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psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

Msg: 24 (view)

Promise Rings Posted: 2/24/2007 7:38:19 PM
For my bf and myself, a "promise" ring is a way of buying an engagement ring that one can wear for more than the few months leading up to the wedding. Why buy something so incredibly expensive that will be replaced by a wedding ring in a short time? I sort of prefer this option, as it saves me from having to wear a ring set in the future and it is economical. Also, both of us have parents who would being to wonder if we were engaged for more than 6 months.

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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What's up with Canadian women and groping??? Posted: 6/14/2006 11:33:34 PM
well, i dont think its fair to say the groping is a canadian girl thing. i'm certainly not THAT into groping, and most people around here from what i can tell arent either. i guess us prairie girls have a lil more class then some? LOL

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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how often do you masturbate? Posted: 4/24/2006 10:55:00 PM
7 times/week generally. once a day

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

Msg: 143 (view)

why is the young girl image so apealing Posted: 4/24/2006 10:49:52 PM
sick, sick, sick, sick topic in general. thats my 2 cents. theres a lot of things wrong with the pornography industry, and sadly, they make their money by becoming more wrong, sick, and "taboo"

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

Msg: 55 (view)

Naughty photos of your ex - at what stage of your new relationship do you get rid of them? Posted: 4/2/2006 11:48:51 PM
i'd throw them out or give them back once i was over the break up and ready to start looking again. until then, they can remain with me and be part of my healing process. i would expect the same courtesy in return, but wont be suprised if i find my naked self on the internet someday.

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

Msg: 26 (view)

How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off! Posted: 3/7/2006 5:15:49 PM
Well, I ask how many partners someone has had....not because it matters so much but because i want to know how same i am. condoms dont protect against ALL STD's, and very few men will get a test these days (at least around here).

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

Msg: 34 (view)

Question about size.. Posted: 3/7/2006 10:22:52 AM
being overweight IS average these days.....its all a matter of terminology....do we go by the REAL average or by the PERCIEVED average?

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Question about size.. Posted: 3/6/2006 10:39:30 PM
so, am i average or a few extra pounds? or too ugly for it to matter?

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

Msg: 41 (view)

Physical or Habits that are Turnoffs of the opposite sex Posted: 3/4/2006 4:25:11 PM
guys who drink too much ( 2 of my guy friends regularily spend over $200 a night on drinking about 4 times/month) guys who like to point out a womans flaws guys who try to involve a woman in EVERYTHING guys who like really skinny women or lots of make-up guys who fear lingerie shops or open (private) discussions about sex

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Turn off when guys dont drive?? Posted: 3/4/2006 4:10:09 PM
i wont lie, its a turn off if a guy doesnt have a licence. makes me wonder why, and makes access to him far more difficult. also, it reminds me of being in high school, which isnt a pleasant thought (even though i actually loved high school, i have no desire to go back)

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Saskatoon this summer? Posted: 3/3/2006 6:49:41 PM
hey sure, y not? i could get to saskatoon this summer. summer though, not april

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

Msg: 34 (view)

WTF! Why not tell someone you have an STD before you sleep with them? Protection Thankfully!!! Posted: 3/3/2006 6:16:44 PM
I think you should also be willing to tell someone if you have ever had an STI/STD, how often u get tested, and what risky behaviors u have done. i guess i just think people should know the real risks before jumping in

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Have any of you women been in or wanted to be in porn? Posted: 3/3/2006 6:08:54 PM
i'd like to be in porn.....provided theres no director yelling "CUT" just as i am about to get off. no seriously, i would. but i dont think i would want to see myself on the tape later. i'm not in love with what my body looks like on camera

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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how do u handle being a virgin past 25 Posted: 3/2/2006 10:21:24 PM
yeesh, why is sex so important to some of you? being a 25 year old virgin is natural. its not commonplace these days, but there is certainly nothing sad, wrong, gross, etc about it. sexual experience does NOT define a person. as for dealing with it past 25.....theres nothing to deal with if u ask me.

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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A sad inescapable truth. psycho mom = psycho daughter. Posted: 3/1/2006 12:09:14 AM
me and my mom are a lot a like. lol

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage? Posted: 3/1/2006 12:06:08 AM
i am a hormone infested person, so i dont think i could wait, but for all these people saying "he/she isnt the right person" just because they dont want sex right away, i think you should all re-evaluate what is really important to you. i can tell ya i'd try my damnedest to wait if its what he wanted. i dont think i would succeed, but i wouldnt rule them out immediately

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Weddings Posted: 2/28/2006 11:59:28 PM
if i had money to throw away, i might spend a truckload on a wedding really though, these days, the best weddings are the ones that are just giant parties with a legal document being signed. no real expenses at all. not like a wedding is a life changing thing for most couples now that many of them live together first.

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

Msg: 39 (view)

Could this be real ..........or am I being taken on a sick ride? Posted: 2/28/2006 11:44:09 PM
i wouldnt be pursuing anything with these men if they gave me this story. why would ANYONE want to pursue a relationship when suddenly faced with bigger problems, especially someone they met less then a day ago? real or not, i wouldnt go in there. i'd be backing off IMMEDIATLY

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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afterwards Posted: 2/28/2006 11:37:23 PM
i used to cry after sex. it was usually after a one night stand, or if my bf had to run right afterward. i found the more i get held afterward the less likely i am to cry.

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 2/20/2006 4:35:11 PM
excellent article. i'll have to comment later, but i think its good.

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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How to prevent STD from NSA Posted: 2/10/2006 5:51:37 PM
umm....try a condom? and an std test??? yeesh!!!! some people! if thats not good enough, get him tested first. it works for me

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Engagement Ring Posted: 2/7/2006 4:53:43 PM
thousands of dollars on an engagement ring? NO! Do i want an engagement ring? YES i dont care if it comes from the pawn shop, or Walmart, or some jewlery store granted, when it comes down to it, i may not care if i get a ring or not. we shall see. i'm young yet.

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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engagement ring Posted: 2/7/2006 4:47:21 PM
i wouldnt want an engagement ring meant for someone else. i agree with the ring exchange idea though. LOL! theres so many people in your situation, u'd probably make millions

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Approaching a woman Part 1,000 Posted: 2/5/2006 7:06:58 PM
granted, it was creative, but i think as soon as he would have asked me to lunch to "discuss the job" i would have been creeped out. i would prefer if he would have been open with why he wanted my number in the first place. lying is never a good start to anything

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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rating pics? Posted: 2/4/2006 11:26:34 PM
peoples opinions vary. i usually go to the top 100 people and give them all 1's just to even out the score. LOL. i can be such a bag at times

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Plain Jane vs Souped Up Sally Posted: 2/4/2006 11:24:18 PM
i get ready in 15 min. routine is perfect. nothing missed. i would hate putting in more effort then that

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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What have you learned about yourself due to the forums? Posted: 2/4/2006 11:22:51 PM
i have learned older men can stand me. LOL

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Kanye is Jesus Posted: 2/3/2006 8:06:48 PM
i think people should try to avoid offending the spiritual lives of people who keep their career floating. just my opinion though. lol

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Bowling is a great first date Posted: 2/3/2006 8:01:40 PM
bowling is a great first date provided NEITHER of u are league bowlers!

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

Msg: 8 (view)

What is the worst/ dumbest thing you have said to an inanimate object to make it work? Posted: 2/3/2006 7:51:48 PM
i usually say "well **** you too". lol

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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SHORT GUYS Posted: 2/3/2006 7:50:06 PM
i have dated men of almost all heights. i really couldnt care less how tall someone is

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Does living on your own matter when dating? Posted: 2/3/2006 7:47:15 PM
i prefer men who live on their own. thats probably because i'm a sex feind and at the moment i dont. lol also, i prefer men in their 30's, so if they havent moved out by then......ugh

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Don't you think I should have been told sooner? Posted: 2/3/2006 7:43:27 PM
i dunno if it would bother me or not. if his deep dark secret is his prosthetic leg, then whoopie. but if there was something else that had me worried, then yeah, he'd be gone. if i were in his shoes, i probably would have been dumped by several women before because of my leg, and might be a lil insecure about it. i dunno, i would need more info i guess

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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my bf went to the strip bar Posted: 2/3/2006 7:30:58 PM
to answer the original question, you are NOT the only one who thinks men shouldnt go to strip bars. in fact, YES I WOULD dump my bf for going.

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

Msg: 39 (view)

Why do men go so hostile when you tell them you don't want their MSN or Yahoo! Posted: 1/6/2006 11:57:27 AM
LOL! well, i get enough e-mails....maybe every woman here needs a crazy sounding sn. There. problem solved

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Does your job get in the way of dating? Posted: 1/5/2006 10:28:28 PM
Yes, but shift work always gets in the way. Its tough to find men who understand that I DONT get weekends off.....if you wanna be with me, we are both gonna have to MAKE TIME or deal with the few times we get that neither of us is working. But i can almost guaruntee i will NOT have a weekend off

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

Msg: 37 (view)

Why do men go so hostile when you tell them you don't want their MSN or Yahoo! Posted: 1/5/2006 10:25:46 PM
all i have to say is this..... how come no one wants MY msn/yahoo???? lol

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Love is a many splintered thing. Posted: 1/5/2006 10:24:20 PM
Love, much like an unvarnished wooden toilet seat, is a many splintered thing. Sometimes those splinters get under your skin. Then, you have to dig them out. But, youcan't always get them out. man....i dont know about your situation, but i LOVE that line

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Would a woman date a guy that still haven't lost his virginity, even in his thirties? And why? Posted: 1/5/2006 10:15:23 PM
Sexual experience has no place in my decision to date someone or not. As long as all risk factors are discussed beforehand, i really dont care. And even if someone told me they were a virgin, i'd still request an STD test....one can NEVER be too sure.

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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having feelings Posted: 1/5/2006 10:08:27 PM
I think everyone has feelings and reasons. Some people just believe the world owes them a few favors, or that if they dont use someone first, they will be used. The people who worry me most are the ones with TOO MANY emotions bubbling out of them.

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Ladies- which do you prefer, Clean Cut or Tatoo-Pierced Bad boy? Posted: 1/5/2006 11:19:51 AM
Clean cut. The tattoo/peirced thing suites very few people

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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What is going slow in regards to a relationship? Posted: 12/19/2005 8:27:46 PM
i disagree mako28. people move at their own pace. going slow is a broad term. i think anyone who uses it needs to clarify what slow is to them.

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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What's the difference between divorced and single? Posted: 12/17/2005 12:02:57 AM
ok, to me divorced says: there was someone VERY important in my life previously. we may have children, and we may have other matters we still need to communicate over (especially legal ones). i dont fear committment, but i am lookin to do things right the second time around. single: never had a super serious relationship. unless mentioned otherwise, no women that i need to keep in contact with over children or legal issues. if u see me with my exes, we are friends, not fulfilling a legal or implied obligation to be civil to eachother. i know its not all that accurate. just what i see.

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Census: Who likes their job? What do you do? Posted: 12/16/2005 11:54:56 PM
i work in a group home with intellectually disabled adults. its not my dream job, but i do love it. the company i work for is very grassroots, so there is a lot of flexibility and change still going on. lots of opportunity too, and its one of the few group homes that takes care of their staff without ignoring their clients.

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

Msg: 38 (view)

2 & 3 hrs phone calls Posted: 12/16/2005 11:14:44 PM
talkin on the phone for long periods of time is an awesome feeling. i have had the experience of talkin to people, meeting them, and having no attraction whatsoever. usually its a physical attraction issue. Sometimes its a personality thing. either way, discovering common ground with someone that you wouldnt normally discover is wonderful.

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

Msg: 32 (view)

Falling in love is not a basis for marriage....... Posted: 8/12/2005 7:52:40 AM
i think people have lost sight of the difference between love and lust/infatuation. love involves caring for the WHOLE being, which it seems no one takes the time to do anymore.

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

Msg: 41 (view)

Awkward sex moments... Posted: 7/13/2005 6:07:30 PM
My most awkward moment....."Whats your last name? OMG....I dated your father!"

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

Msg: 42 (view)

How important is it to be vocal during sex? Posted: 7/13/2005 6:06:08 PM
doesnt anyone else think it depends on the mood? my most intimate have been calm, quiet love making.....but the loud sex can be appealing at times. There are a few things I find to be far more important in bed. 1) Do not ask me if i have cum yet....because i hate that. It immediatly turns me off and i wil not cum. 2) Do not discuss other women....other partners....other experiences.....keep your focus on me. how hard is that? i'm the one with your c*ck stuck in me. 3) Be less predictable. I dont like men kissing my whole body up and down. To easy to know where the mouth will be next. 4) dirty talk is great.....in public too....as long as its descreet. great relaxer before anything nervewracking

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

Msg: 33 (view)

Single moms. Can they have any fun? Posted: 6/27/2005 9:59:49 PM
Sounds like SOMEONE is looking for a sex buddy and not a relationship. Plenty of women do not put their bf as number one.....they have family, friends, hobbies......and any/all of that may come first. I may not be a single mom, but i need a man willing to be responsible and not incredibly self centered and horny 24/7

psycho_chica

Joined: 6/27/2005

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Was I wrong? Posted: 6/27/2005 9:55:34 PM
Were you wrong.....depends how you presented your case. If it was a demand with a threat, you were wrong "if you......we will break up" If it was your heartfelt feelings "i cant be with someone knowing this happened", i guess thats different Either way, why not look at adoption as an option? kind of a happy medium for you both

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