want to know about anyone until they are ready to let me know things. I don't want to hear chapter and verse. I would be bored senseless having to listen to the drama of what they have dealt with. I don't care about what used to be. I care only about what is, and accept that people are smart enough to deal with things their own way. If someone wants to change me and me life, they won't be part of my life for long.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 25 (view)
 
Liberal vs conserative
Posted: 10/10/2009 8:22:22 PM
Get back to me when people understand international politicals.
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 17 (view)
 
television-- pros and cons
Posted: 10/10/2009 8:16:47 PM
I have a tv in my livingroom and bedroom. I chill out after I hit my bed (alone or with same sex friend) from 20 mins + to veg before sleeping. Anyone who doesn't like it..............................
 moraima
Joined: 6/26/2005
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Bed Time
Posted: 10/2/2009 11:38:51 AM
I will be away for the weekend, so who knows what time bedtime will be.
 
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