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Joined: 6/27/2005

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does anyone believe in honesty? Posted: 2/8/2007 9:33:53 AM
Excellent point stated, Gallivanting.. it's better to find out when you do, than to waste your time on meeting the losers. I believe in honesty 100%. I am bad at lying. "the more you lie, the more you have to remember" I say. I give anyone the chance to get to know them. Though sometimes (thru phone conversations) I know within a little time that they aren't worth meeting in the first place. But you know.. their pic may not be worth looking at twice, but I still find out about them. A nice, caring, fun personality with a great heart makes that person attractive. I will never be rude to anyone. I don't even think I know how to! Anyways... just hang in there, there are good honest people out there somewhere. Unfortunately we (all) just have to go thru the bumps of the game players to find them.

Joined: 6/27/2005

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When you don't love them back Posted: 1/4/2007 6:43:36 AM
Similar situation that I have. Marriage hasn't been brought up though, even after 3 yrs. But 'foreverness' has, on his part.I've been totally honest with him about me not having the same feelings back. Told him to date others, but it seems he's hoping that I change my mind. He's the most caring, swweetest, man I know. Helped my out in rough situations a few times. But he's just not my "forever in life" type. He's TOO nice, if you know what I mean. I hope all advise given on here works for you "hi there". Bottom line...be honest with the guy. Let him know where you stand. If he chooses to stick around, that's his faut if he gets hurt. It is possible to remain just good friends. Well, maybe..... (you have benefits). Sex definetly changes things.

Joined: 6/27/2005

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What's the deal with women... Posted: 11/1/2005 8:39:18 PM
I hear from others, that it must be true. Women fall for money and success. But watch it ~~~ not ALL women do. I never fell for a man's bank account or education. (although flat broke, working as a baby sitter and living in the park is out of the question). I figure if a man needs to show off his money and all, then his personality must suck! And the women who fall for money will never truely love the man for who he really is. Now, back to the main subject --- DO NOT rush into asking a lady out on a date. Makes you sound desparate, and can scare a woman away. Talk and email for awhile to get to know each other a bit. Mention getting together to meet for coffee or a drink. Not date...MEET. Something small and simple at first. If you get an "I'll let you know" to the non-pushy/rushy approach, then it'll usually mean a "no, I really don't want to, but I'm being nice". Good things come to those who wait~~

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 10/12/2005 7:20:29 PM
Yes I have met a few without seeing a pic. What's the difference really? I mean a person can lie about themselves wheather they have a pic or not. Some don't even look like their pic. Can be a pic that was taken many years ago, or even of someone else. And with the ones who don't have a pic, they can be lying about their looks too. Both incidents have happened to me.But then again, I have had some turn out GOOD! I've been on sites where I never posted a pic of myself. I described myself totally honesly.(still do, actually). I figure that if you don't like what I look like, then so be it. Move on. I am who I am. I take care of myself in all ways. And besides, my motto is: the more you lie, the more you have to remember. Hell...I already have enough things to remember in my life! So yes....go ahead and meet someone without a pic. With or without a pic...it can go either way!

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